AEE 2637：无法释怀？如何谈论日落、音乐会等话题

这是《All Ears English》播客第2637期。

This is an All Ears English Podcast episode twenty six thirty seven.

是不是觉得特别难放下？

Can't get over it?

教你如何谈论日落、音乐会这些话题。

How to talk about sunsets, concerts, and more.

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是不是觉得自己的英语进步卡住了？

Are you feeling stuck with your English?

我们会教你如何摆脱顾虑，流利表达，重点放在真实交流，而不是追求完美。

We'll show you how to become fearless and fluent by focusing on connection, not perfection.

本期节目由两位美国主持人带来：英语冒险家琳赛·麦马洪，和纽约电台女孩米歇尔·卡普兰，她们分别从科罗拉多和纽约为你直播。

With your American hosts, Lindsay McMahon, the English adventurer, and Michelle Kaplan, the New York radio girl, coming to you from Colorado and New York City, USA.

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人生中最令人震撼的时刻，就是你被某件事深深打动，久久难以忘怀。

One of the greatest moments in life is when you are in awe of something and you can't get over it.

今天，教你一个地道表达，让你能像母语者一样谈论这种感受。

Today, get the phrase you need to talk about this like a native speaker in English.

如果你的英语听起来没错，但总觉得哪里不对劲，你不是一个人这样。

If your English sounds correct, but not quite right, you're not alone.

有时候，问题不在语法。

Sometimes it's not grammar.

而是在用词、语气和节奏上。

It's word choice, tone, timing.

你可能总用那些安全的表达，不是因为你喜欢，而是因为怕用错细节。

You might rely on safe phrases, not because you want to, but because nuance feels risky.

但少了这些细腻的表达，就很难真正和别人建立连接。

But without nuance, it's harder to build connection.

我们的两分钟流利度测试能帮你发现，你的英语在哪些地方过于保守，又在哪些地方可以通过了解当前水平得到提升。

Our two minute fluency quiz helps you see where your English is playing it safe and where it can grow by knowing your current English level.

你是B1、B2还是C1水平的使用者？

Are you a b one, b two, or c one speaker?

现在就去查一查吧。

Find out now.

去 allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore 查看你的英语水平。

Get your level at allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore.

再提醒一次，去 allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore。

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嗨，米歇尔。

Hey there, Michelle.

最近怎么样？

How's it going?

嗨，林赛。

Hey, Lindsay.

我挺好的。

I'm good.

你呢？

How are you?

米歇尔，你谈恋爱的时候经历过糟糕的分手吗？

Michelle, have you ever been through a bad breakup in your dating life?

是的。

Yeah.

我不是说那种特别恶劣的分手，但确实经历过几次，真的很伤人。

I mean, not like a evil breakup or anything, but I've been through breakups and it's it's painful.

特别伤人。

Painful.

对。

Yeah.

你那次持续了多久？

How long does you?

是的

Yeah.

当然

For sure.

天哪

Oh my gosh.

是的

Yeah.

没错

Absolutely.

在约会这件事上，确实不容易

In the dating world, it can be tough.

确实不容易，尤其是当你太当真的话

It can be tough, especially if you take it really personally.

你懂的

You know?

是的。

Yeah.

但对你来说，米歇尔，通常要多久才能走出来呢？

But for you, Michelle, how long does it usually take

分手后要多久才能恢复？

to get over a breakup?

你觉得呢？

Would you say?

我

I

我的意思是，我觉得可能需要半年左右，也可能更久，这要看情况。

mean, I think it can take a good, it could take six months, it could take a, right, it depends.

更重要的是，你到底该怎么走出来？

And more so is like, you know, how how do you get over it?

我觉得，老实说，唯一能做的就是等时间过去。

And I think it's I I honestly think the only thing is just time.

没错。

Yes.

忙起来，再加上时间。

Keeping busy and time.

你觉得呢？

What do you think?

对。

Yeah.

我觉得我和奥布里最近在节目里聊过这个话题。

I think we talked about I think Aubrey and I talked about this a little bit recently on the show.

