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Alright.
我接下来这话听起来可能有点自大,但其实要在社交媒体上涨粉真的很容易。
I'm going to sound pretty arrogant for a second, but growing on social media is easy.
我是认真的。
And I actually mean that.
我不是为了吸引眼球才这么说的。
I'm not just saying it because it's a good hook.
这确实是个不错的开场白。
It is a good hook.
但我从来就没在任何社交媒体平台上为涨粉发过愁。
But I I never really had a problem growing on social media on any platform.
所以当我策划这个视频的时候,我就问自己:为什么我涨粉这么顺利?
So when I was outlining this video, I kind of asked myself, okay, why was it easy for me to grow?
其实是因为我在做社交媒体之前,已经失败过七种不同的商业模式了。
And it really came from me failing at like seven other different business models before I actually started on social media.
所以当我开始做社交媒体的时候,我不是从零开始的。
So when I started on social media, I wasn't starting from scratch.
我早就积累了不少有价值的技能,只是之前那些生意因为总想追新潮,最后都失败了。
I had a bunch of high value skills under my belt, even though those prior businesses, thanks to shiny object syndrome failed.
我试过太多不同的东西了。
And I tried so many different things.
我试过用Photoshop做数字艺术。
I tried digital art with like Photoshop.
我试过摄影,收钱给人拍现场照片。
I tried photography and charging for like in person photo sessions.
我还开过几家代理公司,做Facebook广告、SEO和网页设计。
I tried multiple agencies like Facebook ads, SEO, web design.
我两次尝试过代发货。
I tried drop shipping twice.
我还真下单做过一个电商平台品牌。
I tried building an ecommerce brand like actually ordering.
基本上就是做了两次代发货,可能还试过更多,只是时间太短,我都记不清了。
It is pretty much drop shipping twice and I probably even did a few more that I don't even register because they were so short lived.
每次就撑个一周左右。
It was like a week at a time.
我一有想法就立马建网站。
I'd start something and then I'd build the website.
一想到要注册公司就特别兴奋,可热情一过,立马就放弃了。
I'd get so excited about starting the LLC and then the the dopamine would fade and then I'd quit.
这挺遗憾的,因为那时候我还是个 teenager,不知怎么的,就是特别抗拒朝九晚五的工作。
And that was kind of unfortunate because as a teenager, for some reason it was just the bane of my existence to get a nine to five job, right?
我环顾四周,看看我父母,我很爱他们,但再看看上一代人,对吧?
I looked around me, I looked at my parents, I love my parents, but I looked at the older generation, right?
你去沃尔玛转一圈,看到那些人,心里就想着:我可不想以后活成那样。
You go to Walmart, you look around, you see the people and you're like, that's not what I want my life to end up as.
后来我反过来想,作为 teenager,我脑子里觉得,他们为什么会变成这样?答案很明确:就是朝九晚五的工作。
And when I reverse engineered, okay, what led them to that in my head as a teenager, it's like nine to five job, right?
这样每天几乎都被占满了,晚上回到家早就累垮了,根本没力气做点真正有意义的事。
That takes up most of your day, you get home at night, you're super tired, you don't really get to work on something meaningful.
所以我特别想做点有创意的东西。
So I wanted to do something creative.
我不想朝九晚五地上班,又想搞点创意,后来虽然上了五年大学,但其实只是把它当成缓冲期,用来随便试试各种东西。
I didn't want to work a nine to five and I wanted to do something creative and I did end up going to college for five years, but I was kind of treating it as a buffer period to just experiment with things.
高中时我是全优生,可到了大学,我成了那个靠及格线拿文凭的人。
I was a straight A student in high school, but when I was in college, I was the Cs get degrees dude.
上了五年大学,一直在换方向——这大概就是我青春的主旋律吧,总是不停地换路子。
And so five years into college and just switching around so much, that was a theme of my youth, I guess, is I just switched around so many different times.
我不断调整、犯错、转方向、试错,虽然积累了大量经验,但也撞了不少南墙。
I just changed, I made mistakes, I pivoted, I experimented, and that gave me a lot of experience, but it also gave me a lot of failures.
那时候我大概背了两万美元的学生贷款,而且债务还在不断累积。
And at that time, I was probably like 20,000 in student debt and that continued to stack up.
因为实在急了,也真的害怕自己活不下去,我才开始投简历,最后进了家网页设计公司,毕竟我之前已经掌握了这门技能。
So out of urgency and out of honestly just being scared that I wasn't going to be able to survive, I started applying for jobs and I got a job at a web design agency because I had previously acquired that skill.
那时候那份工作还挺轻松的。
And so at that it was kind of a cushy job.
我就继续自学怎么做自由职业者,对吧?
I just continued to learn how to freelance, right?
我当时做的是网页设计。
I was doing web design.
在公司里,我能看到整个项目是怎么一步步拼起来的。
I could see inside of the agency that I was working at how things were kind of pieced together.
我渐渐明白了该怎么正经地做自由职业。
It kind of made sense to me how to start freelancing in a good way.
于是我就开始这么做了。
And so I started doing that.
简而言之,大概过了六七个月,事情慢慢有了起色。
And long story short, that started to pick up over the course of six, seven, eight months.
工作了九个月后,我就辞职了,因为那时候我觉得自由职业的收入已经够稳了——说到底,自由职业也不过是换个说法的朝九晚五。
And after like nine months of me working the job, I was able to quit because I felt secure enough with my freelancing job now because freelancing is really just a glorified nine to five job.
你还在为别人做项目,那些项目又不是你的, probably 你也不感兴趣,更别提什么创意主导权了。
You're still working for other people on projects that aren't yours, probably projects that you don't care about, that you don't have any creative direction in.
不过这其实不是重点,或者说,也挺关键的。
But that's aside the point, actually not really.
我开始玩社交媒体,是因为有次在 Twitter 上刷着刷着,突然发现也有其他网页设计师在聊我感兴趣的话题。
That's why I started on social media is because I saw other I don't know why I was on Twitter of all places, but I was scrolling and I saw that there were other web designers and people talking about my interests.
那些设计师就在分享一些基础建议,对吧?
The web designers were just giving out basic advice, right?
他们说:想辞职的话,这十大技能你必须掌握。
They were like saying, here's the top 10 skills that you need to learn if you wanna quit your job.
我当时挺有共鸣的,但他们靠这些建议接到了网页设计的客户,还卖课程,教人怎么做网页设计、怎么自由职业,诸如此类的东西。
And to me that resonated at the time, but they were landing web design clients from that and they were selling courses on how to do web design, how to freelance, other things like that.
我就想,这事儿我也能干。
And so I'm like, I can do the same thing.
他们说的那些话,我全都会说,可人家却做得风生水起。
They're saying all of the things that I know how to say and they're doing really well.
我为什么不能像他们那样?
Why am I not in their position?
于是我开始在社交媒体上发帖,我的优势在于,从一开始就有稳定的增长,但并不是一下子爆发式的。
So I started posting on social media, but my edge and the way I kind of had consistent growth out of the gate, it wasn't super fast all at once.
前两个月,每周大概涨一百个粉丝,后来慢慢升到每周五百个,再后来稳定在每月两千左右。
It was kind of like 100 followers a week for two months, and then it picked up to like 500 followers a week and then kind of stabilized around 2,000 followers a month.
然后就出现了波动。
And then there were waves.
每当有一条推文火了,粉丝数就会突然猛增。
There was like large explosions of follower growth when I had a tweet do really well.
其他时候就平稳地每月增长一千五到两千,一直很稳定。
And then there was just the troughs of like 1,500 to 2,000 followers a month, and it was pretty stable.
但我能做到这一点,是因为之前做数字艺术时的失败,让我对品牌视觉有了些理解。
But the reason I was able to do that is because my failures in digital art taught me brand aesthetics to some degree.
