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因为所有人都愤怒地评论说：‘什么鬼？’

Because all these people commented angrily like, what the fuck?

出轨是不对的。

It's not okay to cheat.

听起来你们沟通有问题，是的。

Sounds like you have bad communication Yeah.

问题。

Problems.

你是怎么找到这个页面的？

Like, do you how did you even find this page?

是的。

Yeah.

还有，去你的。

Also, fuck you.

是的。

Yeah.

我当时真的很沮丧，因为我们俩都很难过。

I was really upset about we were both very upset.

是的。

Yeah.

请只给正面的反馈。

Only good feedback, please.

是的。

Yeah.

我们无法应对负面的评价。

We can't handle the negative.

这根本没必要，真的不值得。

It's like really not It's not warranted.

不过，人们对作弊真的特别生气。

People are really butthurt about cheating though.

他们真的无法接受。

They really can't handle it.

好吧，各位，我爸爸出轨了我妈妈。

Well, look guys, my dad cheated on my mom.

这种事总会发生的。

It happens.

这本来就是游戏规则。

It's the name of the game.

是的。

Yeah.

这本来就是游戏规则。

It's the name of the game.

早晚都会对每个人出轨。

Gonna cheat on everyone night day.

我能听见我的室友在笑。

I can hear my roommate laughing.

总之，他当时说，我太丢人了。

Anyhoozies, he was like, I'm so embarrassed.

我当时说，是的，我明白。

I was like, yeah, I get it.

这真的太尴尬了。

That's really embarrassing.

这

That's

是。

it.

我谈恋爱的时候骗过我的前男友。

I cheated on my ex when we were dating.

我觉得我在上一期提过这件事。

I think I talked about this in the episode.

是的。

Yeah.

但我一直没告诉他，直到我们大吵了一架。

But then I didn't tell him about it until we got into a big fight.

我当时就说：‘我确实骗了你。’

And I was like, well, I cheated on you.

天啊，玛吉。

Oh my god, Marge.

我知道。

I know.

但他却说：‘我也骗了你。’

But then he was like, well, I cheated on you too.

但我觉得他其实并没有。

But I don't think he actually has.

我觉得他只是说

I think he was just saying

那个

that

为了

to make

我吃醋了。

me jealous.

是的。

Yeah.

他就像说，我也是。

He's like, well, so do I.

我当时说，好吧。

I was like, alright.

对。

Yeah.

她叫什么名字？

What's her name?

谁？

With whomst?

说出她三次高潮的名字。

Name three of her orgasms.

我觉得上一集我笑得太厉害了。

I feel like I was laughing way too much in the last episode.

事情挺搞笑的。

Things are funny.

是的。

Yeah.

别试图压抑自己。

Don't try to censor yourself.

好的。

Okay.

做你自己。

Be yourself.

是的。

Yeah.

设定新的。

Set new.

有一项新研究。

There's a new study.

你看过这个吗？

Have you seen this?

这项研究发现，不存在所谓的‘同性恋基因’。

That found that there is no gay gene.

以前有些人认为，没有特定的基因能决定一个人的性取向，而这项研究证实了这一点。

So that was kind of something people thought for a while that there's no specific gene that determines your sexuality, but this study confirmed it.

是的。

Yeah.

我看到很多关于这项研究的标题，觉得有些表述很混乱，好像在暗示真的存在一个‘同性恋基因’。

I saw a lot of headlines about it, and I thought some of them were confusing that they worded it and made it seem like there was a gay gene.

对。

Yeah.

我来解释一下。

So I'll explain.

请讲。

Please do.

基本上，这些研究人员通过23andMe分析了50万人的基因组。

Basically, these researchers looked at the genomes of 500,000 people through 23andMe.

所以他们就是这么处理你的数据的。

So that's what they're doing with your data.

这项研究是由23andMe资助的吗？

Was it sponsored by 23andMe?

我不知道。

I don't know.

你应该知道的。

Well, you should.

我不这么认为。

I don't think so.

但也有可能。

But it could be.

所以他们发现并没有所谓的‘同性恋基因’。

So they found there is no gay gene.

