AEE 2663：4种像专家一样使用讽刺的方法

欢迎收听《全耳英语》播客，这是第2663期节目。

This is an All Ears English Podcast episode twenty six sixty three.

四种方法，让你像高手一样运用讽刺。

Four ways to use sarcasm like a pro.

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Are you feeling stuck with your English?

我们会教你如何不再害怕、流利表达，专注于交流，而不是追求完美。

We'll show you how to become fearless and fluent by focusing on connection, not perfection.

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With your American host, Michelle Kaplan, the New York radio girl, and Aubrey Carter, the IELTS whiz, coming to you from Arizona and New York City, USA.

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今天，你会学到四个超棒的英语短语。

Today, you'll learn four amazing English phrases.

真是意想不到啊。

Surprise, surprise.

我们会分享如何用这些短语，以一种有趣又带点讽刺的方式，来表达某件事出乎意料。

We'll share how these can be used to share that something is unexpected in a fun, sarcastic way.

你有没有过这样的经历：用英语聊完天后，心想，我明明能说得更好。

Have you ever finished a conversation in English and thought, I know I can say that better.

你完全听懂了对方说的每一句话。

You understood everything that was said.

你也有想法、有观点，甚至还想开个玩笑。

You had ideas, opinions, maybe even a joke.

但轮到你开口时，你的回答却比预想的简短，或者比你用母语表达时更平淡。

But when it was your turn to speak, your answer came out shorter than you wanted or more basic than how you would say it in your own language.

这种情况往往是因为你的理解能力比口语表达能力要强。

This happens when your understanding is stronger than your speaking fluency.

好消息是，这种差距很常见，一旦你清楚自己的水平，就很容易弥补。

The good news, that gap is very common and very fixable once you know exactly where you are.

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That's allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore.

你好，Michelle。

Hello, Michelle.

你怎么样？

How are you?

嗨，Aubrey。

Hi, Aubrey.

我挺好的。

I'm doing well.

奥布里，你喜欢惊喜吗？

Aubrey, do you like surprises?

我特别喜欢惊喜。

I love surprises.

我超级喜欢惊喜。

I am a huge fan of surprises.

我的梦想就是有人能给我办一个我完全没察觉到的惊喜派对。

Like it is my dream for someone to throw me a surprise party that I don't see coming.

可惜到现在还没实现。

It's yet to happen.

别告诉我老公，他曾经给我办过一次惊喜派对，我假装不知道，但有些事露了馅。

Don't tell my husband, but he threw me a surprise party once that I pretended I did not know about, something happened that gave it away.

不过我想让他开心，让他以为真的惊喜到我了。

But I wanted him to be happy that he had surprised me.

我就假装很惊喜的样子。

I pretended to be surprised.

我太兴奋了。

I'm so excited.

我从来没告诉过他。

I've never told him.

这次也一样。

This is the same.

你说真的吗？

Are you serious?

希望他别

Hope that he doesn't

听到这期节目，因为他确实不知道。

hear this episode because he doesn't.

他以为我当时很惊喜，但其实我完全知道。

He thinks that I was surprised, but I totally knew.

哎呀。

Aw.

真不敢相信你从来没告诉过他。

I can't believe you never told him.

你挺坚强的。

That's pretty you're strong.

因为我觉得这

Because I think it

会伤他的感情。

would hurt his feelings.

他当时特别兴奋，以为自己真的给了我一个惊喜。

He was so excited to have surprised me.

我当时只是特别开心他费心给我准备惊喜，所以我也表现得很高兴，其实我早就知道了，但有人愿意花心思给我惊喜，这本身就让我很开心，因为做到这点真的不容易。

And I was just so happy he had tried to surprise me that I was so happy that I was still like it's not like I was told I was excited that anyone had even tried to surprise me because it's hard to do.

办一场惊喜派对确实很难。

It's hard to pull off a surprise party.

确实。

Definitely.

是的。

Yes.

对。

Yeah.

这确实不容易。

It's tricky.

说不定哪天我真的会成功，是的。

Day maybe I'll actually be Yes,

希望如此。

I hope so.

