无性恋

嗨，我是米里亚姆。

Hi I'm Miriam.

我是阿里尔。

I'm Ariel.

你正在收听《七分钟在天堂》。

And you're listening to seven minutes in heaven.

这是由浪荡女子制作的性新闻播客。

The sex news podcast by sluts.

为浪荡女子而做。

For sluts.

今天我们聊聊一家被坑了的性玩具公司。

Today we're talking about a sex toy company that got fucked over.

而且不是好事的那种。

And not in a good way.

韩国的性教育。

Sex ed in South Korea.

我们还会探讨无性恋。

And we explore asexuality.

我们还会回答一位听众关于如何走出分手阴影的问题。

We also answer a question from a listener about getting over a breakup.

好了，我们开始录音了。

Alright, we are recording.

没错，我们准备好了。

Hell yeah, we Okay.

这是第二集，对吧？

This is episode two, right?

没错，没错。

Hell yeah, it is.

这周你做过什么性感的事？

What's something sexy you did this week?

好的。

Okay.

我觉得我做的事很性感又自信，你可能看过我的Instagram，但咱们先开始吧。

I think it was sexy confident what I did, and I think you saw my Instagram, but Get started.

然后我和一个来自Bumble的男生约会了，他真是个典型的犹太好男孩。

Then I went on a date with this guy from Bumble, and he was such a quintessential nice Jewish boy.

哎呀。

Aw.

他超可爱的，但我对他完全没有化学反应，而且他在性方面一点都不自信，我想。

And he was super cute, but I didn't feel any chemistry with him, and he wasn't confident like, in having sex, I guess.

所以根本没意思。

So it was just not fun.

不过我还是和他发生了关系。

I did have sex with him though.

第二天他给我发了消息，我说：‘很高兴你玩得开心’，因为他写了‘我玩得很开心’。

And the next day he texted me and I was like, oh, I'm glad you had fun because he said I had fun.

他回我说：‘我也很高兴你玩得开心？’

And he was like, glad you had fun too, question mark?

我当时想：天哪。

And I was like, oh shit.

我不知道该说什么。

I don't know what to say.

所以有人告诉我，他们给了我一个话术模板，让我别直接消失，因为那真的太糟糕了。

So someone told me that they gave me this template of something to say and to not ghost because that's really fucked up.

我当时想：我完全能理解。

I was like, I totally feel that.

我真希望人们能直接告诉我他们没兴趣，而不是干脆不理我。

I wish that people would just tell me they weren't interested rather than just ignore me.

所以这是但

So this is But

我觉得被忽视就像在说：好吧，我猜你没兴趣，对吧？

I feel like being ignored, it's like, okay, I guess you're not interested, you know?

是的，但坦诚才是最好的做法，诚实是最好的策略。

Yeah, but transparency is the best policy, honest and honest policy.

是的。

Yeah.

如果我希望别人对我诚实，那我也得以身作则，做到诚实，不能当懦夫。

And if I want people to be honest with me, then I need to set an example and be honest too and not be like a coward.

他值得被告诉，除非他做了什么特别过分的事，否则我就直接拉黑他。

He deserved to unless he did something really mean, then I would just block him.

或者当这是让对方不再纠缠你的唯一办法时，比如你已经明确告诉过他们了，但他们还是不断给你发消息。

Or if it's the only way to get someone to leave you alone, like you've already told them and they keep texting you.

是的。

Yeah.

也许我们可以制定一个规则，比如‘可以不拉黑，但不能直接消失’。

Maybe we should do something like one to ghost and not to ghost.

是的。

Yeah.

是的，这不错。

Yeah, that's cool.

好的。

Okay.

这周你做了什么让你觉得有魅力的事？

What was your sexy thing that you did this week?

好的，我对此真的很兴奋。

Okay I'm really excited about this.

我等了整整两个小时才听到这个。

I've been waiting to hear this for the past two hours.

