Is Love Blind? - Love is Blind Season 10 - The Reunion - Emma, Mike, Devonta, Brittany, Christine, Vic 封面

Love is Blind Season 10 - The Reunion - Emma, Mike, Devonta, Brittany, Christine, Vic

Love is Blind Season 10 - The Reunion - Emma, Mike, Devonta, Brittany, Christine, Vic

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The Hook:We made it to the end of Season 10 — and somehow Neil and Shelly are leaving with both tears and hope. Between Mike's baffling Emma fumble, Devante's surprise baby news, and Vic and Christine being the couple goals this entire season desperately needed, the finale delivers.The Deep Dive:Emma said yes. She said she could see a life with kids. She literally put it in her vows. And Mike still said no — then started dating someone else. Neil and Shelly cannot make it make sense. This isn't just a miscommunication; it's a case study in what happens when someone sets a hard line, gets exactly what they asked for, and still finds a reason to walk. Neil calls it the rom-com trap: telling someone to change, watching them change, and then panicking because now you can't trust the change. It's a lose-lose game designed for Emma to fail from the start — and Shelly and Neil both feel for her.Then there's Vic and Christine — the couple this season didn't deserve but absolutely needed. In a season full of men who couldn't commit, couldn't communicate, and couldn't show up, Vic is out here leaving congratulatory notes when Christine gets published and making Neil and Shelly feel a little called out by their own couple goals. Their segment is short, sweet, and quietly the most emotional of the reunion — because after everything this season put us through, watching two people who actually chose each other with clarity and intention feels almost radical. Neil puts it simply: these two are the only couple in ten seasons he's actually glad got married.✨ Must-Hear Moments:Mike and Emma's breakdown: why Neil thinks Mike built a game Emma could never win — no matter what she choseThe Devante baby bombshell: wait, he and Alex are still living together? Neil and Shelly have questionsBrittany and Devante's "I still love you" moment — and why Shelly thinks it's the most honest thing said all reunionVic and Christine: the couple so solid the show almost cut them for being "too boring" — and why that tells you everything about what reality TV rewards💬 Neil & Shelly's Hot Take:"Vic and Christine are the only couple in ten seasons we're actually glad got married. Not relieved. Not hopeful. Actually glad."⏭️ Next Up:Neil and Shelly are moving on to Age of Attraction — where couples can see each other but can never know each other's age. New show, same chaos, same therapy. Subscribe so you don't miss it.🔍 Topics Covered:Love is Blind Season 10 | Love is Blind Reunion Part 3 | Emma and Mike | Vic and Christine | Devante and Brittany | moving the goalposts in relationships | relationship green flags | commitment issues | reality TV recap | Age of Attraction Netflix | relationship podcastJoin the Conversation:🎙️ Apple Podcasts: Listen Here🟢 Spotify: Listen Here📺 YouTube: Watch & Subscribe📸 Instagram: @isloveblindpodcast🎵 TikTok: @isloveblindtiktokHave a dating story or a question for our next therapy-inspired deep dive? Drop it in the comments below! 👇

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大家好。

Hey, everyone.

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我们回来了,带来《爱是盲目的》第十季的最终集。

We're back with the final episode for Love is Blind season 10.

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我们终于走到了终点。

We've finally made it past the finish line finally.

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一路同行。

Together.

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冲过终点线。

Line.

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手牵着手,一路庆祝到最后一刻。

Holding hands, celebrating all the way to the final.

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我们特意把最后一对情侣留到了最后。

We have we did save the final couple for last.

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我是尼尔。

I'm Neil.

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我今天和我的教练谢莉一起来了。

I'm here with my coach, Shelly.

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大家好。

Hey, everyone.

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看来我们没把最后一对留到最后。

I guess we didn't save the final couple for last.

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我们是把最好的一对留到了最后。

Saved the best couple for last.

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最棒的一对情侣。

Best couples.

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没错。

Yeah.

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但我们确实把最后一对留到了最后。

But we did save the final couple for last.

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这话说得对。

That is accurate.

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我们确实把最后一对留到了最后。

We saved the final couple for last.

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是的。

Yeah.

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所以没错。

So yes.

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天哪。

Jeez.

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这期节目有艾玛和迈克、布列塔尼和德万特,还有维克和克里斯汀。

We have Emma and Mike, Brittany Devante, and Vic and Christine this episode.

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说实话,我也说不准。

So I don't know.

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我们先从艾玛和迈克开始吧。

We're gonna start with Emma and Mike.

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这明显是一场严重的沟通误会,我真搞不懂他们怎么搞成这样的。

This seemed like a weird miscommunication gone terribly awry, and I really don't understand it.

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我真的搞不懂到底发生了什么。

I really don't understand what's happening.

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我本来肯定觉得他们结婚后至少还会继续约会的。

I, for sure, thought they were gonna stay together and at least date after the wedding.

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我真这么想,因为我觉得她答应是因为他之前说过,如果她答应,就意味着她同意要孩子——我觉得这种想法挺奇怪的。

I really thought that because I thought she said yes because he had said if she says yes, that means she's consenting to kids, which I thought was like a weird thought to have.

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但结果发现,她答应的还真是这个意思。

But turns out that's what she was consenting to.

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事实就是,她答应的正是这个。

That's turns out that was the case.

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我只是不明白,她为什么从来没跟他说清楚,这到底是为什么?

I just don't think she ever explicitly said that to him which I'm like, why?

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就因为这一点,事情才变成了这样。

And because of that, that was just one thing.

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我真不明白,她为什么连在婚礼上都没明确说:‘我答应了,我真的是答应了。’

I don't know why she never said that even at the altar like, hey, I'm saying yes and I'm saying yes.

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是的。

Yes.

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我本来希望你和他谈一谈,确认她有没有改变主意。

I want kids with you or pulled him aside at any point if she did change her mind.

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所以他觉得被蒙在鼓里,其实我以为他们俩都说好了要拒绝。

On the so he felt blindsided because I think they both agreed to say no.

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就在那一刻,她对他充满了爱,所以她想答应。

She just felt so much love for him in that moment that she wanted to say yes.

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于是她就答应了。

And so she did.

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他感到措手不及,拒绝了,可能还觉得自己像个坏人。

He felt blindsided, said no, probably felt like the bad guy a little bit.

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另外,如果他对自己是否理解她的答应没把握,我佩服他敢说不。

Also, I applaud him for saying no if he wasn't fully sure what her yes.

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当然。

Of course.

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是的

Yeah.

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因为我们刚看到了amber和jordan那边发生的事。

Because we just saw what happened with Amber and Jordan.

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当然。

Of course.

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对

Yeah.

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她答应了。

Said yes.

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我只是没想到他们之后没再好好聊聊。

I'm just surprised they didn't have more conversations after.

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她就没再确认一下吗?

Like, did she never clarify?

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比如说,喂。

Like, hey.

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顺便说一句,后来我答应的时候,我答应的是要孩子。

By the way, even afterwards, when I said yes, I was saying yes to kids.

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这点从来没提过吗?

Did that never come up?

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就像,或者,或者必须

Like or or or must

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她真的可以,那正是我觉得她改变主意的时候,他简直惊呆了。

she really can that's when I would I feel like once she changed her mind, he's like, woah.

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等等。

Wait a minute.

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你真的改变主意了?

You actually changed your mind?

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他就会说:我这段时间一直在等你承认、改变主意,说你想要孩子,结果你倒好,玩这种阴险的把戏?你这个狡猾的家伙?

He's like, all I've been ask he's like, all I've been asking this whole time was for you to admit and change your mind that you want kids, and then you do what kind of dastardly trick is this, you devious bitch?

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我就说:等等。

And I'm like, wait a minute.

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是的。

Yeah.

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你说过,如果她答应了,那就是同意要孩子,结果她真的答应了,还说她能想象有孩子的未来。

You said if she said yes, she's saying yes to kids, then she did and even said, I see a life with kids.