他们确实发现大约25%的性行为由基因决定，但其余部分则发生在子宫内，这一点我们在关于同性恋科学的那期节目中讨论过。

They did find that about 25% of sexual behavior is determined by your genes, but the rest of what's determined is happens in the womb, which we talked about in our science of homosexuality episode.

但没人听那期节目。

Which nobody listens to

因为你被听到了。

you because you're listened.

你们都是恐同的。

You're all homophobic.

是的。

Yeah.

那是一期非常好的节目。

It's a really good episode.

对。

Yeah.

这是关于‘你为什么是同性恋’的科学解释。

It's the science of, like, why are you gay?

是的。

Yeah.

你知道的。

You know?

但简单来说，如果你不想回头去听那期节目——其实你应该去听——很多事都发生在子宫内，子宫内的环境会促使你成为同性恋或非典型性取向，我想是这样。

But, basically, if you don't wanna go back and listen to it, which you should, a lot of things happen in utero, the environment in the uterus that causes you to be gay or non normative, I guess.

这项研究并不完美，因为它主要聚焦于顺性别者。

The study wasn't perfect because it primarily focused on cis people.

它没有关注双性人或跨性别者。

It didn't focus on intersex or trans people

完全忽略了。

at all.

基本上把他们的

Basically got rid of their

研究中的基因。

genes for the study.

嗯。

Mhmm.

但这很有趣。

But it's interesting.

了解我们为何如此的科学固然好，但这并不会真正改变什么。

It's good to know the science of why we are the way we are, but it doesn't really change anything.

所以我还是不明白。

So I'm still confused.

不明白什么？

About what?

你说在子宫里，就有什么东西决定了你是否是同性恋

You're saying they're, in utero, there is something that determines if you're gay

或者不是。

or not.

这并不是说你的基因直接决定了你长大后的样子，对吧？

It's not so your genes are like they're what determine they determine what you're gonna be like, right, when you come out.

但你的环境也同样重要。

But your environment's really important too.

所以，当你还没出生、仍在发育时，你所处的环境。

So the environment that you are inside of when you are not born yet, but still developing.

当你还是

When you're

一个胎儿时。

a fetus.

是的。

Yeah.

当你还是胎儿时，体内会有不同的激素。

When you're a fetal, there's different hormones.

比如，在关于同性恋成因的研究中，我们讨论过‘兄弟效应’或‘年长兄弟效应’，即男性拥有的年长兄弟越多，他成为同性恋的可能性就越高。

So, like, in the signs of homosexuality study, we talked about how the little brother effect or the older brother effect, how the more older brothers, man has, the more likely he is to be gay.

这是因为母亲产生了抗体，开始攻击睾酮。

And it's because the mom develops antibodies, like, starts attacking testosterone.

于是胎儿在子宫内接触到的睾酮减少，这就导致他们成为同性恋。

Then they get less in the womb and that causes them to be gay.

对。

Right.

那是我的研究，但我当时不知道怎么解释。

That was my study that I didn't know how to explain.

所以米里亚姆解释了。

So Miriam explained it.

去听听她的说法。

Go listen to it.

是的。

Yeah.

关键是，这仍然不是一种选择。

Basically, you know, it's still not a choice is the point.

是的。

Yeah.

所以你们所有该死的

So all of you fucking

恐同者。

Homophobes.

恐同且信教的共和党人，你们是最大的粉丝群。

Homophobes and religious Republicans listening to this are greatest fan base.

是的。

Yeah.

谣言破灭了，贱人。

Myth busted, bitch.

回到你这儿，阿丽尔。

Back to you, Ariel.

Bang Bros收购了色情明星信息泄露网站，然后把它彻底清空了。

Bang Bros buys porn star doxxing site and then wipes it clean.

Bang Bros 由 X Videos 拥有。

Bang Bros is owned by X videos.

我最近才了解到，Pornhub 是因为其道德和价值观而最好的色情视频流媒体网站。

I actually recently found out that Pornhub is the best porn streaming site to use because of their ethics and values.

也许我改天再聊这个，但没错。

Maybe I'll just get into this at another time, but yeah.

总之，Bang Bros 收购了 Porn WikiLeaks。

Anyway, so Bang Bros bought porn WikiLeaks.

