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Welcome to Girls on Porn.
我是瑞秋。
I'm Rachel.
我是劳拉。
And I'm Laura.
我们
And we
喜欢色情内容。
love porn.
这是我们的色情片点评播客。
This is our porn review podcast.
我们会谈论我们喜欢的
We talk about what we love
也会吐槽我们讨厌的。
and we roast what we hate.
为你带来火热、合乎道德、纯粹更优质的色情内容，供你自慰时享用。
Bringing you hot, ethical, just plain better porn for your spank bank.
我们正在审视一切。
And we're looking at everything.
今天的主题是戴绿帽。
Today's topic is cuckold.
戴绿帽。
Cuckold.
这是一期非常重要的节目，因为我们请到了一位嘉宾。
And it is a very important episode because we got a guest.
今天，我们邀请到了阿里埃尔·卡普兰。
Today, we are joined by Arielle Kaplan.
确实如此。
It's very true.
她在Instagram上更广为人知的名字是orgasmic。
Better known on Instagram as orgasmic.
嗯。
Mhmm.
她是播客《七分钟在天堂》的主持人，同时在一家犹太媒体公司白天写关于犹太人的内容，晚上写关于性的话题。
She is the host of the sex news podcast, seven minutes in heaven, and writes about sex by night and Jews by day at a Jewish media company.
这都是真的。
That's all true.
是的。
Yeah.
都是非常重要的事情。
Very important things.
在我们开始录音之前，她告诉我，她 basically 就是想让大家知道，我是犹太人，我要把这件事带到世界上。
She told me before we started recording, she's like, basically, I just want them to know that I'm Jewish and I'm an thing to get out in the world.
对。
Yeah.
你知道吗？
You know?
我想给犹太人一个好名声。
I want I wanna give Jews a good name.
是的。
Yeah.
你知道吗？
You know?
那些给我们带来坏名声的人，真替我们好。
Good for of us out there giving us a bad name.
嗯，非常感谢你参加节目。
Well, thank you so much for being
谢谢你邀请我。
Thank you for having me.
来参加节目。
On the show.
我们非常期待和你聊聊色情话题。
We're so excited to talk about porn with you.
我更期待。
I'm more excited.
我们选了搜索关键词。
And we picked the search term.
是你选的搜索关键词。
Well, you picked the search term.
对吧？
Right?
嗯哼。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
我确实选了。
I I sure did.
是因为你想更多了解它，还是因为这是你平时会搜索的内容？
Because you wanted to know more about it or because this is something that you search for?
我只是刚开始接触这个。
I just started getting into it.
好的。
Okay.
你想让我
Do you want me to
告诉你为什么吗？
tell you why?
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
我以前约会过的那个家伙，跟踪了我高潮的时刻，而我写过一篇关于三人行的故事。
So this guy I used to date followed my followed orgasmic and I had done this story about having a threesome.
哦。
Oh.
我真的希望他没在听这个。
And I'm really hope he's not listening to this.
我怀疑他不会。
I doubt he is.
我的意思是，随便吧。
I mean, whatever.
不。
No.
随便吧。
Whatever.
好吧。
Okay.
当然现在不会。
Well, certainly not now.
他以后可能会听。
He might listen later.
所以我跟他约会了一段时间，他告诉我，当他看的时候感觉非常兴奋。
And so I dated him for a while and he told me when he watched it that he was super turned on.
一开始我感到震惊，然后就兴奋起来了。
And at first, was horrified then got turned on.
然后，Cut Gold这个想法让我也兴奋了起来。
And then that got me turned on by the idea of Cut Gold.
所以，这件事是几个月前发生的，但我不明白为什么几周前我突然开始搜索它。
So then, this was like months ago and then I don't know why just a couple weeks ago, I started searching for it.
但我真的没找到什么好的视频。
But I couldn't really find any good videos.
所以你们发给我的那些视频非常有趣，而且
So the ones that you guys sent me were very interesting and
我有很多
I have a lot of
关于它们的想法。
thoughts on them.
是的。
Yeah.
好的。
Okay.
很好。
Good.
我也是。
Me too.
我很期待谈论这个话题。
I'm excited to talk about it.
有很多可聊的。
Much to discuss.
是的。
Yeah.
劳拉，你有没有搜索过 cuckold？
Laura, have you ever searched for cuckold?
我没有。
I haven't.
我的意思是，不是为了自己取乐。
I mean, not like for my own pleasure.
对。
Right.
当然，我之前查过，就是想确认一下，这到底是不是我想的那样，或者说，我其实早就知道‘cuckold’这个词来自莎士比亚。
Certainly, like, I I have looked prior to this just to be like, is this what I think it is or is I mean, I like know the word cuckold from Shakespeare.
等等。
Wait.
你认为它是什么？
What did
你觉得它是什么？
you think it was?
我们在这档节目里已经聊过很多次关于戏剧迷的事了。
We've talked enough on this show about being theater nerds.
这 definitely 就是这个词的来源。
That's definitely like the origin of that.
还有现在这个词‘cuck’在政治中的使用，比如‘哦，这个cuck’。
Then also just like the use of the word cuck now, like in in politics or, you know, like, oh, this cuck here.
我觉得这个词挺有趣的，但我确实。
Like, I think it's a fun word, but I've yeah.
它从来都不是一种
It's never been like
对。
Right.
特定的性吸引。
A specific turn on.
不过有趣的是，它和三人行，或者这种背叛的概念，确实有一些交叉。
Although, what's interesting is there is a bit of crossover with, like, threesome certainly or, like, with this, like, notion of betrayal.
所以我能理解为什么它会让人着迷。
So I could see why it's compelling.
而且我认为，从理论上讲，这个概念对我很有吸引力。
And I think in theory, the concept is hot to me.
我只是没有在色情片里专门去尝试过。
I just haven't, like, gone for it in porn specifically.
是的。
Yeah.
但没错，我对此持开放态度。
But, yeah, I'm open.
感兴趣。
Interested.
我非常开放且感兴趣。
Am very open and interested.
我也从没想过要去搜索这方面的内容。
I also it's not something I ever think to search for.
我得说，这一直是我最强烈的性幻想之一。
I have to say it is one of my all time biggest sexual fantasies.
真的吗？
Really?
哦，是的。
Oh, yeah.
百分之百。
A 100%.
我特别希望在伴侣观看的情况下和别人发生关系，同时也希望我的伴侣看着我们自慰。
Like, I specifically want to have sex with someone else while my partner watches and I also want my partner to jerk off to it.
是的。
Yeah.