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是的。

Yeah.

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她在誓言里明明写了‘我能看到和你一起拥有孩子的未来’。

I can see a life with kids with you was in her vows.

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可他却说:‘我根本不知道这回事。’

And he's like, I don't know this.

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我觉得她疯了。

I I think she's crazy.

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我觉得……

I think

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她疯了。

she's crazy.

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是的。

Yeah.

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我的意思是,谁会这么快就做这种决定啊?根本不可能。

Like, yeah, like, how dare like, no one could ever decide that that quickly.

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天哪。

Oh, no.

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我当时就想,喂,兄弟,等等。

And I was like, wait a minute, bro.

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这到底怎么回事?

What's happening?

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所以我真不明白,他干嘛这么抗拒约会,他说不行。

So I didn't understand why he was so against just date like, he's like, nope.

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我退出了。

I'm out.

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我希望找一个明确知道自己想要孩子的女人。

If you like, I want someone who knows they want kids.

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我当时就想,但她明明说她愿意和你一起要孩子啊。

And I was like, but then she said she did want them with you.

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是的。

Yeah.

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那你怎么连和她约个会都不愿意?

So why wouldn't you at least date her?

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因为她自己也说不清,得先弄明白这话说的是不是真的。

Because she says like, and figure out if that's true.

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搞清楚这事儿到底会是什么样子。

Figure out what that looks like.

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得想想看,是不是真的没问题。

Figure out, you know, if okay.

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她六周内就改了自己当初的底线,这事儿我们看乔丹那儿就见过。

She has she changed her mind on her deal breaker in six weeks, which we saw with Jordan.

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这可不是个好主意。

Not a good idea.

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但为什么多和她交往一段时间就完全不行呢?

But why was dating her for a little while longer so out of the question?

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如果她说她改变主意了,那就给她个机会证明一下。

If she's saying she changed her mind, give her a chance to prove it.

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给她个机会看看,是不是真的变了。

Give her a chance to, like, see if that's the case.

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我觉得他的意思是,既然她能在六周内就改变不要孩子的想法,那她也能再改回来。

And I think his whole point was if she could change her mind that quickly about wanting kids, she can change it right back.

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是的。

Yeah.

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关于这一点。

About not.

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没错。

True.

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但话说回来,你到底希望她怎么做?

But also, like, what do you want from her?

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你说这是你的底线。

You said this is your hard line.

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你设下了这些所谓的界限。

You've set, you know, these boundaries, quote unquote, that you have.

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她已经做到了,可你还是觉得不够,因为你根本不确定能不能信她。

She met them, and it's still not enough because you're like, well, I don't know if I can trust it.

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那你就别把这话说出来。

Well, then don't put that out there.

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对。

Yeah.

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你既然希望她改变主意,而她确实改了,你却还觉得时间太短不够,那当初干嘛跟她订婚?

Like, why get engaged to her in the first place if you, like, want her to change her mind, which she did, and it's still not enough for you because it's too short of a time period, why even get engaged to her?

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这一切到底图个啥?

What was the point of all this?

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你最后到底想怎么样?

Like, where were you gonna end up?

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没错。

Exactly.

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对。

Yeah.

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是的。

Yeah.

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因为你根本就没打算娶她,因为她不想生孩子。

Because either you were never gonna marry her because she didn't want kids.

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她其实想要孩子,但你还是不想娶她,觉得时间太短了。

She does want kids, but you still don't wanna marry her because you think it's too fast.

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她没法相信这件事。

She can't trust it.

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对。

Yeah.

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所以,这其实就是

So, like It's a

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输赢都输,我当时就想,等等。

lose lose, and I'm like, wait.

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什么?

What?

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就是说,

Like

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这游戏就是设计成让艾玛输的。

It's a game designed for Emma to lose.

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她确实没法。

She can't yeah.

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是的。

Yeah.

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所以我特别好奇,那到底怎么回事?

And so then I'm very curious what that was about.

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要是她当时拒绝了,他们还会不会约会?

Like, did if she would have said no, would they have dated?

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我不知道。

I don't know.

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我当时就愣住了。

I I was like, wait.

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如果你们俩都拒绝了,还是说他觉得她肯定会拒绝,所以干脆直接放弃了?我当时根本没在场。

If you both said no, or was he like she was gonna say no so I just checked, like, I was out then.

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我只是觉得,算了,不值得纠结,干脆就当没这回事了。

Like, I just didn't think I was like, I just decided I wrote it off.

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也许吧,但就连这样也太离谱了。

Maybe, but, like, even that's crazy.

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这么快就放弃一个人,实在有点奇怪。

Like, that's crazy to write someone off that quick.

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是的。

Yeah.

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但是呢

But, like

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是的。

Yeah.

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当然。

For sure.

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因为听起来他因为她答应了而有点生气,因为他们本来说好都要拒绝的。

Because I it sounds like he was a little irritated with her for saying yes because they agreed to say no.

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是的。

Yeah.

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但另一方面,她说她答应或拒绝都有自己的理由。

But, also, she said she had reasons for saying yes or no.

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她对他有很深的感情。

She felt so much love for him.

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她想让他感受到这一点。

She wanted to show that to him.

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她想让他知道,自己已经准备好要孩子了。

She wanted to show she was ready for kids.

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他拒绝的时候,她也没怎么生气。

She didn't even get that upset when he said no herself.

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她就说,没关系。

She was like, that's fine.

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我接受这个决定。

I accept that.

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我知道。

I know.

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对吧?

Right?

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而且

And

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然后我觉得她医生。

then I think she doctor.

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我觉得她以为他们还会在一起,结果他没打算,反而开始和别人约会了

I feel like she thought they were gonna be together, and then he wasn't, and then started dating someone else who

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是的。

Yeah.

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在观众席里之类的。

Was in the audience or whatever.

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对。

Yeah.

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但说实话,我觉得迈克有段时间不在场。

But, like, yeah, I don't under I felt like Mike was out at some point.

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也许是他家人。

Maybe it was I I wonder if it was his family.

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我猜他家人太难过了。

I wonder if his family was just too upset.

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他说这事跟别的有关,但实际上他家人因为可能没法有孩子,情绪特别低落。

And he's like, I'm gonna say it's about this other thing, but my family is so upset that we might not have children.

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没错。

Right.

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是的。

Yeah.

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我不清楚问题到底出在哪儿。

I I don't know where the breakdown happened there.

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但我能理解。

Because I But I get it.

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他们本来打算之后约会的。

They were gonna date after.

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本来以为会是这样。

Like, thought there It

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这感觉就像那种浪漫喜剧里的桥段:一个男生说,你赶紧甩了那个糟糕的男朋友。

feels a lot like the guy it feels a lot like the guy who's like it's like what doesn't happen in a rom com where a guy's like, I want you to leave that terrible boyfriend of yours.

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结果你真这么做了,他却突然说:等等。

And then they do, and they're like, wait a minute.

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如果你真甩了那个糟糕的男朋友,那是不是也意味着你可能会离开我?

If you left your terrible boyfriend, what if you left me?

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我们

We

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不能出去。

can't go out.

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你却偏偏

And you're like, you just

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让她走。

told her to.

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对吧。

Right.

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别这样。

Don't

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那就别这么做。

do that then.

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你不能一边叫她这么做,一边又反悔。

You can't say do that and then change your mind like that.

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天啊,这太离谱了。

Oh, it's That's insane.

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对。

Yes.

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不过说实话,我不喜欢这样。

But, yeah, I don't like it.

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完全说不通。

It makes no sense at all.

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我是说,我很高兴他拒绝了。

Like, I I mean, I'm glad he said no.

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很高兴他没被逼着答应。

I'm glad he didn't feel pressured to say yes.

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他这么做真不错。

Good for him for that.

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当然。

Sure.

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而且,我猜他们之后肯定聊过。

Also, I just I I assume they had conversations after.

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不过我不确定是不是真的这样。

I I don't know if that was it.