我从来没上过那个网站，但它是一个泄露网站，曾公开了超过一万五千名色情演员的信息，包括他们的电话号码、真实姓名，甚至家人信息。

I've never been on that, but it's a doxxing site that shared like over 15,000 porn stars info, their phone numbers, their real names, their family members info too.

这他妈的是什么？

What the fuck?

所以 Bang Bros 收购了它，然后直接删掉了。

So Bangbros bought it and then just deleted it.

哇。

Wow.

因为那样做很好，他们正试图与 Pornhub 一较高下。

Because that was very nice and they're trying to level up with Pornhub.

好的，Bangbros。

Okay, Bangbros.

这是他们的声明。

So here's their statement.

Bangbros 受够了。

Bangbros had enough.

我们购买这个网站的目的是关闭它并删除所有相关的信息。

We have purchased this site with the intention of shutting it down and removing all information associated with it.

没有陷阱，也没有隐藏的条件来获取你的个人信息。

There's no catch, no hidden thing to get your personal stuff off of it.

我们只是不希望它再公之于众。

We simply didn't want it out there for the world to see anymore.

是的，就这么简单。

Yes, it's that easy.

虽然关闭这个网站并不能彻底清除互联网上所有与真实姓名等相关的信息，但它确实减少了一个容易存储和查找这些内容的场所。

While shutting the site down doesn't purge the Internet of all possible ties to real names and whatnot, it does make it one less place to harbor and find these things easily.

一个拥有三十万篇帖子、其中大部分是负面和充满仇恨内容的论坛，现在已经消失了。

A form that had 300,000 posts on it, most of them negative and hate filled, has now disappeared.

操

Fuck

是的

yeah.

谢谢。

Thank you.

回到你那里，米里亚姆。

Back to you, Miriam.

回到我这里，米里亚姆。

Back to me, Miriam.

回到你那里，米里亚姆。

Back to you, Miriam.

轮到我了。

Back to me.

轮到你了。

Back to you.

米里亚姆。

Miriam.

米里亚姆。

Miriam.

好的。

Okay.

另一项研究发现，老年人缺乏性活动与不良健康状况相关，包括癌症。

Another study found that a lack of sexual activity among older adults is linked to poor health outcomes including hancer.

癌症。

Cancer.

Hancer。

Hancer.

我患癌症的风险非常高

I have a really high risk of hancer

因为我是阿什肯纳兹犹太人。

because I'm an Ashkenazi Jew.

没错。

True.

我也是。

Same.

所以这些不发生性行为的老年人，患癌症、冠心病以及自我报告健康状况较差的风险更高。

So these old people who aren't fucking have a higher risk of cancer, coronary heart disease, and just general lower self reported feelings of health.

因此，这些研究人员使用了英国老龄化纵向研究（ELSA）的数据，追踪了四年时间。

So these researchers use data from the English longitudinal study of aging, aka ELSA, let it go, over a four year period.

参与者包括50岁以上的男性和女性，总共有405,700名参与者。

So participants included women and men over the age of 50 years old, and there were 40 5,700 participants.

这很不错。

That's good.

他们发现，50岁以上的男性如果性生活较少，患上严重疾病的风险会增加67%。

And they found that men over the age of 50 who have less sex have a sixty seven percent chance or sixty seven percent increased risk of developing a serious illness.

另一方面，女性如果性生活较少，报告健康状况不佳的概率会高出64%，但严重疾病的发生率没有差异，这还挺让人安心的，我想。

Women, on the other hand, have a sixty four percent higher chance of reporting ill health if they have less sex, but there's no difference in serious illness, which is chill, I guess.

所以理论是，当你有性生活时，身体会释放内啡肽，而内啡肽能让你感觉良好。

So the theory is that when you're having sex, you release endorphins and endorphins make you feel good.

如果你感觉良好，这将有助于改善你的健康状况。

And if you feel good, that's gonna lead to better health outcomes for you.

这里有没有单独分析他们当前的身体状况？

Was there anything here isolating their current physical state?

比如，他们为什么没有性生活？

Like, why aren't they having sex?

是不是有什么因素已经阻碍了他们进行性生活？

Is there something impeding them from having sex already?

