AEE 2623：无论发生什么，你都应该使用这套词汇！

这是《All Ears English》播客第2623期。

This is an All Ears English podcast episode twenty six twenty three.

不管发生什么，你都应该掌握这些词汇。

Whatever happens, you should be using this vocabulary.

欢迎收听《All Ears English》播客，全球下载量已超过两亿次。

Welcome to the All Ears English podcast downloaded more than 200,000,000 times.

你是不是觉得自己的英语进步停滞了？

Are you feeling stuck with your English?

我们会教你如何摆脱恐惧、流利表达，由美国主持人奥布里·卡特、雅思达人林赛·麦马洪带你从亚利桑那和科罗拉多出发，探索地道英语。

We'll show you how to become fearless and fluent by focusing perfection with your American host, Aubrey Carter, the IELTS whiz, and Lindsey McMahon, the English adventurer, coming to you from Arizona and Colorado, USA.

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生活中，我们有时会对即将迈出的一大步感到犹豫不决。

Sometimes in life, we feel uncertain about a big step we're about to take.

在这些关键的时刻，你该怎么安慰朋友或家人呢？

What can you say to support a friend or family member in these key pivotal moments?

今天就来了解一下吧。

Find out today.

嗨，Aubrey。

Hey there, Aubrey.

这个周末你有什么安排？

What are you doing this weekend?

我都好久没去电影院了。

Well, I haven't been to the movies in ages.

不管怎样，我都想去看场电影。

So whatever happens, I wanna see a movie.

我周五刚去过电影院。

Oh, I just went to the movies on Friday.

哦，你看了什么电影？

Oh, what'd you see?

我看了那部《Send Help》，挺特别的。

I saw that movie send help.

哦，我压根没听说过这部。

Oh, I haven't even heard of it.

挺有意思的。

It was it was interesting.

有点疯癫。

It was a little crazy.

完全不推荐，零分。

Would not recommend zero stars.

没错。

No.

现在真没什么好电影可看。

I like there are not a ton of great movies out right now.

我是说，你懂的。

I I you know?

有一部新片，但你知道的，等它上映的时候，都过时了。

There's a new one, but, you know, by the time this comes out, it'll be old anyway.

不过也是。

But Yeah.

确实如此。

Yeah.

没错。

It's true.

现在真正值得去电影院看的好电影太少了。

We're having a bit of a drought on, like, amazing movies that are worth going to the theater for.

我也觉得没错。

I'm like It's true.

但我

But I

就是更喜欢流媒体。

just love for streaming.

但我就是喜欢去电影院，所以哪怕电影一般，我也愿意去影院看。

But I love going to the theater, so I'll go to an average movie just to go to the theater.

你懂的吧？

Know?

我同意。

Agree.

这期节目里，你们会注意到我说了，不管怎样，我都想去看场电影。

Well, this episode today, you'll notice I said, whatever happens, I wanna see a movie.

我们今天就聊聊这句话，还有其他几种表达方式。

We're talking about that phrase and some other ways to say that.

这个想法其实来自我们一位学员珍妮弗在Allers English社群里的帖子。

And this was inspired by something one of our students, Jennifer, posted in the Allers English community.

她说：你很安全。

She said, you are safe.

碰巧发生了。

Happen to happen.

然后她说，用西班牙语怎么说这句话？

And then she said, in Spanish, it's She said, how do you say this in English?

我当时就想，这期节目肯定特别棒。

I'm like, that's gonna be a great episode.

没错。

Yep.

没错。

Yep.

我特别期待深入聊聊这个说法，以及它对人与人之间联结的意义。

I'm so excited to get into this and kind of what it means, what it means for connection.

不过在那之前，我们得花点时间感谢那些给我们留下评价和评分的人。

But first, we have to take a minute to recognize and call out those that went and left us a review or a rating.