所以今天我们要聊一个和“惊喜”这个词有关的趣味表达。

So today we're gonna talk about a funny little expression with the word surprise.

我觉得这个也很重要，正好复习一下，奥布里，surprise这个词怎么拼？

So just I I thought that this was important too, just to review because, Aubrey, how do we spell surprise?

哦，对。

Oh, yeah.

那里有个不发音的r。

There's a silent r there.

对吧？

Right?

是s-u-r，傻乎乎的。

It's s u r silly.

t-r-i-s-e。

T r I s e.

我们其实不读那个r。

And we don't really say that r.

我们不会读成sur prise。

We don't say sur prise.

Sur prise。

Sur prise.

Sur，那样说挺费劲的。

Sur It would be hard to say that.

所以我们不能说‘surprise’，直接说‘对’就行了。

So we can't say surprise and just Yeah.

忽略第一个音。

Ignore that first

我觉得有时候母语者也会拼错这个词，可能是因为……

I think sometimes native speakers spell this wrong just because Maybe.

你明白吗？

You know?

干脆就别发那个r音了。

Just don't go with that r at all.

是的。

So yeah.

有意思。

Interesting.

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那我们开始吧。

So let's hop to it.

奥布里，今天的表达是什么？

So Aubrey, what is the expression for today?

是‘惊喜，惊喜’。

It's surprise, surprise.

我们通常会用那种很有趣的语调来说。

And we usually use really fun intonation like that.

我经常说这个。

I say this a lot.

我也经常听到。

I hear it a lot.

你呢，米歇尔？

What about you, Michelle?

是的。

Yeah.

当然。

Absolutely.

我觉得这就是这期节目的灵感来源。

I think that's what inspired this episode.

我可能说过，也可能听过，对，就是这样。

I probably said it or heard it or yeah.

这很有意思，因为它到底是什么意思呢？

This is interesting because what does it actually mean?

我的意思是，它是讽刺的吗？

I mean, it sarcastic?

还是真心的？

Is it genuine?

它到底是

What is

什么？

it?

这非常讽刺。

It's very sarcastic.

如果是真心的，你只会说一次‘惊喜’。

If it's genuine, you're gonna say surprise once.

惊喜。

Surprise.

如果说两次，而且通常用这种语气，那就总是讽刺的。

If you say it twice, and usually with this tone, but, like, there's just it's always sarcastic.

真有意思。

That's funny.

它的意思是我一点都不惊讶。

It means I'm not at all surprised.

我会说

I'm gonna say

惊喜、惊喜、惊喜，而且你必须用那种语气说。

surprise, surprise, surprise, and you have to say it like that.

对。

Yes.

没错。

Exactly.

所以这并不意外。

So it's not a surprise.

实际上，这还挺容易预见的。

In fact, it was quite predictable, actually.

对我来说，它多少带点讽刺的意味，虽然也不总是这样。

And to me, it has almost a little bit, not always necessarily, but of a snarky connotation.

完全同意。

So Absolutely.

我的意思是，除非你和对方关系很亲近，否则我不会用这个词。

I mean, I wouldn't use it about someone unless you're close to them.

是的。

Right.

或者你可以用在自己身上，或者不是人的东西上。

Or you could use it about yourself or something that isn't a person.

对吧？

Right?

所以它可能带有冒犯性。

So it could be offensive.

因为比如，我丈夫想给我惊喜，但我其实并不惊讶，我绝对不会说‘惊喜惊喜’这种话。

Because so for example, when my husband tried to surprise me and I wasn't actually surprised, I would never have been like surprise surprise.

那也太没礼貌了。

That would be so rude.

太没礼貌了。

So rude.

我绝对不会那么做。

I never would.

所以是的，更像是如果我喝咖啡迟到，而且我总是迟到，对方是好朋友的话，他们可能会说‘哎呀，你果然又没准时到’。

So yeah, it might be more like if I'm late to coffee and I'm always late and it's a close friend, they might be like, surprise, surprise, you're not on time.

他们的意思就是，这在意料之中，但带着点调侃，不过根据具体情况，也可能非常无礼和伤人。

They're just like, this is expected, but it's playful, but it could be super rude and hurtful depending on the context.

没错。

Exactly.

