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这里是《全耳英语》播客，第2662期。
This is an All Ears English Podcast episode twenty six sixty two.
当你心里有数的时候，你就知道怎么用英语表达你的直觉了。
When you know, you know how to express your intuition in English.
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Welcome to the All Ears English Podcast downloaded more than 200,000,000 times.
你是不是觉得学英语卡住了？
Are you feeling stuck with your English?
我们会教你如何变得无所畏惧、流利自如，专注于沟通而非完美。你的美国主持人——英语冒险家林赛·麦克马洪和纽约电台女孩米歇尔·卡普兰，从美国科罗拉多州和纽约市为你带来节目。
We'll show you how to become fearless and fluent by focusing on connection, not perfection with your American hosts, Lindsay McMahon, the English adventurer, and Michelle Kaplan, the New York radio girl, coming to you from Colorado and New York City, USA.
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你是怎么知道你的另一半就是那个对的人的？
How did you know that your life partner was the one for you?
今天我们来聊聊直觉在我们生活中扮演的角色，以及如何在英语对话中表达出来。
Today, we talk about the role that intuition has on our lives and how to articulate this in a conversation in English.
嘿，米歇尔。
Hey there, Michelle.
今天怎么样？
How's everything today?
一切都挺好的。
Everything's good.
林赛，问你个问题。
Lindsay, question.
你是怎么知道你的伴侣就是那个对的人的？
How did you know your partner was the one for you?
嗯，这是个好问题，米歇尔。
Well, that's a good question, Michelle.
我觉得，当你遇到对的人，你自然就会知道。
I guess when you know, you know.
就是有一些特别的时刻，尤其是在刚开始的时候。
There were just certain moments, you know, that happened, especially early on.
一起旅行的时候，我们发现对事情的看法一样，或者反应也相同。
Traveling together where we saw situations in the same way or we reacted in Traveling
旅行确实是个了解对方的好方法。
is a good way to know.
那你呢？
What about you?
你是怎么认识你丈夫的？
How did you know your husband?
他是不是对的那个人？
Was Yeah, he right one for
丹。
Dan.
是的，我当时就知道他是。
Yeah, I knew he.
我也不太确定。
I don't know.
和他在一起，我总是特别开心。
I just always kept on having so much fun with him.
他是个
He's a
很有趣的人。
very fun person.
对，没错。
So yeah.
当你遇到对的人，你自然就知道了。
When you know, you know.
当你遇到对的人，你自然就知道了。
When you know, you know.
你懂的，你自然就知道了。
You know, you know.
林赛，你对这句话怎么看？
What do you think about that expression, Lindsay?
这句话挺好的。
It's a good one.
虽然有点老套，但有时候老套也挺有意思的。
It's a little bit of a cliche, but sometimes cliches are fun.
你说对吧？
You know?
老套没什么不好，因为我们在用它们，尤其是在说感性的事情的时候。
There's nothing wrong with them because we use them, especially around sentimental things.
比如找到人生伴侣这种感性的事。
Sentimental things like finding your life partner.
是的。
Yes.
这绝对是一件大事。
It's definitely a big one.
对。
Mhmm.
我还在电影和电视剧里经常听到这句话，现实生活中也常听到，就是那种‘你懂的，你自然就知道了’的感觉。
I mean, I also hear I hear this a lot in the movies and on TV shows, but also in real life when you know you know.
说起来也挺好玩的。
It's also kind of fun to say.
这让我有点想起九十年代的爱情片，比如《西雅图夜未眠》那种感觉。
It kinda makes me think of, like, nineties romance movies, like Sleep was in Seattle a little bit.
对。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
就是那种浪漫的氛围，你懂的，像是‘这是命中注定的吗’那种特别乐观的感觉。
That vibe of romantic and, you know, like, is it meant to be this very optimistic Yeah.
就是九十年代那种爱情电影的感觉？
Nineties romance film thing that was happening?
我
I
对。
Yeah.
我知道。
I know.
我完全明白你的意思。
I know exactly what you mean.
是的。
Yes.
所以，对。
So Yeah.
我们接下来会多聊这个话题。
We're gonna talk more about this.
不过首先，Lindsay，我们是不是该感谢一下谁？
But first, Lindsay, do we wanna say thank you to someone?
当然。
Of course.
我们要感谢所有听众，特别是那些花时间给我们留下评分和评论的朋友。
We wanna say thank you to all our listeners, but especially those of you who have taken the time to go and leave us a rating and a review.
今天要特别感谢一位听众，他叫任明伟。
And today's name, today's listener is Mingwei Ren.
感谢你的五星好评。
Thank you for the five star review.
这位听众是在苹果播客上给我们评价的。
This listener reviewed us in, I believe, Apple Podcast.