不管你现在在哪儿听，我们都在关注Spotify上的听众。

Wherever you listen today, we're looking at our Spotify listeners.

对吧？

Right?

首先，托尼·苏萨说，嗨，林赛·米歇尔。

So first of all, Tony Sousa said, hi, Lindsay Michelle.

我叫托尼·苏萨。

My name is Tony Sousa.

我来自安哥拉。

I'm from Angola.

毫无疑问，发现你们的播客是我人生中最棒的经历之一。

Without a doubt, discovering your podcast has been one of the best things that's ever happened to me.

我从你们俩身上学到了很多。

I've learned so much from you both.

这太棒了。

That is amazing.

天哪。

Oh my gosh.

太棒了。

Amazing.

谢谢你，Tony。

Thank you, Tony.

也感谢所有在Spotify上留下这些精彩评论的朋友们。

And everyone else who has left these amazing comments in Spotify.

我们都有认真阅读。

We read them.

你们的留言让我们一整天都特别开心。

They make our day.

真的非常感激。

We really appreciate it.

是的。

Yeah.

最近刚在Spotify上留下评论和评分的有Saddam Mode、Satomi Pari Parisan、Vlad Armstrong和Orens Roe，非常感谢你们。

Huge thank you to Saddam Mode, Satomi Pari Parisan, Vlad Armstrong, and Orens Roe were some of the reviewers and commenters just recently in Spotify.

谢谢大家。

So thanks, guys.

如果你想在节目中被点名表扬，就去你听节目的平台给我们打个分、写个评论吧。

You wanna have your name announced out loud on the show, leave us a rating and a review wherever you listen.

明白吗？

Okay?

好的。

Yes.

太棒了。

Awesome.

接下来我们来聊聊这些表达方式。

So we are going to dive into these phrases.

在英语里，有好几种说法可以表达这个意思。

There are a few ways we say this in English.

在西班牙语里，最常用的说法就是‘whatever happens’，意思就是‘发生什么就是什么’。

In Spanish, it's The most common one is just whatever happens is what this means.

也就是不管将来会发生什么事，都无所谓。

Like, regardless of anything that might happen in the future.

是的。

Yes.

没错。

Exactly.

不管发生什么。

Whatever happens.

对吧？

Right?

或者也可以说，发生什么就是什么。

Or whatever happens happens, I guess, too.

我们是不是有时候还会加

Don't we sometimes add

发生？

happens?

你单独说这句话就够了。

You could just say that by itself.

就是不管发生什么，它就发生了。

Like whatever happens happens.

但我们也会用在这样的句子里，比如，不管明天发生什么，我都为你尝试过感到骄傲。

But we'll also use that in a phrase like, for example, whatever happens tomorrow, I'm proud of you for trying.

是的。

Yeah.

不管发生什么，我们都会做朋友。

Or we'll stay friends whatever happens.

对。

Exactly.

是的。

Yeah.

所以直译过来，'pas de los que' 就是‘不管发生什么，它就发生了’。

So the direct translation of that, pas de los que is just whatever happens, happens.

我们经常也会用这个拉丁短语，意思是一样的。

We will often use this Latin phrase too, which means the same thing.

我们有时候在音乐里也能听到这句话。

We'll hear it in music sometimes.

它的意思完全一样。

It has the exact same thing.

是的。

Yeah.

当然了。

For sure.

但你的意思是，我们在英语里也会用它？

But you're saying we use it in English.

我们会把西班牙语的这句话直接用在英语里，有时候。

We we take the Spanish, and we use it in English sometimes.

对吧？

Right?

你就是这个意思，对吗？

Is what you mean?

哦，我想这应该是西班牙语吧。

Well, it's oh, I guess that's Spanish.

我刚才在想

I was

我本来以为是拉丁语，但现在觉得应该是西班牙语的说法。

thinking it was Latin, but I think it is Spanish to say.

西班牙语？

Spanish?

对吧？

Right?

有可能。

Maybe.