对吧?
Right?
所有技能的掌握,本质上都是对模式的识别。
All of skill acquisition is really just pattern recognition.
所以我在Twitter上成长的时候,并不是在真正地练习这项技能。
So it's not like I was actually practicing or doing the skill when I was growing on Twitter.
而是因为我之前已经失败过很多次,积累了足够多的经验,一上来就更有眼光,知道什么样的开头才吸引人——毕竟我之前研究过Facebook广告和文案。
It's more so I had just like failed and had so much experience under my belt already that I had better taste out of the gate for what a hook looked like because I had studied Facebook ads and copywriting.
当我试图让那些代理机构运转起来的时候,我做过一些主动联系。
When I was trying to make the agencies work that I had, I had I did some cold outreach.
我知道怎么建立人脉。
I knew how to network.
我知道怎么给陌生人发私信。
I knew how to DM people.
我知道怎么交朋友。
I knew how to make friends.
我知道怎么先提供价值,让别人也愿意回馈我,这一点等我说到正题的时候,我们再详细聊。
I knew how to provide value so that they would provide value in return, which we're gonna talk about in this video when I finally get to the point.
我做的网页设计和文案搭配得特别好,跟品牌塑造也特别契合。
And the web design that I was doing paired with the copywriting really well, paired with the branding really well.
所以我一开始做数字产品,就比大多数新手起步快多了,因为大多数人刚上社交媒体时,那可是他们第一次尝试,对吧?
And so I was off to a better start when it came to learning how to create digital products or just creating digital products better than most beginners because what most people do when they start on social media is that's their first endeavor, right?
他们一边做一边学,慢慢积累审美和判断力。
So they're learning the skills as they go and they're building up taste over time.
而这种状态,往往就让人困在新手的泥潭里出不来。
And that's kind what gets you stuck in beginner hell.
新手泥潭就是你发一堆内容却没人理,粉丝涨不起来,如果你不回头看看哪里错了、哪些东西有效、不及时调整和迭代,那你就永远别想突破。
Beginner hell is where you kinda, you just post into the void and you don't really gain any followers and usually if you don't correct your mistakes or you don't pay attention to what's working and what's not and you don't course correct and iterate, then you're never really gonna have your breakout.
所以大多数创作者,我也能理解,最后都放弃了,因为他们根本看不到任何进展。
And that's why most creators, and I don't blame them, quit because they just can't gain any traction.
这正是我拍这个视频想说清楚的事。
So that's my goal with this video.
社交媒体其实是个非常靠谱的商业模式,尤其一个人单干,再配上AI,现在这个时代,你能做出的东西多得是。
Social media is a very viable business model, for one person, especially with AI on your side, like you can build so many cool things in today's world.
如果你具备一些能让你脱颖而出的技能,因为大多数人只是走老路,觉得我得发内容,或者得用AI做个什么东西。
And if you have the skills that allow you to stand out because most people are just going the route of, oh, I need to post content or I need to build something with AI.
人人都在这么做。
Everyone's doing that.
大家都这么干,那谁也别想靠这个成功。
And if everyone's doing it, then like nobody's nobody's gonna succeed doing that.
AI确实给你开了挂,但当所有人都开了挂,那这挂也就没用了。
Yes, AI gives you superpowers, but when everyone has superpowers, nobody has superpowers.
所以,这正是我拍这个视频的目的。
So again, that's my goal.
你躲不开失败。
You're not gonna avoid the failure.
你躲不开错误。
You're not gonna avoid the mistakes.
你躲不开那些积累经验的过程——只有通过经验,才能形成模式识别,最终真正掌握技能。
You're not going to avoid having to build up the experience that leads to pattern recognition that leads to skill acquisition.
但我可以告诉你,真正能让你在社交媒体上快速增长的两个关键点,也能帮你更快地建立模式识别能力。
But what I can tell you is the two levers that you actually need to pull to see social media growth faster and it will help with pattern recognition faster.
我拍这个视频的另一个目的,是想让你明白,社交媒体的成功并不是靠算法运气。
My secondary goal with this video is to show you that social media isn't luck based on an algorithm.
你不能随便发个内容,就指望算法突然选中你,然后失败了还怪算法不公平。
You don't just post and hope that the algorithm picks you up and then blame the algorithm for your failure and your lack of skill.
社交媒体就像一款电子游戏。
Social media is like a video game.
很多事其实都像电子游戏。
Many things are like a video game.
它们都有明确的机制和你可以掌握、操作的技巧。
They have specific mechanics and levers you can learn and pull.
当你玩到更高段位的时候,这些套路就一目了然了。
And when you're at a higher level in the video game, you kind of see it all.
你早就把所有机制都摸透了。
You've already gone through all the mechanics.
你已经把所有技能都升级到位了。
You have already leveled up all of the abilities.
这就像是你有了更多发挥创意的空间。
It's just like you get to be more creative.
但当你在某件事上成为专家时,反而更容易被各种新花样吸引,更需要专注。
But when you're an expert at something, usually you have more you have more potential for shiny object syndrome and you need to focus more.
所以作为新手,你其实比那些老手更有优势,因为那些特别擅长社交媒体的人往往容易放弃。
So as a beginner, you actually have an advantage over people because the people who are very good at social media also tend to fall off.
你经常看到一些大博主或者知名账号内容输出越来越少。
You see a lot of big YouTubers or people just like decrease output.
我最近也减少了更新频率。
I've decreased output lately.
这反而给新创作者腾出了机会。
And what that does is it opens up space for new creators to come in.
所以关键就两个杠杆。
So two levers.
这正是我们需要了解的。
That's what we need to know.
其他所有事情都当作干扰。
Treat everything else as a distraction.
就专心做这两件事就行。
Literally just focus on these two things.
别被分心了。
Don't get distracted.
只要盯住这两件事,你肯定能做好。
Focus on these two things and you will do just fine.
我向你保证。
I promise.
第一个关键点是,从你自己的角度出发,做那些真正有效的事。
So the first lever is to do what works from your own perspective.
听起来可能还没那么厉害,但我跟你保证,这其实就是秘诀。
And that sounds kinda That doesn't sound that great just yet, but I promise like this is the secret.
就是这个了。
This is it.
如果你真把它当回事,它就会变成重点。很多新手创作者最大的问题就是总觉得自己没什么新东西可说,好像大家刷社交媒体就是为了看新鲜内容似的。
If you actually treat it as a priority, it will become a priority because a big problem that beginner creators have is like they always think, oh, I don't have anything new to say as if people are on social media to see something new.
其实不是的。
They're not.
你想想自己平时怎么刷社交媒体,或者我怎么刷的——大家其实是想看某个创作者对已经热门话题的独特看法。
If you actually think about how you consume social media or how I consume social media, people are there to see what's already being talked about from a specific creator's opinion.
这正是算法的运作方式,尤其是YouTube。
That's literally how the algorithm works, especially YouTube.
你只要看过一个关于某个话题的视频,YouTube立马就会给你推另一个创作者讲的同一个话题。
If you watch one video on a specific topic, YouTube is gonna show you the same freaking topic from another creator.
如果你明白了这点,就会知道,只要你做的视频跟之前火过的类似,系统就会把你的内容推荐给那些看过原视频的人。
And if you understand that, you understand if that you create a video similar to one that has already done well, then you're gonna be recommended to the people who viewed the one that did well.
我待会儿再详细解释,但希望你能真明白这一点。
I'll explain that soon, but I hope that really clicks.
这就是YouTube增长的全部关键。
That's YouTube growth in a nutshell.
其他所有课程和技巧都是次要的。
Every other course, like all the other tactics are secondary.
它们有用,但只是次要的。
They're useful, but they're secondary.