非常感谢你的评论。
Thank you so much for the review.
大家也去给我们留个评论吧。
Guys, go over and leave us a review.
告诉我们你对节目的看法。
Tell us what you think of the show.
无论你在哪里收听，苹果播客、Spotify，都来告诉我们你的想法吧。
Wherever you listen, Apple Podcast, Spotify, let us know what you think of the show.
对吧？
Alright?
太棒了。
Love it.
非常感谢大家。
Thank you so much, everyone.
谢谢你，明伟。
Thank you, Ming Wei.
那么，Lindsay，当你说“你知道”的时候，到底是什么意思呢？
So Lindsay, so what does that mean even to say when you know, you know?
我的意思是，你在说什么？
I mean, What do you are
我们在聊什么？
we talking about?
我们根本什么都没说。
We're not even saying anything.
对，我们想说的是，当你觉得对的时候，那就是对的。
Yeah, think what we're trying to say here is like, when we know it's right, you know, it's right.
就像是一种直觉。
Like, it's a gut feeling.
就像我们的直觉告诉我们某件事很合适。
It's like our intuition that something is a fit.
某件事很匹配。
Something is a match.
某件事感觉对了。
Something feels right.
是的。
Yeah.
但仔细想想，这句话也可以用在感觉不对的事情上。
But actually thinking about it, you could also use it about so when in something that feels wrong.
我的意思是，当你明白的时候，你就明白了。
I mean, when you know, you know.
虽然不完全是，但我觉得它通常带有更多那种乐观、充满希望的感觉。
This is not but it does but I I think typically it has more of this optimistic, hopeful feeling.
我同意。
But I agree.
对。
Yeah.
也不总是这样。
Not not always.
所以你也可以用在其他场合。
So you could use it in other ways.
但核心还是那种直觉。
But, it is about that intuition.
我觉得那个关键词就是，那种直觉。
I think that that is the key word, that gut feeling.
是的。
Yes.
那它到底用在什么地方呢？
So but what do we use it about?
我们在讨论什么？
What are we talking about?
生活中所有美好的事情。
All the good things in life.
我是说，人生中的大事，比如选宠物。
I mean, the big thing the big kind of the big things in life, like choosing a pet.
天哪。
Oh my god.
我太喜欢这个了。
I love this.
我太喜欢这个了。
I love this.
你小时候选比格犬的时候，是不是——你养过一只比格犬。
When you chose your beagle, did you when you were a kid, you had a beagle.
对吧，米歇尔？
Right, Michelle?
是的。
Yes.
对。
Mhmm.
你是从收容所领养它的，还是它怎么到你们家的？
Did you adopt him from the shelter or, like, how did he end up at home?
是你爸妈带它回家的吗？
Did your parents bring him home?
它怎么来的……对。
How did he yeah.
事情是这样的，当然，我妈一开始不想要狗，结果最后这狗成了她的。
So what what happened was my of course, my mom didn't want the dog, and then of course it ended up being her dog.
事情总是这样。
That's how it goes.
是的。
Yeah.
但是我爸到处在找，
But we my dad was looking everywhere,
然后
and
我们当时在找救助犬。
he was we were looking for rescue dogs.
有一天他跟我说，他觉得找到了一只。
One day he told me he that he thought he found one.
好像他一直跟一个女人有联系。
I guess he had been in touch with this woman.
我们当时对比格犬、腊肠犬或者那些品种感兴趣。
And, we we were interested in beagles or dachshunds or different those types of breeds.
对。
Mhmm.
然后他说有只狗，他告诉我之后，我们都特别兴奋。
And so he said that there was a there was a dog, and so he told me, and we were so excited.
但说实话，第一次他来的时候，我第一次见到他，我心里就想，天哪。
But I will say so the first time he came and the first time I saw him, I was like, oh my god.
他太可爱了。
He's so cute.
是的。
Yeah.
但后来我们在前院跟他玩。
But then we were playing with him in the front yard.
对。
Yeah.
他简直疯了一样。
And he was crazy.
是的。
Yeah.
我开始紧张起来了。
I started getting nervous.
我觉得他当时是兴奋得乱跑。
I guess he had the zoomies.
你懂吧？
You know?
哦，兴奋得乱跑啊。
Oh, zoomies.
对。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
小狗就是这样。
Small dogs.
是的。
Yeah.
而且我，我之前真没经历过这种事，我当时就想，啊。
And and I just I haven't really experienced that before and I was like, ah.
不过，对，他毕竟是我们家的狗。
But yeah, of course he was our dog.
那你呢，和基弗之间是什么情况？
I mean, what about for you with Kiefer?
是不是那种，你懂的，你懂的感觉？
Was it when you know, you know?