因为我后来想，也许这只是表达同一个意思的两种方式。

Because I but then it's They maybe it's just two ways of saying that.

听众们，欢迎留言告诉我们。

Listeners, write in.

告诉我们吧。

Tell us.

这是拉丁语还是西班牙语？

Is that Latin or Spanish?

或者两者都是。

Or both.

也许拉丁语和西班牙语里是一样的。

Maybe it's the same in Latin and Spanish.

也许它是

Maybe it's

一样的。

the same.

但在英语里，你还可以用其他说法，比如不管发生什么。

But in English, there are other things you could say, like, no matter what happens.

这个意思基本是一样的。

This basically has the same meaning.

这句话比‘不管发生什么’语气更强、更坚定。

It's a little bit stronger, more definite than whatever happens.

它用来强调一种真正的承诺。

It's used to emphasize a true commitment.

你知道，你对这个人、这个情境，不管是什么，都下了决心。

You know, you are committed to this person, this scenario, whatever it is.

不管发生什么，我们都不会放弃。

We're not giving up no matter what happens.

我想象的是一种生存困境。

I'm imagining like a survival situation.

对吧？

Right?

没错。

Exactly.

对。

Yeah.

没错。

Right.

我突然意识到，我就是这样的人。

And I'm realizing I'm like that.

这是法语吗？

Is that French?

因为它的意思其实是‘将会是’。

Because it would be means will be.

但带着那种口音，我们说‘Que sera sera’听起来并不像地道的法语。

So but with that accent, the way we say, Que sera sera is not very French.

真有意思。

So interesting.

我现在很好奇。

I'm curious now.

不过，我们的第二种方式也很相似。

But yeah, so our second way, very similar.

不管发生什么，我们都可以这么说——无论面试结果如何，今晚先庆祝一下。

No matter what happens, you could say we're not giving up no matter what happens or no matter what happens with the job interview, let's celebrate tonight.

对。

Yes.

太棒了。

Love it.

无论结果如何，我们都要继续前行。

And then come what may.

这个说法比较少见。

Now this one's a little more rare.

我觉得它更正式、更富有诗意，也更富戏剧性。

I think it's more formal, more poetic, more dramatic.

你可能会在百老汇戏剧、诗歌里听到它。

You might hear it in a Broadway play or poem or something.

或者歌曲里。

Song maybe.

对吧？

Right?

没错。

Exactly.

这种用法不常见。

It's less common.

我觉得挺有意思的。

I did it's interesting.

我在角色扮演中用了这个词，觉得挺合适的。

I was able to use it in the role play, and I think it makes sense.

有时候我们在日常对话里也会用，但确实比较少见。

I think sometimes we do use it in casual conversations, but it is more rare.

我们是有意用它来让表达更有戏剧性，或者更富诗意。

And we sort of intentionally use it to be more dramatic or a little more poetic with our speech.

是的。

Yeah.

比如，我们会搬到城里，不管发生什么，重新开始。

For example, we'll move to the city and start fresh, come what may.

对。

Mhmm.

或者她决定说出真心话，无论后果如何。

Or she decided to speak her truth, come what may.

对。

Mhmm.

是的。

Yes.

太棒了。

Love it.

好的。

Alright.

那我们来看看这些怎么自然地融入一个完整的角色扮演中，奥布里。

So let's see how these all fit into a nice tidy role play, Aubrey.

那这里的情景是怎样的？

So here, what's the scenario?

好。

Alright.

你和我是朋友，明天一早你就得离开这个国家了。

You and I are friends, and it's the night before you move out of the country.

你正要经历人生的大转变，而我呢，肯定因为朋友要远走他乡而感到难过。

So you've got a big life change happening, and I'm probably sad that my friend is leaving the country.

所以。

So

这种对话也让我想起当年离家上大学时的情形。

These kind of conversations also remind me of leaving for college conversations.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yes.

