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这里是《全耳英语》播客,第2697期。
This is an All Ears English podcast, episode 2697.
你遵循五秒规则吗?
Do you follow the five-second rule?
欢迎收听《全耳英语》播客,下载量已超过两亿次。
Welcome to the All Ears English podcast, downloaded more than 200 million times.
你是不是觉得英语学习卡住了?
Are you feeling stuck with your English?
我们会教你如何变得无所畏惧、流利自如,专注于交流,而不是追求完美。
We'll show you how to become fearless and fluent by focusing on connection, not perfection.
由你的美国主持人奥布里·卡特,雅思专家,和林赛·麦克马洪,英语冒险家,从美国亚利桑那州和科罗拉多州为你带来。
With your American host, Aubrey Carter, the IELTS Wiz, and Lindsay McMahon, the English Adventurer, coming to you from Arizona and Colorado, USA.
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To get real-time transcripts right on your phone and create your personalized vocabulary list, try the All Ears English app for iOS and Android.
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Start your seven-day free trial at allearsenglish.com/app.
你们家是进门脱鞋还是穿着鞋?
Are you a shoes-on or shoes-off household?
如果薯片掉在地上,你还会捡起来吃吗?
If a chip drops on the floor, will you still eat it?
今天,我们来聊一个很棒的文化话题,方便大家交流。
Today, let's open up a great cultural topic for connection.
你有没有遇到过这种情况?
Has this ever happened to you?
你正说着话,突然发现自己语速慢了下来。
You're mid-sentence, and you hear yourself slow down.
你开始简化表达。
You simplify.
你回避了真正想用的那个词。
You avoid the word you actually want.
这种时刻在会议、面试和日常对话中不断累积。
That moment adds up in meetings, interviews, and everyday conversations.
这会让你感到压力很大,甚至觉得孤立无援。
It weighs on you and makes you feel isolated.
建立真正的联系就变得更难了。
It becomes harder to make real connections.
我们免费的2分钟流利度测试能帮你找出是什么打断了你的表达和人际联系,以及如何解决。
Our free two-minute fluency quiz helps you identify what interrupts your flow and your connections, and how to fix it.
你会得到你的英语水平等级,B1、B2或C1,并且知道接下来该怎么提升。
You'll get your English level, B1, B2, or C1, and you'll figure out where to go from here.
现在就去 allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore 开始吧。
Start now at allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore.
网址是 allearsenglish.com/F-L-U-E-N-C-Y-S-C-O-R-E。
That's allearsenglish.com/F-L-U-E-N-C-Y-S-C-O-R-E.
嘿,奥布里。
Hey there, Aubrey.
今天怎么样?
How's it going today?
我很好,Lindsay。
I'm great, Lindsay.
你好吗?
How are you?
我很好,但我有个问题。
Good, but I have a question.
准备好了吗?
You ready?
是的。
Yes.
好的。
All right.
那么,你遵循五秒规则吗?
So, do you follow the five-second rule?
哦,对于干的食物,比如饼干,我会的——
Ooh, I do for dry foods, like a cracker-
啊,好的。
Ah, okay
……比如一颗爆米花。
... a piece of popcorn.
我会捡起来直接放进嘴里。
I will pick it up and put it right in my mouth.
但是如果是那种……
But nothing-
当然。
Sure
……湿的,比如奶酪之类的。
... like wet, like cheese or something.
我可能会……
I might-
啊。
Ah
你知道,就把它扔进垃圾桶。
... you know, throw that in the bin.
因为上面可能会沾上东西,对吧?
Because it could get things on it, right?
对,我也这么觉得。
Yeah, I feel like.
你呢?
What about you?
我们总能给自己找理由。
We justify everything.
我确实会遵守这个规则,真的。
I do follow it, for sure.
但如果是洒了酸奶在地上,我不会说‘五秒规则’然后捡起来吃。
But yeah, not if I spill some kind of... If I spill yogurt on the floor, I'm not going to say, "Five-second rule."
你不会去舔地板的。
You're not going to lick it off the floor.
我特别好奇,全世界的人是不是都知道这个“五秒规则”,其他国家、其他文化里有没有这个说法。
I'm so curious if people around the world know what this is, the five-second rule, if this exists in other countries, other cultures.
有的。
Yes.
在美国这边,“五秒规则”就是说,如果你把食物掉在地上,你有五秒钟的时间把它捡起来——
So, here in the States, the five-second rule means if you drop food on the floor, you have five seconds to pick it up-
然后在它沾上细菌之前吃掉。
... and eat it before it would have germs on it.
对。
Yes.
但当然,如果是湿的食物,可能立刻就沾上脏东西了。
But of course, wet foods, it could immediately get whatever.
但在我看来,如果是椒盐卷饼或者饼干,那没问题。
But in my mind, if it's a pretzel or a cracker, it's fine.
吹一吹就行。
Blow it off.
我也是这么想的。
Same here.
我也有同样的想法,但我很兴奋今天能聊这个话题,因为这涉及到文化。
I think the same way, but I'm so excited that we're getting into this today because this is cultural.
这显然——
This is obviously-
……还涉及语言,因为我们有一些常用的表达,特别是——
... linguistic because we have expressions that we use, particularly-
对
Yes
……其中一个你在节目开头已经提到了,Aubrey,就是“五秒规则”。
... one which you already said at the top of the episode, Aubrey, five-second rule.
所以今天我们会有很多收获,而且这个话题我也一直在想,因为我刚出生的儿子去了托儿所,头三天他就抵挡不住那里到处飞的细菌。
So, we're going to learn a lot today, and this has been on my mind a lot too, because my newborn son, he went into daycare, and first three days, he was no match for the germs flying around that place.
他马上就得了重感冒。
He got a nasty cold right away.