你懂的？
You know?
这真的很难。
That's really hard.
我不希望这变得羞辱人。
I don't want it to be humiliating.
我对调教中的羞辱部分不感兴趣，但我对主导方真正参与其中、像操纵者一样掌控整个情境这一点很感兴趣。
I'm not interested in that aspect of the cuckolding but I'm interested in the they're so they they're dominant and like and actually like are a part of it and like kind of like, you know, the the puppeteer I guess of like the situation.
嗯。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yeah.
我记得有个节目叫《女友体验》，在Showtime上。
I remember there was a show called the girlfriend experience on Oh, stars.
你们看过吗？
Did you guys ever watch it?
我看了那部电影。
I was like I watched the movie.
我看了这部剧。
Did watch this series.
我看了由萨莎·格雷主演的那部电影。
I watched the movie with Sasha Gray.
它的第一季简直太棒了。
So the first season of it was incredible.
莱利·基奥，我不确定是不是这么发音，她出演了这部剧，扮演一名高端性工作者，她基本上是靠与另一位男性性工作者进行 cuckold 情节来赚钱，我就是看着这个自慰的，毫无疑问。
Riley Keogh, I don't know if that's how you pronounce her name, she was in it and she plays a high end escort and she basically gets paid to do a cuckold scenario with another male escort and it was I masturbated to that, hands down.
实际上，我觉得这很无聊。
Like that is boring to me actually.
我看过很多集这部剧后自慰过。
I masturbated to a lot of that TV show.
所以每个人都应该看看。
So everyone should watch it.
第一季简直太棒了。
First season's incredible.
第二季嘛，一般般。
Second season is like, meh.
第一季不值得自慰。
First season Not masturbating worthy.
是的。
Yeah.
我当时觉得这故事太棒了
A I was like great story
但不值得为此去冒险，那为什么呢？
but not worth dealing off to so why?
我当时被撩起了兴趣
Was like I'm turned
但第一季绝对是超棒的。
on but the first season was hands down awesome.
所以那是我第一次接触到它，虽然我从来没特意去搜索过，但它确实经常浮现在我脑海中，关于一些幻想。
So that was like my first introduction to it and like I don't I haven't really ever searched for it but it is something that I think about a lot in terms of like fantasies.
嗯。
Mhmm.
你有没有和谁约会过，让你觉得，哦，这种情况真的可能发生？
Have you ever dated anyone that you, like, have you ever been like, oh, this could happen like this?
我简直无法想象我曾经的任何伴侣会这样。
Like, I can't imagine any partner I've ever
有过
had being
对这种事持开放态度。
open to something like that.
我以前谈过开放式关系，我觉得我在节目里已经聊过很多次了，我担心自己变成‘开放式关系女孩’了。
Like, I've been in an open relationship before, which I feel like I've talked about a lot on the show and I'm worried I'm becoming the open relationship girl.
不会。
No.
听我说。
Listen.
我们
We
有过。
have had it.
但我确实做过一些有趣的事。
But I have done some interesting things.
我有过
I have
一段关系。
been in a relationship.
但就连他，其实内心深处都很嫉妒，对吧？
But, like, even he was, like, secretly deeply jealous Right.
我觉得，那段开放关系实际上只是他用来挑战这种嫉妒感的一种方式。
That open relationship was actually just like a way for him to challenge that, I think.
嗯。
Mhmm.
我根本想不出任何一个伴侣，会心甘情愿地待在房间里，看着别人和我亲热，更别说和我发生关系了。
And I I can't think of a single partner that I'm like, that person would definitely be open to being in the room while someone else was fooling around with me, let alone, like, fucking me.
是的。
Right.
这怎么做到？
How do that?
我觉得
I think
你要么就是被它强烈吸引，性方面很兴奋，要么就是完全害怕它。
you either, like, are incredibly compelled by it, like sexually turned on by it or just like terrified of it.
我很想知道，如果更多人对它持开放态度，他们会不会觉得它更迷人、更性感。
And I am curious if more people were open to it, if they would find it more enthralling, like sexier.
是的。
Yeah.
我确实和一个人睡过，他特别强调自己不认同一夫一妻制，我当时就想，好吧，这没问题，因为我的一个最深的幻想就是在我伴侣看着的情况下和别人做爱，而他说他也会感兴趣，但可惜最终没实现。
There was definitely someone that I was sleeping with who was like, he was very much like I'm not into monogamy and I was like okay well that's fine because one of my deepest fantasies is to have sex with someone else while my partner watches and he was like I would be into that but it never came to fruition unfortunately.
你现在能实现这个吗？
Are you can you make that happen now?
我其实没有，我的意思是，我们现在已经不睡在一起了，都过去好几年了，我不能直接就说，嘿，你想不想看我跟别人做？但他会……
I mean I haven't really I mean we're not sleeping together anymore and it's been like years so I can't just I could maybe I'll call him up and be like hey do you wanna watch me fuck someone but he'd
会是谁
be who is
这个？
this?
谁是谁？但一旦你提醒了他，是的。
Who is Who is But then once you've jogged his memory Yeah.
你知道的。
You know.
然后他可能会说，是的。
And then maybe he'd be like, yeah.
是的。
Yeah.
这是一个非常具体的要求，
It's a very specific ask,
你知道的？
you know?
是的。
Yeah.
我不知道。
I don't know.
这是播客的内容。
It's content for the pod.
是的。
Yeah.
这是真的。
It's true.
这是真的。
It's true.
这只是为了研究，为了科学。
It's just for research, for science.
我我觉得，抱歉。
I I think Sorry.
但我认为，不。
But I think No.
去吧
Go
继续。
ahead.
其中最被污名化的癖好之一。
One of, like, the most stigmatized fetishes.
但也是，是的。
But also Yeah.
为什么这被认为是一种癖好？
Why is this considered a fetish?
我我
I I
是的。
Yeah.
我不知道。
I don't know.
我也有一个类似的问题，尤其是我在浏览聚合内容查找相关信息时，四处查看标题以及不同的例子。
I had a I had a similar question especially as I was, you know, wandering the aggregates looking this up and, like, looking around for titles and, like, different examples of it.
是的。
Yeah.
我觉得我不太确定。
I think I I don't know.
我认为它之所以被视为一种恋物癖，是因为它可能挑战了异性恋正统主义，我想这就是原因。
I think the reason it's sort of considered fetish is it potentially falls it just it challenges heteronormativity, I think, is the reason.