你那时候

Did you

十八岁左右，大家都去不同大学，这种告别多吗？

have a lot of these when you're, you know, like, you're 18 and everyone's going to different college?

对我来说，我们全去了不同的学校，反正不管怎样，我们都要做一辈子的好朋友。

At least for me, we all went to different colleges and, oh, what whatever happens, we're gonna stay best friends.

而且

And

当然了。

Absolutely.

对吧？

Right?

大家都说，不管发生什么，我们都要保持联系。

We're all saying that no matter what happens, we'll stay in touch.

永远是朋友。

We'll stay friends.

但通常，很遗憾，对我而言并不是这样。

And usually, unfortunately, that's not the case, at least for me.

有些人确实如此。

Some of them some of them, yes.

但是

But

我跟很多高中和大学时的朋友都断了联系。

I lost touch with a lot of a lot of people from high school, even from college.

是的。

Yeah.

我特别不擅长跟人保持联系。

I'm terrible at staying in touch with people.

我也是。

Me too.

我特别不擅长

I'm so bad at

就是这样。

it.

我得特别主动，对方也得特别有心。

I have to be very the other person has to be very intentional.

不然的话，大概就很难成行了。

Otherwise, it's probably not gonna happen.

对吧？

Right?

确实如此，可惜啊。

That's so true, unfortunately.

是的。

Yeah.

好吧。

Alright.

我真不敢相信我明天就要走了。

I can't believe I'm actually leaving tomorrow.

我对这份新工作很期待，但也很害怕。

I'm excited about this new job, but I'm also terrified.

这完全正常。

That's completely normal.

这是个巨大的转变。

It's a huge change.

要是没成功怎么办？

What if it doesn't work out?

不管结果如何，你敢于尝试就已经很勇敢了。

Whatever happens, you're brave for giving it a chance.

不是每个人都有这个勇气。

Not everyone would be up for it.

我担心会跟朋友失去联系。

I'm worried I'm gonna lose touch with friends.

不管怎样，我们都会是朋友。

Well, no matter what happens, we'll stay friends.

你保证吗？

You promise?

当然了。

Absolutely.

不管发生什么，我都不会离开你。

You're stuck with me come what may.

你最后那几句还挺有诗意的。

You got a little poetic in the end there.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yeah.

我其实是故意让自己动感情的。

I was kind of I'm I'm intentionally getting emotional.

我们就要告别了。

We're saying goodbye.

我们可能很长一段时间都见不着面了。

We might not see each other for a long time.

我发现自己居然会用这种说法，说真的，有点文艺了。

I'm I could see myself using this phrase in this way to be like, you know, yeah, a little poetic.

有点文艺。

A little poetic.

就是这么回事。

Exactly.

所以你看，这确实是一个特别熟悉的告别的时刻。

So again, yeah, this is a very familiar connection moment.

跟一个你在乎的人说再见。

Saying goodbye to someone that you care about.

对吧？

Right?

所以我才问，要是没成功怎么办？

So I said, what if it doesn't work out?

我对自己的处境有点紧张。

I'm nervous about my situation.

你当时怎么说的？

And you said?

我说了，不管结果怎样，你敢于尝试就已经很勇敢了。

I said, whatever happens, you're brave for giving it a chance.

我特别喜欢这句话，因为它是一种维系情感的技巧。当有人对自己做的决定、要经历的重大改变感到犹豫时，你说的很多话都可能伤害这段关系。

And this I really love this phrase as a connection skill because if someone is expressing doubt about a decision they've made, a big change that they're making, there are a lot of things that you could say that might hurt the connection.

比如，你表示怀疑他们选错了，或者任何让他们更紧张的话。

Expressing, you know, doubt that they made the right choice, saying anything that makes them even more nervous.

其实你能说的很多话都可能适得其反。

Like there are so many things you could say that could be a problem.

但这句话却特别合适。

This is a great thing to say.