我九月份在Bumble上匹配到一个男生，我们约过几次会，有过几次性关系，但他搬去华盛顿特区了，所以——

There's this guy I matched with on Bumble like back in September and we went on a few dates and we had sex a few times but he moved to DC so

这真的太让人性压抑了。

That's so sexually frustrating.

是啊，因为他家人住在这儿，所以他住在那里，每次他来纽约我们都会见面。

Yeah like it's just like when he's in his family lives here so he lives there so whenever he's in New York we hang out.

所以他昨晚过来时，我告诉他我要去睡觉了，但你到了就给我打电话。

And so he came over last night, I I was told him I'm gonna go to sleep but call me when you're here.

把我叫醒做爱。

Wake me up for sex.

真的。

Literally.

是的，我们做了很多次，我都累坏了，他体力特别好，我也高潮了很多次。

And yeah we were fucking a lot and I was worn out, like he just had a lot of stamina and I cum a lot.

而且因为我是被叫醒的，所以很累，我就开始摸他的阴茎，然后他就把我的手引向了他的肛门。

Also I was tired because I was woken up, so I just started like touching his dick and then he like brought my hand into his butthole.

太好了。

Yay.

然后我就用手指插了他的屁眼。

And so I like fucked his butthole with my finger.

天哪。

Oh my god.

知道。

Know.

我以前做过，但已经很久没做了，而且也没像那样做过。

And I like I've done it before but I haven't done it in a really long time and I haven't done it like that.

这次真的是，哇，进进出出，我以前只是轻轻揉了揉，但这次我可是很卖力。

Like this was like, woo, like in and out like really like I've done a little like gentle rubbing, but I was really going at it.

我很喜欢用力的。

I really liked it hard.

是的。

Yeah.

而且他

And he

这是他的第一次肛交吗？

Was really it his liked first butt?

操。

Fucking.

我觉得不是，因为他真的把我的手指往里推。

I don't think so because he really he moved my finger in

天啊。

Oh damn.

我没问，有大便吗？

I didn't ask Was there any poop?

没有，没有。

No, there wasn't.

哦。

Oh.

谢天谢地。

Thank god.

是的。

Yeah.

虽然没有大便，但我有

There wasn't poop but I have

要说

to say

他当时靠得很近，突然抓住我，让我趴在他身上，然后我们做了爱，让他射出来。

he when he was like close, he like grabbed me and put me on top of him, and we like had sex for him to finish.

那时候，我真能闻到我的手指。

And during that time, I could really smell my finger.

哦。

Oh.

真恶心。

Gross.

闻起来像屁股洞，但我洗了整整五分钟。

Smelled like booty hole, but I washed it for like five minutes.

呸。

Ew.

我当时就想，我赶紧去趟洗手间吧。

I was like, I'm just gonna go to the bathroom real quick.

然后就一直搓着我的手指。

And then just like rubbing my finger.

真他妈恶心。

Fucking gross.

没那么难闻。

It didn't smell that bad.

不像粪便的味道，就是像屁股洞的味道。

It didn't smell like poop, it just smelled like booty hole.

我不知道。

I don't know

是的。

what Yes.

不，我明白了。

No I get it.

就像，我想我们都清楚屁股洞是什么味道。

It's like think we all know what booty hole smells like.

但这让我想到，我总以为男生把手指伸进我阴道后，会想尝一口。

But it got me to thinking like I always expect guys when they're putting their finger in my vagina to like want to taste it after.

你知道吗，有时候我会尝一下，我想让他们真正享受它的气味和味道，所以我觉得自己对他那个屁股洞感到恶心有点不太好意思。

Know like sometimes I'll taste it, like I want them to really enjoy the way it smells and tastes, so I felt kind of bad being grossed out by his booty hole.

这不一样，因为那里有粪便。

It's just different because poop is in there.

是的。

Yeah.

粪便不会在她的阴道里。

Poop's not in like her vaginas.

是的。

Yeah.

你在擦拭。

You're wiping up.

是的。

Yeah.

之后就是粪便了。

Poop after that.

你做这件事的时候觉得特别热吗？

Did you feel really hot doing it?