真够呛。
Rough.
而且三个星期后他还没好。
And he still got it three weeks later.
我记得,因为我在亚利桑那州带小孩的时候,如果他们的奶嘴——
I remember because when I had toddlers in Arizona at home, if their pacifier, the-
对
Yes
就是塞进嘴里的那个东西,掉到——
... plug you put in their mouth, would fall-
地上,我会冲一下再放回他们嘴里。
... on the floor, I'd rinse it off and put it back in their mouth.
但如果那个——
But if that-
掉在纽约地铁的地板上——
... fell on the floor in the New York City subway-
天哪。
Oh, God
那就别想了。
... forget about it.
不。
No.
那我们就把它放到某个地方消毒,或者干脆扔掉。
Then we're going to put it somewhere to sanitize later or maybe just throw it away.
对,当然。
Oh, for sure.
所以,这也看情况,对吧?
So, that depends, too, right?
我说的不是掉在地上的东西。
I'm not talking about droppings.
这取决于你在哪里——
It depends on where you are-
……如果你愿意的话……在商店里、街上,或者纽约的任何地方,从地上捡起东西来吃。
... if you're willing to- ... pick something off the floor and eat it out at a store or on the street or in New York anywhere.
我不会这么做。
I wouldn't.
很高兴你这么说。
I'm glad you're saying this.
在我自己家里,我刚拖过地。
In my own home, I just mopped these floors.
地板是干净的。
They're clean.
对,我很高兴你这么说,这样大家就不会误解我们了。
Yeah, I'm glad you're saying this so no one misunderstands us here.
我们说的不是在第五大道上捡东西吃,对吧?
We're not talking about picking something off Fifth Avenue here on the-
那情况有点不一样。
That's a little different.
所以,这真的很有意思,但我也确实认识一些不遵守五秒规则的人。
So, this is really interesting, but also, I certainly know people who do not observe the five-second rule.
如果他们掉了东西在地上,直接扔进垃圾桶。
If they drop something on the floor, straight in the trash.
他们绝对不会放进嘴里。
They would never put it in their mouth.
好的。
Okay.
你认识这样的人吗,Lindsay?
Do you know people like that, Lindsay?
当然。
Sure.
可能吧。
Probably.
是的,当然。
Yeah, of course.
确实有这样的人。
They're out there.
对,所以我们每个人都不一样。
Yeah, so we're all different.
但大家喜欢拿细菌来拉近距离。
But people love to connect over germs.
我经常问别人这个问题,尤其是我们待会儿会聊到什么时候适合在对话中提起这个话题,但这其实是个挺常见的话题。
I ask people this a lot, especially, we're going to talk about when this would best come up in a conversation, but it's a pretty common topic.
确实挺常见的,而且我们需要知道具体怎么说,这有点像固定搭配,对吧?
It's pretty common, and we need to know exactly what to say, and it's kind of a chunk, right?
是的。
Yes.
我们不能说“五秒定律”,对吧?
We can't say five-second law, right?
对。
No.
不是。
No.
说得好。
Good point.
我们得说五秒规则。
We have to say five-second rule.
所以,今天我们就要聊这个,朋友们,如果你喜欢这种大家都爱聊的现代文化话题。
So, we're getting into this today, guys, if you love this kind of modern cultural topic that everyone kind of talks about.
母语者会这么说,但你可能从来没学过这个。
Native speakers use this, but maybe you've never been taught this before.
这里就是学习它的地方。
This is the place to learn it.
就在All Ears English。
Right here at All Ears English.
所以,点一下节目上的关注按钮吧。
So, hit the follow button right here on the show.
无论你在哪里收听,都可以在YouTube上订阅,或者在播客上关注我们。
Wherever you're listening, subscribe on YouTube or follow on the podcast.
没错。
Exactly.
好的。
All right.
我们开始吧。
Let's dive in.
我想到这期节目,是因为我读了一篇《卫报》上的文章。
I thought about this episode because I read an article in The Guardian.
卫报网站。
Theguardian.com.
是凯特·劳埃德几天前写的,标题是《食物掉在地上后,真的有五秒钟的宽限期吗?》
It was by Kate Lloyd just a few days ago, and it was called "Is it true that you have five seconds' grace after dropping food on the floor?"
《卫报》是英国的出版物,我当时就在想,觉得挺有意思的。
So, The Guardian is a British publication, and I was thinking about it, I'm like, "Oh, interesting.
我肯定英国也有这个说法。
I'm sure this must exist in the UK as well."
但我好奇他们是不是不叫“五秒规则”,因为她只说是“五秒宽限”。
But I'm curious if they don't say the five-second rule, because she just calls it five seconds' grace.
这是另一种说法,意思是你有五秒钟的时间。
Which is another way to say it, means you have five seconds for something.
我觉得这真的很有意思。
I thought that was really interesting.
对,宽限。
Yeah, grace.
五秒宽限,我喜欢这个说法。
Five seconds grace, I like that.
你有一次机会,对吧?
You have a pass, right?
就是你有五秒钟的豁免权这种概念。
This idea of you have a pass for five seconds.
我们要不要在这里读一下那段引文?
Should we read the quote here?
或者——
Or-
对,我们会给出——
Yeah, we're going to give-
……那篇文章里的一些细节,但真的很有意思。
... some details from that article, but it was really interesting.
读的时候,我确实在想,这在世界各地是什么情况,对吧?
As I read it, I did find myself wondering, what is this like around the world, right?
是的。
Yes.
有没有一些国家或文化,人们绝对不会吃地上的东西,或者有没有其他文化,绝对——
Are there some countries or cultures where people would never eat off the floor, or are there other cultures where absolutely-
……不吃才奇怪呢?
... it's crazy not to?