所以如果我们依赖像Pornhub和RedTube这样的网站来告诉我们什么是癖好，我觉得这里有条界限，比如你必须是个娘娘腔才会想让你的女人看，或者说想看着你的女人和别人上床，这个，我们就直接这么说吧。
And like so if we're relying on sites like Pornhub and RedTube to, like, tell us what's a fetish, I think there's a line around, like, you must some be some kind of girly man if you want your woman to watch like, if you wanna watch your woman fuck someone else, that, like, that this the let's just go there.
就像，有毒的男子气概观念会施加压力说，她是你的女人。
Like, the notion of toxic masculinity puts pressure to say, like, she's your woman.
她不是别人的女人。
She's no one else's woman.
是的。
Yeah.
而对任何超出这一范围的兴趣都会被边缘化，你知道的，显得奇怪或恶心。
And to be interested in anything outside of that is other ized, you know, like, is is weird or is gross.
所以，我觉得有时它会被归入这种‘恋物’类别。
So, like, I think sometimes it falls into this, like, fetish category.
是的。
Yeah.
但对我来说，它通常包含各种性行为，但往往是非常平凡、典型的性行为。
Even though to me, it's I guess, generally contains, like, whatever kind of sex act, but, like, often very mundane, like, typical sex acts.
但人们会说，哦，这个男人在这里，他喜欢看这个。
But it's like, oh, it's like this guy's here and he's into watching this.
但确实如此。
But like, yeah.
我的意思是，我同意它与许多其他恋物倾向密切相关，实际上它是其中一部分，但它是一种
I mean, I I agree that it goes hand in hand with a lot of other fetish that is Well, it's actually a part but It's it's a
它就像受虐癖，你知道吗？
part of it's like masochism, you know?
是的。
Yeah.
它属于受虐的范畴。
It's under the the realm of like masochism.
所以我觉得这就是为什么它被视为一种恋物。
So like I think that's why it's it's regarded as a as a fetish.
是的。
Yeah.
这有点自我惩罚的意味。
That is sort of self punitive.
是的。
Yeah.
它就像是
It's like
这使得
That makes
有道理。
sense.
这更有道理了。
That makes more sense.
这显然是因为，除了通奸癖之外，人们其次感兴趣的就是支配女性和羞辱。
It's like definitely because the like besides cuckold, the second thing that people look for is like is like Femdom and that Yeah and like humiliation.
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
业余与否根本无关，但通奸羞辱确实是仅次于纯粹通奸癖的第二大类型。
Amateur or not amateur doesn't have anything to do with it but like cuckold humiliation is like the second most besides just straight up cuckold.
因为这还涉及一个我特别感兴趣、我觉得非常棒的点，就是我们待会要讨论的两部电影。
Because it kind of it and also what I find really interesting which I think is a great like the two films that we're gonna talk about films.
通奸癖其实是一个谱系，要么是极端强烈的羞辱，比如‘你根本没资格跟我做爱’。
There's like a spectrum of like cuckold like it's either you know, super hardcore humiliation, like you're not man enough to fuck me.
所以我要去和别人发生关系，而你则在旁边观看，或者也可能是有人在幕后精心策划整个过程，全程掌控并监督着一切
So I'm gonna fuck someone else and you're gonna watch or that it's also like, you know, like someone who's, you know, kind of basically like orchestrating the whole thing and it's like overseeing it and and like very much in charge and
同时参与其中。
like taking part.
就像制片人一样。
Like the producer.
是的。
Yeah.
就像制片人。
It's like the producer.
对。
Yeah.
当然。
For sure.
是的。
Yeah.
或者一种情况，比如对男性伴侣来说这是一种性刺激，他想观看。
Or a situation where like it is a turn on for, let's say, the male partner and he's he wants to watch.
所以这更具有沟通性，更像是一种正确的做法。
So it's it's, you know, it's more communicative and it's more like Right.
事先就规划好事情会如何发展，而不是说我刚才跑题了，谈到了为什么‘戴绿帽’会被视为一种癖好，是的。
Predetermined, like, how things are gonna go down rather than it being this I mean, I think I got ahead of myself talking about, like, why cuckold is treated as a fetish Yeah.
但戴绿帽并不一定就是癖好，或者我认为存在不同类型的戴绿帽，有些更接近癖好，有些则不然。
When it isn't necessarily or, like, I think there's different kinds of cuckold that walk closer to fetish than others.
是的。
Yeah.
我刚才跑题了，因为我正在思考我们接下来要点评的第二个视频，我认为那个视频的创作者是在表达一种观点：什么样的男人会被戴绿帽。
And I got ahead of myself because I was thinking about the second video that we'll review where I think whoever created that video is is making a statement about like what kind of man would be cuckolded.
是的。
Yeah.
我不认同这种观点，但我们可以
That is not something I'm on board with but we can
当我们谈到那里时， definitely。
definitely when we get there.
对。
Right.
我觉得这也是整个理念的一部分，比如直面恐惧，你知道的，走到边缘，然后说：是的，我能直视它。
Like I think it's also part of the whole idea that like walking up like facing a fear, you know like walking up to an edge and being like yeah I can stare this down.
如果我最大的恐惧是我伴侣会出轨，那如果我主动参与其中呢？
Like if my biggest fear is that my partner's gonna cheat on me like what if I'm an active participant in it.
懂吗？
Know?
暴露疗法。
Exposure therapy.
没错。
Exactly.
然后说：是的，我接受这个，你知道的。
And being like yeah I'm I'm okay with it like you know.
是的。
Yeah.
我觉得这更多是关于……抱歉。
I feel like also more about like Sorry.
哦，对不起。
Oh, sorry.
你先说吧，Ariel。
Go ahead, Ariel.
我觉得现实中看色情内容也是这样，虽然我们稍后再聊这个。
I feel like it's also watching porn in real life even though in well, guess we'll talk about it later.
但比如，看色情片时并不总是自慰，而是看着画面，而和伴侣一起看色情片，还有什么比这更好的方式呢？
But like, the the cut cold is not always jerking off to the scene but like they're watching it and what better way to see porn with like your lover as
对。
Yeah.
主要的吸引力。
The main attraction.
哦，是的。
Oh, yeah.
我一直在
I've been
我从没去过性秀，但我肯定会去。
I've never been to a sex show but like I would definitely.
我觉得这基本上就是当一个戴绿帽者的含义。
And I feel like that's basically what being a cuckold okay.
等等。
Wait.
所以那个丈夫就是戴绿帽者。
So the the husband who's is the cuckold.
对吧？
Right?
我觉得是的。
I think so.
那不是被戴绿帽的人。
That's not the cuckold.