其实不是那种，不是那种你懂的感觉。
Actually it was not a, it was not a you know, you know.
最初的基弗，是我们在波士顿还没法领养狗的时候捡到的一只狗，名字就叫基弗。
The original Kiefer, we found a dog in Boston when we couldn't adopt yet, named Kiefer.
那是他名字的由来。
That's his namesake.
那只狗就是基弗。
That dog was Kiefer.
基弗赢了。
Kiefer won.
所以我们现在的狗就叫基弗了。
And that's how we named our current dog Kiefer.
但那只狗，我们当时就知道想要它。
But that dog, we knew we wanted him.
可这只狗，它当时还只是只小奶狗。
But this dog, he was just a puppy.
它才八周大，我们算是提前登记认领了它。
He was eight weeks old, and we had, you know, kind of presigned up for him.
对吧？
Right?
就是你先报名，表示有兴趣，然后就去接。
Like, you sign up, indicate your interest, and then you go.
而它呢，就是那个各种问题都冒出来的家伙。
And he was kind of the one that was all the red flags were coming up.
比如，他都不肯靠近我们。
Like, he wasn't coming over to us.
他看起来很害怕。
He looked afraid.
他一直躲在角落里。
He was in the corner.
他有点不爱搭理人。
He was a little antisocial.
对。
Yeah.
但那个女人就问，你到底要不要他？
But the woman just kind of was like, well, do you want him or not?
我们只好说，那就要吧。
We're like, I guess so.
于是我们就把他带回家了，后来他慢慢就和我们亲近了。
So we just took him, and then he just grew he grew on us.
你知道吗？
You know?
就像，你知道，它们在回家的路上就会对你产生依恋，然后就像，对。
Like, you know, how they they imprint on you on the ride home, and then they just like Yeah.
你只要花时间陪伴，就会慢慢爱上它们。
You just spend time and you learn to love them.
爱上它们并不需要太久。
You love them over it didn't take long.
相信我。
Trust me.
它当时是最可爱的小狗。
He was the most adorable puppy.
我觉得，现在它挺外向的。
I mean, now he's pretty outgoing.
它是一只很棒的狗。
He's a great dog.
它真是条好狗。
He's a great dog.
所以，是的。
So Yeah.
我的意思是，这些时候我们就要靠直觉了，因为直觉在人生重大决定上很重要，米歇尔。
I mean, these are the moments when we use this intuition because intuition matters for the big decisions in life, Michelle.
对吧？
Right?
对。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
所以，我的意思是，找伴侣、选宠物、找工作，如果你面试时感觉对了，那就是了。
So, I mean, for finding a partner, choosing a pet, your job, if you interview for something and it just feels right.
还有，我的意思是，一个重要的例子是找房子。
Or also, I mean, a big one is finding a house.
是的。
Yes.
你知道，有时候你并没有这种感觉，但这并不代表它一定不对。
You know, you just, and again, sometimes you don't always have this feeling and that doesn't mean that it's necessarily not right.
当你心里有数的时候，你就知道了。我相信每个人生活中都有这样的时刻，你会记得，哦，你就是知道，你就有那种感觉，对吧？
Just when you know, you know, there are, you know, I'm sure everyone has those moments in life where you can remember, oh, you just knew, you just had a feeling, you know?
对，没错。
Yes, exactly.
没错。
Exactly.
这算是生活中一种很酷的魔力，幸好我们有时候会有某种直觉在引导我们。
And that's kind of a cool magic in life where, thank goodness, we have some kind of intuition intuition kind of guiding us at times.
对吧？
Right?
嗯。
Mhmm.
如果所有事情都只靠逻辑，那生活就太难了。
It would be so hard if everything were just logical.
对。
Right.
我们还需要一点内心的指引，对吧？
We need a little heart, right, to come out.
是的。
Yeah.
还有方向。
And guidance.
所以，这通常用在人生中做重要选择的时候，你可以凭内心而不是纯粹靠逻辑来做决定。
So, I mean, it's often used just when something is an important choice in your life and you know, you can decide based on your heart and not just with logic.
对，选宠物肯定就是这种情况。
So yeah, picking a pet is certainly one.
等等，你喜欢的另一只狗，名字叫基弗吧。
Wait, so the other dog that you like, that dog was named Kiefer.
所以这就是
So that's
你给狗起名叫基弗的原因。
why you named Kiefer.
基弗？
Kiefer?
没错。
Exactly.
明白了。
Got it.
我喜欢这个名字。
I like it.
那时候我们领养狗还太早了。
It was way too early for us to adopt a dog.
我们在波士顿的公寓不能养狗。
We couldn't have a dog in our apartment in Boston.