说得对，这点真不错。

That's a good that's a good point.

是的

Yeah.

这是一个关键的沟通时刻，用词是否得当真的很重要。

It's an important connection moment where the right choice of words really matters.

对

Yeah.

你说无论结果如何，你都有勇气去尝试。

You say whatever happens, you're brave for giving it a chance.

你也在暗示，也许你搬过去后会不喜欢那里，或者太孤单，马上又搬回来。

And you're also saying because there is a chance that you would move there, hate it or be, like, too lonely and immediately move back.

这种事确实发生过。

That certainly has happened.

我其实是在给你留个退路：就算最坏的情况真的发生了，我依然为你敢于尝试感到骄傲。

And I am already giving you the out to say, like, even worst case scenario, even if that happens, I'm proud of you for being brave and taking this chance.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yeah.

这种表达方式真好，能让对方知道，不管结果如何，我都为你感到骄傲。

What a great way to connect to let people know whatever happens, however this turns out, I'm proud of you.

对。

Yes.

我很喜欢这句话。

I love that.

然后我又提了另一个担忧。

And then I expressed another worry.

我担心会跟朋友们失去联系。

I'm worried I'm gonna lose touch with my friends.

对吧？

Right?

包括现在坐在我面前的这个人。

Including this person in front of me.

包括我。

Including me.

对。

Right.

然后你说，不管发生什么，我们都会是朋友。

And then you said No matter what happens, we'll stay friends.

是的。

Mhmm.

对。

Yeah.

很常见。

Very common.

我觉得‘不管发生什么’在这里是最常听到的。

I think I feel like no matter what happens is the most common here.

我同意。

I agree.

所以，奥布里。

So, Aubrey.

我最常说的是这个。

That's what I say the most.

听起来最随意、最像日常聊天，不管发生什么吧。

It feels the most casual, conversational, even, you know, whatever happens.

我们确实会用你提到的这种说法，琳达。

We do use that chunk like you mentioned, Lindsay.

发生什么就发生吧。

Whatever happens happens.

我们这么说，就是为了表达跟西班牙语那句一样的意思。

We'll say that just to mean the same as the Spanish phrase.

对吧？

Right?

毕竟，未来的事谁也控制不了。

Like, there's no way to control the future.

反正该发生的总会发生。

Like, whatever's gonna happen is Yeah.

该发生的总会发生。

Is gonna happen.

是的。

Yeah.

所以你是那个稳重的朋友。

And so you're the stable friend here.

你最后还来了一句挺有诗意的话。

And so you got a little poetic at the end.

对吧？

Right?

你说我答应了，我说‘当然’。

So you said you I said you promise, and you said, absolutely.

不管发生什么，你都得跟我一起扛着。

You're stuck with me come what may.

这样挺好的。

So that's nice.

对。

Yeah.

确实不错。

It's nice.

而且这也很有意思，因为在这次对话中，我需要几种不同的说法来表达这个意思。

And it's also interesting because I sort of needed a few different ways to say this throughout this conversation.

所以我很庆幸自己准备了这三种表达方式。

So it's nice that I had all three.

对吧？

Right?

别老重复同一个词。

You don't wanna repeat vocabulary.

有时候得用不同的说法来表达同一个意思。

You need multiple ways to express something sometimes.

所以这也是为什么你可能会说‘无论发生什么’的原因。

So that's another reason you might say, come what may?

如果你已经说过‘无论发生什么事’或者‘不管怎样’，那你可以换成了‘无论发生什么’。

If you've already said whatever happens or no matter what happens, then you can say, come what may?

是的。

Yeah.

完全没错。

100%.

我们还剩几分钟。

We have a couple minutes.

奥布里，你人生中什么时候有过这种感觉？

So, Aubrey, when is the time in your life when you felt most like this?

就是站在重大转变的边缘，心里突然想：‘我这是在干嘛？’

Like, you're on the precipice of a big change, and you just were like, oh, what am I doing?