如果你是那个被出轨的丈夫，对吧。
If you're the husband who's being cheated on Right.
理论上是这样。
In theory.
对。
Right.
对。
Right.
谁是性行为之外的那个人。
Who's outside of the sex act.
对。
Right.
我应该直接定义一下吗？
Should I just define it?
你们想听一个关于它的定义吗？
Do you guys wanna hear a definition about it?
想。
Do.
好的。
Okay.
太好了。
Great.
那是什么？
What's that?
是的。
Yeah.
所以有一对夫妻，我也有一个。
So a couple I have one too.
你有吗？
A do you?
好的。
Okay.
这是一个男人自愿鼓励他的妻子与其他男人发生关系，因为这能给他带来快感。
So it's a man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it brings him pleasure.
然后我也写了，这个概念基本上是一个连续谱。
And then I also wrote that, you know, it exists on spectrum basically.
有趣的是，自1800年以来，这个术语的提及次数显著减少。
Interestingly enough, the mentions of the term have decreased significantly since 1800.
源自晚期古英语，来自古法语的“cacao”，再源自“cuckoo”（杜鹃），因为杜鹃有把蛋下在其他鸟巢里的习性。
Late old English from old French cacao from cuckoo, cuckoo, from the cuckoo's habit of laying its egg in another bird's nest.
法语起源。
French origin.
法语和其他语言中的对应词既指这种鸟，也指通奸者。
The equivalent words in French and other languages applied to both the bird and the adulterer.
在英语中，'cuckold' 从未被用来指代这种鸟。
Cuckold has never been applied to the bird in English.
保留最后一部分有趣吗？
Is it interesting to keep that last part?
谢谢你的分享。
Thank you for that.
这有趣吗？
Is it interesting?
我觉得
I think
是的。
it is.
因为我刚说完，现在还拿不定主意。
Because I'm on the fence having said it.
没关系。
It's fine.
再聊点有趣的事。
So some more fun things.
你们想学个术语吗？
You guys wanna learn a term?
我其实有两个术语。
I have two terms actually.
哦，当然了。
Oh, obviously.
好的。
Okay.
太好了。
Great.
所以你之前提到过一点。
So you talked to you mentioned a little bit before.
在现代政治中，'cuck' 是 'cuckold' 的缩写。
So a cuck in modern day politics, it's the abbreviation of cuckold.
它被另类右翼用来攻击对手的男子气概。
It's been used by the alt right to attack the masculinity of the opponent.
嗯。
Mhmm.
是的。
Yes.
明白了。
See.
对。
Yeah.
最初针对的是极右翼认为软弱无能的保守派。
Originally aimed at conservatives who the alt right saw as ineffective.
还有一个有趣的术语，我想我发音是对的，叫cuckooeein。
And then another fun term and I think I'm pronouncing this right, cuckooeein.
Cuckooeein？
Cuckooeein?
我还以为你要说cuckooeeef呢。
I thought you were gonna say cuckooeeef.
我以为我们会走向的地方。
Where I thought we were going.
当你在受辱体验中放屁时，叫caqueef。
When you queef during a cuckold experience, caqueef.
一个caqueef。
A caqueef.
是的。
Yeah.
这和普通的放屁不同，因为受辱者能闻到气味。
Different from a regular queef because the cuckold smells it.
因为有两个人
Because two people
在看着。
are watching.
有两个人目睹了。
Two people witnessed it.
等一下。
Wait.
这是你的放屁。
This is your queef.
我认为应该读作‘que queen’。
Que queen, I believe is how it's pronounced.
好的。
Okay.
它源自中古英语，可追溯到公元1562年。
So it's derived from middle English dating back to fifteen sixty two AD.
哦，是的。
Oh yeah.
这是一个有外遇丈夫的妻子。
It's a wife with an adulterous husband.
所以它就像是女性版本。
So it's like the female version.
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你看起来像个女王。
You look a queen girl.
你看起来像个女王。
You look a queen.
这是一种女性 fetish，她们的快感来自于观看自己的丈夫与其他多个女性发生性关系。
So it's a woman who the fetish is like watching and driving sexual pleasure from watching their man having sex with several women besides you know themselves.
我受不了这种事。
I would hate that.
真的吗？
Really?
我超级嫉妒。
I'm super jealous.
是的。
Yeah.
你知道什么是奇怪的吗？
You know what's weird?
我也是。
Me too.
这说不通。
It doesn't track.
就像我心想，我想当着你的面和别人上床，但你却不能碰任何其他人。
Like I'm like, I wanna fuck someone else in front of you, but you don't get to touch literally anyone else.
或者想都别想。
Or think about that.
我知道。
I know.
我甚至都不想知道。
I don't even wanna know.
你要是敢想别人，我就把你那玩意儿剁了。
If you think about someone else, I'm chopping your dick off.
我很理智的。
I'm rational.
是的。
Yeah.
但我确实有时会表现出嫉妒，那种情绪总会压倒我。
But I certainly have, like, jealous tendencies that get the better of me every every now and then.
你是说我们不理性吗？
Are you saying we're irrational?
是的。
Yeah.
这不是很粗鲁吗？
Ain't that rude?
是你自己说的。
You said it.
我不。
I no.
不。
No.
我只是觉得，我理性得有点过头了。
I'm just like I'm I think I'm, like, rational to a fault.
我的意思是，如果我们真要谈这个，没错。
I mean, if we wanna go there, like Right.
我会为一些事情找借口，公平地说，是的。
I will justify stuff that I'm like, well, to be fair Yeah.
我能理解他的观点，他确实应该被允许，而且在这些情况下，我发现自己根本没好好表达我的需求。
Like, I can see his point that he should be allowed and it actually does give him the situations where I'm like, I failed to actually, like, ask for what I want.
所以我说的不是更好或更差，而是我确实容易过度理性，是的。
So I'm not really saying it's better or worse, but I'm like, I over rationalize if anything and Yeah.
我总是强迫自己进入一种平静状态，但这种状态对谁都没好处。
I'm constantly, like, forcing myself into some chill zone that serves no one.
所以
So
对。
Right.
对。
Right.
你知道，我们都在学习。
You know, we're all learning.
是的。
Yes.
但我是说，我猜我是有点嫉妒，但我也喜欢把嫉妒当作一种前奏。
But I like I mean, I I guess I'm jealous, but I also like like using jealousy as, like, foreplay.
你明白我的意思吗？
Do you know what I mean?
我讨厌吃锅。
Like I hate eat pots.