你知道，我们不得不继续前进，但一直惦记着那只基弗。
You know, we had to move on, but we always thought about that that Kiefer.
然后我们就……是的。
And then we just yeah.
对。
Yeah.
所以
So
好吧，我们来演示一下这在对话中怎么用。
Well, let's show how this would be used in conversations.
好的。
Okay.
要不要先做那个“是的”的部分。
Do wanna do the Yes.
先来
First
我找了六个月的房子，最后终于找到了一间。
I looked for a house for six months, and finally, I found one.
那房子简直完美。
It was perfect.
嘿，当你遇到对的时候，你自然就知道了。
Hey, when you know, you know.
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
或者我们来个小角色扮演。
Or here's a little role play.
对。
Mhmm.
你是怎么决定选那只小狗的？
How did you decide on your puppy?
哦，我一看到它，根本不用犹豫。
Oh, when I saw him, it was a no brainer.
感觉对了就是对了。
When you know, you know.
哦，那真好。
Oh, that's so nice.
我很喜欢这种感觉。
I love that.
哦，这让我又想养一只狗了。
Oh, and it makes me wanna get another dog.
我知道。
I know.
天哪。
Oh my gosh.
我、我、我确实想养，但、但现在不是时候，可我还是不停地在看照片和救助网站，现在真的不是好时机。
I I I definitely I'm in I I shouldn't right now, but I keep on looking at pictures and rescue sites and really not a good time for me.
但是
But
那挺多的。
That's a lot.
那确实不少。
That's a lot.
对。
Yeah.
不。
No.
不过，可能再过一两年吧。
Maybe in a in a year or two, though.
不会太久。
Not too long.
离现在不远。
Not too far from now.
对。
Yeah.
或者是什么让你决定去加州大学洛杉矶分校的？
Or what made you decide to go to UCLA?
面对那么多学校，但这是个容易的选择。
Like, towards so many schools, but it was an easy choice.
当你知道了，你就知道了。
When you know, you know.
我对我的大学也是这种感觉。
That's kinda how I felt about my college too.
选大学也是个好话题。
That's another good one, choosing a college.
我去看了我的大学，在弗吉尼亚，比我长大的地方靠南多了。
I visited my college, which was in Virginia, so it was way further south than where I grew up.
那是个美丽的四月天，天气好得不得了，简直完美。
It was a beautiful April day, and the weather was incredible, impeccable.
校园也特别漂亮。
The campus was gorgeous.
这些表面上的东西，对吧。
All these kind of superficial things Mhmm.
让我觉得那就是最好的选择。
Drove me to believe it was the best choice.
但事后想想，我也不确定那是不是正确的决定，不过反正就是上了大学。
But I don't know if it was the right choice in hindsight, but it was college.
你懂吧？
You know?
我很喜欢我的大学经历。
I love my college experience.
还行吧。
It's okay.
是的。
Yeah.
但我确实有那种感觉，就是当你心里有数的时候，你就知道了。
But I did have that feeling like when you know, you know.
这就是适合我的地方。
This is the place for me.
你懂吗？
You know?
对。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
嗯，这挺有意思的，因为天气影响太大了。
Well, that's interesting because weather has such an impact Huge.
比如说，你要去看房子，或者决定喜不喜欢一个城镇，真的很难不考虑天气因素。因为，是啊，你在一个下雨天去逛一个地方，感觉会完全不一样；而换个地方，如果阳光明媚、景色宜人，人们都在外面散步，那感觉就截然不同了。
On when you know, if you're going to look at a house, if you're going to, let's see, if you like a town, if you're it's it's and you it's so hard to keep it in mind because, yeah, you go tour around an area on a rainy day, it's gonna feel so much different than if you go somewhere else and it's sunny and gorgeous and people are outside walking around.
确实是这样。
It's just yeah.
天气真的能给你制造错觉。
Weather weather can definitely play tricks on you.
说得太对了。
It's so true.
世界透过灰色的滤镜和明亮的蓝天白云滤镜，看起来完全不一样。
The world just looks so different through, yeah, the gray lens versus the bright, sunny blue sky lens.
真是不可思议。
It's just incredible.
任何旅行，你懂的，都是一样的道理，对吧？
Any trip, you know, when you travel is the same thing, right?
每次去旅行的时候，比如去年秋天我们去挪威，天气特别阴沉。
Anytime you're taking a trip somewhere, it's just, you know, when we went to Norway last fall, it was so gray.
特别阴沉。
It was so gray.
我觉得如果当时一直是蓝天白云的话，我们的体验会完全不一样。
And I think our experience would have been completely different if it was just blue skies all the time.
你说对吧？
You know?
对。
Yeah.
我不
I don't
知道。
know.