这和我自己的观看习惯完全一致。
And it lines up with my own consumption habits.
每天看到不同创作者发同一个视频标题,我大概还是会点开看。
Like, could see the same video title every single day from a different creator, and I would probably watch it.
我确实会看,因为我只想听他们的看法。
I do watch it because I want to hear their opinion.
大家都在聊Claude代码、Claude、OpenAI,还有工作未来这些事。
Everyone's talking about Claude code, Claude, OpenAI, all of this shit, the future of work.
当我深入想了解这些话题时,我会一遍遍看同类内容,直到把所有细节都吃透,彻底搞明白。
When I fall down a rabbit hole of wanting to learn about that, I'm just gonna watch the same topic over and over again so that I get all of the nuances so that I understand it completely.
YouTube上的健身视频也是同样的道理。
The same goes for like fitness videos on YouTube.
我真的很喜欢健身。
That's I'm I love fitness.
说实话,这是我最重要的事。
Like that's my, honestly, my main priority.
其他一切都成了次要的。
This has all become secondary.
如果我每看一次营养入门视频或某个创作者对营养的看法就长一克肌肉,我现在早就成罗尼·科尔曼了。
But if I had an ounce of muscle for every time that I've watched a nutrition 101 video or just some creators opinion on nutrition, I'd be Ronnie Coleman.
这是任何社交平台上内容增长最根本的核心。
This is the single most fundamental aspect of social media growth on any platform.
比如克雷格·佩里,他完全在照着我的套路来,我不确定他是不是从我这儿学的,但他的YouTube简介简直就是对着镜头念我的通讯稿。
So if we look at someone like Craig Perry, who is just running my playbook, I don't know if he got it from me, but his YouTube bio is literally reading my newsletters to a camera.
我刚才还开着我的通讯稿呢。
I just had my newsletter open here.
我不是逐字照念,但这就像是个提纲,我可以顺着它发挥。
It's not like I read it word for word, but it's like an outline that I can riff off of.
但你看这里,这是他YouTube上最早的两个视频,真的最早。
But if we look here, these are his first two YouTube videos ever, ever.
你看到没?
Like, do you see this?
一个是23万播放,一个是14万播放。
You have 230 ks views and you have 144 ks views.
这简直离谱。
That's literally absurd.
没人会在新人的前两个视频就看到这种播放量。
Like you do not see that for the first two videos on someone's YouTube channel.
这恰恰证明了我刚才说的。
And that proves exactly what I'm talking about here.
他是不是也碰巧运气不错?
Did he get lucky a bit?
如果你完全照搬这些内容,会不会得到同样的效果?
Maybe if you were to copy these one to one, would you get the same results?
有可能,也有可能不会。
Maybe, maybe not.
我不确定。
I don't know.
但我清楚的是,只要你反复这么做,迟早会看到互动和粉丝开始增长。
But all I do know is that if you do this enough times, you will start to see a green streak of engagement and followers coming in.
那他是怎么从自己的角度做到这些有效方法的呢?
So how is he doing what works from his own perspective?
你看看这里,《如何记住你读过的所有内容》。
If you look here, how to remember everything you read.
如果你在这边,我就拍过类似的视频。
If you're on this side, I've created a video like that.
我几乎用了完全一样的标题。
I've almost created with the exact same title.
你去YouTube上看一眼,就能发现阿里·阿卜达尔也拍过这样的视频。
If you look on YouTube, you can see that Ali Abdaal has created a video like that.
你直接在YouTube搜索栏输入‘如何记住你读过的所有内容’,就能看到十几二十个类似的视频。
You can see just look up how to remember everything read in the YouTube search bar and you'll see like 10 to 20 iterations of those videos.
还有这里,‘如何成为危险的自我教育者’。
And then right here, how to become dangerously self educated.
这个视频倒是有点特别,但用的还是同样的有效结构,因为我见过好多次‘如何成为危险的表达者’、‘如何成为危险的自信者’这类视频。
Now this one is actually kind of unique, but it uses the same validated structure because I've seen multiple times how to become dangerously articulate, how to become dangerously confident.
没错。
Right.
‘危险’这个说法是最近才流行起来的,但依然证明这套模式很管用。
This is a rather new structure with the whole dangerously, but it still shows that it works.
那这算抄袭吗?
Now, is this copying?
克雷格视频里的内容,是不是跟所有拍‘如何记住你读过的所有内容’的视频都一模一样?
Are the things inside of Craig's videos the same exact script that every single other person who created a how to remember everything you read video the same?
不是这样的。
No, it's not.
如果你真看了这个视频,就会发现他分享了很多基于自身经验的真知灼见。
If you actually watch the video, there's some great insights he's pulling experience, from his own perspective.
这是他个人对如何做的看法。
It's his own opinion on how to do it.
还有,那些担心抄袭的人得明白,根本没人能有真正原创的想法。
Another thing for people who are worried about copying, like nobody has a novel idea.
真正新颖的想法极其罕见。
Novel ideas are extremely rare.
Craig 或者我都不能说‘如何记住你读过的一切’是我们的专利。
It's not like Craig or I can claim how to remember everything you read.
那是一种方法。
Like that's a process.
这种东西是没法据为己有的。
That's not something that you can claim.
但如果是一些别的东西,比如你原创的分类或者独特概念,那拿过来用就算某种程度的模仿了。
Now, if it's something else like a unique category or a unique concept that you've created, then yes, it is kind of copying if you take it.
不过这时候,定义就变得关键了。
But of course then semantics come into play.
我之前就借鉴了蒂姆·费里斯的《四小时工作周》。
Like I did a spin off of, Tim Ferriss' The four Hour Workweek.
我做了个‘四小时工作日’,是结合了自己的经验,搭了个小框架。别人要是用‘四小时工作日’,可能有人会想到我,但说实话我也不太会在意,毕竟这东西我本来就没法独占。
I did the four Hour Workday because I kind of created a little framework around it from my own experience and other people could take the four hour work day and some people may attribute it to me, but honestly, I wouldn't be very mad because it's like I can't claim that.
所以这里得靠你自己判断。
So you kinda have to use your own judgment here.
如果你明显就是照搬,那当然别这么做。
Like if you're obviously just purely copying, then yeah, don't do that.
但‘像艺术家一样偷窃’之所以有道理,是因为这本来就是自然和现实的运作方式。
But steal like an artist is a thing for a reason is because that's just how nature and reality works.
你根本没必要重新发明轮子。
You don't reinvent the wheel.
发推文、短视频或者短帖子也是一样,没人能独占这些观点,因为通常都不是什么全新创意。
And the same thing goes with like tweets or short form posts or reels like nobody can claim the idea that they're saying because it's usually not completely novel.
但他们表达的方式、结构的安排,这些是可以算作他们独有的。
Way that they worded it, the the way that they structured it can be considered theirs.
如果你只是照搬原文,改几个词,那看起来会特别傻——这种事我见过好几次。
And obviously, like you're gonna look like an idiot if you just like copy paste it, change a few words, which I've seen a few times.
每次看到这种,我立马就觉得这人根本不会独立思考。
And when I see those, I kind of immediately label that person as like, wow, you can't think originally.
但你可以借鉴里面的想法。
But you can take the idea.
就拿这些帖子来说吧,比如‘人生终极捷径’、‘加快恢复速度’、‘你会被拒绝’、‘你会亏钱’、‘你会丢脸’。
So I mean, if we just look at these posts here, like major cheat code for life, increase your recovery speed, you will get rejected, you will lose money, you will embarrass yourself.
重点不是避免跌倒,而是缩短跌倒后重新站起来的时间。
The goal isn't to avoid the fall, It's to shorten the time between the fall and the reset.
快速恢复才能复利增长。
Fast recovery compounds.