是的，这既性感又让人充满力量。

Yeah it was sexy and empowering.

他的反应，当你们把东西放进男人的肛门时，他们的反应是独一无二的。

His reactions, the way men react when you put something in their butthole is like no other.

任何口交都无法带来这样的反应。

No blow job could ever bring that sort of reaction.

这真的是一种全身性的体验。

It's really like a kind of full body.

也许他们出于某种原因想这么做。

Maybe they want to do that for some reason.

是的，我

Yeah I

我知道，也许他们真的很想尝试被插，因为这才是关键。

know and maybe really want to peg because that's the thing.

你真是个喜欢被插的人，你应该试试。

You're such a peggger you should.

我另外意识到一件事，就是我总期待男人能有十足的耐力，给我用手指插入时不会累，但我的手却真的累坏了。

Another thing that I realized is that like I expect guys to have full stamina and go in like with fingering me and not get tired but my hand got really tired.

我不得不靠另一只手来支撑住。

I had to like hold it with my other hand.

哦，这真的太累了。

Oh it's so tiring.

是的。

Yeah.

比如我有几次给女孩用手时，觉得特别吃力，因为我觉得必须把手放在她肚子上支撑自己，才能继续给她做手指刺激。

Like I guess a couple times that I fingered a girl, I felt it was very difficult because I felt like I had to put my hand on her stomach to support myself like know, fingering her.

是的。

Yeah.

而且确实想立刻停下来，所以我总觉得很难高潮，因为我对男人感到愧疚，觉得他们可能也累了。

And yeah, wanted to stop immediately so that's why I feel like I have a hard time coming because I feel bad for the guys and I think like, oh they're probably tired.

但最近有些人告诉我，我不该假设他们累了，只要他们累了自然会停下来。

But some people told me recently that I just shouldn't assume they're tired and just when they're tired they'll stop.

而且，我虽然累了，但还是玩得很开心。

Also like I got tired but I still had a good time.

是的。

Yeah.

我当时就想，我不希望累，我想继续下去。

Like I was like I don't want to be tired I want to keep going.

我想看看这件事会怎么发展。

I want to see like how this will go.

你的手会出汗吗？

Do you sweat hands?

我不希望这样。

I didn't want to.

我不希望像那样

I didn't want to like

手太湿了？

Too poopy hands?

我没那样，但也不想不得不停下来，

I didn't that but I also didn't want to like have to like pull out,

再回来，你知道的，

come back in, like you know

我们当时有节奏了。

we had a rhythm going.

但我用了润滑剂，挺好玩的，正好手边有。

But I got I used lube which was fun, had it on hand.

酷。

Cool.

我当时就想，咱们来点润滑剂吧。

And I was like let's get some lube in here.

天啊，

Oh my god,

我只是在想，他说我特别有趣。

I'm just And he was like you're so fun.

我就说，是的，是的。

And I was like yeah, yeah.

那也太高了吧。

That is so high.

给那个家伙点个赞。

Shout out that guy.

他现在回华盛顿特区了吗？

And he's back in DC now?

是的。

Yeah.

他今天就要回去了。

He's going back today.

哦，真遗憾。

Oh, RIP.

酷。

Cool.

好吧，等他回来的时候告诉我一声，屁股洞先生。

Well, let me know when he's back, mister Bootyhole.

我会的。

I will.

酷。

Cool.

屁股洞先生是他的化名。

Mister Bootyhole is his pseudonym.

性新闻。

Sex news.

性新闻。

Sex news.

你想开始吗？

Do you wanna start?

是的。

Yeah.

我可以开始。

I can start.

我当然可以。

I can certainly.

好的，我找到一项研究，显示有四分之一的女性在性健康诊所中表示，她们在生殖生活中曾遭遇过强迫行为，这意味着在这些性健康诊所中的女性，有四分之一的人说她们的伴侣曾干扰她们的避孕措施，比如藏起避孕药之类的。

Okay, so I found this study that said that one in four women at sexual health clinics report coercion over their reproductive lives, which means that one in four women who are at these sexual health clinics have said that their partners, sort of fuck with their birth control or like hold their birth control hostage or whatever.