确实。
Sure.
那好吧。
So alright.
那么，米歇尔，我们之前提到过，这会不会有负面影响？
So, Michelle, can this ever be something negative we mentioned earlier?
是的。
Yeah.
再说一次，我们提到过可能会有，但我们俩都觉得总体上还是积极的。
Again, you know, we mentioned that it can be, but we both have this feeling of it's generally positive.
对。
Yeah.
我也这么认为。
I think so.
明白。
Mhmm.
但如果真有负面影响，那也就是一种感觉不对劲的直觉。
But if it is negative, it's just kind of this feeling that something's off, that gut feeling.
比如说，昨晚去相亲了，但那个人不适合我。
So for example, went on a blind date last night, but he wasn't for me.
当你心里有数的时候，自然就知道了。
When you know, you know.
对。
Yeah.
我觉得这说得通。
I mean, that makes sense.
这可以接受。
That's acceptable.
就像，没人会说，你用错了这个词。
Like, that would no one would be like, you're using that wrong.
对吧？
Right?
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
或者我们取消了航班。
Or we canceled our flight.
现在带孩子坐飞机实在太难了。
It's just too hard to fly with the kids right now.
你心里清楚的时候，自然就明白了。
When you know, you know.
所以这里就是，你有一种直觉，觉得事情会变得太麻烦。
So here you just you it's like you have an intuition that things will just be too much.
这就是你的直觉在告诉你。
It's just it's your gut feeling.
就是太过了。
It's just too much.
是的。
Yeah.
或者房子外面看起来很棒，但我们一眼就能看出里面状况不好。
Or the house looked great on the outside, but we could tell right away it was not in good shape on the inside.
当你明白的时候，你就明白了。
When you know, you know.
而且，你知道，你更像是在用这些方式，我觉得你更多是在玩味这个表达。
And, you know, you're more like, you're in these ways, I think you're more so just playing with the expression.
对。
Mhmm.
你用它的时候，是的，可能它听起来更充满希望和乐观，但你只是有点，
You're using it in a way that, yeah, maybe it generally sounds more hopeful and optimistic, but you're just kind of,
是的，
yeah,
在改变它。
changing it.
当然。
Sure.
没错。
For sure.
对。
Mhmm.
所以说到我们自己的经历，我觉得我也有过那种感觉，就是大学毕业后，我清楚地知道自己需要出国。
So in terms of experiences that we've had, I feel like I've had this feeling when I knew that I needed to go abroad after college, personally.
比如，我从小在美国的一个小镇长大，非常小，有点与世隔绝，我需要去看看外面的世界。
Like, I knew that I had grown up in a small town in The US, like very small, and I'd been a little bit sheltered and I needed to see the world.
我必须去一个大城市，所以我决定去东京。
I had to be in a big city, so I decided to go to Tokyo.
对吧？
Right?
我就是知道，当你明白的时候，你就明白自己需要走出去。
And I just knew when you know, you know that you need to get out.
你需要看看这个世界。
You need to see the world.
我内心有种强烈的直觉告诉我，我要去国外生活。
There's this real intuition inside me that said, I'm going to live abroad.
我要去一个跟美国截然不同的地方生活，对吧？
I'm going to live in some place that couldn't be more different than The US, which is too Right?
对。
Yeah.
那你觉得，你平时做决定时经常靠这种直觉吗？
I mean, would you say that you often have this intuition guiding you in your decisions?
还是说这种情况对你来说比较少见？
Or is it more rare for you?
你更多是——
Are you more,
哦，那我该怎么办？
oh, what do I do?
这挺难的。
It's tough.
我觉得随着年龄增长，理性思维越来越想压过直觉。
I think as I get older, the analytical mind really wants to come in and override the gut feeling more.
但我也觉得，随着经历增多，做了某些决定后，无论结果好坏，我反而越来越重视直觉了。
But I also feel like I also value the gut feeling more and more too as I as I get older, like with more experience of having made certain decisions and they went sideways or they were good.
现在就是两者平衡。
Now it's a balance.
我觉得我其实两者都有。
I think I have both actually.
你呢，米歇尔？
What about you, Michelle?
对。
Yeah.
我有时候也会这样。林赛，我们最近刚做了一期关于“为什么不”的节目。
I I I also I sometimes it's just kind of I mean, Lindsay, we just recently did an episode about why not?
你懂吧？
You know?
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有时候你确实会更开放一些。
Sometimes you do have this more of this openness.
也可能只是你生活中遇到的事情，让你更愿意去冒险，或者直接说‘好’。
It could also just be, you know, whatever's going on in your life Yeah.
对，就是那种感觉。
That it makes you feel more comfortable with taking those risks or just saying, yeah.