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真希望我们能更清楚地知道当时发生了什么。

Like, I wish we had more clarity on that.

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我觉得他们只是匆匆带过了迈克和艾玛的事,毕竟其他几对情侣的故事太多了。

I really feel like they were just glazed over Mike and Emma because there were so much other stuff with all these other couples to get to.

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但说实话,后续到底发生了什么,我们还是不太清楚。

But, yeah, I feel like there's not enough clarity on what happened after.

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而且我不确定艾玛知不知道他已经和别人在一起了。

And I don't know that Emma knew that he's in a relationship with someone else.

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看起来确实不像他知道。

Oh, it didn't seem like it.

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没错。

No.

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我意思是,好吧。

I which okay.

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所以他们也没说不。

So they didn't say no.

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他其实不用向她解释,但就是觉得挺奇怪的。

He doesn't owe her an explanation, but it's just it's weird.

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整个事情之所以这样,是因为他们根本没什么大矛盾。

The whole thing's just because they didn't have a lot of problems.

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真的没什么。

They really didn't.

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他们唯一的难题就是孩子。

Their only obstacle was kids.

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其他方面都挺合拍的。

Everything else was aligned.

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他们彼此是喜欢的。

They liked each other.

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和亚历克斯和艾什莉不一样,他们俩确实看起来很相爱,而且在其他大多数事情上也相处得不错。

Unlike Alex and Ashley, they actually did seem in love, and they actually did seem to get along on most other things.

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所以这才是原因。

That's why

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我真是搞不懂这件事。

I'm so confused about it.

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是的。

Yeah.

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这实在说不通。

Like It doesn't make much sense.

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他看起来跟她在一起特别开心。

He seemed really happy with her.

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那他不就是个普通的男人吗?可我当时就想,哎?

So then it was like a normal guy, but I'm like, oh.

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发生了什么?

Happened?

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这对我来说真的挺奇怪的。

Like, it does seem very strange to me.

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但话说回来,这节目里很多情侣都是这样,婚礼上不说‘我愿意’,或者出了什么状况,之后就再也不理对方了。

But, again, a lot of couples on this show do that where they don't say yes at the altar or something happens at the altar, and then they just are like, and then I'm never talking to this person again.

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我真是搞不懂这是怎么回事。

I'm like, what's happening?

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我以为你会觉得,既然你本来打算和他们结婚,现在他们没答应,你就再也不想理他们了。

I thought you're like, you would have married them, but now that they didn't, you hate them forever.

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我就在想啊。

And I'm like

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对啊。

Right.

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我有点糊涂了。

I'm confused.

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我觉得这可能就是为什么尼克提到康纳有多好。

Well, I think that's why Nick pointed out how great Connor was for Yeah.

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你知道吗,就算我们拒绝了他,他还是说,我依然爱你。

You know, if we turned him down, he was still like, I still love you.

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我想好好经营这段关系。

I want to work on this.

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这样挺好。

That's okay.

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他没有让自尊心挡在前面,毁掉自己真正想要的东西。

He didn't let his ego get in front of everything and take away what he actually wanted.

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我不明白迈克和艾玛之间到底发生了什么。

I don't know what happened with Mike and Emma.

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我真的完全想不通。

I really don't.

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这事儿吧

It's

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就是太奇怪了。

It's just weird.

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我替她感到难过。

I feel bad for her.

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他看起来挺开心的。

He seems happy.

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所以我想是这样吧。

So I guess

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她整个赛季都在跟自己较劲,真是挺不容易的。

bad for her for playing all these mental gymnastics for with herself all season probably.

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是的。

Yeah.

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还在跟自己谈判,弄清楚自己真正想要什么,最后终于接受了:好吧。

And negotiating with herself, figuring out what she really wants, coming to terms like, okay.

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我是想要孩子的。

I do want kids.

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而且,是的,慢了六周。

And, yes, six weeks slow.

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这么短的时间就改变主意,确实不容易。

It is a short time to change your mind.

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那为什么还要逼她做决定?为什么要订婚呢?

But then why pressure her into it, and why get engaged?

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不如就说,咱们先约会,慢慢把这事理清楚。

Like, just say we're going to date and figure this out.

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接下来这一年,我们一起摸索,到时候再做决定。

We'll spend the next year navigating this, and then we'll make a decision.

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这事儿说起来简单。

It's easy.

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对。

Yeah.

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可这想法太理性了,好像行不通。

That's too logical, apparently.

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我也说不准。

I don't know.

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我也不清楚。

I don't know.

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所以,迈克,我不明白你到底在搞什么。

So, Mike, I don't know what you're doing.

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我不懂你到底怎么想的。

I don't know what your deal is.

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艾玛看起来……

Emma seems

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我希望你赶紧把孩子生了,你妈妈都等不及了。

I hope you get your kids ASAP because your mom

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是啊。

Yeah.

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赶紧生吧。

Start cranking them out.

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对。

Yeah.

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你知道吗?

You know what?

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你得学学你朋友德万特。

Just be more like your buddy Devante.

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你就赶紧生吧,我想。

Just start cranking them out, I guess.

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对啊。

Like Yeah.

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这到底怎么回事?

What the fuck's happening?

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是的。

Yeah.

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我们该往哪儿搬?

With do we wanna move to them?

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我们

We

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我想是吧。

I guess.

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我的意思是,我对迈克的决定感到特别困惑。

I I mean, I just baffled at Mike's decision.

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我猜应该是有紧急情况吧。

I assume have some urgency.

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我不想多说了,说实话,我也不知道他到底在搞什么。

I don't I, yeah, I don't want to belabor it because I'm like, I really have nothing to say other than I don't know what he's doing.

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我不明白,为什么人就不能偶尔谈个恋爱呢。

I don't understand why people can't just date sometimes.

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我觉得他们本来该谈的,估计也不会有什么问题。

I think they should have, and it would have probably been fine.

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是的。

Yeah.

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我真的说不清楚。

I I don't know.

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他身边的那位女士看起来挺不错的。

The lady he's with seems nice.

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我不确定。

I don't know.

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当然了。

Sure.

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这工作正是她该做的。

That's exactly the job.

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我敢说她明天就得想要孩子了,毕竟她跟迈克在一起。

I'm sure she wants kids tomorrow because she better if she's with Mike.

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没错。

Exactly.

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她最好心里有数。

And she better know.

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她绝对从来没想过自己会想要孩子。

She better never never thought she'd want a kid ever.

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她已经在接受生育治疗了,而且

She's already on fertility treatments, and

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她她

she's she

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还没见过他呢。

hasn't even met him.

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但她已经打过针了。

She But for needle sighted.

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我正准备着呢。

I'm I'm getting ready.

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早就准备好了。

Just prepared.

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是的。

Yeah.

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没错。

Yeah.

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烤箱里的面包马上就能出炉了。

The bun is the oven is ready for this bun immediately.

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是的。

Yeah.

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迈克,赶紧把他放进去。

Get him in there, Mike.

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不过,现在到底怎么回事?

But, yeah, what's happening?

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我不清楚。

I don't know.

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我挺过意不去的。

So I feel bad.

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我为艾玛感到难过。

I felt bad for Emma.

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我不清楚。

I don't know.

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这太糟了。

That sucked.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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你看,这已经是好一点的结局了,不过……

See, this already a better ending, but

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对。

Yeah.

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迈克看起来也没那么差。

Mike didn't seem terrible.

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但再说一次……

But, again

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可话说回来,标准已经低到地底去了。

Again, the bar is in hell.

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对。

Yeah.

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他对我来说就是个中立的存在。

He just is neutral to me.

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我觉得他不算差,但就是让人摸不着头脑。

I was like, he wasn't bad, but he just confuses.

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跟那些其他差劲的角色比,他简直太棒了。

He seems great in comparison to these other dupuses.

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问题就在这儿。

It's the problem.

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拿这个糟糕透顶的纪录片来跟他比,实在不合适。

Well, it is a terrible, terrible doc to compare against.