还是说像在美国那样,这取决于个人,取决于你怎么长大的,也取决于你在哪里,还有——
Or is it like in the States, where it depends on the person, it depends how you're raised, and it depends where you are and how-
我知道
I know
——地板看起来有多干净,对吧?
... clean the floor seems, right?
我知道。
I know.
而且我听到“从地板上吃东西”这个说法时,有点不自在。
And when I hear the expression, "Eat off the floor," I kind of cringe.
我觉得我不会做到那个地步。
I feel like I wouldn't quite go that far.
但确实是这样。
But it is.
确实是这样。
It is.
是的。
It is.
但是如果你把食物掉在地上,Lindsay,那没什么区别。
But if you have dropped food on the floor, Lindsay, there is no difference.
你从地上捡起来吃过,对吧?
You've eaten off the floor, right?
我知道。
I know.
这个说法很微妙,让我有点不舒服,对吧?
It's a very subtle term that makes me a little uncomfortable, right?
就看你怎么说,对吧?
It's how you spin it, right?
因为你说的时候——对,就看你怎么说。
Because when you say-- Right, it's how you spin it.
我们在说什么——
What are we-
真好笑。
So funny
……到底在说什么?
... actually talking about?
我们说的不是坐下来从地上捡东西吃。
We're not talking about sitting down and picking stuff up off the floor.
我们说的是,哎呀,一片薯片不小心掉地上了。
We're talking about, oh, a chip happened to drop down on the floor.
我把它捡起来。
I'm going to grab it and pick it up.
五秒规则,对吧?
Five-second rule, right?
没错。
Exactly.
那我们就来聊聊这些细节吧。
So let's go into some of these details.
在文章里,她提到约翰·特雷戈宁,他是疫苗免疫学教授,在——
In the article, she shared that John Tregoning, who's a professor of vaccine immunology at-
——伦敦帝国理工学院,她说他给我们带来了坏消息。
... Imperial College London, she said that he has bad news for us.
哦,不。
Oh, no.
在这篇《卫报》的文章里,他分享了三个不同研究关于——
In this The Guardian article, he shared details from three different studies about-
哦
Oh
——细菌转移的细节。
... bacteria transfer.
所以,林赛,对你我以及任何遵守五秒规则的人来说,这都是坏消息。
And so for you and I, Lindsay, and anyone else who observes the five-second rule, this is bad news.
这完全是编造的,就是某人在某个时候某个地方编出来的,让我们大家都感觉良好。
It's just completely fabricated, as in someone made it up somewhere at some point, and it makes us all feel good.
这听起来挺有道理的,对吧?
That kind of makes sense, right?
所以基本上,他们说这个规则是假的。
So basically, they said that this rule is false.
细菌会立刻转移到任何食物上。
Bacteria transfers immediately to any food.
而且细菌能在表面上存活24小时。
And that bacteria is on surfaces for 24 hours.
比如说,如果被污染的鸡肉碰到了操作台,然后——
So for example, if contaminated chicken touched a work surface, and then-
两小时后,你把面包放在那里——
... two hours later, you set your bread there-
细菌就可能被转移。
... bacteria can be transferred.
所以这挺有意思的。
So it's interesting.
这不仅仅是因为——
It's not just about-
……地板,当然,地板比你的……
... floors, though, of course, floors are dirtier than your-
……台面更脏。
... countertops.
如果台面上有细菌,而且你直接把食物放在台面上,那也可能是个问题。
If there's bacteria on your countertop, that also, if you put food right on a countertop, that also could be a problem.
我对鸡肉这类东西特别小心——
I'm super careful about things like chicken-
对,我也是。
Yeah, me too
……或者我们知道的东西,但就是那种无辜的薯片掉在地上,感觉就不一样。
... or things that we know, but it's something about just that innocent chip that falls on the floor.
感觉它好像被放过了。
It feels like it gets a pass.
我知道。
I know.
不过说到鸡肉,我肯定会洗手。
But yeah, chicken, I definitely always wash my hands.
我也是,对吧?
Same, right?
不想碰水槽。
Don't want to touch the sink.
我们真的想小心对待任何可能含有有害细菌的东西。
We're trying to really be careful with anything-
就是那些可能真的带有有害细菌的东西。
... that could actually have very harmful bacteria.
很多人可能听过这种说法,我们会说“细菌会增强免疫力”或者“那会增强免疫力”,对吧?
And a lot of us, you probably heard this, where we'll say, "Germs build up immunity," or, "Oh, that builds up immunity," right?
比如我们会说,“如果你掉了东西——
Where if we're like, "Oh, if you drop something-
哦
Oh
掉在地上,这个说法确实有点道理。
... on the floor," which there is some truth to that.
我查过一些文章,说如果你接触过——
I was looking into articles about that, how if you are exposed-
好的,对
Okay, yeah
细菌——
... to germs-
会不会增强免疫力?
... does it build up immunity?
有点。
Somewhat.
很多细菌,那些文章说,对很多细菌来说,并没有增强免疫力这回事——
A lot of germs, these articles were saying there's no building up immunity to a lot of-
哦
Oh
……疾病和细菌。
... diseases and germs.
有意思。
Interesting.
但有些情况下,确实是这样。
But for some of it, yes.
当我们接触到某些疾病时,它可以增强我们的免疫系统,让它以后能更好地应对。
When we're exposed to certain illnesses or diseases, it can boost our immune system and make it more ready to fight it later.
是啊,我想到我儿子,他得了这个……其实,说实话,他现在感冒得很厉害,我在想“这太糟糕了”,因为他咳嗽,我睡不好,我也很心疼他,但在我心里,我的想法是“哦,他小时候生了这么多病,长大后免疫力一定会很强。”
Yeah, my thinking with my son, having gotten this... Actually, honestly, he has a really bad cold right now, and I'm thinking, "This is horrible," and I'm not sleeping very well because he's coughing, and I feel terrible for him, but in my head, my narrative is, "Oh, he's going to have such great immunity when he's older because he got sick so young."