那我们来做几个例子吧。

So let's do some examples.

这里有一个。

So here's one.

火车又晚点了。

The train is late again.

意料之中啊。

Surprise, surprise.

所以这永远是在说火车不好。

So it's always gonna offend the train.

对。

Right.

所以你可以用这个说法。

So you can use it.

对。

Right.

没错。

Exactly.

但如果是拼车接你上班的人，他们总是迟到，那你要是说'你又迟到了，真意外啊'，那就太不礼貌了。

But if it's like the person who picks you up for work in a carpool, if they're always late, it would be so rude to be like, you're late again.

真意外啊。

Surprise, surprise.

他们就会说，'我可是来接你的。'

And they'll be like, I'm picking you up.

你怎么不自己？

How about you get?

来

Show

有点道理。

a little bit of right.

路上堵车了。

Traffic was bad.

别这样嘛。

Give me a break.

对。

Yeah.

或者再举个例子。

Or here's another one.

所以我说，你可以用在自己身上。

So again, I said you can use it about yourself.

比如，我又找不到手机了。

So for example, I can't find my phone again.

意料之中。

Surprise.

没想到吧。

Surprise.

所以这就像是‘这太像我’了。

So it's like This is so me.

自嘲一下。

Self deprecating.

我不知道你怎么样，米歇尔，但我最近老是在找手机。

Don't I know about you, Michelle, but I'm constantly trying to find my phone lately.

我觉得是更年期脑雾，我承认这一点。

I think it's the perimenopausal brain fog, I'm going to admit that.

但前几天我老公说，你要不在家里选两个地方放手机？

But I, so the other day my husband was like, What if you choose like two places in the house to put it?

这样你就知道那两个地方可以找到。结果我的回答是，你能不能别老想着解决问题，直接帮我找手机？

So you always know those are the two places that you can And find my response was, can you stop trying to fix it and just help me find my phone?

我们迟到了。

We are late.

我们得走了。

We need to go.

那建议其实挺好的，我该听进去。对，我老是在找手机。

That was really good advice and I need to take it Yeah, always looking for my phone.

哦，我懂那种感觉。

Oh yeah, I get that.

你有没有过一边打电话一边找手机的经历？

Do you ever look up for your phone while you're on the phone?

就是手里拿着的时候？

While I'm holding it?

是的。

Yes.

对。

Yeah.

就像，手机去哪儿了……

Like where did

我的手机呢？

I go my phone?

就在我手里。

It's in my hand.

对。

Yeah.

那是最糟糕的。

That's the worst.

就是那种时刻，你意识到自己正拿着手机，却在到处找它。

That's when you have that moment where you realize that you're holding your phone and you're looking for it.

是的。

Yeah.

或者我找不到我的太阳镜，结果它们就在

Or I can't find my sunglasses and they're up on

我头上。

my head.

对。

Yeah.

确实是这样。

It's a yes.

这真是个让人谦虚的时刻。

It's a humbling moment.

确实挺让人谦虚的。

It is humbling.

感觉还挺有意思的。

Like, that's fun.

那确实挺有意思的。

That was fun.

刚才那是怎么回事？

What just happened there?

是的。

Yeah.

没错。

Exactly.

或者再举个例子。

Or here's another one.

他又放我们鸽子了。

He canceled us on us again.

惊喜吧。

Surprise.

惊喜吧。

Surprise.

所以，对，你不会当面跟对方这么说，但我觉得，如果你只是评论我们之间的关系，那倒还好。

So, yeah, you wouldn't say that to the person, but I mean, I guess if you're just commenting on us relationship.

对吧？

Right?

如果是我哥，我们关系很铁，他老放鸽子，我可能会说，哦，又放我鸽子了。

If it were my brother and we're really close and he's always canceling, I might be like, Oh, canceling on me again.

惊喜惊喜，因为这样很调皮。

Surprise surprise because it's playful.

这要看关系如何，以及话有多伤人。比如我丈夫，如果他花了很多心思准备惊喜，特别兴奋地想给我惊喜，我觉得最好的做法就是像我那样，假装很惊喜，并对他的付出表示感激，而不是说‘哦，是要付钱吗？’

It depends on the relationship and how mean it because if it's something like my husband, like if he's put a lot of work into the surprise and he's so excited to surprise me, I think the nice thing to do is what I did is to pretend I'm surprised and be so grateful for their effort instead of being like, oh, is it paying out?