培养一个新的爱好，让生活充满美好的事情，这样你就不会整天想着那个人了。

You're getting into a new hobby, just like making sure that your life is full of really great things so you're not thinking about the person all the time.

对吧？

Right?

没错。

Yes.

是的。

Yes.

没错。

Exactly.

今天我们要聊聊一个带 'get over' 的表达。

So today, we're gonna talk about an expression with get over.

对。

Mhmm.

这个用法特别实用。

And this is really, really useful.

比如说，我无法释怀……

So this is I can't get over something.

是的。

Yes.

举个例子，我怎么也忘不了这片海滩有多美。

So for example, I can't get over how beautiful this beach is.

是的

Yeah.

这个用法挺有意思的，因为它不一定跟分手那种情境有关

So this interest it's interesting because this is not necessarily what we were using for the breakup idea.

对吧

Right?

我就是没法放下他

I can't get over him.

对吧

Right?

今天我们其实没怎么谈分手的事

We're not really talking today so much about breakups.

对吧

Right?

这里并不是在讲分手的语境

This isn't the context of talking about a breakup.

这更多是关于那种让人感到震撼的东西。

It's more about something that brings awe to your mind.

就是那种你根本理解不了的东西。

Like, it you can't understand.

你就是没法想象，某样东西能美到什么程度，或者某种状态能有多特别。

Like, you can't you just can't conceive of how beautiful something is or how something something is.

对。

Right.

一种极致的幸福。

Bliss something is.

就是某种东西。

Something something is.

是的。

Yes.

没错。

Yeah.

你根本停不下来去想它。

You can't stop thinking about it.

可能是短期的。

It could be short term.

也可能是长期的。

It could be long term.

它真的深深影响了你。

It just has really impacted you.

它在某种程度上改变了你。

It has affected you in some way.

比如分手后，你就是放不下一个人。

So and again, I can't get over someone, maybe used after a breakup.

不过今天我们先不深入聊这个，留到别的场合再说。

So but more we're gonna talk about it in another context today.

对。

Yes.

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But guys, make sure you hit the follow button wherever you're listening to All Ears English.

别错过我们的任何内容。

Don't miss anything from us.

对。

Mhmm.

让我们能准时出现在你的播放列表里。

And let us drop into your queue.

是的。

Yeah.

所以再说一遍，这个词通常用来形容让人惊讶或惊叹的事情。

So again, this is normally used to describe something that is surprising, amazing.

米歇尔，你觉得这词可以用在好事或坏事上吗？

Michelle, can this be good or bad, would you say?

还是说它更多只用在正面的事情上？

Or is it more just for good things

还是怎么说呢？

or what?

我觉得两种情况都可能。

I think it could be either.

你觉得呢？

What do you think?

是的。

Yeah.

我同意。

I agree.

其实就是指那种有点让人震惊的事情。

It's just it's more like something that's kind of shocking.

对吧？

Right?

没错。

Right.

说真的，你简直难以置信自己会对它有这么强烈的感受。

Like, you can't believe how you feel about it in a way.

没错。

Right.

对。

Yeah.

是的。

Yes.

完全正确。

That's absolutely right.

对。

Yeah.

所以这可能是好事。

So it could be good.

也可能是坏事。

It could be bad.

所以，米歇尔，这确实让你产生强烈的情绪。

So really Michelle, this is something that makes you feel a strong emotion.

对吧？

Right?

没错。

That's right.

正是如此。

Exactly.

那我们再举几个例子吧。

So let's do some more examples.

好的。

Okay.

这是其中一个。

So here's one.

我真没法不佩服你家的独特之处。

I can't get over how unique your house is.

是的。

Yes.

我有几个朋友，他们住的房子特别有个性和韵味。

I have some friends and they live in a house with so much character and charm.

挺有意思的。

Interesting.

而且真的特别美。

And it's really beautiful.

所以这可能就是我会说的话。

So that's something I might say.

哦，这太棒了。

Oh, that's very cool.