说得好。

Good point.

他们没有那个K。

They did not have that K.

根据我所知的。

Well from what I

读到的。

read.

是的。

Yeah.

所以这些问题就是大家应该问的。

So these are the questions y'all should ask.

对。

Yeah.

你是说我也应该问这个问题吗？

Are you saying I should ask that?

其他人都应该问。

Everyone else should ask.

不是你，米里亚姆，因为你是个天使圣人。

Not you, Miriam, because you're an angel saint.

回到你，阿瑞尔。

Back to you, Ariel.

好的。

Okay.

阿基。

Ackie.

你有没有在车里做过爱？

Have you ever had sex in a car?

有。

Yeah.

当然有。

Of course.

多少次？

How many times?

为什么要穿

Why wear

它？

it?

多到数不清。

Too many to count.

哇，伙计。

Wow, dude.

是的。

Yeah.

我上大学时，每逢假期回家，因为实在没法把它们带回家，经常这么做。

I used to all the time in college when I was home for the break because I couldn't really take them home.

为什么不呢？

Why not?

因为我跟父母住在一起。

Cause I lived with my parents.

所以我的意思是，我有时候也会，但通常在车里做更容易。

So I mean, I did sometimes, but typically it was easier to do it in a car.

你们当时清醒吗？

Were you guys sober?

通常我们都是吸了大麻后飘着的。

Usually, we were high off marijuana.

这太西彻斯特郊区的感觉了。

That's so Westchester Suburb vibes.

是的。

Yeah.

那就是我。

That was me.

你喜欢吗？

Did you like it?

不喜欢。

No.

但我并不讨厌它。

But I didn't dislike it.

只是没那么有趣。

It was just less fun.

但那有点儿冒险。

But it was kind of, like, risky.

是的。

Yeah.

偷偷摸摸的。

Sneaky sneaks.

你们是在离家附近的地方停车吗？

Were you parked somewhere by your house?

有时候我们会停在一个关闭的公共公园里，因为那是公园。

Sometimes we would park, like, in a public park that was closed because it was in park.

这很奇怪。

That's odd.

或者在有很多停车场的公园里。

Or, like, in a park a lot of parking lots.

好的。

Alright.

什么车？

What kind of car?

我的车，他们的车。

My car, their car.

主要是轿车。

It like Sedans.

很多轿车。

A lot of sedans.

还有很小的掀背车。

And So small crampers.

很小的掀背车。

Small crampers.

好的。

Okay.

在后座吗？

In the back seat?

是的。

Yeah.

我们通常会去后座，虽然有一次我坐在前座，结果差点出事。

We would usually go to the back seat even though one time I did a front seat, like, blow up.

我正要问呢。

I was about to ask.

是 literal road head 吗？

Was it literal road head?

是的。

Yeah.

老兄，这太吓人了。

Dude, that's so scary.

我知道。

I know.

那时候年轻。

Was young.

是和你前任吗？

Was it with your ex?

不是。

No.

不是的。

No.

然后那个家伙用手指弄我，但当时不是我开车。

And then that guy rode fingered me, but I wasn't driving.

他一只手开车，一只手在我身上乱摸。

He was driving with one hand and fingering me.

天哪。

Oh my god.

那是他的奔驰车，他还问，要不要垫条毛巾？

And it was his Mercedes and he was like, should we put a towel down?

我说，不用。

And I was like, no.

你这个混蛋。

You fucking asshole.

你想要我的爱液弄得到处都是。

You want my pussy juice everywhere.

这现在是我的车了，混蛋。

This is my car now, motherfucker.

标记你的领地。

Mark your territory.

字面意义上的。

Literally.

我想我大概在车里做过两次爱，但真正记得很清楚的一次是在减肥夏令营，有个攀岩中心的教练叫萨默斯。

I think I've had sex in a car maybe twice, but the one time I really actually remember, I was at fat camp and one of my counselor Summers, there was this climbing center guy.

所以他不是辅导员，他只是在攀岩中心工作。

So he he wasn't a counselor, he just worked at the climbing center.

所以他很帅。

So he was like hot.

是的。

Yeah.