没错。
Exactly.
也可能完全错了。
Could be completely wrong.
我也这么想过,比如,让他们接触其他带病菌的孩子,就是在增强他们的免疫力。
I've thought that as well, and like, oh, I'm building up their immunity by exposing them to other kids with germs.
这是好事。
It's good.
对他们有好处。
It's good for them.
对,是好事。
Yeah, it's good.
是好事。
It's good.
是好事。
It's good.
然后用水冲洗一下,不是吗?
And then if you rinse it with water, no?
比如说——
Let's say like-
那问题来了,因为我会这么做。
Well, here's the question, because I will do this.
如果我掉了一颗草莓,我就用水冲一下——
If I drop a strawberry, then I'll just rinse it-
在水槽里冲一下。
... in the sink.
对,那——
Yeah, that's-
而且我用的东西根本杀不了细菌。
And I'm not using anything that would actually kill germs.
我就用水冲一下——
I'll just rinse it in the water-
然后照样吃。
... and still eat it.
你觉得呢?
What do you think?
用水冲一下能起到什么作用呢?
What does rinsing with water do?
说实话,我也会这么做,但我觉得这并不能保证干净,对吧?
Well, I do that too, admittedly, but I guess it doesn't guarantee it, right?
但除此之外你还能怎么办——
But what else would you even-
它可能能把地板上沾到的东西冲掉一些,但肯定不能——
It would maybe rinse off whatever else could maybe be on the floor that could stick to it, but it definitely won't-
对
Yes
杀死任何细菌。
... kill any germs.
所以如果你们家有人穿鞋进来,或者如果你的——
So if people wear shoes in your home, or if your-
唉
Ugh
……宠物在外面跑,然后回到家里,那些文章说的是,地板上有太多细菌和……
... pets go outside and then come in the home, what these articles were saying is there are so many germs and-
哎
Ugh
……你根本不想吃的东西。
... things you would not want to eat that are on your floor.
所以问题在于你多久清洁一次地板,以及你是否脱鞋,或者……
So it's a matter of how often you're cleaning the floor, and if you're removing shoes or-
……如果没有宠物把脏东西带进家里,那就还好。
... if there are no pets tracking anything through the home, so yeah.
但很难,因为如果你开始想这些,你会变得特别焦虑,担心得……
But it's hard because if you open up this can of worms in your mind, you can get really obsessive and worry about it-
确实
That's true
……太多了。
... too much, too.
所以我们得找到这个心理平衡,既不能冒险,也不能过分纠结。
So we have to find this mental balance of we're not going to take chances, but we're also not going to obsess over it.
完全正确。
Exactly right.
因为如果我——对。
Because if I-- Yeah.
我们都认识有洁癖的人,有些人——
We all know a germaphobe, which some people-
是的。
Yes.
洁癖。
Germaphobe
……自称有洁癖。
... are self-declared germaphobes.
当然。
Sure.
所以他们绝对不会吃掉在地上的东西。
So they would never eat anything off the floor.
他们会说:“我有洁癖。”
They're like, "I'm a germaphobe."
对。
Yes.
他们想尽一切办法避免接触任何细菌。
They're doing everything they can to avoid any germs.
你说得对,Lindsay,通常来说,找到一个适中的平衡点,才是更健康的状态。
And you're right, Lindsay, really, usually, a happy medium, like a balance somewhere between, is a healthier place to be.
是的,确实如此。
Yeah, for sure.
你们家是进门换鞋还是不换鞋?
Are you a shoes-on or a shoes-off household?
我们真的很努力做到进门换鞋。
We really try to be a shoes-off household.
但通常,如果是开派对,人们进进出出,我们也在后面,那就……
But often, people will come if it's like a party, and people are coming and going, and we're in the back as well, then-
……真的很难做到完全不穿鞋。
... it's really difficult to really keep no shoes.
所以每次有人来,我们其实买了一台那种扫地拖地机器人,就是……
So anytime anyone's over, we actually got one of those robot mops that-
……我们会让它去……
... we'll just send to-
哦,对。
Oh, right
……拖地。
... mop the floor.
那帮了大忙。
That helps a ton.
哦,这样啊。
Oh, okay.
不错。
Cool.
所以我就没那么紧张了。
So then I'm not quite so stressed about it.
但理想情况下,我真希望家里不穿鞋。
But ideally, I would love there be no shoes in the house.
我知道。
I know.
你呢?
What about you?
嗯,这其实是个文化差异的问题。
Well, this is a very cultural thing.
我们家是进门脱鞋的——
We're a shoes-off-
……那种家庭。
... household.
我们住在城里,是啊,唉,我们在家里肯定不穿鞋。
We live in the city, and yeah, ugh, we definitely don't wear shoes in the house.
但有时候,你只是跑回屋里拿个东西,你忘了什么东西。
But sometimes, if you're just running back into the house to grab something, you forgot something.
这时候问题就来了。
That's where we run into issues.
你只需要穿过厨房,就能上车了。
You just need to cross the kitchen, and you're in the car.
你的另一半在车里等着——
Your partner's waiting in the car-
我们都经历过,对吧?
We've all been there, right?
——带着孩子和狗。
... with the kid and the dog.
哦,我得去拿钥匙或者我的水,然后我就——
Oh, I got to go grab the keys or my water, and I'm-
没错
Exactly
……鞋都没脱。
... leaving my shoes on.
就是这种情况。
It's situations like that.
而且基弗不穿鞋。
And Kiefer doesn't wear shoes.