对。

Yeah.

每次你走进去的时候。

Every time you walk in.

对吧？

Right?

即使你不是第一次

Even if it's not the first time you're

走路的时候也是。

walking Yeah.

确实。

True.

每次都能发现新东西，眼睛都看不过来。

There's always something new to notice and something to feast your eyes on.

对吧？

Right?

眼睛都看不过来。

Feast your eyes on.

我喜欢这个说法。

I love that expression.

是的

Yeah.

我到现在还觉得那场演唱会太棒了。

Or I can't get over how good that concert was.

也许你已经离开演唱会现场了。

So maybe you already left the concert.

你说那场演出太棒了。

You said that was great.

等你回到家，可能正吃着冰淇淋，突然又想起：天啊，那场演唱会真的太绝了。

And then you get back home, maybe you're having ice cream and you're like, oh, I can't get over how good that concert was.

你又在回味它了。

You're reflecting on it again.

对吧？

Right?

没错。

Exactly.

没错。

Exactly.

林赛，你有没有去过一场特别棒的演唱会？

Lindsay, is there a really good concert you've been to?

我知道你参加过很多场演唱会。

I know you've been to a lot of concerts.

我是不是参加过太多演唱会了？不过去年我去看了麦当娜的演出，真的特别喜欢。

Haven't I been to too many concerts, but I went to see Madonna last year and I love that.

那场演出太棒了。

That was amazing.

是的。

Yeah.

对。

Yeah.

没错。

Yeah.

那是我最喜欢的。

That was my favorite.

Lady Gaga那场也很棒。

Lady Gaga was good.

其实没去过太多。

Not too many.

我其实不是那种经常去看演唱会的人，Michelle。

I'm not a big concert goer, Michelle, actually.

没有吗？

No?

没有。

No.

哦，好的。

Oh, okay.

没去过几次。

Not a lot.

但你知道你去过阿黛尔的演唱会。

But know you've been to Adele.

阿黛尔。

Adele.

阿黛尔真的特别棒。

Adele was really good.

是的。

Yes.

对。

Yeah.

对。

Yeah.

当然了，我觉得粉红女郎的演出太精彩了。

Of course I'm gonna say Pink was amazing.

我看过碧昂丝的演出，她简直太厉害了。

I've seen Beyonce, she was amazing.

所以确实，说到音乐会，这个说法特别贴切。

So yeah, so definitely very, that's a really good one to use it about is concerts.

因为音乐会确实有它独特的地方。

Because that's an interesting thing with concerts.

如果是场精彩的演出，你会觉得自己和表演者之间有种特别的连接，完全融入了那个时刻。

You feel so like connected to, if it's a good concert, you feel so connected to that performer to your experience.

去看一场演唱会，常常会带来很深的情感触动。

Can be like a very emotional and moving experience to go to a concert.

真的出乎意料地打动人。

Surprisingly moving.

我买演唱会票的时候，脑子里想的就只有价格。

I feel like when I buy concert tickets, I just think about the price.

天哪，这也太贵了。

I'm like, Oh my God.

你懂的吧？

You know?

我其实也没太当回事，你知道的，就那样吧。

And I I don't because, you know, whatever.

我只是去听个演唱会而已。

I'm just going to a concert.

我不太看重这些，但一去现场，像阿黛尔那样的表演，你就完全被吸进去了。

I don't value them that much, but then I get there and something like the Adele performance or and you're just you're you're really sucked into it.

真的特别震撼。

And it's incredible.

你的身心全都沉浸其中。

Like, your whole your whole body and mind are both there.

整个人都在线。

They're both present.

没错。

Right.

然后你会对台上那个人产生一种特别强烈的共鸣。

And then you feel this incredible support for that person.

所以我总是忍不住想，为什么呢？

And so what happens to me is I'm always like, why?

你知道吗，有时候我会在演唱会外面买件便宜的T恤。

You know, like, I mean, sometimes I buy a cheap shirt outside of the outside of the concert.