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你真的

You're really

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是啊。

Yeah.

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说实话,他可能是这节目里第三好的男嘉宾了。

So he's probably, like, the third best guy on the show, honestly, I think.

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是的。

Yeah.

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大概吧。

Probably.

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我会把维克和康纳排前面,然后迈克排第三。

I'd bring Vic and Connor up there, then Mike Yeah.

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我正想说,是的。

I was gonna say, yeah.

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迈克莫名其妙排了第三,这简直是 barely 达标才挤上去的。

Somehow Mike got number three, and that's really rolling over the bar to get there.

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所以说,根本没帮上忙。

So, like, not helping.

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不算特别好。

Not not great.

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嗯,

Well

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我不清楚。

I don't know.

Speaker 0

到了布列塔尼和德万特这边,情况比我们之前聊过的、甚至比之前看过的那些内容还要混乱得多。

So then we get to Brittany and Devante, which is so much more confusing and messy than we even talked about with stuff you read before.

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在婚礼那一集里,事情变得更怪了。

At the wedding episode, it gets weirder.

Speaker 1

好像德万特就是没法一直……

As if Devante just couldn't Always.

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折腾了半天,毫无意义。

So much to no end.

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要是他早点直接告诉她不行,她就不会受这么多苦了。

He could have saved her so much heartache if he had just told her no at any point.

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她一直问。

She kept asking.

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她一直说:告诉我,我漂亮吗。

She kept saying, tell me I'm pretty.

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你跟我说一句。

Tell me that.

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他任何时候都可以说:你知道吗?

At any point, he could have said, you know what?

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你很漂亮。

You're beautiful.

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你不适合我。

You're not for me.

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再见。

Goodbye.

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他连提分手都做不到。

He couldn't even break up with her.

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好像一直这样。

It's like ever.

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一个女孩得经历多少次

Like, how many times a girl have

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如果他真的认真问你,你还想继续这段婚姻吗?

to Apparently, if, like, if he asked for real, do you still wanna be in this marriage?

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他说他必须这么做,然后打电话给她,说‘好’。

And he said, I have to and then he called her and said, yes.

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我想继续。

I do.

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她能怎么想呢?

What is she supposed to think?

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我知道布列塔尼因为没看懂言外之意,被很多人骂。

I know Brittany is getting a lot of, like, hate for, you know, not reading in between the lines.

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但话说回来,她只看到德万特让她看到的部分。

But, again, she's only seeing what Devante is telling her.

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她根本不知道德万特背后是怎么说她的,那些事我们都知道。

She's not seeing all this other shit about how he's talking about her that we're and so and

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我觉得有个叫特雷西的男生,你就该这样强势对待。

she's I I think of I think of a guy, Tracy, that way you should definitely dominate.

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哦,你

Oh, you

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趁早离开吧。

should exit stage left.

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对。

Yes.

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但是

But

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布列塔尼爱着他

Brittany's in love

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呢。

with him.

Speaker 1

她自己也说,到现在她其实并不太了解他。

She also says she and she doesn't know him that well at this point.

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是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

她说,哦,那就是他的性格而已。

And she's like, oh, he's that's just his personality.

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他从来不夸人。

He's not a complimenter.

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他就是那种特别需要独处时间的人。

He's like somebody that just needs a lot of alone time.

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他本来就是这样的人。

That's just who he is.

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我觉得,才七天,真的很难分清,这人到底是本来就这样,还是只是对你没兴趣。

And I think that, you know, with seven it's really hard to know the difference in that short amount of time is is is this guy is that who he really is, or is he just not fed into me?

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她还说,那就是他的本性。

And she went to you know, that's just who he is.

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我接受他,因为我爱他,也希望这段关系能成。

I accept him because I love him, and I want this to work.

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但我们旁观者都看在眼里,我们都想说,Brittany,快跑吧。

But, I mean, we're all seeing it on the other side, we're all like, Brittany, run.

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看在老天的份上,快

For the love of god, just

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跑吧。

run.

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是的。

Yeah.

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我也不确定。

I don't know.

Speaker 0

那个分手的情节,她看起来像是在重演上一集那种‘求你爱我’的戏码。

The breakup thing where she seemed like she was having her like, the moment with the the the previous episode when she was doing the, like, please love me type.

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对啊。

Yeah.

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还要配上那种‘我们要结婚了’的疯狂笑声,只不过方式不一样。

We're gonna be married, maniacal laugh also in the different way.

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就是那种‘快有人帮帮这个女人’的节奏。

The please someone help this this woman way.

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我觉得她现在至少生他的气了,而且也放下了,这倒是好事。

I do feel like she's at least mad at him now and over that, which is great Yeah.

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因为他确实该受这个。

Because he deserves that.

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但我真不明白,她当初怎么忍得了。

I but, yeah, I don't know why she put up with it.

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我觉得她爸这么当面说,其实挺让他难堪的——她都问了你五次,你到底要不要和她在一起,你却一句‘我不想’都没说。

And then I felt like it's embarrassing to him that her dad had to be like, she asked you five times if you wanted to be in this relationship, and you didn't say you didn't want to.

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你到底怎么想的?

What's wrong with you?

Speaker 0

别这么孩子气了。

Stop being a baby.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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这人根本就没明白过来。

Literally, person is not getting the clue.

Speaker 1

别拖着了,赶紧走吧。

Do them the favor and get out.

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没错。

Like Yeah.

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她都问了你五次了,你还这副样子,Devante,你根本没把意思说清楚。

If they have to ask you five times, you don't like, she's not picking up what you think you're throwing down, Devante.

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你那张面无表情的脸。

With your emotionless face.

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你从来都是这样,对什么事都毫无情绪。

Like, you don't have an emotion on anything ever.

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所以她怎么可能相信你呢?

So, like, how she No.

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他心里清楚得很,她根本不信他。

He knows he knows for a fact she doesn't believe him.

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上一集里她不是还说,咱们还得再见面吗。

The previous episode when she's like, well, we're gonna see each other over right.

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他还说肯定会再见面,然后干笑了一声。

And he's like, we'll definitely see each other and does some monikle laugh.

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这明显就是个信号,这人铁定要彻底消失不联系你。

That is a clear signal this person is, like, definitely gonna ghost the shit out of you.

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结果他居然有两周没理她。

And then he, like, doesn't talk to her for two weeks apparently.

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她说他们有发消息,我当时就想,哦,原来你只是说没当面见面啊。

Well, I guess she said they texted, which I was like, oh, so I guess if you texted, if you just meant you didn't physically see each other.

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但就算这样,你们也有整整两周没见面了。

But even then, you didn't physically see each other for two weeks.

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对啊。

Yeah.

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这根本不算什么,干脆直接跟女生提分手好了。

That's not so, yeah, like, just break up with a woman.

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直接说清楚就行。

Just do it.

Speaker 0

你得有点胆量。

Just have some balls.

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给她个面子吧。

Her a favor.

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你让她显得特别蠢。

Like, you made her look like such an idiot.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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这对谁都没好处。

It's not good for anybody.

Speaker 1

你就直接

Like, you just

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给她个交代。

Give her the favor.

Speaker 1

这女孩因为不知道怎么回事,被网上骂得惨兮兮的。

Poor girl is getting dragged on the Internet for not knowing what's

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上去。

up.

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是的。

Yeah.

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就那样说‘是的’。

Just like Yeah.

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对。

Yeah.

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你本可以帮她一把。

You could have saved her.

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那样你看起来会更好。

And you would have looked better.

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如果你直接跟她分手,你看起来会更好。

If you just broke up with her, you would have looked better.

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说德万特看起来就像那样。

Said Devante looks like Yeah.

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就是上帝啊。

Just god.

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哦,是啊。

Oh, yeah.

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他说话的样子像在念Alex的台词,但Devante,我觉得他那句台词被批评得还不够。

He looks like a Let me talk about Alex line, but Devante, I don't think he's been called enough enough out enough for his line.