我给他摘了一朵雏菊，我最好的朋友凯瑟琳递给了他，他说是爱丽儿送的。

And I picked him a daisy and my friend my best friend Catherine gave it to him and he was like, from Ariel.

哦。

Oh.

然后，我不太确定能不能查看我的消息，但我很确定我联系了他，然后我们就去了他的车里，在他那个大大的后备箱里做了。

And then, I'm not exactly sure I could like look at my messages, but I'm pretty sure I hit him up and then we just, like, went to his car and fucked in the he had, like, one of those big trunk things.

你明白我的意思吗？

Do know what I mean?

就是那种可以把座椅放平的地方？

Like, where you can put down the seat?

不是。

No.

就是个超大的后备箱。

It's just like A big ass trunk.

是的。

Yeah.

就像个超大的后座。

Like a big ass back.

那是我经历过的最尴尬的性体验之一。

And it was one of the most awkward sexual experiences ever.

天哪。

Oh my god.

那是你还是你是我的

Was that you or You're my

直接打嗝。

straight up burping.

对不起。

I'm sorry.

哦，我听起来像是你的胃在咕噜响。

Oh, I I it sounded like your stomach gurgling.

不是。

No.

哇，真的。

Like, wow.

一个特别

A really

好的麦克风。

good mic.

我本应该

I should've

把头移开。

moved my head.

我以为会比实际安静一些。

I thought it would be quieter than it ended up being.

我真是太扫兴了。

I'm so anticlimactic.

怎么了？

What's up?

你为什么提起这个？

Why are you bringing this up?

哦，对对对。

Oh, right right right.

一项新调查显示，很多人为《Cosmopolitan》网站报道，想在车里约会。

A new survey shows that a lot of you want to get it on in your car, cosmopolitan.com reports.

我们可以相信他们。

We can trust them.

不，你不能。

No, you can't.

你知道为什么吗？

You know why?

因为这全是点击诱饵和耸人听闻的虚假信息。

Because it's all fucking clickbait, sensational misinformation.

点击reg.co.uk的链接，他们用搜索引擎查了有多少人搜索如何发生性关系。

Click for reg.co.uk used a search engine to find out how many people were searching how to have sex.

我的意思是，是的，如何在车里发生性关系。

I mean, yeah, how to have sex in a car.

哎呀。

Uh-oh.

他们发现，每个月有6600名美国人用谷歌搜索这个。

They found that 6,600 Americans Google that every single month.

你根本不需要上网搜。

You don't need to Google it.

直接做就是了。

Just do it.

对。

Right.

首先，你什么意思？

First of all What do you mean?

那并不意味着人们真的在做

That doesn't mean that people are doing

就是快要做爱了，然后想，等等，我该怎么弄？

are like about to fuck being like, okay, wait, how to How am I gonna do this?

等等。

Wait.

稍等。

Hold on.

稍等。

Hold on.

等一下。

Just hold on a sec.

让我快速搜一下这个。

Let me Google this real quick.

你知道那个怀孕的视频吗？

You know the, the pregnant video?

还有我怀孕了。

And my prag Pregnant.

怀孕。

Pregnant.

我还得了Pergner。

And I get Pergner.

但老兄，每个月六千六百个美国人，这算不了什么。

But dude, sixty six hundred Americans every month, that's nothing.

是的。

Yeah.

没多少。

It's not that much.

这不配写成一篇文章。

This is not worthy of a of an article.

根本不值得我提它。

Not worthy of me even talking about it.

但你知道吗？

But you know what?

这就是我来的原因

This is what I came

这就是你得到的东西。

up This with this is what you're getting.

回到你这里，Myriam。

Back to you, Myriam.

在

In

2011年，中国国务院将性教育设为必修内容。

2011, the state council in China made sex ed required.

所以在每一所学校。

And so in every school.

所以你必须教授性教育。

So you have to teach sex ed.

但不幸的是，它仍然主要是禁欲型的性教育。

But, unfortunately, it's still mostly abstinence based sex education.

不。

No.

当然。

Of course.

但中国的文化正在变化，人们希望他们的孩子了解性知识。

But the culture in China is changing, and people want their children to know about sex.