这个想法背后其实有个核心。
Now there's an essence to this idea.
当然,说‘提高恢复速度’这种话,明显是萨希尔·布卢姆的风格。
Obviously, saying increase your recovery speed, that's kind of Sahil Bloom coded.
但‘人生终极捷径’这种说法,完全可以当个吸引人的标题。
But major cheat code for life, you could definitely use that as a hook.
为什么不呢?
Why not?
如果你仔细看看这条推文,读完就会觉得:会被拒绝,会亏钱,然后你自然会想,是不是还有别的点子是从这儿衍生出来的?
And then if you actually look at this tweet, you can just read into it and be like, will get rejected, you will lose money, and then you start to think, do other ideas spin off of that?
大多数时候,确实如此。
And most of the time they do.
我常常用AI来打磨这些想法,因为这样我能先理清思路,让灵感自然浮现。
And one thing I like to actually use AI for is just that for iterations on those ideas because like I can think through them and let ideas come to my mind.
但真到动笔写帖子的时候,你总得有个明确的主题,没必要非得靠发散思维或者排斥AI来硬想点子。
But when I'm actually sitting down to write a post, like you kind of need a topic to write about, you don't necessarily need to brainstorm and like have this non practical way of coming up with an idea or reject AI.
你只是想选个主题来写,这样就能顺着这个方向去思考。
Like you're just trying to choose a topic to write about so that then you can think you can think in a certain direction.
我常做的做法是,找一些我特别喜欢的优质文章,然后让AI给我生成几个变体,我一个个读,等哪一条突然击中我,我就说:好,就写这个。
So what I like to do is take really good posts that I like and be like, hey, just give me iterations of these and I'll read through them and I'll just wait for one to hit and I'll be like, Okay, yeah, I'll write about that.
通常经过这两道筛选:先是AI给我生成迭代版本。
And usually through so many through those two filters of like, Okay, it goes through AI to give me an iteration.
然后我再过一遍脑子,因为我从来不会直接照搬AI给的内容。
It goes through my mind because I'm usually not taking exactly what it says here.
等到这一步走完,我一般都能得出一个挺有原创性的想法。
By the end of that process, I usually have something that's pretty original.
因为我读过、分析过、模仿过太多优质文章,写作风格自然就慢慢成型了,之后我再用自己的品味去打磨,让它更贴合我自己的风格。
And since I've read and pattern recognized and pattern matched so many good posts, the structure of my writing starts to come out over time and then I can use my own taste to refine it to make it even further mine.
所以,这就是内容创作的入门精髓了。
So that's like that's content 101 in a nutshell.
现在,还有一个更有效的方法来巩固这一点,很多人还记得那个视频——《如何在六到十二个月内超越99%的人》。
Now, an even better way to just lock this in is many of you remember this video, How to Get Ahead of 99% of People in six to twelve Months.
很多人不知道,我在2019年或者2020年发过一条推文。
What many of you don't know is that I wrote a tweet in 2019 or 2020.
我觉得是2019年,第一条就是‘如何超越99%的人’。
I think it's 2019 with the first line that said how to get ahead of 99% of people.
所以这个想法早就被验证过了。
So it was already a validated idea.
到了2023年,我才把它做成这个YouTube视频。
In 2023, I turned it into that YouTube video.
现在这是我的YouTube视频里观看量最高的,有170万次。
That's now my highest performing YouTube video at 1,700,000 views.
这个视频火了之后,《不较劲的勇气》的作者马克·曼森也做了一个视频,标题一模一样,只是没说‘六个月内’,改成了别的。
After that video did really well, Mark Manson, the author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, created a video with the same exact title, except he said something else instead of in six months.
那个视频的播放量达到了450万。
And that video got like 4,500,000 views.
这显然是个经得起考验的话题,至少目前是这样,直到它被用烂为止。
It's a proven topic, at least for now until it gets ran through.
还有一点是,你迟早会发现,有些曾经很火的话题现在其实已经凉了,被用得太透,得等一阵子才能重新回暖。比如‘如何超越99%的人’这种内容,可能一两年后又会重新流行起来,到时候整个领域都会被刷爆。
That's another thing is you'll eventually learn that some topics that used to do well are kind of just dead now or they they've been exhausted to the point where they need a reset period and you'll see how to get ahead of ninety nine of people start to come back up in maybe a year, two years, and it'll flood the space.
它会突然爆火一阵子,然后很快又冷下去。
It'll be super viral for a second, and then it'll die down.
但马克·曼森拍完那个视频之后,亚历克斯·霍尔莫齐也拍了一个同名视频,标题完全一样:‘如何超越99%的人’。
But after Mark Manson made the video, Alex Hormozi made a video titled how to get ahead of 99% of people.
紧接着,汤姆·比卢也把他之前的一个视频重新改了标题,把‘如何超越99%的人’加了进去。
And then after that, Tom Billu retitled one of his videos to have how to get ahead of 99% of people in the title.
你看,已经有四个顶级创作者都这么做了,这正好印证了我刚才说的。
So that's four massive creators who just prove what I'm saying here.
关键是,这些创作者并不是在复制同一个视频。
And that's the thing is that these creators aren't creating the same exact video.
我的视频讲的是如何构建反愿景、正愿景这些过程,等等。
In my video, I'm talking about like the process of creating an anti vision and a vision and so on and so forth.
但马克·曼森之前写过太多相关内容了,他对这个话题的理解完全是另一套体系,对吧?
But Mark Manson, like he's written so much about this before that he has a completely different view, right?
任何人都可以拿‘如何领先99%的人’这个话题,想想:基于我的兴趣,我该怎么做到这一点?
Anyone can take the topic how to get ahead of 99% of people and just think, how would I get ahead of 99% of people based on my interests, right?
这不一定是做生意,也可以是创业,比如通过这种方式来领先99%的人。
It doesn't even like it can be business, it can be start a business like this to get ahead of 99% of people.
也可能是理财、预算管理这类事情。
It could be finance, budget like this.
也可能是人际关系。
It could be relationships.
怎么领先99%的男性?因为不知为什么,年轻男性整天互相较劲、追求外表,却没什么实质进展,但他们迟早会明白这个道理。
How to get ahead of 99% of men because for some reason, young men just compete against each other and looks max all day and don't really get anywhere with it, but they'll learn that lesson when they to it.
但重点是,最出色的创作者并不会只是随口想到什么就发什么。
But the point, the overarching point is that the best creators don't just post what's on their mind, right?
他们不会随便掏出手机,发一条动态就完事。
They don't just like open up their phone and send a post.
当然,有些人是这么做的。
Some do.
我有时候确实该这么做,但不该只靠这个。
I do sometimes you should, but that shouldn't.
这根本算不上什么策略,对吧?
That's not a strategy, right?
如果你把社交媒体当成实现人生目标的途径,那么商业就是其中一部分——实用、策略、战术。
If you're treating social media as a way to pursue your life's work, then business is a part of that practicality strategy tactics.
所以顶尖的创作者大多数时候都会先研究什么内容受欢迎,再据此规划自己的创作。
So the best creators most of the time research what works and base what they're going to create about on that.
但大多数人只是在社交媒体上收藏一些帖子,指望以后能想起来,等到真要创作时再用。
And so what most people do here is they'll just like bookmark posts on social media and hope that they come back to it and remember it when it's time to actually create.
结果他们面对空白页面,随便写点东西,质量平平,还纳闷为什么没效果——明明该做的步骤都做了。
But then most people just start looking at a blank page and write something that isn't that good and then wonder why it didn't do well since they're actually doing the steps.
或者在写YouTube标题前,他们会先去平台上搜类似的标题,这其实是个不错的方法。
Or before they write the YouTube title, they'll go to YouTube and they'll search for similar titles, and that's a solid way of doing it.