就像他要去——
Like he's going-
基弗不穿鞋。
Kiefer doesn't wear shoes
……进进出出都不穿。
... outside and coming in.
那真是……
That's...
你想想看,确实是的。
When you think about that, that's-- Yeah.
所以他进来的时候我们会给他擦脚。
So we wipe his feet when he comes in.
哦,那挺好的。
Oh, that's good.
但有时候我们会忘记。
But sometimes we forget.
有时候我们太——
Sometimes we're too-
就是,唉。
It's, ugh.
难免的。
It happens.
我们也不是完美的。
We're not perfect.
对,我们确实不完美。
No, we're not perfect.
嗯,这真的很有意思,因为这是个很好的话题——我们刚才聊得特别开心。
Well, this is so interesting because this is a great-- We have been having a really fun conversation about this.
我们希望你们也能聊这个话题,最好的方式就是——
We want you to be able to have conversations about this, and the best-
是的
Yes
……当食物掉在地上的时候,就是开启这个话题的最佳时机。
... time to spark this conversation is when food falls on the floor.
没错。
Sure.
然后如果你捡起来吃掉,就可以说:“五秒规则。”
And then if you pick it up and eat it, you can say, "Five-second rule."
然后吃掉它。
And eat it.
或者如果不是的话
Or if not
对
Yes
如果你不是那种会捡地上东西吃的人,你可以把它扔掉,那你会怎么说呢,Lindsay?
... if you're not a person that eats food off the floor, you could throw it away, and what could you say, Lindsay?
你可能会说:“我有点洁癖。
You might say, "I'm a bit of a germaphobe.
你呢?”
What about you?"
因为你会弯腰去捡。
Because you're going to bend down.
这可能会让对话停下来,所以我们得有点话可说。
It's going to maybe stop a conversation, and so we want to have something to say.
大家都看到了。
Everyone's seeing it.
没错,对吧?
Exactly, right?
或者你可以问他们:“你遵循五秒规则吗?”
Or you could ask them, "Do you follow the Five-Second Rule?"
或者你可以说——
Or you could say-
“……我不是那种遵循五秒规则的人。”
... "I'm not a Five-Second Rule girly.
“你遵循五秒规则吗?”对吧?
Do you follow the Five-Second Rule," right?
没错。
Exactly.
但我真的建议你开启那个话题。
But I definitely recommend start that conversation.
你不必非得这么做。
You don't have to.
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你可以直接扔掉,或者吃掉,什么都不说。
You could just throw it away or eat it and not say anything.
但这会引发一些有趣的对话。
But it will spark some fun conversations.
哦,那当然。
Oh, for sure.
你可能会觉得有点尴尬,但每次你因为掉了东西而感到尴尬时,就说点什么。
You might feel a little awkward, and any time you feel awkward because you drop something, say something.
把它变成一个拉近距离的时刻。
Make it a connection moment.
对。
Yes.
而且——
And-
这在美国很文化,对吧?
This is very cultural in the US, right?
非常文化。
Super cultural.
把尴尬说出来,聊一聊,然后对,
Name the awkwardness, talk about it, have a conversation about it, and then yeah
……你就会有一个有趣的时刻。
... you'll have a fun moment.
回到穿鞋脱鞋的话题,这也是一个很好的开场白和建立联系的机会。
And just going back to the shoes on, shoes off, this is also a great conversation starter and connection moment.
是的。
Yes.
因为我们俩都经常旅行,我们知道各地差异很大,比如在日本,你绝不会穿着鞋进别人家。
Just because having, we both traveled the world a lot, we know there's a huge variation in terms of like in Japan, you would never enter a home with your shoes on.
绝不会。
Never.
你绝不会像我刚才说的那样,穿着鞋跑过厨房。
You would never do what I just described, run across the kitchen with shoes on.
而且很多——
And a lot of-
……文化都是这样的。
... cultures are like that.
有专门为家里设计的拖鞋,你去日本人的家里时,即使在美国,我有些日本朋友,我也知道这一点。
There are special slippers that are just designed for the home, and when you go into a Japanese home, even in the US, some of my friends who are Japanese, I knew that.
我就想,"好,我得确保把鞋脱了,"对吧?
I was like, "Okay, I have to make sure I take my shoes off," right?
你知道吗,Lindsay,我很好奇,如果他们养宠物,他们回家的时候是不是就擦擦脚?
And do you know, Lindsay, I'm curious if they have pets, are they just wiping the feet when they get home?
好问题。
Great question.
我很好奇。
I'm curious.
我们得问问听众们。
We have to ask our listeners.
给我们留言吧——
Leave a comment for us-
好问题
Great question
……在YouTube上,因为我也想过这个问题。
... on YouTube, because I've thought this.
我就想,我知道很多人家里都是进门脱鞋的。
I'm like, I know there are so many people will be shoes off household
……但如果他们养了宠物——
... but then if they have pets-
而且还有狗。
And there's a dog
……它们出去散步然后回来。
... that they go on a walk and come in
那也太麻烦了。
That's so much work.
那更难了。
That's harder.
唉。
Ugh.
我相信这是值得的,尤其是如果你真的很在意——
I'm sure it's worth it, especially if you are really concerned-
……外面的细菌,但宠物会带进来什么。
... about the germs outside, but what pets are tracking in.
哦,有时候真让我受不了——
Oh, it makes me cringe sometimes-
……当我带Keith出去散步的时候。
... when I take Keith out for a walk.
有些人会准备一个小水池,让狗踩进去,里面可能放一些安全的消毒剂,让它——
Some people have a little pool that their dog will step into, and maybe have some kind of safe disinfectant that he can-
……踩进去,就像一个小型浴池。
... step into, almost a little mini bath.
哦,明白了。
Oh, got you.