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不对。

No.

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我其实不觉得。

He I don't.

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就是那个旅行的事。

The trip thing.

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天哪。

Oh my god.

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根本搞不清那儿到底发生了什么。

Don't even know what the fuck is happening there.

Speaker 1

你为什么要这么做?

Why would you do that?

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你明明知道布列塔尼是谁,却跟别人说你们分手了。

You're you're telling people that know Brittany that you're broken up with her.

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但你根本没告诉布列塔尼你们已经分手了。

You haven't told Brittany that you're broken up with her.

Speaker 1

你到底在干嘛?

What are you doing?

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是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

绝对不该出现这种情况:你一边跟认识她的人说你们分了,一边又让她以为自己还是你女朋友。

There should never be a point at which someone thinks they're your girlfriend while you're telling people who know that person that you're not together anymore.

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对。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

我以前就遇到过这种事,真的特别糟,感觉自己蠢透了——明明那人还跟我信誓旦旦说我们好好的,转头却跟别人说早就分了。

I've had that happen to me, and I can tell you it is the shittiest feeling, and you feel like the biggest fucking moron that you didn't know because and the person my the guy was telling me we're very much together, telling everyone else we've been broken up.

Speaker 1

什么?

What?

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而且这还是我谈了好几年的人。

And this is someone I was dating for years.

Speaker 1

这可不是随便玩玩的关系。

This wasn't, a casual thing.

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这人是……哇哦。

It's someone I Oh, woah.

Speaker 1

所以是这样。

So yeah.

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对我来说,这完全是意外。

So and it was, news to me.

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我当时就想,我的通知去哪儿了?

Like, I was, like, where was my memo?

Speaker 1

你打算怎么告诉我我们分手了?

What were you gonna tell me we were broken up?

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他这么做是为了能见别人,但其实是在骗我。

And he was doing it so he could see somebody but he was cheating

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骗的是我。

on me.

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这很正常。

Of course.

Speaker 1

我很抱歉。

I'm sorry.

Speaker 1

总之吧。

Anyways.

Speaker 1

但真的特别让人难受。

But, like, it really sucked.

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我替布列塔尼感到难过,他居然这样对她,是啊。

And I hate that for Brittany that he did that to her Yeah.

Speaker 1

他根本没必要这样,直接说一声就好了。

Instead of just saying, hey.

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我不想跟你在一起。

I don't wanna be with you.

Speaker 1

这让我觉得特别恶心,真是受不了。

It's all it's just it's so gross to me and just ugh.

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他啊,我也不懂。

He's I don't know.

Speaker 1

可怜的布列塔尼,她看起来像个傻子。

And poor Brittany, like, she's she looks like a fool.

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真的就是。

She just does.

Speaker 1

你想想,她现在还坐在这儿。

You know, she's sitting here.

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她居然去问那些所谓的朋友——普里扬卡、布里和阿什利,为什么没人提醒她。

She's, like, asking her so called friends, you know, Priyanka and Brie and Ashley why they didn't say anything.

Speaker 1

这对他们来说也不是什么光彩的事。

Not a good look for them either.

Speaker 1

我不清楚这些女孩之间到底有多亲密。

I don't I don't know how close these girls really are.

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她们是这么说的。

They say they are.

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谁知道呢?

Who knows?

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关键是。

The thing.

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对吧?

Right?

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我也说不准。

And, like, I don't know.

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我不懂女生之间的规矩。

I don't know girl code.

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所以,女生之间的规矩到底是怎么样的?

So, like, is girl code to, like I don't know.

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他们不是说,她问你:‘你干嘛不告诉我?’

Didn't they say like, she was like, why didn't you tell me?

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然后他们说,以为你们俩已经分了。

And they're like, we thought you were not together.

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我就说,对啊。

And I'm like Yeah.

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而且,不是还有吗,

Didn't also, like

Speaker 1

那到底什么是女孩之间的默契?

But what is girl code?

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好吧。

Okay.

Speaker 1

我先假设一下,站在对立面说几句。

So if I play devil's devil's advocate for a second.

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如果,我不太确定。

If I I don't know.

Speaker 1

阿什莉和普里扬卡一直都说不。

Agree Ashley and Priyanka kept saying no.

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那时候我们和布列塔尼也没那么熟,反正就是那样。

We are not that close to Brittany, at that time or whatever it was.

Speaker 1

你能在观众席上明显看出来她那副样子。

Like, you could see her in the audience saying that.

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如果我跟德万特更亲近,我自然不会去找布列塔尼。

If I feel closer to Devante, I'm not necessarily gonna go to Brittany.

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这倒是真的。

That's true.

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对。

Yeah.

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你知道的,

And, you know

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我的意思是,他们根本没那个意思。

I mean, they don't have any yeah.

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他们其实对布列塔尼没什么忠诚可言。

They don't, I guess, have any loyalty to Brittany per se.

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没错,这话说得对。

So, yeah, that's true.

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但是

But

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所以亚历克斯,我明白她为什么怀疑他们,但问题全在德万特身上。

So Alex, I I understand why she's questioning them, but, like, this is all on Devante.

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撒谎的是德万特。

Devante is the one that lied.

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他们相信了他的谎言。

They believed his lie.

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他们当然可以去核实一下,但归根结底,这事儿是德万特的错。

And, yes, they could have checked up on her blah blah blah, but, really, this is Devante's fault.

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这不怪他们。

It's not their fault.

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是的。

Yeah.

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我的意思是,我其实不在乎别的,真正让我介意的是,他们都在纠结那个该死的Airbnb的事,好像每个人都觉得奇怪,他是不是每晚都住Airbnb?

I mean, I don't really care about the one that really got me was they were seeing like, everyone seemed upset about, like, the fucking Airbnb thing where it's like, oh, he's did he stay at an Airbnb every night?

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Priyanka说,不对,头一晚他就撒谎了。

And Priyanka's like, well, the first night he lied.

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说白了,我觉得特别瘆人的是:

Basically, here's what I thought was super creepy.

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他撒谎说,我没确认过住宿。

He lied and said, oh, I didn't confirm.

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她直接爆粗口:你他妈的别想一直住我家里。

And she's like, motherfucker, you cannot stay at my house this whole time.

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他却说,那第二天我再订,不然太尴尬了。

And he's like and then he got it for the next day because otherwise, it was gonna be awkward.

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所以,是这样。

And so yeah.

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然后他们还试图说,我觉得他根本没和她们中的任何人发生过关系。

And then they try to like, I was like, I don't think he was hooking up with any of them.

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但是

But

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而且我觉得她们也没人会跟他发生关系。

also I don't think any of them would hook up with him.

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我觉得他可能对阿什莉有点意思。

I think he might have had a thing for Ashley.

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很可能吧。

Oh, probably.

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我不是说她也对他有感觉,不过……

I'm not saying she had a thing for him back, but

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我觉得,嗯,确实有可能。

I think Oh, sure.

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我觉得她应该是

I think she do

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再说了。

it again.

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会是她,因为Breeze和Connor在一起,他心里清楚。

Would be the one because Breeze with Connor, he knows that.

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Priyanka,没错。

Priyanka Yep.

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哦,是啊。

Oh, yeah.

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不是这样的。

No.

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说真的,根本不是什么深色系的类型。

It's not like dark features, quite honestly.

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没错。

Exactly.

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但Ashley才是他喜欢的类型。

But Ashley would have been his type.

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是啊。

Oh, yeah.

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艾什莉确实是他的类型。

Ashley's his type for sure.

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所以我觉得,他确实对艾什莉有好感,还指望能有点进展。

So I think, yeah, I think he had a thing for Ashley and hoped he would get something.

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很明显,她也不喜欢他,毕竟他就是个傻乎乎的小屁孩。

Clearly, she's not interested in him either because he's a dumb dumb baby loser.

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我能理解。

And, like, I get it.

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我是个总想讨好别人的人。

I'm a people pleaser.