生活中会有一些小插曲，比如，我身边是不是还有其他人，也许吧。
There's a little gameplay around like, oh, maybe there's other people in my life who are like, oh, maybe.
对。
Right.
反正我不在乎。
Like, don't care.
也许这个家伙对你有意思，让我吃醋？
Maybe this guy was into you and make me jealous?
看着吧。
Watch.
是的。
Yeah.
别动，看我的。
Hold my beer.
你知道吗
You know
我什么意思？
what I mean?
来，咱们试试吧。
Like, let's just try.
好的。
Yeah.
亲爱的，你说吧。
Honey, go ahead.
我
I
找到了一些关于绿帽的Pornhub统计数据，你呢？
found some Pornhub stats about cucks Did you?
还有戴绿帽。
And cuckolding.
给我吧。
Give it to me.
有175万人会在Pornhub上搜索戴绿帽、绿帽或绿帽相关的变体，使其跻身前100名。
1,750,000 people search some variation of cuckold, cuck, or cucked on Pornhub, placing it in the top 100.
这个数字实际上相比其他搜索来说并不算高。
I am Which is actually not that high compared to other search.
我原以为这会是排名前20的搜索词之一。
I thought, like, this would be, like, in the top 20 search terms.
我也这么觉得。
I thought so too.
有趣的是它居然不在。
It's interesting that it isn't.
是的。
Yeah.
我觉得这对Pornhub的观众来说有点重口味了。
I think it's a little kinky for porn hubs audience.
但它的人气也飙升了，比如从2013年到2016年增长了57%。
But it has also jumped in popularity from like from 2013 to 2016 it grew by 57%.
我想知道为什么。
I wonder why.
我想知道那是什么原因。
I wonder what that was.
每个人都看了那集《女友的体验》。
Everyone watched that one episode of Girlfriend Experience.
我也会追看这一集。
I'm tuning in for it.
是的，一定发生了什么。
Yeah, something must have happened.
也许你说到点子上了。
Maybe like You're onto something.
更像是出轨的丈夫或出轨的妻子，你知道的，他们的伴侣其实。
More like cheating husbands or cheating wives, you know, and like their partner was like, actually.
现在想想的话。
Now that I think about it.
我可以看吗？
Can I watch?
你知道的，而不是仅仅说‘滚蛋，我们离婚吧’。
You know, instead of just being like, fuck you, let's get a divorce.
知道吗？
Know?
也许这就是所谓的没那么糟。
Maybe this maybe the same way that like Not so bad.
母亲节时，熟女内容激增，因为受alt right影响，戴绿帽内容也在激增。
Milf surges on Mother's Day, cuckold is surges surging because of like the alt right.
你这么一说，我确实想更多了解关于戴绿帽的事。
I was like, now that you mentioned it, I do wanna know more about cuckolding.
但实际上，人们只是在搜索，因为他们想看alt right人士的性行为。
But actually people are just like searching for it because they're trying to see like alt right people fuck.
我的意思是，这并不是我想要的。
Mean like this isn't what I wanted.
有人想看吗？
Anyone wanna see that?
不想。
No.
是的。
Yeah.
也许其他另类作家吧。
Well, maybe other alt writers I guess.
我想是的。
I guess so.
是的。
Yeah.
比如极左派。
Like the far left.
是的。
Yeah.
会说，
Will say,
我非常自信。
I'm so super confident.
极左。
Far left.
我希望
I hope
我看到的。
that I see.
一些另类右翼就像被肛交一样。
One of the alt rights like getting fucked in the ass.
是的。
Yeah.
我会说，当我查这个术语的时候，嗯。
Will say that like when I was looking this term up Mhmm.
里面有很多种族因素，是的。
There is a lot of there are a lot of racial dynamics inside of Yeah.
术语。
Term.
比如，当我为我们的搜索词对决寻找术语时，我们稍后就会谈到，是的。
Like, when I was looking for terms for our search term showdown, which we'll get to in just a moment Yeah.
有很多BBC。
There's a lot of BBC.
比如，有很多白人妻子和黑人丈夫的情况。
Like, there is a lot of, like, white wife, black husband.
是的。
Yeah.
哦，对的。
Oh, yeah.
抱歉。
So sorry.
不是黑人丈夫，是黑人，是的。
Not black husband, black Yeah.
另一个男人。
Other guy.
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Right.
对。
Right.
我们叫他什么？
What do we call him?
如果我们称丈夫为
If we call the husband the
通奸者，那我们称？
cuckold, what do we call?
特邀嘉宾？
The guest star?
特邀等等。
The guest Wait.
等等。
Wait.
不。
No.
他有名字。
He has a name.
是吗？
Does he?
他是那个道具。
The he's he's the prop.
哦。
Oh.
但还有更复杂的东西。
But there's something like more sophisticated.
我以前听过一次，本该记下来的。
I heard it once and I should have written it down.
哦，不过我喜欢这个。
Oh, I like that though.
我们会想办法的。
We'll figure it out.
道具。
The prop.
他是道具。
He's the prop.
明星。
Star.
特邀明星。
The guest star.
是的。
Yeah.
如果他够幸运的话，也许会成为常驻角色。
Maybe he'll be a recurring if he's lucky.
是的。
Yeah.
我想知道这来自哪里。
I wonder what that comes from.
比如，为什么里面会有种族元素。
Like, why there's like a race play in there.
嗯，我觉得是因为白人妻子喜欢巨大的黑人阴茎，因为白人丈夫的阴茎很小。
Well, I think it's like white wife gets huge BBC because the white husband has like a small Yeah.
满足她的幻想。
Fulfilling her fantasy.
对吧？
Right?
我觉得是的。
I think in yeah.
我觉得在某些方面，我是说，我更愿意认为这是由女性的幻想驱动的。
I think some ways I mean, I like to think that it's driven by the female fantasy.
我觉得这背后也有羞辱的成分。
I think I think it's also driven by this, like, humiliation component.
嗯。
Mhmm.
我也认为种族主义源于恐惧。
I also think racism is driven by fear.
所以我觉得很多白人男性确实如此。
So I think a lot of white men are, like Yeah.
他们害怕黑人的审美或黑人的刻板印象。
Terrified of the black aesthetic or the black stereotype.
这是个非常好的观点。
That's a very good point.
并在私下里迎合这种刻板印象。
And are just, like, playing into that Yeah.
在他们私下看色情内容的时候。
In their secret moments watching porn.
我觉得可能有很多身材矮小的白人，我并不是字面意思上的矮小，但在某些情况下确实如此，他们正在迎合自己的恐惧。
Like, I think there probably are a lot of, like, small white men, and I don't necessarily mean that literally, but in some cases, certainly, who who are, like, who are leaning into their fears.