我就是能知道，对吧？
I I can I just know?
是的。
Yes.
是的。
Yes.
但没错。
But Right.
有时候是有风险的，你是这个意思吧。
Sometimes there's stakes is what you're saying.
对，就是这样。
Like, there Right.
是的。
Yes.
完全同意。
Totally.
完全同意。
Totally.
对。
Yeah.
所以我觉得，这完全取决于你当时的心态。
So I think it's just all you know, what's your perspective currently in that moment?
你生活中发生了什么？
What's been going on in your life?
你是不是有点害怕做决定？
Are you kind of afraid to make a decision?
你是不是更开放了？
Are you more open?
其实有很多因素在无形中引导着我们，我们自己都没意识到。
You know, there's a lot that could be guiding us so we don't even realize.
或者说
Or
我的决定会不会影响到其他人？
are there other people that are going to be affected what I'm going decide.
比如我24岁决定去日本的时候。
Like when I decided I had to go to Japan when I was 24.
嗯，我的意思是，我的决定不会对别人造成什么影响，对吧？
Well, I mean there's there's no one else would have any repercussion like there are no repercussions for anyone else, right?
如果事情不顺利，那也只是我自己的事，对吧？
If it didn't go well, it's just me, Right?
但如果你有一个四口或五口之家，你决定搬到国外，那影响就大多了，可能就没那么容易说走就走了。
Whereas if you have like a family of four or five and you decide you wanna move abroad, that's a much bigger might be less easy to just say, well, when you know, you know, we're going.
对。
Yeah.
没错。
Right.
是的。
Right.
对。
Right.
是的。
Yeah.
那我们来看一些意思相近的表达。
So let's show some expressions that are kinda similar.
好。
So Yeah.
这个也是用来描述这种感受的。
This one is to talk about also this feeling.
所以我就知道了。
So I just knew.
对吧？
Right?
对。
Mhmm.
面试一结束我就撤回了申请。
I withdrew my application right after the interview.
我就知道那地方不适合我。
I just knew it wasn't their place for me.
对。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
或者说，有种直觉告诉我。
Or something told me.
是的。
Yeah.
就像这个。
Like this one.
有种感觉告诉我，或者说当时有种感觉在告诉我。
Something tells me or something told me.
明白。
Mhmm.
他见我父母的时候，我就觉得他是对的人。
I could tell he was the one when he met my parents.
当时我就觉得我们注定要在一起。
Something told me we were meant to be together.
哦，那挺好的。
Oh, that's nice.
对。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
还有呢？
What else?
或者说，那个东西就是你的直觉、你的良心、或者随便你怎么称呼它。
Or and the the something is, you know, your intuition, your conscience, your whatever it is.
是的。
Yeah.
或者我打心底里就能感觉到。
Or I could feel it in my bones.
明白吗？
Okay?
这就是那种你能在内心深处感受到的东西。
This is where you can feel something very deep down.
没错。
Yes.
我就知道我们会成为最好的朋友。
I knew we would be best friends.
我打心底里就有这种感觉。
I could feel it in my bones.
我刚刚还在跟我朋友聊这个呢。
I was I was actually just talking to my friend about this.
我有个奇怪的本事，这辈子有过三次，光听对方的声音就能判断出我们会成为特别好的朋友。
I have a weird thing where I can tell I've had three moments in my life where I can tell I'm gonna be really good friends with someone by the sound of their voice.
哦，这挺有意思的。
Oh, that's interesting.
真酷。
That's cool.
对。
Yeah.
哇。
Wow.
就是他们的声音里有一种特别的东西。
Just there's there's a some there's something in their voice.
我前几天晚上刚跟我朋友说起这个，因为她是我新认识的朋友。
And I was just telling my friend that the other night because she's a newer friend.
我们到现在已经做朋友一年了吧。
We had we've been friends now, I guess, for a year already.
我们当时在回顾我们的友谊，我就说，我一听你的声音就知道我会喜欢你。
And I was just tell we were just reflecting on our friendship, and I said, I I I I knew that I was gonna like you right away because of the sound of your voice.
这确实挺有意思的。
Well, that's really interesting.
对。
Yeah.
她怎么说？
What did she say?
所以，
So,
对，没有。
yeah, no.
她觉得挺酷的。
She thought it was cool.
然后我跟她说了我生活中的其他经历，有时候我是先听到一个人的声音。
And then I told her about the other experiences in my life where I've heard sometimes it's that I hear someone's voice first.
比如，他们进门时我听到他们在说话，我就想，哦，我喜欢那个人。
Like, they are coming in the door and I hear them talking and I'm like, oh, I like that person.
是的，我能理解。
Yeah, I can see.