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我也不太擅长这样,但最后你还是得硬着头皮上,就当没这回事了。

I have a hard time with it too, but eventually, you gotta do the thing and just be like, okay.

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反正也不会有结果。

It's not gonna work or whatever.

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这女孩怎么老问你这么多问题?你到底怎么了?

What's the this girl, like, asking you so many like, what is wrong with you?

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比如,如果

Like If

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要是别人直接问你了,那你就得干脆点,算了。

you're getting asked directly also, like, then definitely, you gotta just be like, okay.

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咱们得这么办。

Like, we gotta do this.

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而且他知道,你明显在看他,也清楚他每说一句话,根本不是那个意思。

And, also, he knew you could tell I was watching him and knew for a fact every time he said anything, he doesn't mean that.

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他肯定不会去见她。

Like, he's definitely not gonna see her.

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他正想赶紧脱身呢。

He is getting out of this.

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他就像被夹在捕兽夹里,拼命想挣脱——我不是说她真是捕兽夹,别误会。

He's trying to chew his arm off of the bear trap, and I don't mean that in a mean way that she's a bear trap.

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她那阵子确实有点撑不住了,我看了特别替她难过。

She did kinda have a little bit of a break there, and I felt very bad for her because of it.

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我觉得她人并不坏。

Like, I don't think she's a bad person.

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她那时候简直是拼命想被人爱。

It's like when she was begging to be loved.

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不。

No.

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她为他那样做,根本不值得。

I don't think she should have done that for him.

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任何女人都不该把自己的价值押在别人身上。

No woman should have base themselves No.

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尤其像德万特那样的人。

For a Devante like that.

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不。

No.

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咱们其实没必要这么做,姐妹们。

Like, we don't need to do that, ladies.

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别这么做。

Don't do it.

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但是

But

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这种男人不值得。

Devantes are not worth it.

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如果你真处在那种境地,我懂,那种 desperation 真的太难受了。

I get where you are if you're in that place, and it sucks when you're that desperate.

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而且,就像我说的

And, like I

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我觉得这根本算不上 desperation。

wouldn't even call it desperate.

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她只是不相信他的所作所为。

I think she just he's she's not believing his actions.

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她相信他说的话,但言行对不上。

She's believing his words, and they're not aligning.

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她听他怎么说,可他只是说她想听的,实际行动却一点都没有。

And so she's listening to what he's saying, and he's not he's telling her what he thinks she wants to hear, but he's not doing the thing.

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所以,这明显不一致,这就是操控。

So, like, there is a mismatch, and that is manipulation.

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是的。

Yeah.

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但她就是没察觉到。

But she's not picking up on.

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她只盯着他说的话,还替他找借口,脑子里转来转去。

She's just listening to the words, and she's making excuses and doing all these mental gymnastics

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对。

Yeah.

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然后还安慰自己说,算了。

And being like, okay.

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他本来就不是那种喜欢夸人的人。

He's just not the kind of person who likes to compliment.

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他就是那种喜欢拖很久的人。

He's just the kind of person that likes a long time.

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我对他的这个特点已经接受了。

I accept this about him.

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真的挺让人难受的。

Like, it really sucks.

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对她来说特别难受,因为她总是盯着

Like, it just really sucks for her because she just looks

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是啊,真够惨的。

Oh, it sucks.

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像个傻子一样。

Like a fool.

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他就是这么对待她的。

That's what he did to her.

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让她

Makes her

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真是个混蛋。

fucking ass.

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我不确定他有没有真正承担过责任,你怎么知道有人真的要求他负责过?

I don't know that he's really even taken accountability for any how do you even know that anyone held him accountable?

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她爸爸稍微提了他几句,但尼克和凡妮莎根本没怎么追究他。

I mean, her dad a little bit, but Nick and Vanessa didn't go at him nearly hard enough.

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没错。

No.

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对啊。

Yeah.

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他们简直放他一马了。

They really let him off light.

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就像

Like

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是的。

Yeah.

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他们就说,哦,你撒了点小谎?

They're like, oh, you lied about a few things?

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行吧。

Okay.

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这样对她实在太过分了。

That's shitty to do to her.

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真的太过分了。

It's so shitty.

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是的。

Yeah.

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他们明明很针对克里斯,但为什么不说清楚:你他妈根本没告诉她你其实已经分手了,反而跟别人说你单身,这算什么?

Like, they really dug Chris, but why not be like, motherfucker, you didn't tell her you were like, you told other people you're broken up with, and you didn't tell her.

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然后你又跟她说你想维持婚姻。

And then you told her you want to be in the marriage.

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你真是个混蛋。

You fucking loser.

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滚吧。

Get out of here.

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是的。

Yeah.

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所以,我觉得他们确实该好好追究他这一点。

So, yeah, I think they should have dogged him for that.

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就像,

Like,

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太狠了。

hard.

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这实在太过分了。

That's so shitty

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这么做。

to do.

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这事儿太离谱了。

It's fucked up.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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所以我也说不准,老兄。

So I don't know, man.

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他真是个怪人。

I he's a piece of work.

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最差劲的。

The worst.

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克里斯简直是最差的。

Like, Chris is the worst.

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我把德万特排第二,然后亚历克斯大概排第三。

I put Devante as worst man number two, and then probably Alex behind him.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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也许我并没有遇到神经多样性的人。

Maybe I didn't get a neurodivergent.

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我希望人们能明白。

Want people

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我们确实收到了一条评论。

we did get some we did get a comment.

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我不希望别人觉得我在说神经多样性的人有问题。

I don't want people to think I'm saying neurodivergent people are the problem.

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我觉得他把沉默当成了一种手段,逃避在关系中承担责任。

I think he's weaponized his quietness into some way of not taking responsibility for engaging in relationships.

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我不确定。

I don't know.

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或者他根本就对她没兴趣。

Or maybe he just didn't like I think he just wasn't into her.

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然后,不是这样的。

And then No.

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我也不明白自己干嘛要说这个。

And I don't know why I'll just say that.

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对啊。

Like Yeah.

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他就是没法脱身。

He just couldn't yeah.

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他根本抽不开身。

He couldn't get out of it.

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我现在特别好奇。

And now I'm really curious.

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我还没去看,但我在想,他那个女朋友长什么样啊?她都快生孩子了。

I haven't looked, but, like, I wonder what his girlfriend looks like, who also has a fucking baby on the way already.

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她住在俄亥俄,他倒还在亚利桑那享乐。

And she lives in Ohio, and he's still living it up in Arizona.

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你也要明白这一点。

Also understand this.

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那真的挺可疑的,因为他们突然说等等。

That was real sketch because they're like, wait.

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因为布列塔尼也不知道这事,当他点头时。

Because Brittany didn't seem to know this either when he goes Yeah.

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哦,我在俄亥俄有一套房子。

Oh, I have a house in Ohio.

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然后他表情有点不对劲,心想:糟了。

And then he looked kinda like, oh, shit.

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哎呀,搞砸了。

Like, oops.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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大概吧。

I guess.

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我就想,你连基本的诚实都不给布列塔尼,你住在亚利桑那,突然就订婚、让人怀孕,还在那儿买了房,可你明明连跟她坦诚聊一聊都不肯。

And I'm like, you didn't even tell like, you live in Arizona, and then you got engaged, got someone pregnant, and bought a house there when presumably you couldn't, even give Brittany, like, the respect of an honest conversation.

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出什么事了?

What's happening?

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我怎么这么替那个女的难过,除非她其实不是该同情的那个人?

And why am I so sorry for that lady unless she's the wrong person?

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天哪。

God.

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真是够了。

For a thing.

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她现在只能跟他绑在一起了。

She's stuck with him now.

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他太差劲了,以后也会一直这么差劲。

But he's terrible and gonna be terrible.

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是啊。

Yeah.

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他真是最糟糕的。

So He is the worst.