也有人会给狗穿小鞋子。
Or some people have booties on their dogs, too.
我见过,但那更多是为了雪天。
I've seen that, but that's more for snow.
我也不太清楚。
I don't know.
或者是为了热天。
Or the heat.
所以,是的。
So, yeah.
在亚利桑那州,水泥地和人行道会变得非常烫。
Now in Arizona, the concrete and the sidewalk gets so hot-
哦,对。
Oh, yes
……人们会给狗的脚穿上小靴子——
... that people will have booties on the dogs' feet-
是的
Yes
……来保护它们免受高温。
... to protect them from the heat.
再说一次,这就是那种你需要注意不要想太多的事情——
Again, it's just one of those things where you have to be careful not to think about, to don't overthink it-
……因为你会变得像——
... because you'll become like-
大家别想太多了
Just don't think about it, guys
……“天哪,我在这房子里住不下去了。”
... "Oh, my God, I can't live in this house."
不过是的,这又是一个很好的聊天开场话题,各位。
But yeah, this is another great conversation starter, guys.
你们家是进门脱鞋还是不脱鞋的?
Are you a shoes on or shoes off household?
因为在美国文化里,我觉得这真的因家庭而异。
Because in American culture, it really varies by the family, I think.
对。
Yes.
琳赛,这里有个棘手的问题想问你,因为经常有人到我们家来,会问:“我要脱鞋吗?”
And here's something tricky, Lindsay, I want to ask you, because often someone will arrive at our home, and they'll say, "Should I take my shoes off?"
这真的很棘手,因为我通常会说要脱。
And it's so tricky because I usually say yes
就像,“哦,好的,如果你不介意的话。”
... like, "Oh yes, if you don't mind."
但我觉得,我希望他们别问。
But I feel, I wish they would just not ask.
我希望他们直接脱掉——
I wish they would just take them off-
真的吗?
Really?
不用问就直接脱。
... without asking.
哦,对。
Oh, yeah.
因为这样有点——
Because it's sort of-
让我很尴尬,非得说“好的,如果你不介意的话”。
... putting me in this awkward situation of having to be like, "Yes, if you don't mind."
对。
Yes.
对,默认这样做挺好的。
Yeah, the default is good.
所以这是个好——
So that's a good-
但我理解你为什么要问。
But I understand asking.
这确实有点难办,因为我觉得有些主人,有些人,他们会说‘哦,你想怎样都行’,或者他们不会——
It's just tricky because I think some hosts, some people, they'll say like, "Oh, whatever you want to do," or they won't-
……直接说‘好的,请吧’。
... want to say, "Yes, please."
他们只是希望别人——
They're just hoping people-
……能主动把鞋脱了。
... will take them off.
没错。
Exactly.
而且这取决于个人的性格。
And it depends on a person's personality.
哦,你还记得《欲望都市》吗?我不知道你有没有看过《欲望都市》。
Oh, do you remember that "Sex and the City," I don't know if you ever got into "Sex and the City."
《欲望都市》有一集特别精彩,凯莉和她的朋友们去参加一个派对,结果是个要脱鞋的派对,她们特别不高兴,因为她们的鞋子和衣服是搭配好的。
There was a great "Sex and the City" episode where Carrie and their friends went to a party, and it was a shoes-off party, and they were totally offended because their shoes went with their outfits.
就是不行。
It just didn't work.
我想在纽约,虽然有点讽刺,因为——
I guess in the city, even though it's ironic because-
她们穿着高跟鞋,跟她们的——
They're wearing the heels with their-
对,高跟鞋,还有——
Yeah, heels and-
她们不想光着脚。
They don't want to be barefoot
颜色正好搭配,然后她的鞋最后被偷了,闹了一出。
... the right color, and then her shoes end up getting stolen, and it's a whole thing.
你看过那集吗?
Did you see that episode?
没有,我没看过。
No, I haven't.
对。
No.
但我感觉好像听人聊过,所以那确实挺有文化影响力的。
But I feel like I've heard someone talking about it, so that was very much-
……算是文化中的一个经典时刻。
... like a moment in culture.
而且说得太对了。
And it's so true.
我经常穿不配对的袜子,然后要脱鞋的时候。
Often I'll be wearing mismatched socks, and then I go to take my shoes off.
我就会想:“哎呀,我当初该想想穿什么袜子的。”或者——
I'm like, "Oh, I should have thought about the socks I put on," or-
我经常这样。
I do that all the time
然后你就光着脚,我还没做美甲或足部护理呢。
... and then you're barefoot, and I have not gotten a manicure or pedicure.
对,或者袜子上有个洞什么的。
No. Or there's a hole in your sock or something.
我有时候也会这样。
Sometimes that happens to me.
能不能就待在外面?
Like, can we just stay outside?
哎呀,天哪。
Oh, geez.
我们就待在外面吧。
Let's just stay outside.
奥布里,我们今天在节目里把秘密都抖出来了。
We're admitting all our secrets today on the show, Aubrey.
哦,真好笑。
Oh, that's so funny.
所以真的很好,虽然这很有趣,很好玩,但这一集真的很重要——
So really great, even though this is funny, it's fun, this is a really important episode-
……关于开场白、礼仪,以及你走进别人家时该说什么。
... for conversation starters, for manners, for what to say when you walk in a household.
我想说,奥布里,我仍然建议至少在美国文化中,进门时问一句“我要脱鞋吗?”
I would say, Aubrey, I would still recommend asking, at least in American culture, should I take my shoes off when I walk in-
或者直接脱掉
Or just take them off
……虽然这会给主人带来一点负担
... even though it does put the burden on the host a little bit
……那就更好了。
... even better.
直接脱掉就好。
Just take them off.
或者直接脱掉。
Or just take them off.
当然。
Definitely.