什么？

What the fuck?

所以我认为，从那项研究中最重要的一个点是，去年Vice曾报道过，但内容比较模糊。

So I think one of the biggest things from that that it was, Vice wrote about it last year so it was kind of vague.

我不知道你是否听说过‘偷换安全套’这个术语。

I don't know if you know the term stealthing.

嗯。

Mhmm.

好的。

Okay.

当一个男人摘掉避孕套，或者我觉得甚至是一个女人。

When a dude removes a condom or I think even a girl.

不过我不清楚一个女人要怎么从男人身上摘掉避孕套。

Although I don't know how a girl would remove a condom from a dude.

哦，不会吧。

Oh, no.

除非他喝得特别特别醉。

Unless he's like really really drunk.

或者如果一个女人根本没吃避孕药，

Or if a girl doesn't actually take birth control and

她说她吃了，

she says

但这项研究本来就是关于女性的。

that she was, but this study is about women anyway.

所以，是的，当你在性行为中摘掉避孕套时，这就相当于撤销了之前同意的效力。

So yeah, so like when you remove the condom during sex that's like that invalidates the consent given.

而且你还不告诉对方，比如他们根本没注意到你已婚。

And you don't tell the person that you like they don't notice that you were married.

是的，他们完全不知道。

Yeah they have no idea.

这太恶劣了。

That's fucked.

是的，你可能会感染性病之类的，不只是

Yeah you can like get STIs and shit not

你可能会怀孕。

You can get pregnant.

是的，还会怀孕，这太糟糕了。

Yeah and pregnant it's horrible.

这太无礼了。

That's so rude.

所以，各位，停一下。

So guys, stop.

别这么做。

Don't do that.

是的。

Yeah.

我曾经被偷换过避孕套。

I was stealthed once.

你有跟他提过这件事吗？

Did you say anything to him about it?

是的。

Yeah.

我就说：去你的。

Was like fuck you.

所以我吃了紧急避孕药，但他连一半的费用都不愿意出。

So I took plan b and he didn't offer to pay for half of it even.

他应该全款支付。

He should have paid for all of it.

他是

He's the

你之所以这样都是因为他，但即使一半的费用他都没出，这真的很无礼。

reason why you're taking know but even at least half of it he didn't so that was really rude.

好吧。

Okay.

他是个混蛋吗？

If he's a shit?

是的。

Yeah.

他需要一个八分饼。

He needs an eight pie.

如果你要潜行，那你不是个好人。

If you're gonna stealth you're not good person.

是的。

Yeah.

好吧，你想分享一个吗？

Okay, you wanna share one?

是的，在英国有一个新的规定，我想这类似于一项法律或运动，基本上应该算是一条法律。

Yeah, in The UK there's this new, I guess it's like a law or a movement, basically I guess it's a law.

他们要求观看色情内容的人必须验证自己年满18岁才能观看，因此他们必须使用外部程序来核查你的身份证或信用卡信息。

They're making it required for porn watchers to verify that they're over 18 in order to watch porn so they have to like create these external programs that like check your ID or your credit card.

但你

But do you

需要扫描仪来做这个吗？

need like a scanner to do that?

有一个第三方年龄验证系统。

There's like a third party age verification system.

我认为你需要输入你的信用卡信息之类的，但你仍然可以借用你哥哥的身份证。

I believe you like enter in your credit card information or something so you could still like borrow your older brother's ID or something.

老大哥。

Big brother.

是的。

Yeah.

好的。

Okay.

是的，但我觉得很有趣的是，随着互联网存在的时间足够长，它不再那么无政府状态了，我们现在开始为各种行为添加监管，比如我们使用Netflix这样的平台。

Yeah but I thought it was interesting that they're trying to like now that I feel like the internet's been around long enough that it's not so unregulated we're starting to add all these regulations to like what we do Netflix.