又或者直接去创作者主页,按热门排序,把那些表现好的标题记下来,仔细研究。
Or they'll go to the creator's account and filter by most popular, and then they can write down and study those specific titles that did well.
还有人会随手记下突然冒出的想法,指望这些点子能火起来。
Another thing people do is they just jot down ideas as they come to mind and hope that those ideas are good enough to do well.
有时候确实能成。
And sometimes they are.
这些方法都没问题,但都谈不上有策略。
And all of those are fine, but they're not really strategized.
也不算一套系统。
They're not really a system.
你没法靠它们稳定出成果。
They're not something that you can rely on.
说白了,又耗时又效率低。
And frankly, they're just time consuming and they're slow.
所以接下来我要介绍一下新版Eden,它专门针对那些脱颖而出的内容,帮你集中研究素材、创作优质内容。
And so this is where I transition into a sales pitch for the new iteration of Eden, which is very focused on outlier content and just being the place where you research content and write great content.
Eden的核心功能就是让你创建多个资料板,可以粘贴社交媒体帖子或网站链接,也能上传PDF文件。
Eden is quite literally you have boards that you can paste links to of social posts or websites or you can upload PDFs to.
你可以创建笔记或文档来直接写作。
You can create notes in or documents so you can write.
就像我给你看过的我的YouTube灵感库、帖子灵感库,我可以借助AI调用这些资料,也可以去发现页,设置我的内容主题,然后直接浏览,看哪些帖子能吸引我。
And so it's like I showed you my YouTube swipe file, I showed you the post swipe file, I can reference these with AI or I can go to the discover feed, set my content pillars, and I can just scroll through here and see which posts catch my eye.
我还能按平台筛选,比如只想看推文或者YouTube视频。
I can also filter by platform if I only wanna see tweets or YouTube videos.
看到喜欢的,点一下就行。
And then I can click one when I like it.
比如说,我把这个视频加到我的YouTube灵感库。
Let's say I add this one to my YouTube swipe file.
搞定。
Boom.
加进去了。
Add it there.
如果你不知道下一步该创作什么,就在这里刷一刷,挑喜欢的存到收藏夹里,等真要动笔的时候,打开收藏夹,新建个笔记,直接开始写就行。
So if you don't know what to create next, just scroll through here, add it to a board, and then when it's time to actually create, go to your board, create a note in there, and then start writing.
还有一项别的地方找不到的功能,就是能直接搜索某个创作者,查看他在所有平台上的内容,并筛选出表现最好的帖子。
Another thing that you won't find anywhere else is just the ability to search a specific creator and look at all of their platforms and filter by top performing content.
我很多推文其实都是文章,但推特只会把它们显示成链接。
So a lot of mine on Twitter are articles, so Twitter just renders those as a link.
不过我可以在这里翻看,挑出自己以前的好点子,然后以此为基础继续优化,我经常这么做。
But I can scroll through here and I can just see one, my own good ideas so I can iterate off of those, and I do that all the time.
现在我进步的主要方式就是这个。
That's really how I continue growing at this point.
我可以把一堆内容保存到某个收藏夹里,当作灵感来源;或者像我之前演示的那样,打开帖子收藏夹,再打开聊天窗口,直接在对话里引用这个收藏夹,然后问它:‘能不能给我这些内容的几种变体?’或者直接跟它聊,也可以把某个创作者的热门视频加进来,说:‘帮我拆解一下这些视频。’
But I can save a bunch of these to a board and just use them as inspiration, or you can do what I showed you earlier where if I open the post swipe file and then I open the chat and I can reference this board in the chat and then I can ask for variations of these or I can just chat with it or I can add a creator's top performing YouTube videos and just be like, hey, break all of these down.
这个人的核心观点是什么?
What is this person's worldview?
他是怎么安排视频结构的?
How does he structure his videos?
我该怎么把这套方法用到下一个视频里?
How can I apply this to the next video that I create?
帮我做个这个视频吧。
Help me create that video.
特别简单,但效果超强。
So super simple, super powerful.
我对这个新版的Eden真的特别期待。
I'm actually very excited about this new version of Eden.
如果你好奇旧版Eden去哪儿了,网上有一篇文章,地址是eden.so/the-new-eden,里面讲了我们怎么因为AI积分耗尽而破产,后来不得不转向一个更实用的方向,最终就做出了这个。
If you're wondering what happened to the old version of Eden, there's actually an article up that is at eden.so slash the dash new dash eden, and that kind of goes over, how we went broke thanks to AI credits and how we had had to pivot to something specific that is actually a lot more valuable, and we landed on this.
这既是福也是祸,因为它很可能会成为每个创作者工作流程里的标配,我会努力推动这一点,因为这简直是其他任何工具都做不到的突破。
So blessing and a curse because this is going to become a staple in what I hope is every creator's workflow, and I'm gonna work to make that happen because this is just like a massive unlock that no other app has.
所以我对它特别兴奋。
So I'm super excited about it.
点击简介里的链接就能试用,我相信你会很喜欢。
You can try it out with the link in the description, and I think you will enjoy it quite a bit.
好的。
Okay.
接下来是第二个可以撬动的杠杆。
Onto the second lever that you can pull.
第一个是经过验证的内容。
The first one is just validated content.
研究哪些内容有效,然后形成你自己的看法。
Study what works and create your own opinion on it.
就是这么简单。
It is that simple.
这才是练习写出好内容的正确方式。
That's how you start practicing writing good content.
别把这事想得太复杂。
Please do not overcomplicate that.
第二个杠杆,你可能会讨厌这个词,但它就是人脉。
So the second lever, you're going to hate this word, but it's networking.
说到这个,我不知道大多数人刚开始用社交媒体时脑子里想什么,但不知怎么的,他们好像把消费心态带进来了,对吧?
And so with this, I don't know what goes through most people's heads when they actually start on social media, but for some reason they're just probably bringing consumer behavior over, right?
他们习惯了在社交媒体上刷着刷着,看到别人发帖,哦,这条帖子火了。
They're used to just scrolling on social media and seeing that, oh, people post and oh, this posted really well.
所以我就想着,只要开始发帖,总有一条能火,然后我就出名了。
And so all I have to do is start creating posts and then one will do well and then I'll become famous.
他们没意识到,创作者其实是在经营一门生意——现在这确实就是一门生意,但生意不等于冷冰冰。
They don't see that a creator treats it as a business because that's what it is at this point, but a business doesn't have to be soulless.
它可以很有意义。
It can be very purposeful.
这是我生命中最有意义的事。
It's been the most purposeful thing in my life.
它让我经历了人生中最重大的一些转变,也真的带来了正面的影响。
It's led to some of the most drastic changes I've had in my life and it can actually provide good.
哦,你是在为钱卖东西。
Oh, You're selling something for money.
你卖的东西,最好能精准解决某个人的需求,让他觉得值这个价,甚至觉得远远超过他付的钱。
That thing preferably for a specific person is valuable and it's worth paying the money and preferably would be worth more than what you're charging and the value that it does provide.
这叫自愿交换。
It's called voluntary exchange.
但如果发帖就这么简单,那人人都会去做。
But if it were as easy as just posting, then everyone would do it.
如果人人都这么做,那谁也别想成功,就跟AI一样。
And then if everyone did it, and then if everyone did it, then it wouldn't work for anyone just like AI.
你得明白,想把一件事做好,就得把它当成一项需要长期积累的技能。
Like you have to understand that if you want to be good at something, you have to treat it as a skill that you acquire over time.
我不明白,为什么这点道理大家就是想不通。
I don't know how that doesn't click for people.
就算这是你每天都在手机上刷的社交媒体,也不代表做好它的商业部分就没门槛。
Like just because it's social media, a thing that you use on your phone every single day, doesn't mean that there isn't a very high skill cap to succeeding at the business side of that thing.