都行。
Either way.
别直接走进别人家,因为即使在美国,
Don't just walk into someone's house, because even in the States
……
...
是的,很多家庭是穿鞋进屋的,但也有很多不是,
yes, a lot of homes are shoes-on households, but a lot of-
……如果你穿着鞋直接走进他们家,他们会不高兴的。
... them aren't, and they will be offended if you just walk into their house with shoes on.
没错。
Exactly.
好的。
All right.
不错。
Good stuff.
那我们稍微休息一下,然后做个角色扮演,好吗?
So we'll take a quick break, and then we'll do a role play, right?
你有没有过这样的经历:说英语的时候,突然词就没了?
Do you ever start speaking English and suddenly the words disappear?
你停顿太多,犹豫不决。
You pause too much, you hesitate.
你知道自己想说什么,但总是事后才想起来,而不是在关键时刻。
You know what you want to say, but only later, not in the moment when it matters.
这就是你流利度出问题的地方,而且这是可以解决的。
This is where your fluency is breaking down, and it's fixable.
所以我们推出了两分钟流利度测试。
That's why we created our two-minute fluency quiz.
它能立刻告诉你你现在的英语水平,让你知道接下来该练什么。
It shows you your exact English level right now, so you know what to work on next.
你是B1、B2还是C1水平?
Are you B1, B2, or C1?
去测一测吧。
Find out.
现在就去allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore,搞清楚你的英语水平,以及从今天开始今年怎么提升。
Go now to allearsenglish.com/fluencyscore and get clarity on your English level and how you can improve this year, starting today.
再说一遍,去allearsenglish.com/F-L-U-E-N-C-Y-S-C-O-R-E。
One more time, go to allearsenglish.com/F-L-U-E-N-C-Y-S-C-O-R-E.
好了,奥布里,角色扮演时间到了。
Okay, Aubrey, role play time.
那这段对话是什么情景?
So what's going on in this conversation?
好的。
All right.
你和我,我们是朋友。
You and I are friends.
我们在你家玩呢。
We're hanging out at your house.
我先开始吧。
I'll start us out.
好的。
Okay.
准备好了吗?
Ready?
准备好了。
Yes.
哎呀,我的饼干掉地上了。
Oh, no, my cookie fell on the floor.
别告诉我你打算吃那个。
Please don't tell me you're going to eat that.
别紧张,五秒规则嘛。
Relax, Five-Second Rule.
那才不是什么规矩呢。
That's not a thing.
当然是啦。
Sure it is.
你看好了。
Watch.
别,放下。
No. Put it down.
没事的。
It's fine.
地板看起来挺干净的。
The floor looks really clean.
我可不想浪费一块好好的饼干。
I'm not wasting a perfectly good cookie.
我可能有点洁癖吧。
I guess I'm a bit of a germaphobe.
你随意吧。
You do you.
谢谢。
Thank you.
我真的很享受我的地板饼干。
I'm very much enjoying my floor cookie.
所以,是的,如果你们中有一个不是洁癖,会毫不犹豫地吃地上的东西,而另一个不是,这可能会成为一段对话,对吧?
So yeah, this could be a conversation if one of you is not a germaphobe and will absolutely eat things off the floor and another one isn't, right?
是的。
Yes.
你们可能真的会有这样的对话。
You might have this exact conversation.
是的。
Yes.
这会是开放对话俱乐部的一个很好的话题,奥布里。
This would be a great conversation topic for Open Conversation Club, Aubrey.
确实。
That's true.
你不觉得吗?
Don't you think?
那会很有趣。
That would be fun.
这就是——
That's what was-
我想指出一点,我在读这个角色扮演时注意到一个发音错误,因为我当时只是照着读。
And I want to point out, I noticed as I read this role play, a pronunciation mistake that I really made because I was just reading.
好的。
Okay.
当我说“当然是这样”的时候,感觉怪怪的,然后我看了看。
When I said, "Sure it is," that felt weird, and then I'm looking at it.
哦,对。
Oh, yeah.
所以这个短语的读法,如果你说“那不是个东西”,我会说“当然是”。
So the way we say this phrase, if you say, "That's not a thing," what I would say is, "Sure it is."
当然是。
Sure it is.
而且重音要放在“当然”上。
And the emphasis would be on sure.
当然是。
Sure it is.
这其实是另一种说法,意思是“是的,就是”。
Which is another way of saying, "Yes, it is.
我不同意。
I disagree."
对。
Yes.
但当我第一次读那个角色扮演时,如果你回头听,我重音放在了“是”上,对吧?
But when I first read that role play, if you go back and listen and I emphasized is, right?
当然是的。
Sure it is.
说得有道理。
That's a good point.
我们不是那样说的。
That's not the way we say that.
我一开始都没注意到,但你说得对。
I didn't even notice that at first, but yeah, you're right.
我说的时候也注意到了,因为我当时就想——
I noticed it as I said it, because I was like-
对。
Yes
……“这什么意思,什么?”
... "What does that, what?"
有点不对劲。
Something's not right.
有点不对劲。
Something's not right.
没错。
Exactly.
所以我们向听众展示了一些在这里建立联系的关键短语。
So we showed our listeners a couple of the key phrases for connection here.
我说:“拜托别告诉我你要吃那个。”
I said, "Please don't tell me you're going to eat that."
然后你说……
And you said...
“放松点。
"Relax.
五秒规则。”
Five-second rule."
是的,如果你要从地上捡东西吃,我们通常会这么做。
And yes, if you're going to eat something off the floor, this is often what we'll do.
我们就会说‘五秒规则’,然后把它吃了。
We'll just say, "Five-second rule," and we eat it.
别人可能会取笑我们,或者觉得恶心。
And somebody else might make fun of us or be disgusted.