现在你很难再非法找到电影了。

Now you can't find movies illegally really.

天啊，Mega Video倒闭了。

Oh my god mega video is dead.

是的，再见了，放个屏蔽器，那真是疯狂。

Yeah, RIP, put blocker, that was crazy.

但是

But

是的，现在你必须核实他们至少在努力尝试，我认为色情内容实际上是推动创新的主要动力，所以我们会看看如果这种方式有效会怎样，但我认为……

yeah now you have to verify that they're at least trying and I mean I think that like porn is the one thing that really fuels innovation so we'll see what happens with that if it works but I thought

我很好奇如果对色情内容进行如此多的限制，青少年的性行为是否会因此发生变化，是的，是的。

that I'm was interested to see the studies that occur from that if like they restrict porn so much if anything changes in teens sexual habits, Yeah, yeah.

但我希望不会限制得那么久。

But I hope it's not like that long enough that would restrict them.

好的，明白了。

Cool, okay.

我要分享一个吗？

Should I share one?

还是需要更多信息？

Or have more info?

那是你的一些观点。

That's a few of yours.

很好。

Cool.

最近在拉斯维加斯举办了一场消费电子协会展会，会上发生了两件我觉得很有新闻价值的事情。

So there was this, consumer electronic association show in Las Vegas recently, and there were two things that happened there that I thought were pretty newsworthy.

有一家名为‘Oh My God’的性玩具公司推出了一款可以通过Alexa控制的振动器，你只需说：‘嘿，Alexa，让我高潮’就行。

There was this sex toy company called Oh My God and they made this vibrator that can be controlled by your Alexa so you can just be like, hey Alexa, make me cum.

这对于异地恋情侣来说非常实用。

And this is really good for long distance relationships.

我只是想知道，这怎么做到的？

I just How?

你的伴侣可以通过一个应用程序，无论身在何处，都能控制这个振动器。

Your partner can control it, the vibrator, with an app no matter where they are.

他们能用他们的Alexa来控制你的振动器吗？

Can they use their Alexa to control your vibrator?

我不这么认为。

I don't think so.

哦。

Oh.

就像你家里的振动器。

Like your vibrator at home.

我不知道。

I I don't know.

我收回刚才的话，也许吧。

I'm gonna take that back, maybe.

我不明白这怎么运作。

I don't know how that works.

我觉得

I feel like

它可以被设置好。

it could be configured.

是的。

Yeah.

比如，Alexa，让我女朋友高潮。

Like Alexa, make my girlfriend come.

是的。

Yeah.

嗯，这个产品好像要到明年才会上市。

Well, that's not available until like next year I think.

还有第二件事，Laura DeCarlo 是一家新的性玩具公司，我以前从来没听说过。

And then the second thing, Laura DeCarlo is a new sex toy company, I've never heard of it.

我想它是新成立的。

I guess it's new.

是的，我从来没听说过，他们推出了一款叫 Ose 的产品，我觉得。

Yeah I've never heard of so they created this product called Ose, I think.

它能带来混合性高潮，混合性高潮我觉得是指阴蒂和阴道高潮。

And it gives you a blended orgasm and a blended orgasm is like I think clitoral and vaginal orgasm.

G点？

G spot?

是的。

Yeah.

不错。

Nice.

是的。

Yeah.

所以，那种混合型的高潮我还是更喜欢。

It's So That's the only still kind of orgasms more I like.

它的描述太棒了。

It says, this description is so cool.

它说，他们使用先进的微型机器人技术，模拟人类嘴巴、舌头和手指的所有感觉。

It says, They use advanced micro robotics to mimic all the sensations of a human mouth, tongue, fingers.

哦。

Oh.

带来如同真实伴侣般的体验，无需依赖麻木感的震动。

For an experience that feels just like a real partner, no need for desensitizing vibration.

它甚至能根据你的身体调整，提供个性化的贴合感，精准触达每一个敏感点，因为你的双手还有更好的用途。

It even adapts to your body for a personal fit that hits all the right spots because there are better uses for your hands.