真有意思，这完全取决于情况。

It's so interesting how it just depends.

有时候可能很无礼，有时候只是闹着玩。

Sometimes it could be rude and sometimes it's just playful.

对。

Yeah.

没错。

Exactly.

那我们来做几个角色扮演吧。

So let's do a couple little role plays.

好的。

Alright.

对。

Yeah.

你，你

You you

先开始吧。

can start us out.

好的。

Yep.

哦，天哪。

Oh gosh.

我工作太投入了，完全陷进去了。

I got caught up caught up in my work.

老板又给我临时加了个截止日期。

My boss assigned me a last minute deadline again.

果然不出所料。

Surprise, surprise.

我觉得你应该跟他谈谈。

I feel like you should have a talk with him.

对，那是个

Yeah, that's a

很好的例子，对吧？

good example, right?

如果你经常跟别人抱怨你约会的人或者老板之类的，听你抱怨的人很可能会开始看出规律，然后对你失去尊重。

If you're venting a lot about someone you're dating or a boss or something, whoever you're venting to is going to start probably like seeing the patterns and losing respect.

所以他们可能会说这样的话：'果然不出所料'。

So they might say something like this, surprise, surprise.

你总跟我说你对这个人有多不满。

You're always telling me how frustrated you are with this person.

是的。

Yeah.

完全正确。

Exactly.

或者再来一个例子。

Or here's another one.

好的。

Alright.

我们去哪家餐厅好呢？

Which restaurant should we go to?

我又在凯拉家订了位子。

I kind of made a reservation at Kayla's again.

惊喜吧。

Surprise.

惊喜吧。

Surprise.

我们好像就是

We can't seem

离不开那个地方。

to stay away from that place.

那家店最棒了。

It's the best.

所以这算是一种积极的说法。

So that's like a a positive way.

我的意思是，你好像有点在拿我们开玩笑。

I mean, you're like, we're kinda making Oh, fun of

我们很惊讶你又要去那里，因为那是你总想去的地方，这也不是坏事。

us shocked you wanna go there again because it's where you always wanna go, and it's not a bad thing.

只是觉得好玩而已。

It's just fun.

就像《宋飞正传》里那样。

It's like on Seinfeld.

就像，他们总是……我们是在说《老友记》。

Like, they're always we're on Friends.

就像，他们总去同一个地方。

Like, they're always going to the same place.

惊喜吧。

Surprise.

惊喜吧。

Surprise.

我在这儿找到你了。

I'm finding you here.

对吧？

Right?

惊喜，惊喜。

Surprise, surprise.

我们又来中央公园了。

We're at Central Park again.

对。

Yes.

没错。

Exactly.

我是说，奥布里，你在日常生活中有没有跟谁或者什么场合用过这个的例子？

I mean, Aubrey, are there any examples of who or what you might use this with in your daily life?

有。

Yes.

我刻意努力不对孩子们那么讽刺，尽管他们的幽默感正在发展。

I have made a conscious effort to not be as sarcastic with my children, even though their senses of humor are developing more.

有时候我会用这种讽刺的语气开玩笑，结果却伤了他们的感情。

There have been times where I would say something like this sarcastically trying to be playful and it hurts their feelings.

所以我意识到，我得等等看，但如果是同龄的朋友，我们之间有那种关系，我知道他们不会觉得讽刺有什么伤害，所以这真的取决于很多不同的因素。

So I'm realizing like I need to wait like but it's different if it's friends my age where we have that relationship I know they're going to realize like there's no hurt in the sarcasm so it depends so much on so many different things.

但我对我姐姐，我就非常爱讽刺。

But my sister, I'm very sarcastic with my sister.

所以如果她说要来看我然后又取消了，我就会说‘惊喜吧，惊喜’。

So if she were to tell me she was coming to visit and then canceled, I'd be like surprise, surprise.

就像我会说，我压根就没把它记在日历上。

Like I'd be like, I didn't even have it in my calendar.