你知道的。

You know?

大概是结婚的时候吧。

Probably when I got married.

我觉得我之前在播客里或者跟琳赛说过，我结婚时对丈夫其实了解不多。

I I think I've shared this before in the podcast or with you, Lindsey, that I did not know my husband very long when we got married.

我们约会和订婚加起来才几个月。

We had only been dating and engaged for a few months.

是的。

Yeah.

对。

Yeah.

我们还没一起住过。

We hadn't lived together yet.

在我那个文化里，这并不常见。

That wasn't common in my culture.

没错。

Yeah.

所以我们结婚了，我还记得婚礼前一晚，还有婚礼当天，心里特别忐忑。

And so we got married, and I remember, like, the night before and, like, my wedding day sort of having these feelings of, like Yeah.

我真的准备好了吗？

Am I ready for this?

感觉事情太大了，这简直是人生巨变。

It felt really big and, like, this huge change.

真有意思。

Interesting.

没错，我当时确实有这种感觉，不过幸运的是，一切最后都顺利了。

And so, yeah, I definitely felt it, but luckily, it all worked out.

也许当时有人开导过你吧。

So maybe you remember someone that talked you through it.

我们总会记得这些时刻，对吧？

So we remember these moments, right?

通常那个人很沉稳，你确实需要一个人来帮你平复焦虑。

Usually that person is quite stable and like, well, you need someone who's counteracting your anxiety in a way.

是的

Yeah.

记得婚礼前一晚跟妈妈聊过，我不是紧张得想退缩，就是觉得这真是个巨大的转变。

Remember talking to my mom about it the night before my wedding and I wasn't it's not that I was having cold feet, but I was like, wow, this is a big change.

你知道的。

You know?

她大概会这么说。

And she probably would have said something like this.

不管发生什么，你都会好好的。

Like, no matter what happens, you're gonna be fine.

一切都会顺利的。

It's all gonna work out.

对。

Yeah.

我很喜欢这句话。

I love that.

我也觉得特别暖心。

I love that.

这些其实都是情感连接的时刻，因为二十年后我们还都记得。

So these are connection moments because we do remember them twenty years later.

对吧？

Right?

就说我自己吧，搬去日本的时候，真的觉得那是人生一大转折。

I mean, I for me, I think when I moved to Japan, I just think it was such a big change.

我记得，我爸妈那晚还带我去吃了顿饭。

And I remember, I think my parents, like, took me out for dinner.

我第二天一早从纽约起飞。

I think I had a flight out of New York.

他们前一晚请我吃饭，而我当时正陷入焦虑——接下来两年我都要在日本生活了。

They took me out for dinner the night before, and I was going through the crisis of I'm moving to Japan for the next two years.

你说这事儿怪不怪？

What?

我到底做了什么啊？

Like, what did I even do?

你懂的。

You know?

我在想什么呢？

What am I thinking?

没错。

Right.

你可能也跟爸妈有过这样的对话。

This very conversation you might have had with your mom or your dad.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yes.

我既兴奋又害怕。

I'm excited, but I'm also terrified.

对。

Mhmm.

但从某种角度说，这其实挺好的，因为人生中我们敢于冒险的次数越多，最终生活也会越丰富。

But in a way, it's really good because the more of these big chances we take in life, kind of the richer our life does ultimately end up being.

你可以想想，要是当初你没抓住那个机会，现在会变成什么样，成长了多少。

In a way, imagine if you went back if you had never taken that chance, how much you changed and grew as a person.

不管怎样我都不会后悔。

Wouldn't change that for anything.

没错。

Absolutely.

完全同意。

100%.

所以今天的这期节目，正是为了强化这种联结。

So today's episode really matters for that connection.

我们在回想那些曾经在你身边、对你很重要的人。

We're thinking back to the people that matter that were there for you.