这太创新、太疯狂了，我光是看就兴奋了

Is like innovative and crazy, like I'm horny just

读着

reading

这个协会意识到它有多棒，给了他们一个很高的荣誉，但后来又收回了，理由是：CTA认为任何被视为不道德、淫秽、低俗、粗俗或不符合CTA形象的参赛作品将被取消资格。

And the so this association recognized how amazing it was, gave them this really high honor and then they took it away and their excuse was that they said entries deemed by CTA in their sole discretion to be immoral, obscene, indecent, profane or not in keeping with CTA's image will be disqualified.

什么鬼？

What the fuck?

所以他们说保留取消任何作品资格的权利。

So they say they reserve the right to disqualify anything.

所以

So

那女性高潮算淫秽吗？

So is female orgasm is obscene?

是的，正是如此。

Yeah, exactly.

为什么？

Why?

因为他们只是想控制我们，老兄，这是父权制，我们必须推翻它。

Because they're just trying to control us dude, patriarchy, we need to dismantle it.

这就是为什么我真正相信，推翻父权制要从卧室开始，只有当女性性快感的差距被弥合，表明女性的愉悦和男性的愉悦同样重要时，才能实现平等。

And this is why I truly believe that dismantling the patriarchy starts in the bedroom and until female pleasure orgasm gap is closed indicating that female pleasure Is just as important As men's there will be equality.

是的，我

Yeah, I

同意。

agree.

这就是我为什么在这里。

That's why I'm here.

是的，是的。

Yeah, yeah.

那是一个击掌。

That was a high five.

还有屁股一巴掌。

And a booty cheek slap.

但这太扯了。

That's fucked though.

至少他们赢了奖，即使后来被收回了。

Mean at least they won the award even if it was taken back.

就像不能反悔，我们都懂。

It's like no takesies backsies, We all know.

食物配得上。

Food deserves it.

是的，比如什么？

Yeah like what?

太蠢了。

So stupid.

只要一上市我就买。

And I'm buying that as soon as it's like available I

希望不是一百万美元。

hope it's not like a million dollars.

如果是的话，我就把我的4美元一千块兑现了。

If it is I'm cashing in my $4.00 1 k.

太棒了。

Amazing.

好吧。

Alright.

所以我要

So I have

有个有趣的性新闻。

a cool bit of sex news.

2015年在韩国，出台了非常性别歧视的性教育指导方针，里面甚至有像‘男性无法控制自己的性冲动’这种疯狂的句子。

So in 2015 in South Korea, these really sexist guidelines for teaching sex education came out, including like crazy sentences like talking about how men can't control their sexual urges.

还有一些句子说，女性只想要一个男人，而男性则想要多个女人。

There are sentences that say like females only want one man whereas men want more than one woman.

女性需要注重自己的外表，而男性则需要努力赚很多钱。

Women have to work on their appearance and men have to work on making a lot of money.

如果一个男人在约会上花了很多钱，那么他期望得到回报也就不足为奇了。

And if a man spends a lot of money on a date, it makes sense that he's going to want to expect to be compensated for that.

显然，这些内容并不是父母希望孩子学到的。

So obviously like this isn't stuff that parents want their children learning.

因此，出现了大量私人性教育课程。

So there's been this crazy burst of private sex education classes.

比如在放学后或周末，父母会送孩子去参加非性别歧视的性教育课程。

So like after school on weekends, parents are sending their kids to learn sex education that isn't sexist.

这真是太棒了。

That is so amazing.

对吧？

Right?

而且很进步。

And progressive Yeah.

来自一个你不会指望这样的国家

Of a country you wouldn't expect that from

我

I

感觉。

feel like.

我知道。

I know.

就像性教育讲得很容易。

It's like a sex ed speak easy.

是的。

Yeah.

而且这也很合理，尤其是我觉得在美国，很多学校并不被要求向学生提供准确的性知识，我一定会送孩子去私立机构学习。

And it's also like it makes sense, mean especially I feel like in The US where a lot of our schools aren't required to tell their students medically accurate information about sex, I would totally send my child to a private place that would teach them.