就这么点信任。

That's how much

我就知道你会取消。

I expected you to cancel.

对，没错，就是这样。

Yeah, yep, yep, exactly.

真有意思。

That's funny.

是啊。

Yeah.

对我来说，我经常很难准时送儿子上学，我街对面的邻居也总是送孩子迟到。

For me, I mean, I I often have trouble getting my son to school on time, and my neighbor across the street, she also does with her child.

所以我可以想象对她说，因为我们有时候会在接送区碰见，然后总是说，看到对方就觉得安心多了。

And so what I could I could imagine saying to her because we sometimes will see each other in the drop off line, and then we we always say, oh, we feel better when we see the other one.

哦，果然不出所料。

Oh, surprise surprise.

所以我能想象自己。

So I could see myself.

对。

Yeah.

就像，惊喜。

Like, surprise.

看看是谁来了。

Look look who it is.

对吧？

Right?

所以，是的，那种情况用这个挺合适的。

So, yeah, that that could be good for that situation.

没错。

Yes.

想象一下和母语者进行快速对话的场景。

Imagine being in a fast conversation with native speakers.

有人快速说了一句，另一个人就接上了，大家立刻都有反应。

Someone makes a quick comment, another person jumps in, everyone reacts instantly.

等你完全消化了刚才的话，对话早就跳到别的话题了。

And by the time you've fully processed what was said, the conversation has already moved on.

并不是你听不懂英语。

It's not that you don't understand English.

而是真实的对话节奏很快，有俚语、语气变化和插话。

It's that real conversations move quickly with slang, tone changes, and interruptions.

流利意味着你能跟上并参与这种自然的节奏。

When you are fluent, it means being able to follow and participate in that natural rhythm.

第一步是了解你目前的英语水平。

The first step is understanding your current English level.

来做我们快速的两分钟流利度小测验，看看你处在哪个阶段。

Take our quick free two minute fluency quiz and see exactly where you are.

访问 allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore 参加测验。

Go to allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore to take the quiz.

网址是 allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore。

That's allearsenglish.comfluencyscore.

好的，Aubrey。

Okay, Aubrey.

那么，为什么这对建立联系这么有用呢？

So why is this so useful for connection?

这很有意思，因为有时候我们使用讽刺，是想稍微表达一点批评，或者指出对方做的某件让人沮丧或烦人的事情，但同时又想用轻松幽默的方式说出来。

It's interesting because sometimes when often we use sarcasm because we are trying to have the tiniest bit of either criticism or pointing out something that someone's doing that's frustrating or annoying, but we're trying to do it in a playful lighthearted way.

我不会直接生气地说‘你总是迟到喝咖啡’，而是可能会说‘哎呀，真意外啊’。

Where I wouldn't say to them, you are always late to coffee, like an annoyed way, but I might be like, surprise, surprise.

你又迟到了。

You're late again.

我仍然指出了这一点，但用的是轻松的方式，希望不会伤害到彼此的关系。

I'm still pointing it out, but in a light hearted way that hopefully is not going to hurt the connection.

是的。

Yeah.

对。

Yeah.

这挺有意思的。

It's interesting.

我是说，是的，这可以用来表达同感。

I mean, yeah, this is it can be used to commiserate.

你知道吗？

You know?

它可以用来评论某些问题。

It can be used to make commentaries on certain issues.

我是说，甚至在新闻里。

I mean, even in the news.

对吧？

Right?

就像，没错。

Like Right.

某些事情发生了，而且正是某人的一贯作风。

Something happens that is expected from someone.

意外吧。

Surprise.

意外吧。

Surprise.

又来了。

This happened again.

试试看。

Try something.

所以呢，对，它经常用来谈论习惯、某事物的品质，或者像我说过的，新闻周期、自嘲这些。

So but, yeah, it can be used commonly to talk about things like habits or quality of something or, like I said, the news cycle, self deprecation.

你觉得还有什么对我现在来说很重要的吗？

Anything else you think is important for me now?