我觉得声音确实能让人直觉地感受到一个人的性格和个性，对吧？
I think there is something about voices that you can sort of have an intuition into their character, their personality, right?
对。
Mhmm.
真有意思，米歇尔。
That's fascinating, Michelle.
对，确实挺有意思的。
Yeah, it is interesting.
我觉得生物学给了我们这种直觉，对吧？
I think biology gave us this intuition, right?
我是说，这可能是从躲避老虎的时代就刻在我们骨子里的，那时候我们得凭直觉知道老虎要来了之类的，你懂吧？
I mean, We have this built in probably from the days of running from the tigers that we had an intuition a tiger was coming for us or something, you know?
我觉得这没什么神奇的。
Like it's I don't think there's anything magical about this.
这非常基本，也很人性化。
This is very basic and human.
没错。
Right.
是的。
Right.
完全正确。
Exactly.
但我觉得表达出来对建立联系特别好，因为这是一种大家都能感同身受的普遍情感。
But to express this is just really good for connection, I think, because it's a universal feeling that people can relate.
对，没错。
Oh, yeah.
我以前也有过那种感觉。
I've also had that feeling before.
分享自己的经历、讲故事是件好事。
It's good to share about yourself, to tell stories.
这里面内容可多了。
There's so much.
对，这简直就是建立联系的宝库。
Oh yeah, this is like a gold mine for connection.
我们现在做的就很有意思，可以了解彼此的生活、关键时刻、重要决定以及我们是怎么做出这些决定的。
Just what we're doing now is really interesting because we can learn about a lot about each other's lives, about the key moments, the key decisions we made, and how we made them.
是的。
Yeah.
对吧？
Right?
对。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
分享自己的故事确实很有用。
It really can share your story.
那我们来做个角色扮演吧。
So let's do a role play.
在这个角色扮演里，我买了一辆新车，正在给你看。
In this role play, I got a new car and I am showing you.
好的。
Okay.
这车真漂亮。
This is gorgeous.
哦，谢谢。
Oh, thank you.
我很喜欢。
I love it.
那你是怎么选到这辆车的？
So how did you choose it?
哦，那天我其实没打算买车，但一看到它，我就觉得就是它了。
Oh, I wasn't actually planning on buying a car that day, but when I saw it, something told me this was the one.
嗯，感觉对了就是对了。
Well, when you know, you know.
是的。
Yeah.
没错。
Exactly.
一个月前我也看过几辆车，但就是觉得它们不适合我。
I saw a few other cars a month ago, but I just knew they weren't right for me.
听起来你骨子里就有这种感觉。
Sounds like you could feel it in your bones.
没错。
Exactly.
是的。
Yeah.
而且，对，这个也可以用来买车。
And, yeah, and this this could be used for buying a car too.
这个稍微便宜一点。
It's a little bit less.
我的意思是，我们一直在聊那些大事，比如搬家、领养狗、或者再生个孩子之类的。
I mean, we've been talking about, like, the big things of, you know, moving or, like, adopting a dog or having another child or something.
对吧？
Right?
嗯。
Mhmm.
但这个方法也能用在稍微肤浅一点的事情上。
But this could work too for something slightly more superficial.
对吧？
Right?
比如买车。
Like buying a car.
对。
Yeah.
对吧？
Right?
嗯，我觉得它其实是用一种有趣的方式，你知道，
Well, and I think that it kind of was used in a fun way, you know,
有点像开玩笑。
like Sort of joking.
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
就像你说的，我觉得是你把这个话题带到了那个方向。我说那天本来没打算买车，但一看到它，心里就觉得就是它了。
Like you said, I think you were the one who kinda moved it into so I said I wasn't planning on buying a car that day, but some when I saw it, something told me this was the one.
是的。
Yes.
然后你说，当你遇到对的东西时，你自然就知道了。
And then you said when you know, you know.
我觉得你这么说，是因为我说了‘就是它了’这句话。
And I think you said that because I said that this was the one.
对。
Yeah.
就好像我们在把这辆车浪漫化，把它当成伴侣一样。
Like, we're like romanticizing this car like it's a partner.
哦，这真的很有意思，这里面的门道不少。
Oh, so that's really interesting what's going on here.
这场对话的潜台词是，对，这其实是个很表面的话题。
The undertones of this conversation is, yeah, it's basically a superficial topic.
你选了这辆车。
You chose this car.
好。
Okay.
它就是个车。
It's a car.
就是一堆金属。
It's metal.
对吧？
Right?
但你说“就是它了”的时候，又给这件事添了点梦幻色彩。
But then you triggered a bit more of a dreaminess to it when you said this was the one.
而这句话通常是用来说另一半的。
And usually that's used to talk about your partner.