此外

Also

当他们来到美国，我们这些疯狂的美国人。

For when they come to America and we're crazy Americans.

不。

No.

在他们自己的国家。

In their own country.

并不是所有事情都跟美国有关，Ariel。

Not everything's about America, Ariel.

而是美利坚。

It's also The United Is.

合众国。

States.

美国。

The US.

所以，基本上，中国对性的公开讨论几乎是不存在的。

So, basically, public discussion of sex is more or less nonexistent in China.

因此，孩子们要么通过色情内容，要么通过彼此了解性知识，而他们接受的只有禁欲教育。

So kids either learn about sex through porn or through each other, and they receive abstinence only.

色情内容在中国是非法的吗？

Is porn like illegal in China?

我想他们还是能找到的。

I guess they somehow find it.

他们发现，有一半的中国性活跃青少年在第一次发生性行为时没有使用避孕措施。

And they found that half of sexually active Chinese teenagers do not use contraceptives their first time.

所以，这基本上是一场全国性的公共卫生危机。

So there's, like, a national health crisis, basically.

作为回应，越来越多的性教育营出现了。

And in response to this, there's been a lot of sex ed camps rising.

其中一个营的例子是一个叫冯刚的人。

An example of one of these camps is this dude named Feng Gang.

他是一名性学家和教育者，在中国多个省份和地区开设了20个营地。

He's a sexologist and educator, and he has 20 camps, throughout multiple provinces and districts in China.

好的。

Okay.

这个夏令营始于2013年，冯刚的理念是，孩子们应该在高中最后几年之前接受性教育。

The camp started in 2013 and the philosophy, Feng Geng's philosophy is that, kids should get sex education before their final years of high school.

越早越好。

The earlier, the better.

天啊，我真想去参加这样的夏令营。

Dude, I wanna go to one of these camps.

对吧？

Right?

听起来真有趣。

Sounds so fun.

如果你觉得这个夏令营很有趣，那想想性教育夏令营吧。

If you thought that camp was fun, think about sex ed camp.

那个夏令营可能更有趣。

That camp's probably more fun.

他认为学校应该教孩子们关于性知识，以便他们能够保护自己并理解自己的性取向。

He believes that school should teach children about sex so that they can protect themselves and understand their sexuality.

他认为性教育是一种预防家庭暴力和性侵的方式，我觉得这真的很棒，让我们请他来上节目。

And he views sex ed as a way to prevent domestic violence and sexual assault, which I thought was really cool Let's get him on the pod.

去思考一下这一点。

To think about that.

是的。

Yeah.

所以，基本上，各地涌现出许多性教育营地，这令人振奋，因为

So, basically, there's been all these sex ed camps cropping up, and that's exciting for

他一定很有钱。

He must be really rich.

希望如此。

I hope so.

有人该资助这位先生了。

Someone pay this guy.

就只是这一个人开了20个营地吗？还有其他人也在做吗？

That's just one guy who opened 20, and are there others too?

是的。

Yeah.

但文章里没提到它们。

But they didn't talk about them in the article.

甚至没有。

Not even

回到你这里，Ariel。

Back to you, Ariel.

好的。

Okay.

太热了。

So hot.

你能把门打开一点吗？

Can you crack open the door?

哦，不。

Oh, no.

我通常会让这里保持冰凉。

I usually keep it, like, ice cold in here.

我没开空调。

I didn't put on the air conditioning.

谢谢，松鼠。

Thanks, squirrel.

我们才进行了二十四分钟。

We're only at twenty four minutes.

这是一段很短的。

It's a short one.

青少年时期服用避孕药可能对抑郁风险产生长期影响。

Taking the pill as a teenager may have long lasting effects on depression risk.

所以在我要讨论的这项研究之前，2016年发表了一项迄今为止关于抑郁与避孕药的最大规模研究。

So before the study I'm about to talk about, there was this the largest study to date on depression and birth control was published in 2016.

这项研究涉及来自丹麦的百万名女性，发表在《JAMA》上。

It involved a million women from Denmark, published in JAMA.

研究发现，使用避孕药或其他形式避孕的女性患抑郁症的风险更高，且这种关系在青少年中最为显著。

And it found that women who use the pill or other forms of birth control are at an increased risk for depression and that that relationship is strongest in teens.