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这不光是因为他话少,我也懂,我自己也喜欢独处,需要一点安静的时间。

It's not just because he's quiet, and I know people like I like my I like my solitude a little time as well.

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有很多原因,但我觉得这人就是个长不大的孩子,不敢直说,不敢像个大人一样跟人家讲:我不打算跟你结婚。

There's a lot of things, but I think this guy was just a man child who couldn't say he couldn't big boy he couldn't put on his big boy pants and say, I'm not interested in marrying you.

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没错。

Right.

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但他却跟别人都说他们已经分手了。

But he told everyone else they were broken up.

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这才是最蠢的地方。

Like, that's literally the stupid part.

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我其实可以理解,他可能就是不敢跟布列塔尼当面谈这件事。

I could probably be like, okay.

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但他一边跟别人说分手了,一边还跟她去旅行,装得跟没事人一样,这真的太恶心了。

He just wasn't ready to have that conversation with Brittany, but the fact that he told other people and still went on this trip and presented that way, that's really gross.

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这太奇怪了。

That's weird.

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真的太奇怪了。

It's so weird.

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太糟糕了。

It's terrible.

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简直糟透了。

Terrible.

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别这样。

Don't.

Speaker 1

他还一副 Brittany 是他甩不掉的阴影的样子。

And he acts like Brittany's like this shadow that he couldn't shake and like.

Speaker 1

是啊。

Yeah.

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真的让人反感。

Like, it's gross.

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他还一个人待了那么久。

And he took so much alone time.

Speaker 1

他到底还需要多少独处时间啊?

It's like, how much more alone time do you need?

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对啊。

Yeah.

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还有人跟我说,我也不太确定。

Also, someone pointed out I don't know.

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他是不是说过他的爱的语言是肢体接触?

Is did he say his love language was touch?

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因为如果他的爱的语言是……

Because if he's His love language

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就是身体接触。

is physical touch.

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所以布列塔尼简直懵到家了。

So Brittany's fucking confused as fuck.

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他还说,真的,天热的时候别碰我。

And he's like, literally, like, if it's hot, don't touch me.

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如果有风,别碰我。

If there's wind, don't touch me.

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电视开着的时候,别碰我。

If the television's on, don't touch me.

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只要你脑子里冒出碰我的念头,就别碰我。

If you're thinking about touching me, don't touch me.

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只要日子以‘y’结尾,就别碰我。

If the day ends in y, don't touch me.

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别碰我。

Don't touch me.

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他们还问:‘老兄,这到底怎么回事?’

And they're like, what is happening, bro?

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可他说:‘我其实很喜欢肢体接触啊。’

And he's like, but I love touch.

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可事实是:不行。

And it's like, no.

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所以啊。

So yeah.

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对啊。

Yeah.

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我的意思是,很明显他们俩不太匹配。

He's I mean, there's clearly a mismatch.

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布列塔尼没看出来,可惜她当时只是

Brittany didn't see it, unfortunately, because she was just

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我觉得他根本就没

I think he just wasn't

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注意到她。

Blind for her.

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她就是看不见。

She just couldn't see.

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德万特真是个混蛋。

What a douchebag Devante is.

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我很抱歉。

I'm sorry.

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他就是这样的。

He just is.

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唉,真是的。

Like, ugh.

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我觉得他根本没把她当回事,伤她伤得太深了。

I just I feel like he just, like, he just let her on so bad.

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就算男生内向,我也觉得不少女生不该把他的这种行为当成‘性格安静’来接受。

Even if guys are quiet, I don't think a lot of women should accept his behavior as, quote, a quiet person.

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我明白。

And I understand.

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我知道,再说一遍,我有注意力缺陷,真的很难受,我讲起话来天马行空,让别人听我唠叨确实挺煎熬的,所以我才做这个播客。

Like, I know, again, like I'm saying, I'm, like, ADHD is hell, so I understand the hell that it is to for people to suffer my stories and things because I take crazy tangents, but that's why I have a podcast.

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所以吧,确实不容易,但你也不能说‘因为我有特殊情况’,所以就不给你情绪上的回应了。

So but, yeah, like, it's it's hard, but at the same time, you can't just be like, and therefore, my accommodation is not giving you any emotional validation.

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你的包容不能只是缺乏情感上的回应。

Your your accommodation can't be lack of emotional engagement.

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对。

Yeah.

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除非对方本身就想要这样的关系,而且也接受,那也没问题。

Unless your partner wants and is okay with that, and that's fine.

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如果他们本身是无浪漫倾向之类的,那另当别论。

If they are also, like, I don't know, aromantic or whatever.

Speaker 0

没错。

Right.

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是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

但布列塔尼不是这样的。

But that's not Brittany.

Speaker 0

她根本不是想要这样,而他明明很清楚。

That's not what she wanted, and he really knew that.

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他真该挺身而出,说实话,他早就该担起责任了。

And he should have, man, he should just, you you know, cowboyed up for that.

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但我也不确定。

But I don't know.

Speaker 1

至少她爸爸让他负了点责任,这挺好。

I like that her dad at least held him accountable a little bit Yeah.

Speaker 1

或者至少试过了。

Or tried to.

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也许该给他点颜色看看。

Probably speak to the fire a little.

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她看起来是个挺好的人。

She seems like a nice guy.

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他给人感觉挺不错的。

He seemed cool.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

他帮康纳把西装送过去了,我觉得挺贴心的。

He drove Connor's suit in, which I thought was sweet.

Speaker 1

所以,呃,也许布列塔尼确实对布列塔尼多解释了一点。

So, like, yeah, maybe Brittany did note Brittany a little bit more of an explanation there.

Speaker 1

我不太清楚。

I don't know.

Speaker 1

我对他们之间的关系一无所知,但我觉得所有压力都在德万特身上。

I don't know the relationship at all, but I feel like everything's on Devante, honestly.

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是的。

Yeah.

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我觉得责任在他身上。

I think it's on him.

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所以没错。

So Yeah.

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但其他女孩,那些女生其实也应该多站出来替他说句话。

But the other one the other girls should probably have the women should have probably stood up for a little bit more.

Speaker 0

我不清楚。

I don't know.

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是的。

Yeah.

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他们应该的。

They should.

Speaker 1

但我想,那时候他们并不知道自己不知道这些。

But I guess they didn't know what they didn't know at the time.

Speaker 1

所以。

So

Speaker 0

对。

Yeah.

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不过我不明白德万特到底给了他们什么,让他这么有影响力。

I don't know what Devante is giving them though that makes him like

Speaker 1

我不清楚德万特

I don't know what Devante

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他谁都没给。

is giving anybody.

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他跟你相处起来真的舒服吗?能让你跟其他人之间的友谊也变得更好吗?

Is he cool to hang out with to really put, like, your friendship with anyone else today?

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我只是觉得

I'm just like

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我真的不觉得

I just don't I

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也许吧。

mean, maybe.

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也许他是个不错的人,只是

Maybe he's a great guy, but he just

Speaker 1

不是。

No.

Speaker 1

他根本不是个好人。

He is not a great guy.

Speaker 0

一直在努力压抑所有的想法和情绪。

Actively trying to suppress all thoughts and emotions.

Speaker 1

从这个人身上,我们根本看不到任何优点。

We don't see anything great from this man at all.

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一点都没有。

Nothing.

Speaker 0

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

我真的说不准。

I I don't know.

Speaker 0

我觉得他特别无聊,不过嘛。

He seems very boring to me, but, hey.

Speaker 0

大卫·普蒂有时候还挺搞笑的,我想。

David Putty was funny, I guess, sometimes.

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但再说一遍

But, again

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他确实挺搞笑的,至少他还试着对伊莲忠诚,也努力对她坦诚。

He was funny, but he had a little bit at least he, like, tried to be loyal to Elaine and tried to, like, be honest with her.

Speaker 0

没错。

That's true.

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是的。

Yes.

Speaker 0

确实如此。

That's true.

Speaker 0

他啊,嗯……

He's yeah.