对吧？
Right?
是的。
Yes.
真有意思。
So interesting.
对。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
明白。
Mhmm.
所以，是的，你算是接过了这个任务。
So, yeah, you kinda took it on to to do that.
哦，当你知道了就是知道了，几乎把它说得像是一个浪漫的决定。
Oh, well, when you know you know, almost to make it like it was a romantic decision.
是的。
Yes.
有意思。
Interesting.
所以你又说了，有种感觉告诉你这就是那个对的人。
So again, you said something told me this was the one.
对。
Mhmm.
然后我说，当你知道了，你就知道了。
And then I said, when you know, you know.
所以我是在稍微调侃你一下。
So I'm kinda teasing you a little bit.
对吧？
Right?
我是在调侃，是的。
I'm teasing Yes.
是的。
Yeah.
没错。
Exactly.
然后我说，没错。
And then I said, exactly.
所以我觉得挺好笑的，因为你用这个词的方式有点开玩笑的意思。
So and I'm kinda laughing at that because it's kind of a joke the way you used it.
我说，一个月前我也看过几辆车，但我就知道它们不适合我。
And I said, I saw a few other cars a month ago, but I just knew they weren't right for me.
对。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
现在我们还在延续同一个话题。
Now we're continuing the same theme.
对吧？
Right?
嗯。
Mhmm.
那会让它比原本更重。
It would making it heavier than it might be.
听起来你都能从骨子里感觉到。
Sounds like you could feel it in your bones.
对吧？
Right?
所以那就是
So that's
对。
Yeah.
所以我就有这种直觉。
So I have this intuition.
对。
Yeah.
我是说，有些人真的对自己的车特别认真。
I mean, people are very, like some people are very serious about their cars.
有些人还给自己的车起名字。
Some people name their cars.
是的。
Yeah.
当然。
Sure.
对吧？
Right?
所以有些人确实会，你知道，有些人谈论自己的车时就像在说一个人一样。
So they do, you know, they do some people just talk about their cars in a way like they're a person.
哦，对。
Oh, yeah.
不是。
No.
而且我们今年深入聊了很多关于汽车的话题，我真的很高兴。
And we and we've done and I'm really glad we went into cars so much this year.
我想大概是去年秋天开始的吧。
I think maybe it was it last fall.
对。
Yeah.
我们做了一整个系列
Did a whole series
关于美国文化中的汽车。
on cars in American culture.
是的。
Yeah.
米歇尔刚才说的可能听起来有点奇怪，但这确实是我们文化中很重要的一部分。
Might seem weird, right, what Michelle just said, but it is really a big part of our culture.
这要追溯到亨利·福特。
It goes back to Henry Ford.
我的意思是，看看二战后美国修建高速公路的历史就知道了。
I mean, like, just go through the history of highways built in America post World War two.
对吧？
Right?
影响非常大。
It's huge.
了解这一点真的很重要。
I mean, really important to know that.
所以，是的，有些美国人确实把车当宝贝一样对待。
And so, yeah, some Americans definitely treat their cars like like their baby in some ways.
没错。
Exactly.
对。
Yeah.
听起来挺疯狂的。
It seems crazy.
好了，各位。
Alright, guys.
去听第2627期吧，你在学英语的时候是不是总是求稳？
Go to 2627, do you play it safe when it comes to your English?
如果你喜欢我们的风格，那期节目也很棒，现在就可以去听。
That's another great episode to go to right now if you love our vibe.
对吧？
Alright?
太喜欢了。
Love it.
好的。
Alright.
Lindsay，今天还有什么想分享的吗？
Lindsay, any other takeaways for today?
我觉得我们这里已经讲得很全面了，米歇尔。
I think we've got it all right here, Michelle.
我们每个人都有这种直觉。
We all have this intuition.
去感受它、表达它，然后用不同的方式说出来，这很有趣——比如有人可能没在谈论某件对你来说很直觉的事，但你可以把它变成那样。
It's fun to get in touch with it, and then to articulate it, and then to speak in different levels of maybe someone's not talking about something that to you seems like it would be this intuitive thing, but you can make it that way.
你可以稍微调侃一下对方。
You can tease someone a little bit.
我们能做的事情其实很多。
There's a lot we can do here.
对吧？
Alright?
对。
Yeah.
哦，太有意思了。
Oh, super fun.
好的，林赛。
Alright, Lindsay.
好了，该下麦了。
Well, time to jump off the mic.
我回头
I'll talk
再跟你聊。
to you later.
好的。
Okay.
再见，米歇尔。
Bye, Michelle.
祝你今天过得愉快。
Have a good day.
好的。
Alright.
再见。
Bye.
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Thanks for listening to All Ears English.
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