因此，这项最近的研究发表在《儿童心理学与精神病学杂志》上，研究人员希望探究使用口服避孕药（即仅避孕药，而非其他所有形式）的女性是否在长期中更容易患抑郁症。

So this recent study was published in the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, and they wanted to investigate if women who used oral birth control, so, like, just the pill versus the other one was all forms.

他们想了解，那些在青少年时期开始使用口服避孕药的女性，成年后抑郁症的患病率是否更高。

If women whose oral BCS teens have an increased prevalence of depression in the long term.

因此，他们调查了来自美国国家健康与营养检查调查的236名女性。

So they surveyed a 236 women from the US National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey.

我的意思是，这些女性都参与了这项调查，然后研究人员对调查数据进行了分析。

So by that, I mean that all these women took that survey and then they examined the survey.

不错。

Cool.

他们比较了那些在青少年时期首次使用避孕药的女性、从未使用过避孕药的女性，以及成年后才首次使用避孕药的女性。

They compared women who first started using birth control as teens with women who've never used birth control and then also another group of women who first started birth control as adults.

他们发现，无论当前是否仍在使用避孕药，青少年时期开始使用避孕药与成年后的抑郁症风险之间都存在长期关联。

And so they found that there was a long term association between teen birth control use and depression risk in adulthood regardless of current birth control use.

所以这一发现表明，青春期是一个敏感时期，在此期间使用避孕药可能会在多年后增加女性患抑郁症的风险，这挺有意思的。

So this finding suggests that adolescence is a sensitive period when birth control can increase a woman's risk for depression years after exposure, which, like, cool.

是的。

Yeah.

哦，我太喜欢抑郁症了。

Oh, I love depression.

我们大多数人都是在青少年时期开始使用避孕药的。

Most of us go on birth control in our teens.

对。

Right.

实际上，我不确定这一点。

Actually, I don't know that for a fact.

你什么时候开始使用避孕药的？

When did you go on birth control?

第一次是在青春期吗？

For the first teen?

我上大学的时候。

When I went to college, actually.

所以你当时是青少年？

So you were in your teens?

是的。

Yeah.

我九十八？

I was nine Eight?

九？

Nine?

我十八岁。

I was 18.

我快十九岁了。

I was about to be 19.

是的。

Yeah.

我其实早就想用避孕措施了，但我觉得只要还没开始性生活，就不需要。

I kinda I kinda wanted to be on it earlier, but I guess I thought until I was having sex, didn't need it.

因为，你知道的？

Because, like, you know?

而且你现在不用了，对吧？

And you're not on it anymore.

对吧？

Right?

没有。

No.

我在做乳房缩小手术前一个月就停用了避孕药。

So I went off birth control a month before had my breast reduction surgery.

对。

Right.

因为我的一边乳房比较大，这种事谁都会遇到。

Because one of my tits were bigger and Happens to the best of us.

现在我明白了。

Now I right.

我才是最棒的，而你并不在我们之中。

I'm the best and you're not of us.

我的意思是，其中一个

I mean, one of

我的一个乳房比另一个大，只是没那么

my tits are bigger than the other, just not as

好吧。

Well, okay.

然后你就进去了。

Then you're in there.

奇怪的是。

Weirdly.

大多数人乳房都不对称，但我的乳房差异特别明显。

Most people do have asymmetrical tits, but my titties were very asymmetrical.

我们喜欢

We love

为你这样感到高兴。

that for you.

所以是的。

So yeah.

所以我停用了，现在又得重新开始用。

So I went off it and I just have to go back on.

比如，我已经很抑郁了。

Like, I'm already depressed.

这也不会有什么别的影响，你什么时候开始吃避孕药的？

It's not like it's gonna what else can it When do to did you go on birth control?

我第一次吃避孕药是在15岁，为了调节月经。

So I went on for the first time when I was 15 to regulate my period.

结果我胖了差不多30磅。

And I gained, like, 30 pounds.

该死。

Damn.

所以我停用了。

So then I went off it.

我的皮肤也变得很糟。

And my skin was horrible too.