那现在问题来了,丹,如果光靠祈祷算法、指望帖子爆红不行,那我该怎么做?
So now the question is, okay, Dan, well, what do I do if it's not just praying for the algorithm and hoping that my post goes viral?
因为我们已经谈过经过验证的想法了。
Because we learned about validated ideas.
我们学会了怎么找到这些机会。
We learned how to find those.
如果你能对它们形成自己的见解,你就已经为成功打下了基础。
We learned that if you create your own opinion on them, you're setting yourself up to do really well.
但如果你还在新手阶段,还在不停地发帖却没人回应,那很正常。
But if you're in beginner hell, if you're at the very start, you're still posting into the void.
你不能指望算法突然把你推火,给你带来大量粉丝,尤其是在Twitter这种算法几乎不存在的平台上。
You can't expect the algorithm to just launch you into the and give you a ton of followers, especially on certain platforms like Twitter where the algorithm is kind of nonexistent.
对吧?
Right?
我就是从这个平台起步的,所以我早就明白,我的增长必须靠自己主动努力。
I started on that platform so I knew that my growth had to take manual effort, right?
我很幸运当初这么做了,因为现在我知道,就算算法不帮我,我依然有办法推动自己前进。
And I'm blessed that I did it that way because now I know that like if the algorithm isn't working in my favor, I still have a lever I can pull.
咱们来理一理,让你看得更清楚。
So let's just break this down so it makes sense.
你想要粉丝。
You want followers.
粉丝来自别人在手机上看到你的帖子,然后点进你的主页,觉得有意思才关注你。
Followers come from people seeing your post on their phone and then clicking your profile and being interested enough to follow you.
如果算法像抽奖一样,别人根本不会在动态里自然看到你的帖子,那我们该怎么手动让别人看到你的内容呢?
And so if the algorithm is like the lottery, so people aren't going to see your post on their timeline organically, how can we manually get people to see your posts?
我们怎么才能让雪球慢慢滚起来,直到它自己 downhill 越滚越大,变成雪崩?
How can we start rolling the snowball until it like starts rolling down the hill or becomes an avalanche or whatever?
所以你得想清楚,社交媒体上的粉丝到底从哪儿来?
So you have to think where is the source of followers or people on social media?
其实都在别人的受众里,对吧?
And it's in other people's audiences, right?
你在社交媒体上,能做的动作其实就那么几种。
When you're on social media, you really have only a few actions that you can take.
你可以关注别人,点赞他们的帖子,转发,或者留言。
You can follow someone, you can like their post, you can repost it and you can comment on it.
那些都是书签之类的,不重要。
That's the that's the bookmarks, etcetera.
这些都没什么用。
Like those are all those don't matter.
你在社交媒体上真正该做的,就是互动和关注。
That's the thing you do on social media is you engage and you follow.
你想要的粉丝,其实都藏在别人的关注列表里。
So the followers that you want lie or following someone else.
品牌愿意花大价钱请创作者推广产品,就是因为对方有现成的受众。
This is why brands pay so much for creators to post about their product because they have an audience.
不然品牌怎么找到愿意买他们产品的人呢?
Like how else is the brand going to find people to buy their product?
他们得把产品摆在人眼前才行。
They need to put it in front of people.
怎么做到呢?比如赞助播客、和社交媒体上的创作者合作、投付费广告——像Facebook、Google,现在甚至还能投ChatGPT广告,或者用其他营销方式。
And the way they can do that is like podcast sponsorships, partner with the creator on social media, run paid ads, Facebook or Google, maybe you run chat, GPT ads now that those are a thing, or can do other forms of marketing.
但在社交媒体上,作为创作者,你其实就是在自我营销。
But on social media, as a creator, you're practically marketing yourself.
所以从技术上讲,你可以花钱请人帮你转发帖子,如果方法对了,确实能起一点作用。
So you could technically pay people to share your posts, and that works to some extent if you do it the correct way.
但别把希望全押在这上面。
But let's not bank on that.
对那些被这种做法吸引的人而言,这确实是个可行的策略。
And for those who kind of get turned by that, that's a very viable strategy.
对吧?
Right?
如果你把这当生意做,或者当成实现人生理想的方式,而且手头有资金,那尽管去做。
If you're treating this as a business or as something like a way to pursue your life's work and you have the money to do it, go ahead.
我不在乎,因为最终人们只会因为你的内容好才关注你。
I do not care because people are only gonna follow you if your content is good.
对吧?
Right?
如果你的内容差劲,别人说花钱请人推广是作弊,这根本说不通。
If your content sucks, like people say it's cheating to pay someone else, it just doesn't make sense.
他们根本没有做生意的思维。
They don't have a business mindset.
他们根本不懂这个道理。
They don't understand it.
但如果别人转了你的帖子,大家还是不喜欢,那也不会关注你,钱就白花了。
But if someone else shares your post and people don't like it, they're not gonna follow you and then it's a waste of money.
这跟投Facebook广告、结果没人买你产品是一回事——问题出在产品本身不行。
It's the same thing as putting money into Facebook ads and people not buying your product because your product sucks.
所以说到底,付不付钱其实不重要,真正决定你能不能涨粉的,是你够不够优秀、够不够有本事。
So in essence, it doesn't really matter if you pay or not because you're only gonna grow if you're good, if you're skilled.
但如果你不想花钱,又够聪明,其实完全可以免费蹭到别人的受众群体。
But if you don't wanna pay someone and if you're smart, you can get get in front of other people's audiences for free.
归根结底,这一切都是关于交朋友。
And all of it just boils down to making friends.
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我知道听起来又很简单,事实也确实如此,但大多数人根本不知道怎么交朋友。
And I know that sounds simple again because it is, but most people don't know how to make friends.
如今这个时代,大多数人其实都挺孤僻的。
Most people in today's world are antisocial.
你可能会觉得,这么多人用社交媒体,应该更爱社交才对,但事实恰恰相反。
You would think that more people being on social media would be more social, but they're not.
所以没错,你得主动去跟人交流,线上互动主要靠私信或评论,一对一的沟通,还是得靠私信。
And so yes, that means that you're going to have to talk to people and that on social media that happens in the DMs or in the replies, but one on one it's in the DMs.
如果你想让这招管用,我建议你把它当成头等大事来对待。
And for this to work for you, I would recommend prioritizing it.
我建议你在日程里专门划出三十分钟,坐下来认真做这件事。
I would recommend time blocking it for thirty minutes on your calendar so that you actually sit down and do it right.
这三十分钟用来研究那些受欢迎的帖子,整理创意,然后动手写内容。
Thirty minutes on your calendar should be for researching validated posts and writing out ideas and actually drafting the posts.
另外三十分钟,则用来主动联系别人,争取让他们帮你转发帖子。
And then the other thirty minutes should be reaching out to people to get those posts shared.
对吧?
Right?
当你推出一个产品时,本质上你一开始就是在主动联系人,看看他们喜不喜欢这个产品,愿不愿意帮你推广,不管有没有报酬,或者至少愿意用一用。
When you launch a product, that's practically what you're doing in the first place to kick it off the ground is you're reaching out to people to see if they like the product and to see if they'll promote it, whether it's for money or not, or if they'll just use it.
只要有人用了,那你就有了一个用户。
And if they do use it, boom, you have a user.
你可能觉得一个用户算不了什么,但时间一长,加上口碑传播,你就开始自然增长了。
You think one user isn't a lot, but if you compound over time and then word-of-mouth kicks in, then you start growing organically.
建立粉丝群体也是同样的道理。
The same thing works for building an audience.
所以关键是要交到真正的朋友,因为朋友之间会怎样?
And so the goal here is to make actual friends because what do friends do?