因为我觉得父母有时真的不知道该如何跟孩子谈性，尤其是孩子才五岁的时候，对吧？

Because I feel like parents don't really know what to tell your kids sometimes about sex, especially if they're five, know?

你该怎么跟五岁的孩子谈性呢？

What do

那和十岁、十五岁的孩子又有什么不同呢？

you tell a five year old about sex versus like a 10 year old versus a 15 year old?

这倒是个赚钱的好机会，我们可以考虑一下，我们可以去

So it's a good place to make some money off of, we should consider yeah, we can go to

韩国。

South Korea.

我觉得我们已经

Well I feel like we're

在进行一场国际巡演了。

on a International tour.

是的。

Yeah.

对，而且我觉得我们也应该

Yeah and I think we should also

我们聊聊学习吧？

Should we talk about our studies?

哦，是的，对对对。

Oh yeah, yeah yeah.

不过这周我们讨论的是无性恋。

So this week though we're talking about asexuality.

哇哦。

Woo.

哇哦。

Woo.

我找到一项2004年的研究，虽然已经很久了，但说实话，要找到很多关于无性恋的研究真的很难。

I found a study that was from 2004 which is a long time ago, but it was honestly pretty difficult to find a lot of studies on asexuality.

实际上相关的研究非常少，我觉得这很遗憾，但讨论它很重要。

There's really not that much research which I think sucks and it's important to talk about.

但我读的这项研究发表在《性研究杂志》上。

But the study I read was, published in the Journal of Sex Research.

它名为《全国概率样本中的普遍性及相关因素》。

It's called Prevalence and Associated Factors in a National Probability Sample.

作者是安东尼·博加特。

And, it's by Anthony Bogart.

我们来告诉你他的姓氏，因为他知道。

We'll Oh give you his last name as he know.

知道。

Knows

不，但我上大学时写过一篇关于无性恋的论文，提到了他的研究。

No, but I wrote this paper about asexuality in college and I talked about his research.

是的，我找研究的时候，他似乎就是那个关键人物。

Yeah, I actually, when I was looking for studies he seemed to be like the guy.

如果他没写这项研究，那也会有人引用他，是的，是的。

If he didn't write the study then like someone was referencing Yeah, yeah.

这挺可爱的。

Which is cute.

因此，他将自己的性取向定义为对任何性别的伴侣都没有性吸引力。

So he defines his sexuality as having no sexual attraction to a partner of any sex.

实际上，他当时说的是男性或女性，但那是2004年，而现在是2019年，所以我们这里更新一下，说任何性别。

Well he actually said to men or women, but that's 2004 and this is 2019, so I'm saying any Yeah we're updating here.

他所做的，是通过英国一项约18,000人的全国概率抽样调查，设计了问卷问题，询问受访者是否对他人有性吸引力。

So what he did, he got this national probability sample done in The UK of about 18,000 people and they had questions in the survey that they sent out to all these people that were like, do you feel sexual attraction towards people?

基本上是一些用来衡量你是否属于无性恋的问题，结果发现有1.05%的受访者表现出无性恋倾向。

Like basically questions that measured if you were asexual or not and they found that one point zero five percent of the people who answered displayed like asexual tendencies.

于是，他们将这1.05%的人群与其余人群进行对比，分析是否存在影响无性恋的某些因素。

So they took those one point zero five percent and analyzed them versus the rest of the population to see if there's any sort of factors that contribute to asexuality.

他们发现了一些因素。

So they found a few.

他们发现人口统计、健康状况、身体发育和宗教信仰等变量都能独立预测无性恋倾向。

They found demographic, health, physical development, and religiosity variables predicted asexuality, and they all predicted it independently.

这表明，无性恋可能通过多种途径形成，包括生物性和心理社会性的路径。

So that suggests that there may be a number of pathways, both biological and psychosocial, that lead to asexuality.