是的。

Yeah.

但我还是会买，还打算穿着它到处走，特别自豪地穿出去，让所有人都看到。

But I'll, like, buy and I'm like, and I'm gonna just, like, wear this with pride and everyone will see.

你就这么不知不觉地被那种氛围感染了。

And it's like you, like, kinda get sucked into this moment.

可真到了该穿的时候，你又觉得，算了，还是别穿了。

And then and then when it's actually time for it, you're like, I don't wanna wear the shirt.

这真有意思。

That's funny.

太有意思了。

That's so funny.

你有好多T恤，就是那种衣服。

So you have a lot of t shirts of of, like, shirts shirt

衣服衣服。

shirt shirt.

不过算了。

But Okay.

也没那么多，但我确实买过。

Not that many, but I did yeah.

那种感觉就是，买完立马就来了，我觉得大概是多巴胺的作用吧。

It's like you just have this feeling, like, right afterward that's there's this dopamine effect, I guess.

你啊。

You're

就是有种感觉。

like something.

有种感觉。

There's something

让每个人都感受到这有多棒。

everyone to know how amazing this is.

不。

No.

我完全明白你的意思。

I totally know what you're saying.

确实有那种感觉。

There is totally something there.

音乐和表演能让人感动得流泪。

It can bring you to tears, the the the music, the performances.

是的，我懂。

I mean, I yeah.

我在拉斯维加斯听阿黛尔演唱会时，真的哭出来了。

I definitely was brought to tears at Adele's concert in Vegas.

简直太震撼了。

I mean, it was just incredible.

是的。

Yeah.

我其实也不是特别迷Adele，是我伴侣更喜欢她。

And I'm I'm not even like I I like Adele, but my partner's more the Adele fan.

好吧。

And Okay.

你懂的。

You know?

但我当时真的惊到了。

But I was like, wow.

她太厉害了。

She's amazing.

是的。

Yeah.

没错。

Yeah.

是的。

Yeah.

然后，米歇尔，我们提到过，这个词在负面语境下可以用来表达对某人的愤怒，对吧？

Then, Michelle, we said on the negative side, it can be used to say you're outraged by someone, right?

或者类似的意思。

Or something.

那会是什么样子呢？

So what would that look like?

是的。

Yeah.

我实在无法忍受他的厚脸皮。

I can't get over his audacity.

他太没礼貌了。

He's so rude.

没错。

Yes.

对吧？

Right?

你感到非常愤怒。

You're you're outraged.

你感到十分震惊。

You're you're shocked.

是的。

Mhmm.

没错。

Right.

对。

Yeah.

还有这种厚颜无耻。

And audacity.

这到底是什么意思？

What does that mean?

这个词用得真好。

That's a great word.

对。

Yeah.

我觉得我们之前做过一整期关于这个的节目。

I think we've done a whole I episode about think so.

是的。

Yeah.

我得找找看能不能找到那一期。

I I should see if I can find it.

不过首先，这是我们用的软件

But well, number one, it's the software that we use

对，没错。

for yeah.

对。

Right.

这还是个音频录制软件。

It's also audio recording software.

所以非常感谢你。

So thank

谢谢你。

you very much.

没错。

It is.

没错。

It is.

我刚查了一下，就像那种大胆、敢想敢做的感觉。

And it's just like like, I'm looking it up, like, yeah, like boldness.

对吧？

Right?

大胆，敢作敢为。

Boldness, audacious.

对吧？

Right?

你很有胆量，可能话也多，不怕事，很自信，但要是过了头变成无礼，那就不好了。

You're bold, maybe you're noisy, you're not afraid, you're confident, but it can be in kind of a negative way if it becomes rude.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yes.

没错。

Yes.

说得太准了。

That's exactly right.

所以确实是这样。

So yeah.

那就这么说定了。

So there we go.

胆识。

Audacity.

所以林赛，有没有什么事是你一直放不下的？

So Lindsay, is there something what's something that you can't get over?

是好事还是坏事？

Good or bad?