对吧？
Right?
我猜他们肯定不会跟任何人说，但我打赌这正是推动这种现象的原因。
Can't imagine they're telling anyone about it, but I I bet that, like, fuels this.
这是个很好的观点。
It's it's a good point.
这是个非常棒的观点。
It's a very good point.
是的。
Yeah.
而且因为他们只是假设每个黑人男性都身材非常健壮，而且确实如此。
And and also because, like, they're just assuming that, like, every black man is, like, very is, like, well endowed and Yeah.
他们正在为自己延续这种刻板印象，而正是如此。
That they're perpetuating that stereotype for themselves and then Exactly.
某种程度上，他们围绕这个折磨自己，或者沉浸于自己的假设，又或者从这个想法中获得快感，你知道的，不管它如何表现。
Sort of torturing themselves around it or like leaning into the like their assumptions around it or like getting off on the idea of it, you know, like whatever that however that might manifest.
对。
Right.
是的。
Yeah.
对我来说，就是那种热妻被懂阴蒂在哪的人上。
See for me would be like hot wife gets fucked by someone who knows where the clit is.
是的。
Yeah.
没错。
Exactly.
比如，热妻被有医疗保险的人上。
Like, hot wife gets someone who gets fucked by someone with health insurance.
是的。
Yeah.
热妻被一个懂得如何谈论你感受的人操了，就是这样。
Hot wife gets fucked by someone who knows how to talk about your feelings Exactly.
而不是过早地试图解决问题。
Without trying to problem solve too preemptively.
热妻被一个好听众操了。
Hot wife gets fucked by good listener.
百分之百。
100%.
是的。
Yeah.
我们要进入对决环节吗？
Should we go into the showdown?
是的。
Yeah.
如果你们都准备好了，我就准备好了。
I'm ready if y'all are.
嗯，我从未如此准备好过。
Well, I'm so I've never been more ready.
我走进来的时候就已经准备好了。
I walked in here ready.
我知道。
I know.
她已经准备好了，
She's ready to go,
我们开始吧。
Let's do it.
第一个，丈夫让我的妻子被别人戴了绿帽。
First one, husband cuckled my wife.
所以我有点困惑。
So I confused.
什么？
What?
因为丈夫，你看到吗，你看到吗？
Because husband do you see do you see?
是
Is
是他的丈夫吗？
it his husband?
不清楚。
Unclear.
谁是丈夫？
Who's the husband?
妻子。
Wife.
是的。
Yeah.
别人的丈夫，是的。
Someone else's husband Yeah.
可能只是
Could just
这句话本身自相矛盾。
none of the sentence does not agree with itself.
是的。
Yeah.
根据丈夫的定义、被戴绿帽者的定义，以及谁的妻子来分析。
Based around like what by definition a husband is, what a cuckold is, and whose wife.
谁是你
Who's Do you
你知道这个视频有多少点击量吗？
know how many hits this one has?
Ariel说她看过了。
Ariel's like, watched it.
这简直就是我最喜欢的色情片。
Like, it's literally my favorite porn.
滚吧。
So fuck off.
等一下。
Wait a minute.
这是 Pornhub 上的那个。
This is the Pornhub one.
对吧？
Right?
这是我做的？
I made this?
这是我的作品。
This is my work.
如果我们去 Pornhub 搜索，会出现吗？
Just if we searched in Pornhub, like, comes up?
对。
Right.
对。
Right.
对。
Right.
是的。
Yeah.
哦，好吧。
Oh, okay.
正在加载。
It's loading.
有一个视频有995,893次观看。
One has a 995,893 views.
哦，天哪。
Oh, wow.
74%的评分。
74% rating.
74%。
74%.
哇。
Wow.
有意思。
Interesting.
丈夫让我的妻子戴了绿帽。
Husband cuckolded my wife.
不。
No.
你给了它过多的重视。
You're you're giving it credit more credit that it's is due.
只是丈夫让我的妻子戴了绿帽。
It's just husband cuckold my wife.
哦，好吧。
Oh, okay.
丈夫让我的妻子被戴绿帽。
Husband cuckold my wife.
丈夫它让戴绿帽，我的妻子。
Husband It cuckold comma my wife.
不用逗号。
No comma.
用分号。
Semicolon.
四个词。
Four words.
不用标点。
No punctuation.
别试了。
Don't try.
你真的，我看出来你试图制造笑点，我明白你的用意，你想删掉你的舌头来让它变得合理。
You're really I see the punch up you're trying I see the economy Trying to cut your tongue out it to make it make sense.
但我认为这只是一个那种混搭，他们就像是
But I think this is just one of those mash ups where they're like,
我们把所有词都用上了。
we got all the words in.
是的。
Yeah.
没关系。
It's fine.
是的。
Yeah.
实际上他们
That's actually They're
会搞定的。
gonna get it.
是的。
Yeah.
他们会被抓住的。
They're gonna get it.
下一个。
Next one.
妻子并不享受她的第一次戴绿帽经历。
Wife is not enjoying her first cuckolding.
哦，
Oh,
不。
no.
哦。
Oh.
那就是标题。
That's the title.
这太糟了。
That sucks.
她对此并不感兴趣。
She's not into it.
当然。
Of course.
这真的引起了我的兴趣。
Which really piques my interest.
让我
Let me
告诉你。
tell you.
是的。
Yeah.
我敢肯定她也会被彻底击垮，最后可能还会哭。
And I'm sure she also gets destroyed and then probably cries at the end.
哦。
Oh.
男生们是
Guys are Or
这就像自慰一样，毫无高潮。
it's just like Jerking off anticlimactic.
这就是我想象中的样子。
Like, that's what I imagine.
太无聊了。
That it's so boring.
实际上，我并不怎么喜欢。
Actually, I didn't really like it.
是的。
Yeah.
下一个。
Next one.
一个陌生人意外地让我的妻子怀孕了。
Stranger accidentally comes inside my wife and got her pregnant.
意外地。
Accidentally.
陌生人。
Stranger.
怎么
How
他们怎么知道她怀孕了？
do they know she got pregnant?
没错。
Exactly.
我主要的问题是，这是一部色情片。
My main question is, like, this is a porn.
是的。
Yeah.
所以我在看是的。
So am I watching Yeah.
故事的哪一部分？
Which part of the story?
是的。
Yeah.
就像，这是真的。
Like, that's true.