我想说，最近我越来越频繁地提到父权制——我知道这话题比较敏感，每个人想法不同，不同文化也不一样——但如果有件事我觉得跟父权制有关，我就会跟朋友指出来，说，对吧？

I'm going to say, lately, more and more patriarchy which I know is calm you know and everyone had kind of has different ideals and it's different for every culture but more and more I will like point out to a friend if something happens that I feel is in some way related to the patriarchy, I'll say, right?

比如遇到什么事，我觉得自己受到的尊重比如果是男人时要少一点，我就会跟朋友说，果然不出所料。

If something happens where I feel like I'm treated with a little bit less respect than I would if I were a man, for example, I might say to a friend, surprise, surprise.

我尽量不为此生气。

And I'm trying not to be upset about it.

我意识到自己不会对别人生气，因为我知道我们都成长在同一个体系里。

I'm recognizing I'm not getting upset about people because I recognize we all grew up in the same system.

事情就是这样。

It's just sort of the way it is.

我会稍微反抗或推一下，但我也明白，这多少有点无可奈何。

And I'll kind of fight against or push against it a little bit, but I'm recognizing kinda it is what it is a little bit.

这时候我可能会说，果然不出所料。

And this I might say this, just like surprise, surprise.

不出所料。

Surprise.

对。

Yeah.

对。

Yeah.

这是个好例子。

That's a good example.

果然不出所料。

Surprise, surprise.

父权制确实存在。

The patriarchy exists.

不过好吧。

But okay.

嗯，还有一些话也有类似的感觉。

Well, there are here are some things you might also say that have the same feel.

第一个是“震惊”或“那真让人震惊”。

So the first one is shocker or that's a shocker.

是的。

Yes.

对吧？

Right?

比如，蒂姆又忘了带午饭去学校。

For example, Tim forgot to bring his lunch to school again.

真是没想到。

Shocker.

对吧？

Right?

这些表达很有意思，可以很轻松、很幽默，但也可能显得很生硬。

These are so interesting because they can be playful and lighthearted, but they can really come across as brusque.

就是说，有点粗鲁，很挑剔。

We'll say like kind of rude, really critical.

所以我觉得用这些词一定要小心。

So I would be careful with all of these for sure.

确实得小心，没错。

You have to be yes, exactly.

感觉我策划了好多期节目，都在说‘哦，但我们得小心点’。

Feel like I plan a lot of episodes where it's like, Oh, but we have to be careful.

对，我们确实得小心。

Yes, we have to be we do

我们会这么说，也会听到别人这么说。

say this and we will hear this.

我们在情景喜剧里会看到这种场景，但在现实生活中，如果我认识一位妈妈经常不给孩子带午饭之类的，另一位妈妈对我说‘哦，蒂姆又忘带午饭了’，我绝对不会对那位妈妈说‘真意外’。

We'll see it on sitcoms, but in real life, if I knew a mom who often didn't send their kid to school with lunch or whatever, And another mom said to me, oh, Tim forgot to bring to school that I would never say to that mom, shocker.

那样太没礼貌了，等于是在暗中批评对方的育儿方式或者那个孩子什么的。

Like, that's so rude to, like, make this sort of unspoken criticism of the parenting or that child or whatever.

是的。

Right.

但如果你是——

But if you were if

如果你是对自己的孩子说，比如你的孩子总是习惯性忘带东西，你总得给他送过去，那你可能会对科尔说，‘你知道，也许……’

you were saying it to your if your child had, like, a constant habit of forgetting something and you always had to drop it off, you might say to Cole, like, you know Maybe.

对。

Yeah.

也许吧。

Maybe.

我不会对孩子、别的家长或别的孩子说，但可能会对我伴侣说，或者对自己说，比如‘我又忘了给威尔带午餐，真没想到’。

I wouldn't say it to my child or to another parent or another child, but I might say it to my partner just kind of like, or about myself especially like, I forgot to send a lunch with Will again, shocker.

我是在说自己，当然是自嘲。

I'm saying it about me like self deprecating for sure.

没错。

Right.

我觉得自嘲几乎总是最常见的。

I think self deprecating is pretty much always the most common.

我经常这么做，结果听起来就像你讨厌自己一样。

Do it all the time, and then you just sound like you hate yourself.

所以我们得小心点。

So we have to be careful