他们会互相支持,而且通常都在朝着同一个目标努力。
They support each other and they're usually working toward the same goal.
他们的价值观也往往很相近。
They have a similar value set.
如果你有五个经常交流的人,然后你写或制作了一篇特别棒的内容,发给他们时说:我花了很多心思在这上面。
So if you have like five people that you're in communication with and then you write or create a really good piece of content and then you send it to them and you say, hey, I put a lot of time into this.
我觉得你会很喜欢这个内容。
I think you'll resonate with it.
我觉得你的受众也会喜欢。
I think your audience will resonate with it.
你现在能帮忙分享一下吗?
Can you share it now?
当然,要达到这一步需要一些时间,我们待会儿会讲,但一旦你真有了朋友,事情就会变得很简单——因为如果是朋友,他们很乐意帮你分享。
Obviously, it takes a bit of time to get to that point, which we're gonna go over, but it really does become that simple once you actually have friends, because if they are friends, then they're more than happy to do that.
分享一下根本不用费什么劲,完全不是什么大事。
Like sharing something takes no effort, like it's not a big deal at all.
但如果内容质量差,他们就不会愿意帮你了。
But if the content sucks, then they're not gonna want to do that.
所以,还是回到第一步吧。
So go back to step one.
你知道怎么写出好内容,而且你也愿意回赠这份帮助,对吧?
So you know how to write good content and you're there to return the favor, right?
比如埃登,当我去找朋友说,嘿,我弄了个特别酷的东西。
Like with Eden, when I go to my friends and I say, hey, I built this really cool thing.
你觉得怎么样?
Do you like it?
他们说挺好的。
And they say yes.
我就说,好,这周我就上线了。
And I say, okay, I'm launching this week.
你能帮我推广一下吗?
Will you help me promote it?
他们都会说没问题。
They'll say sure.
而且他们粉丝挺多的,这对我帮助特别大。
And then like they have a lot of followers, so that's really helpful for me.
所以每次你推出新产品,或者需要别人帮忙转发时,别犹豫,直接发给我,我也一定会回帮你。
And so what I say, anytime that you launch product or anytime you need something shared, please do not hesitate to send it to me so I can return the favor.
这是一种价值交换。
Value exchange.
但如果你还没建立起这样的朋友圈,我管这叫‘不求人’式社交,有些人可能听过这个词。
But if you don't have that friend group yet, I call this process, some of you may have heard of it, non needy networking.
如果你做对了,就能让一个五万粉丝的账号帮你转发帖子。
And so if you do this right, this is how you get someone like a 50,000 follower account to share your post.
这样一来,你的内容就能直接出现在五万人面前,还不用靠算法推荐。
And now your post is in front of 50,000 people and you didn't rely on the algorithm.
把这套方法变成可重复的流程,这才是你真正增长的关键。
And that's how you grow if you turn this into a repeatable process.
第一步很简单,先找一个你想私信的人。
So the first step is to just find someone you want to DM.
当然,不是谁都能随便去搭话的。
Obviously, like you shouldn't just reach out to anyone and everyone.
你应该找一小群人,和他们一起规划、共同成长,时间跨度可能是六个月到一年,甚至更久。
This should be like a small curated group of people that you're going to strategize and grow with over the course of six-twelve months or probably even longer.
我通过社交媒体和日常互动,建立了许多长期的友谊。
Like I have built so many long term friendships just by being on social media and being social.
三年前,我和JK Molina还有Dakota Robertson一起搬到了德克萨斯。
I moved to Texas with JK Molina and Dakota Robertson, like, three years ago.
我的朋友Joey就住在我隔壁。
My buddy, Joey, lives down the street from me.
他真的是从亚特兰大搬过来的。
He literally moved here from Atlanta.
我的教练Randy住那边,我们是在线上认识的。
My trainer, Randy, lives over there and we met online.
他当时在用我的软件,就主动联系了我。
He was using my software, reached out.
他跟我说:嘿,我知道你挺喜欢健身的。
He's like, hey, I know you like fitness.
我知道你什么事都自己来,但让我帮你规划饮食和训练吧。
I know you do everything yourself, but let me do your meal plan and training.
我觉得你会喜欢的。
I think you'll like it.
心想,管他的。
Was like, fuck it.
行吧,那就干吧。
Okay, let's do it.
现在我们成了很好的朋友,还一起打算做一个新的热带生意。
And now we're very good friends and we're starting a new tropic business together.
很多事情就是这么巧,机会总在你和别人有联系的时候突然出现,尤其是对方本身就有资源的时候。
Like it's so serendipitous how these things happen and just opportunities pop up when you have people who either have opportunities or like the connection between you creates opportunities.
我知道私信别人这种事,听起来挺虚的。
I know that DM ing other people is just like this non tangible strategy.
它不会马上给你看得见的反馈或结果。
Like it just doesn't result in an immediate direct outcome as feedback.
但我保证,这是你能拥有的最大优势。
But I promise this is the greatest advantage you can have.
那你去哪儿找那些你想发私信的人呢?
And so where do you find these people that you want to DM?
在社交媒体上。
On social media.
你别太着急,放轻松点。
You kinda just take it easy.
你刷着刷着,看到喜欢的账号,就主动发个私信,积极互动,让自己被对方注意到,表现出你的支持。
You scroll, if you see an account that you like, make an effort to DM them, make an effort to engage, make an effort to be seen by them and for you to show that you're supportive.
如果你有空随便逛逛,比如去你喜欢的一个人的主页,像我这个主页,你就可以这么做。
And if you just have time to look around, like you can go to someone's profile that you like, like you can go to my profile and do this.
我不确定会不会有结果,但你就是通过普通人找人的那种方式,在社交媒体上找到他们。
I don't know if it'll yield any results, but you you just find people on social media by how you would find people on social media.
没有那种精确的方法能直接锁定该找谁,但你可以去我主页,点进我的关注列表,看看我关注的人,挑出那些和我或者和你相似的人,一个个看下去,看看有没有谁的内容是你喜欢的。
There isn't like an exact way to just pinpoint exactly who to talk to, but you could go to like my profile, click on my following list, who I'm following, and see people who are similar to me or similar to you and just go through them and see if you like any of their content.
第二步,一旦你找到了想发私信的人——这其实很快,你只要打开社交媒体,看到一个人,心里想:这人挺酷的。
And so step two, once you have someone that you wanna DM, which should be pretty quick, you literally should just open social media, see someone and then be like, that guy sounds cool.
我就给他发个私信。
I'm gonna DM him.
但接下来你要做的,就是简单地夸他一句,对吧?
But the second thing you do is you just send them simple praise, right?
其实你也不一定非得这么做。
You like, you don't have to do this.
你可以直接跳到后面几步,不过我们现在只是先熟悉一下流程。
You can skip to further steps, but we're just getting into the flow of things here.
你得学会怎么交朋友。
You have to learn how to make friends.
你就发点简单的赞美就行。
You just send simple praise.
就像女生之间会夸对方的鞋子之类的。
It's like how girls compliment each other's shoes or something like that.
然后对方就会说:天哪,姐妹,你这鞋哪儿买的?
And then they're like, oh my god, girl, where'd you get those?
于是话题就聊开了,一来二去,一起吃午饭,最后成了死党。
And they start up a conversation and then one thing leads to another and then they're getting lunch and then they're best friends.
所以你要做的,就是去看看对方在网站上发的内容,看看他们有没有创作什么,找找看有没有让你有共鸣的地方。
So what you do here is you go and look at the person's like content at their website, at what they're creating, if they're creating anything, and you're trying to find, like, something that you resonate with.
在我看来,最简单的方法就是只发一句话。
And in my opinion, the simplest thing you can do here is to just send a single sentence.