我猜我正在看那个陌生人不小心进入你妻子的场景。
I presume I'm watching the stranger accidentally come inside your wife.
是的。
Yeah.
所以仅仅知道她怀孕了这个信息就是是的。
So just knowing the information like got her pregnant is Yeah.
我们怎么知道的？
How do we know?
我想他们一直保持联系。
I guess they kept in touch.
是的。
Yeah.
我想是吧。
I guess so.
我们需要一个续集。
We need a sequel.
他就像说，
He was like,
实际上，你知道，我相当确定我们应该上传这个。
actually, you know, I'm pretty sure that we should upload this.
疯狂的想法。
Crazy idea.
大众需要知道。
The masses need to know.
是的。
Yeah.
好吧。
Alright.
下一个。
Next one.
嗯嗯。
Uh-huh.
嘿，蠢货。
Hey, cuck.
我要狠狠地干你老婆。
I am ass fucking your wife.
我喜欢你为这个角色做的奇怪口音。
I love the weird accent that you do for this.
是的。
Yeah.
它让‘是的’变得更有感觉。
It turns on Yeah.
那里很具体。
It's specific there.
这就像是变成了一种奇怪的、欧洲混合口音，他们只在对决时才用。
It's like becoming this weird, like, European hybrid accent that they only do for the showdown.
这并不具体。
It's not specific.
你的妻子。
Your wife.
是的。
Yeah.
让这变得非常
Makes it very
你很具体。
specific you.
你的妻子。
Your wife.
我觉得
I feel like
我感觉有必要在听起来像奇怪的句子，或者像无关联的话时加上它。
I have I feel the need to put it on when it just feels like a weird sentence or like a or like a non sequitur.
对。
Right.
同意。
Agree.
我无法想象有人会说，嘿，操。
Can't imagine anyone being like, hey, cock.
我正在操你老婆。
I'm ass fucking your wife.
我根本无法想象有人会在闲聊中或做爱时说出这种话。
Like, I just can't imagine anyone saying that in passing or during a sex act.
我知道。
I know.
所以我当时想，这是一个愉快的对。
So I was like, this is a cheerful Yeah.
像是误解。
Like, misunderstanding.
嘿，伙计。
Hey, buddy.
问你老婆去吧。
Ask fucking your wife.
好的。
Alright.
下一个。
Next one.
好吧。
Okay.
抱歉。
Sorry.
我以为你已经结束了。
I I thought you were done.
我现在结束了。
I'm done now.
我来了。
Here I come.
我现在真的结束了。
I'm certainly done now.
我来了。
Here I come.
好吧。
Alright.
他进到我嘴里后，你会亲我一下吗，戴绿帽的？
Would you give me a kiss after he comes in my mouth cuckled?
艾莉。
Ellie.
好的。
Okay.
艾莉，你们有没有
Ellie, have you guys
做过这种事吗？
ever done that?
你有没有等一下。
Have you ever wait.
他射在你嘴里后，亲他一下。
Give him a kiss after he comes in your mouth.
你有没有
Have you
比如我朋友曾经让他射在她嘴里，然后又吐回她伴侣嘴里。
ever, like my friend had cum in her mouth and then spat it back out into her partner's.
哦。
Oh.
我15岁的时候在犹太日校，就发生了这件事。
And I this when I was 15 years old and I was, like, I was in, like, Jewish day school.
我听到后，直接晕过去了。
I heard this and I passed out, basically.
是的。
Yeah.
你当时是说啥？
You were, like, what?
但这难道不是个很火的问题吗？
But this is a hot thing question mark?
是的。
Yeah.
我不知道。
I don't know.
我的意思是，有些人
I mean, some people
很喜欢。
love it.
CEI规模很大。
Like, CEI is huge.
是的。
Yeah.
我觉得这是强烈的个人偏好。
Strong personal preference, I would say.
我确实曾在为男性口交后亲吻他们。
I've definitely kissed guys after going down on them.
但如果没有他们先主动，我就不会这么做。
I have not done so without them, like, sort of initiating.
我也从未把精液吐在别人脸上。
And I've never spat it in someone's face.
是的。
Yeah.
就像是啊。
Like Yeah.
但我 definitely知道，
But I definitely know,
比如在某人口中。
like in someone's mouth.
有很多人就是喜欢这样。
Plenty of those people that like that exist.
但我不会在没有同意的情况下尝试。
But I wouldn't try it without consent.
对。
Right.
它让我觉得
It makes me
同意。
Consent.
你知道，关于这个有一些对话，他问是因为我 honestly 认为这种事足够罕见，你可能想
Know, some dialogue around it, him asking because I honestly I think it's rare enough that you wanna be Could
你能想象如果搞砸了会怎样吗？
you imagine if it goes wrong?
你就直接走过去
You just like go up
亲吻那个人，直接把他们的精液放进他们嘴里。
to kiss the person, you just put their cum in their mouth.
像这样的事，会有很多男人生气的。
Like, there's gonna be a lot of guys angry with that.
是的。
Yeah.
会有很多男人
There's gonna be a lot of guys
这么认为。
that think so.
讽刺的是，有很多男人似乎并不在意你嘴里有他们的精液。
Ironically, there's a lot of guys who don't seem to be bothered Right.
去关心一下你嘴里含着他们的精液这件事。
To like check-in about you having their comment in your mouth.
哦，当然不会。
Oh, certainly not.
我的意思是，我不在乎。
I mean, don't I don't care.
我很感激。
I appreciate it.
提前告诉你接下来三十秒会发生什么。
Here's a heads up for what's gonna happen in the next thirty seconds.
所以你有多种方式来处理这件事。
So you have choices around how you handle it.
操的是，那些男人
What's fucked is like guys
就是那种，哦，我
that like are like, oh, I
我其实不想亲你。
I don't really wanna kiss you.
你吞了我的精液。
You swallowed my cum.
是的。
Yeah.
是的。
Yeah.
这太荒唐了。
That is fucked.
那到底是什么鬼东西？
What the fuck is that?
是的。
Yeah.
那到底是什么？
What is that actually?
你是个奇怪的、敏感的洁癖患者，但你确实这样。
You're a weird squeamish germaphobe but you Yeah.
你明明很乐意让我把让你觉得恶心的东西拿走。
You're well at, like, you're happy to have me, like, take the thing that grosses you out.
我就直接吞了。
Just swallowed it.
所以你不想，你根本不想让它现在变成我的余味，更别说那个物质了。
So and you don't wanna you don't want it's now in my aftertaste, let alone the substance.
它现在在我的肠道里，你知道的？
In my intestines, you know?