但这是一种玩笑。
But it's playful.
我确实有过这样的对话,我当时并没有生气——
I've had this exact conversation, and I wasn't upset-
对
Yes
——对那个取笑我吃地上饼干的人。
... with the person who was making fun of me for eating a floor cookie.
没错,当然。
No, for sure.
而且我对此也一点都不觉得丢脸。
But I also have no shame about it.
我就觉得——
I'm like-
——把它当成一种荣誉勋章。
... "Wear it as a badge of honor."
对,这有点像身份认同的问题。
Yeah, it's kind of like an identity thing.
大多数人会倾向于——
Most people come down-
完全同意。
Totally
——站在某一边,然后你会想为自己的观点辩护,并且讨论它。
... on one side or the other, and you're going to want to justify your perspective and talk about it.
这是我们紧紧抓住的东西——
It's something that we cling to-
——在我们的身份认同里。
... in our identities.
没错。
Exactly.
真有意思。
So interesting.
然后我还听到一个说法,我自己也说过,“我猜我有点洁癖。”
And then I also heard the phrase, I said the phrase, "I guess I'm a bit of a germaphobe."
然后我说,“你随意。”
And then I said, "You do you."
奥布里,这是另一个很重要的短语,语调很关键。
That's another important phrase where intonation matters, Aubrey.
对。
Yes.
这太棒了。
This is so good.
首先,你有点承认了,尤其是跟你的这位朋友相比,你会说——
First of all, you sort of admitting, especially in comparison to your friend here, you'd be like-
……“跟你比,我算是有洁癖了。”
... "Compared to you, I'm a germaphobe."
即使你平时不会这么称呼自己,这也不是那么……
Even if you wouldn't normally call yourself that, this isn't that-
……真的,说自己有洁癖其实没什么大不了的。
... negative, really, to call yourself a germaphobe.
对,完全不会。
No, not at all.
你其实是在拉近我们之间的关系,因为你在说:“好吧,你会那样做。
You're more creating connection between us because you're saying, "Okay, you would do that.
跟你比,我算是有洁癖了,”然后用了这个短语,“你随意。”
Compared to you, I'm a germaphobe," and then using this phrase, "You do you."
而且,是的……
And yeah-
……语调上会说,“你随意。”
... the intonation would say, "You do you."
你做你自己,对吧?
You do you, right?
我其实是在说,"好,做吧。"
I'm kind of saying, "Okay, do it.
这就是你的做法,但是——"
It's what you do, but-"
没有评判。
No judgment.
"...不管你做什么,比如,笑一笑。"
"... whatever you do, like, laugh."
这是你的生活。
It's your life.
这是你的生活。
It's your life.
如果你生病了,那就生病了。
If you got sick, you get sick.
如果你想染上这里所有细菌带来的各种病,那你就随自己吧。
If you want to get every disease of all the bacteria around here, you do you.
今天这个话题真不错。
This is a great topic today.
我很喜欢。
I love this.
我觉得也许我们应该在社交媒体上问个问题,奥布里,看看大家怎么看——
I feel like maybe we should ask a question in social media or something, Aubrey, and see where people come down-
——或者在我们学生社区里问问。
... on this, or maybe inside our student community.
当然。
Definitely.
一定要在YouTube上留言。
Leave a comment on YouTube for sure.
来找这个YouTube视频吧。
Come find the YouTube video.
告诉我们你是否遵循五秒规则。
Let us know if you follow the five-second rule.
你家里是进门脱鞋的吗?
Is yours a shoes-off household?
跟我们说说你住在哪里,
Give us some details about where you-
对
Yes
以及你们文化、你们国家里这种情况是怎样的。
... live and what this is like in your culture, in your country.
非常好。
Really good.
我们接下来还能去哪里继续收听这个节目呢?
Where else can we go next to keep listening to the show?
我们想确保你不会错过最近的一集,第2695集,标题是《精疲力尽:表达疲惫的习语》。
We want to make sure that you don't miss a recent episode, 2695, which was Running on Fumes: Idioms for Expressing Exhaustion.
所以如果你错过了那一集,往上翻一翻,去看看吧。
So if you missed that one, scroll up and check it out.
好的。
All right.
听起来不错。
Sounds good.
奥布里,我们下次见。
Aubrey, we'll see you next time.
今天聊得很开心,希望我们俩都健健康康的。
Great conversation today, and hopefully, we both stay healthy.
是的。
Yes.
我很高兴我们有这个共同点,但确实是这样。
I'm glad we have this in common, but it's true.
我知道。
I know.
那要是当时我说“什么?”就尴尬了。
That would've been awkward if I was like, "What?"
其实我很少生病,也许是因为“五秒规则”增强了我的免疫力。
Well, I don't get sick very often, so maybe it's because of the five-second rule, building up my immunities.
我也不常生病。
I don't either.
我现在生病是因为我儿子病了,但我真的很少生病。
I'm sick right now because my son got sick, but I really don't get sick.
你确实不常生病。
You don't very often.
所以也许这真有道理。
So maybe there is something to that.
所以也许我们发现了什么,Lindsay。
So maybe we're onto something, Lindsay.
我能想象所有听众都吓坏了。
I can just imagine all the listeners are horrified.
啊。
Ah.
但我相信你们中有些人同意我们的看法。
But I'm sure some of you out there agree with us.
对,当然。
Yeah, for sure.
把地上的碎屑吃掉。
Eat the crumbs off the floor.
好的。
All right.
不错。
Good stuff.
好了,奥布里,我们下次见。
All right, Aubrey, we'll see you next time.
保重。
Take care.
再见。
Bye.
再见。
Bye.
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And if you believe in connection not perfection, then hit subscribe now to make sure you don't miss anything.
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See you next time.
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