我上次自驾游，就是横跨全国那次，2016年做那个连接通信项目的时候，我怎么都忘不了德克萨斯的日落。

Well, on my last road trip, my road the one where I drove across the country, I think actually to create the connected communicator back in 2016, I couldn't get over the Texas sunsets.

德克萨斯的日落真的特别不一样。

The Texas sunset is like something very special.

我想住在德克萨斯的听众肯定都懂。

I think our listeners that live in Texas know this.

太阳那时候变得特别大。

It's it becomes the sun becomes really huge.

说不上来为什么，可能是地理位置，或者就是德克萨斯特有的感觉吧。

I think it's just, I don't know, something about the positioning or or something about Texas.

简直太神奇了。

And it's just magical.

德克萨斯的日落景象，别的地方根本看不到。

The way the the sunsets look in Texas don't look it doesn't look that way anywhere else.

太不可思议了。

It's incredible.

所以是德克萨斯的日落。

So Texas sunsets.

我怎么都看不够。

I couldn't get over them.

德克萨斯的日落。

Texas sunsets.

我太喜欢了。

I love it.

我怎么都受不了超市物价这么高。

I can't get over how expensive groceries are.

我的意思是，每次我去超市，都忍不住想，真的假的？

I mean, you know, every time I go, I'm like, really?

所以啊，

So,

是的，

yeah.

当然了，

For sure.

不是，

No.

我觉得几年前通胀狠狠冲击了我们，到现在也没完全缓过来。

Think I think inflation hit us hard a few years ago, and it hasn't gone away completely.

对吧？

Right?

价格从来就没降过。

Prices never go down.

这就是现实。

That's just the reality.

根本不可能发生。

Like, it's just not gonna happen.

我们还是对那些三四年前涨上去的价格感到震惊，到现在还是觉得不可思议。

So we're still shocked by those inflated prices that maybe went up three years ago, but we're still shocked by it.

对吧？

Right?

没错，确实如此。

Yes, that's true.

说得好。

Good stuff.

好了，我们休息一下。

Alright, we'll take a quick break.

好了，Michelle，我们在日常对话里什么时候会用到这个呢？

Alright, so Michelle, when would we maybe use this in natural conversation?

你刚才不就用了吗？

Well, I mean, you just did, right?

用来描述一个地方，对吧？

To describe a place, right?

在形容风景的时候，特别适合用这个表达。

Scenery is a really good time to use this.

我简直无法想象德克萨斯的日落居然这么美。

I can't get over this Texas sunsets, right?

完全没错。

Totally.

或者当你吃到特别好吃的东西时，对吧？

Or if you're eating something that tastes amazing, right?

是啊。

Yeah.

这味道实在太棒了，我简直难以置信。

I just can't get over how good this is.

对吧？

Right?

我就是停不下来，一直吃。

I just keep eating it.

也可能是在吃完饭之后。

It could be after you've had the meal.

那顿饭实在太好吃了，我到现在都忘不了。

I can't get over how good that food was.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yeah.

是的。

Yeah.

是的。

Yeah.

没错。

Exactly.

我特别兴奋，因为今晚要去吃中东菜。

I'm excited because I'm going tonight out for Middle Eastern food

和朋友一起。

with Yeah.

我的

My

一家人聚餐。

Having a mom dinner.

真有意思。

Fun.

是的。

Yeah.

挺好的，因为我们每次见面，总带着孩子。

It's nice because we're always whenever we hang out, we're with the kids.

所以今晚我们要去来一场妈妈约会。

So tonight we're going on a on a mom A mom date.

不过这家店据说特别棒，我挺期待的。

But I have a this place is supposed to be really good, so I'm excited.

哇，真的吗。

Oh wow.

是哪种中东菜啊？

Kind of Middle Eastern food is it like?

黎巴嫩菜。

Lebanese?

贝鲁特风味。

Beirut.

哦，原来如此。

Oh wow, okay.

你下次来节目时，一定要跟我们讲讲。

Well you should tell us about that on the show when you I come will.