但你就是不想亲我，因为那东西曾经进过我的嘴。
But like you get you don't wanna kiss me because like it was once in my mouth.
别幼稚了。
Like, grow up.
等等。
Wait.
他们不想
They don't wanna
因为那东西曾经在你嘴里而吻你？
kiss you because it was once in your mouth?
是的。
Yeah.
我不认为那是他们不想
I don't think that's why they don't wanna
对。
Yeah.
吻我，我觉得
Kiss I think
他们不想尝自己的精液，对吧。
they don't wanna taste their own cum Right.
但不是因为你的……哦，我以为你是说，一旦精液碰到你的嘴唇，我就再也不想让它靠近我，而不是他们单纯对精液本身感到反感。
But not because your oh, I thought you were saying like, once the cum hits your lips, I don't want it anywhere near mine as opposed to them just being put off by the cum itself.
是的。
Yeah.
你明白吗？
Do you understand?
我不明白这两者有什么区别。
I don't understand the difference.
我跟不上你的思路了。
You've lost me.
我的意思是，我以为你说的是，
I mean, like I thought what you
他原本会吃自己的精液，但只是在它进入你嘴里之后就不吃了。
were saying is like, that he would eat his own cum except after it's been in your mouth.
就像，他会把它
Like, he'll put it
倒进杯子里，喝掉，
in a cup, drink it,
但他是说，如果它在你那脏
but it's He's like, if it's in your nasty
肛门里，婊子。
ass mouth, bitch.
我不想要。
I don't want it.
我不知道那
I don't know what the
你上次刷你那玩意儿的时候是什么情况。
last time you brushed your dick and yours were.
所以我不希望它靠近
So I don't want it anywhere near
我觉得他们觉得这很gay。
I think they think it's gay.
那是他们自己的精液。
It's their own fucking cum.
对。
Right.
这就像一种恐同的怪异行为。
It's like a homophobic weird.
是的。
Yeah.
就是是的。
It's Yeah.
或者只是
Or just a
一种普遍的恶心反应。
generally squeamish thing.
而且说实话，如果你们在听的话，伙计们，这会让你们在床上变得没那么有趣。
And honestly, like, if you're listening, guys, like, it makes you less fun in bed.
对。
Right.
就像，一般对某些事情感到不适，然后说，是的。
Like, just generally being squeamish and being like, yeah.
令人反感的身体事物。
Gross bodily stuff.
怪异。
Freaky.
比如，我会比你那样说‘哦，不’更感兴趣。
Like, that would be I'd be like way more into that than you being like, oh, no.
我不会，你知道的。
I'm not gonna, you know.
是的。
Yeah.
而且我总可以这么说，也许我们就在这里划个界限。
And I can always be like, maybe we draw the line here.
但是呢
But like
对那种自己精液弄在你身上的人感到奇怪，你知道的。
Being weird about like Someone who's their just own cum on on you, you know.
是的。
Yeah.
我就像是个精液抹布，而你却对怎么清理它感到恶心。
It's like And I'm a cum rag and like you're like squeamish about like where to like like how to clean it up.
是的。
Yeah.
奇怪的是，这种方式让人觉得受辱。
Weirdly, it's demeaning that way.
是的。
Yeah.
当他们不愿意处理它，却愿意把它放在你身上或体内时。
When they're unwilling to deal with it but they're willing to like put it on or inside of you.
对。
Right.
是的。
Yeah.
是的。
Yeah.
哦，等等。
Oh, wait.
这种情况会发生吗？
Does that happen?
但任何男性性伴侣都是如此。
But also just a guy any sexual partner.
在我生命中的某个时候，这种事情确实发生过。
At some point in my life it has happened.
现在我觉得我和一些更成熟的伴侣发生关系了，希望如此，借个吉言。
Now I feel like I'm I'm having sex with people who are more grown up hopefully, knock on wood.
那些有自己专用抹布的人。
Who have their own cum rags.
是的。
Yeah.
对。
Yeah.
没错。
Exactly.
但你知道，有些男人对这种事会很奇怪，你懂的。
But you know, there are some guys who are like weird about that, you know.
是的。
Yeah.
这会让人
It's a turn
扫兴。
off to me.
我的意思是，我理解每个人都有自己的界限，但有些人就是普遍对某些事感到不适。
Like I I get that we all have boundaries, but someone just generally being squeamish.
对。
Right.
比如对汗水、精液之类的东西都感到反感。
Like, about like sweat and cum and like anything.
当一个男生一提到月经就说‘好恶心’的时候，这也让我觉得倒胃口。
Like, it's also a turn off when a guy's like, oh, period.
我就会想，你简直像个孩子。
I'm like, you're a child.
天啊。
God.
我不是说你非得去吃它，但至少别一副好像你的阴茎碰都不能碰的样子。
I don't you don't need to eat it, but like Yeah.
别表现得好像你的阴茎不能靠近它一样。
Don't act like your dick can't go anywhere near it.
是的。
Yeah.
但是你也会把你的阴茎放进我的肛门吗？
Like But also you'd put your dick in my ass?
是的。
Like yeah.
你明白我的意思吗？
You know what I mean?
他们会说，我不想在你经期时和你做爱，但我绝对愿意操你的屁股。
Like, they'll be like, I don't wanna have sex with you on your period but I will certainly fuck your butthole.
我还没遇到过这种情况。
I have not encountered that.
我觉得大家都这样，是的，我男朋友不想在经期时和我做爱。
I feel like that's what everyone's like, yeah, my boyfriend doesn't wanna have sex with meow me, period.
所以我们只做肛交。
So we just do anal.
我就想，这怎么就更……怎么就不更乱呢？
And I'm like, how is that any more like, how is that any less messy?
这要糟糕得多。
It's so much worse.
是的。
Yeah.
我就想，
And I'm like,
从他的角度看，这怎么就不更恶心呢？
and how is that any less, like, gross from his perspective?
他就会说，月经？绝对不行。
Like, he's like, oh, menses, absolutely not.
肛门分泌物？我乐意之至。
Like, booty snot, here for it.
至少肛门
Booty At least the
血液就像是额外的润滑剂。
blood is like extra lube.
是的。
Yeah.
没错。
Exactly.
我的意思是，这是粪便润滑剂。
I mean, it's poop lubricant.
我的意思是，有
I mean, there
就是那种奇怪的现象，臀部黏液，你知道的。
is that weird thing that happens, booty snot, you know.
我知道，而且
I know and
我不明白什么是臀部黏液？
I don't know what what is booty snot?
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