Speaker 0

他就是德万特。

He's so he's Devante

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算是最差的那类人了。

is kind of the worst.

Speaker 1

他算得上是最糟糕的男人之一,因为他总觉得自己是个好人。

He's kind of one of the worst guys because he thinks he's a nice guy.

Speaker 0

是的

Yeah.

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他表面上是个好人。

He is a he is a nice guy TM.

Speaker 0

他看起来挺和善的,实际上却特别糟糕。

He comes across nice, and then he's terrible.

Speaker 0

所以

So

Speaker 1

但他藏得很深。

But he's underground.

Speaker 1

比如克里斯,他明面上就特别差劲。

Like, Chris is outwardly terrible.

Speaker 1

一眼就能看出来。

It's easy to spot.

Speaker 1

对

Yeah.

Speaker 1

德万特那家伙满嘴谎话。

Devante's, like, got all his lies going.

Speaker 0

没错。

Exactly.

Speaker 0

就是这么回事。

Exactly.

Speaker 1

而且现在他又让别人怀了孩子,祝那家人好运吧。

And, yeah, now he's got a baby on the way to somebody else, and good luck to that house.

Speaker 0

祝他们好运。

To them.

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我也是。

Me too.

Speaker 0

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

我不清楚。

I don't know.

Speaker 1

希望他跟她住一起,或者他只是想跟亚历克斯多点独处时间。

Hopefully, he lives in with her, or maybe he just wants a more alone time with Alex.

Speaker 1

我不清楚。

I don't know.

Speaker 0

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

他根本没说她住那房子里,咱们也不知道。

He didn't actually say she lived in that house, so we don't know.

Speaker 0

对。

No.

Speaker 1

她确实住那房子里。

She does live in that house.

Speaker 0

哦?她住那儿?

Oh, she does?

Speaker 0

明白了。

Okay.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

对。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

她住在俄亥俄州的那栋房子里。

She's in Ohio living in the house.

Speaker 1

所以我想他是负责供养,但说实话,我不太确定。

So I guess he's providing, but, like, I don't know.

Speaker 1

他正在向乔丹学习。

He's taking some notes from Jordan.

Speaker 1

怎么当单身汉。

How to be single

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我懂,兄弟。

I know, man.

Speaker 1

同时还要保持社交。

And engage at the same time.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

干得漂亮,搞定它。

Way to go, pull it off.

Speaker 0

他表现得真棒。

He's nailing it.

Speaker 0

他就说,嗯。

He's like yeah.

Speaker 0

乔丹那边正拼命地记笔记呢。

He's Jordan is, like, taking notes over there desperately.

Speaker 1

他想的是,下次怎么才能做得更好?

He's like, how do I do better next time?

Speaker 1

我该怎么同时维持一段关系,又保持单身呢?

How do I, you know, have the relationship and be single at the same time?

Speaker 0

这是个好问题。

It's a good question.

Speaker 0

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

我不确定。

I don't know.

Speaker 0

他一半时间跟亚历克斯住,另一半时间跟他爸爸住。

He gets to live with Alex part time, live with his yeah.

Speaker 0

这真的很好。

It is really great.

Speaker 0

他简直过着单身汉的理想生活。

He's really living the bachelor dream.

Speaker 1

太奇怪了。

So bizarre.

Speaker 0

乔丹,记下来。

Jordan, take notes.

Speaker 0

赶紧进去。

Get in there.

Speaker 0

自己想办法。

Figure it out.

Speaker 1

对。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

想明白。

Figure out.

Speaker 1

向德万特学习。

Learn from Devante.

Speaker 0

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

求你了,别这样。

Please don't.

Speaker 1

我就觉得这有点像师父和徒弟那种关系,不管怎么说。

I just see this, like, sensei, kind of relation whatever.

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就像

Like a

Speaker 0

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

他跟他们之间的关系就像麦吉先生那样。

He's Mister McGee kind of relationship with them.

Speaker 1

对,就是这样。

Like yeah.

Speaker 0

所以我们现在快说到维克和克里斯汀了。

So we're wrapped we're wrapping toward Vic and Christine.

Speaker 1

幸好他们那周末在。

One Thank god they were on

Speaker 0

这个周末。

this weekend.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

我觉得我们本该多看看他们的,天哪。

I feel like we just should have seen more of them because my god.

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我觉得挺有意思的是,尼克特别提到,他们本来只是偶然多关注了你们,因为通常他们只选六对情侣,但特别庆幸多关注了你们,因为你们是唯一一对看起来真正开心的。

So I do think it's funny that Nick specifically did also say, like, oh, we are so glad we accidentally followed you extra because, like, we usually only have six couples, but we're so glad we followed you as the extra because you're the only ones that are happy.

Speaker 0

而且

And

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你们是唯一一对

You're the only ones that

Speaker 0

整个赛季都一直在一起的。

were teamed this whole season.

Speaker 0

上一季就是这种情况,不过那是上一季还是更早之前?

That's what happened the last season because the was it last or the one before?

Speaker 0

有一季他们没播一对情侣,但那对其实到最后还订着婚,对吧。

There was one season where they didn't show a couple that also was still engaged by the end and, like Yeah.

Speaker 1

不是上一季。

That wasn't last season.

Speaker 1

是好几季之前的事了。

Was a couple of seasons ago.

Speaker 0

应该是两季前,也可能是上一季,或者再之前那一季,记不太清了。

It two was either two or it was either last or the one, but it might have been the one before.

Speaker 0

对。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

他们俩一直在一起,挺开心的,但节目没播他们,说他们太平淡了。

So, like and they they were together, and they were happy, and they didn't show them because they were like, they were too boring.

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很多时候,节目里拍的那些无聊的情侣,反而是最后真正幸福的那几对。

And so a lot of times, they're doing these boring couples, but they're the only ones that ended up actually, happy it seems.

Speaker 0

是啊。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

而且看得出来,他们现在真的还很幸福。

And they seem genuinely still happy.

Speaker 0

就像。

Like

Speaker 1

对。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

他们在一起看起来特别温馨。

They seem very sweet together.

Speaker 1

对。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

我喜欢他们彼此最大的抱怨——他觉得她老是穿着袜子,

I like their biggest complaints about each other or that his biggest complaint is that she wears socks all the time.

Speaker 1

而她觉得他把什么都当垃圾处理,样样都扔。

And her biggest complaint is that he makes everything's garbage or every every No.

Speaker 1

所有垃圾都得是篮球。

All garbage is basketball.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

这让我觉得

Which I

Speaker 0

挺有道理的。

think that's fair.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 1

我觉得他们特别稳固。

I think they're so solid.

Speaker 1

我真的很支持他们,到现在还是支持他们。

Like, I was really rooting for them, still rooting for them.

Speaker 1

我觉得他们是十季以来唯一一对真正靠谱的情侣。

They're the one couple, I think, of all ten seasons.

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我真高兴他们结婚了,因为我觉得,如果不是剪辑在故意误导我们,这两个人就是天生一对。

I'm actually glad they got married because I was like, these two unless editing is just doing a really good job of faking us out, like, two just belong together.

Speaker 1

如果他们没结婚,我反而会更失望。

And I would be more upset, I think, if they did get married.

Speaker 1

他们确实结了。

They did.

Speaker 1

我本来以为他们只是打算结婚,但这两个人,我真的觉得他们就是合适。

Like, I only getting on the to get married, but those two, I was like, they they do.

Speaker 0

哦,真的吗?

Oh, really?

Speaker 0

我不太确定。

I don't know.

Speaker 0

我还以为是布雷特,不对,是布伦特,还有……

I thought Brett is it Brent and

Speaker 1

布雷特和蒂芙尼。

Brett and Tiffany.

Speaker 1

蒂芙尼。

Tiffany.

Speaker 1

是的。

Yeah.

Speaker 0

他们俩一直都在一起。

From the they were still on.

Speaker 0

我的意思是,他们……嗯,

Mean, they Well,

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