它让你的皮肤更差了？

It worsened your skin?

它让我的皮肤更差了。

It worsened my skin.

我看起来糟透了。

I looked terrible.

然后我又停用了。

Then I went off it.

这很难受。

That's hard.

15岁的时候，我胖了30磅，还长了一脸的痘痘。

15 years old, you gain 30 pounds and get a shit ton of acne.

是的。

Yes.

我真的很抱歉。

I'm so sorry.

太糟糕了。

It's terrible.

但不管怎样，这就是为什么我有这么棒的性格，各位。

But anyway, that's why I have such a great personality, you guys.

这就是我这么幽默的原因。

That's why I'm so funny.

我不知道你怎么这么自信。

I don't know how you're so confident.

这太惨了。

That's horrible.

尽管如此，我还是我。

Myself in spite of it all.

其实我并没有因为自己胖和丑而感到难过。

I actually I wasn't, like, upset that I was fat and ugly.

你知道的？

You know?

我不懂。

I don't.

我无法感同身受。

Don't relate.

这没什么大不了的。

It was fine.

因为归根结底，你长什么样、体重多少都不重要。

Because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you look like or how much you weigh.

如果你不爱自己，你就真的不爱自己。

If you're if you don't love yourself, you don't love yourself.

是的

Yeah.

这里真黑。

It's really dark in here.

我要开

I'm gonna turn

灯马上。

on the light real quick.

好的。

Okay.

你就像一堆抱怨。

You're just like a lot of complaints.

我知道。

I know.

哦，但这空调感觉太棒了。

Oh, but that air conditioning feels amazing.

是的。

Yeah.

对吧？

Right?

是的。

Yeah.

我喜欢舒服一点。

I like to be comfortable.

我

I

讨厌它。

hate it.

是的。

Yeah.

然后我就停用了。

Then I went off it.

到了大学四年级的时候，我开始有 unprotected sex，其实从大二就开始了。

And then my senior year of college, I was starting to, like that's when I started having unprotected sex, my junior year.

然后我就想，等等。

And I was like, wait.

这太棒了。

This is awesome.

我不能用避孕药，因为每次用的时候我都特别害怕，心想：万一怀孕了怎么办？

I can't on birth control Because I was like this because I was always freaked out when I did it because I was like, what if I get pregnant?

很明显，体外射精。

Obviously, pull out.

等等。

Wait.

等等。

Wait.

等等。

Wait.

你说感觉太棒了，所以我要停用避孕药？

You said it feels so good so I'm gonna get off birth control?

开始服用避孕药。

Get on birth control.

因为我之前用安全套，但有时候不用。

Because I wasn't I was using condoms, but then sometimes I wasn't.

然后我就想，好吧。

And I was like, okay.

我至少得在这段温暖时期保护好自己。

I need to at least protect myself in this warmth.

不。

No.

你15岁的时候什么时候停用的？

When did you get off when you were 15?

哦，我15岁的时候，过了几个月才停用的。

Oh, when I was 15, I got off, like, a few months later.

哦。

Oh.

因为那很糟糕。

Because it was bad.

是的。

Yeah.

然后我在大学大四那年夏天又开始服用避孕药。

And then I went back on the summer before my senior year of college.

那时我开始和我的前男友交往。

That's when I started seeing my ex.

我们并没有确立恋爱关系。

We weren't exclusive.

我和别人发生过关系，但我觉得我这么做其实是为了他，尽管我们并没有在约会。

I was fucking other people, but, like, I think I kinda did it for him even though we weren't dating.

嗯。

Mhmm.

你知道的吧？

You know?

是的。

Yeah.

所以我上了宫内节育器。

So I got an IUD.

我上了帕拉格德，就是铜制宫内节育器，但我的身体把它排出了。

I got the PARAGARD, the copper IUD, and my body ejected it.

于是我找另一位医生重新安装，结果我的身体又把它排出了。

And so I got it in again by a different doctor, and my body injected that.

所以我就想，去他的，不玩了。

So then I was like, fuck all this.

现在我吃的是Larenna或者Yaz，管它呢。

And now I'm on the pill Larenna or Yaz, whatever.

这是个很常见的药。

It's a popular one.