比如有人发帖说,大多数人太早放弃社交媒体了,你就可以回:确实,太真实了。
So if someone wrote a social post that was, like, about how most people quit social media too early, they'd be like, damn, that's true.
我自己就 quit 四次,现在又回来了。
I actually quit like four times and now I'm back at it.
你当创作者多久了?
How long have you been a creator?
厉害啊。
Wow.
开始聊天真的很难。
So difficult to start a conversation.
你可以问ChatGPT怎么开启对话。
You can ask chat GPT for how to start a conversation.
我不建议你这么做,但如果你社交上实在不知道怎么办,或许可以试试。
I wouldn't recommend it, but if you're that far gone socially, maybe try it.
关于这一步,我唯一的建议就是千万别用那些 corporate 套话,懂吧?
The only other tip I can give with this step is to just avoid corporate speak like the plague, right?
你不是来LinkedIn上跟人套近乎的。
You're not here to connect with someone on LinkedIn.
你只是想像朋友一样发条消息,就像你在健身房碰见别人,顺口打个招呼那样。
You're here to just like text them like a friend, like you're just act as if you're passing by the you're at the gym, right?
你看到有人穿着跟你一样的衣服,就说:'嘿,不错嘛,这衣服。'
And you see someone with a similar shirt as you and you're like, oh, dude, nice shirt.
这样,联系就自然建立了。
And then that connection is kind of form.
你接着练你的,第二天再来,又碰见他,就说:嘿,最近怎么样?
You go on about your workout and then you come back the next day and then you see them again and you go, oh, what's up, man?
然后跟他碰个拳头,回家后再来,又碰个拳头,说:哎,我还没问你叫啥呢。
And you give them a fist bump and then you go home and you come back and then you give them a fist bump again, go, oh dude, I didn't get your name.
你叫什么名字?
What is it?
接着你报上自己的名字,对方说:哦,不错啊。
And then you give your name and like, oh, nice.
然后你就自然地问:你平时怎么分组训练的?
And then you just be like, oh, what's your what's your split?
今天练哪儿?
What are you training today?
他说:我今天练手臂。
And then they go, well, I'm training arms.
你呢?
What about you?
我也一样。
And I'm like, me too.
那你周六一般练什么?
And it's like, what are you training like on Saturday?
就像下棋,咱们可以一起练。
It's like chess and like, we should hit that together.
你平时这个时间来吗?
Do you come around this time?
他们会说,对啊,你就回,好啊,不错。
And they'd be like, yeah, and you'd be like, okay, cool.
就这么说定了。
It's a date.
这跟在健身房里完全是一回事,只不过现在是在私信里互动,而不是在健身房里。
So it's it's literally the same exact thing, like you're just doing it in the replies in the DMs as opposed to in the gym.
不是一起举铁,而是在他们发内容时给予支持。
And rather than getting in a lift together, you support them in some way on sharing their content.
所以这一步就是表现出你对他们的兴趣。
And so that kind of covered step three, which is to just show interest in them.
你要做的,是深入他们真正关心的事,对其他创作者来说,通常就是他们在做的项目。
So what you're trying to do is drill into something that is important to them and for another creator, it's usually what they're building.
你可以问他们:你最近在做些什么?
Like you can ask them, are you what are you building?
或者直接说:我注意到你在做Eden。
Or I see that you're building Eden.
进展怎么样?
How's that going?
接下来要上线什么新功能?
What's the next feature you're gonna drop?
我特意去了解了一下,真的挺酷的。
I actually looked into it, it looks super cool.
我打算开始用,或者干脆说:我之前在你的Substack上看过一篇文,回溯到一年前,那篇我读得特别认真,里面有一段特别打动我。
I'm gonna start using it or just be like, oh, I I was on your substack and I went back like a year ago and you had this really good article that I read through and this part really resonated with me.
你是怎么想到这个点子的?
Like, where did you come up with that?
就是随便说点什么,对吧?
Just something, right?
其实都不重要。
It doesn't even matter.
第四步是让你显得有用。
So step four is to show you are useful.
这一步才是真正发力的关键。
And this is really where, like, the power comes into play.
但也是大多数人卡住的地方,因为他们觉得自己没什么能提供的。
But it's also the part that trips people up the most because they don't think that they have any value to provide.
其实你根本不需要自己有什么价值。
And the thing here is that, like, you personally don't need any value to provide.
你只需要能帮对方和某种价值搭上关系就够了。
Like you just need to be someone who can connect the other person with some form of value.
这可以是一个资源,也可以是一个人——比如你遇到一个你觉得另一个人应该认识的人,你就直接说:嘿,你真该联系一下这位哥们。
That can be a resource, that can be a person if you meet another person that you think that person should meet and just be like, dude, I think you should reach out to this guy.
我觉得他特别棒。
I think he's really cool.
你们俩肯定聊得来。
You guys would hit it off.
我特别喜欢做的一件事,也特别希望别人为我做的,就是当我知道别人在忙什么,或者别人知道我正在做eden这样的项目时。
Or what I really like doing and what I really like when people do for me is when people know what I'm working on or when I know what other people are working on, like me working on eden.
假设我是个外人。
Imagine I'm someone else.
如果有人在开发软件,而我看了一个关于AI如何颠覆科技、这是未来趋势的YouTube视频,我就会直接发给他:嘿,我觉得你可能会感兴趣,我知道你在做XYZ,这个或许对你有帮助。他可能会看,也可能只回一句:谢谢。
If someone else were working on a software, then if I watch a YouTube video about AI and how it's gonna disrupt tech and how this is the way forward, I would just send them the video and be like, hey, you might find this interesting, I know you're building XYZ, maybe this will impact it a bit and then they might watch it or they'll just be like, thanks.
或者至少心里记下:这人真贴心。
Or they'll take mental note and be like, oh, that was really cool.
他居然在聊天框之外还想着我。
Like he thought of me outside of our DMs.
这时候,互惠法则就开始起作用了,对方会觉得有必要回赠你一份心意。
And then that's when the law of reciprocity kicks in and they feel the need to return the favor.
你给了别人什么,对方自然就会觉得该回点什么。
If you give something, someone else is gonna feel the need to give something in return.
所以到了这一步,你只需要开口提出来就行——这个我们待会儿再说。
So all you really need to do at that point is just ask, which we'll get to.
不过第五步,虽然不是必须的,但我强烈建议你这么做:直接跟对方约个电话聊一聊。
But step five, which is an optional step but highly recommended, is to just get on a call with the person, right?
就像你在健身房认识了谁,后来约着一起喝杯咖啡、吃顿午饭那样。
This is like getting coffee or lunch with someone you met at the gym or something of that nature.
只不过这次是线上,你就可以说:嘿,咱们找个时间通个电话,聊聊正事吧。
But online, you kind of just be like, yo, we should catch up on a call sometime and talk about business.
就这么简单。
That's it.
然后你打完电话,就会发现你们之间的关系明显更深入了。
And then you get on a call and then you come out of it with like a lot deeper connection.
我刚开始玩社交媒体的时候,接到的电话多到离谱。
The amount of calls that I got on when I was just beginning on social media was absurd.
人们就是喜欢跟有共同兴趣的人聊天,因为日常生活中根本遇不到这样的人。
It's like people just like to speak with other people who have related interests because they're not gonna find those people in their everyday life.
我身边,尤其是我同学里,几乎没人跟我兴趣相投,或者做类似的事情。
Like there are very few people around me or especially that I went to school with that have similar interests or that do similar things.
所以你得主动去建立一个这样的圈子,当然,你也可以不这么做。
So you kind of have to build a tribe of those people so you can do that or you don't have to.
第六步就是继续分享更多资源,或者时不时问候一下。
But step number six is to just continue sending more resources or to just check-in.
比如你看到一段觉得有意思的视频,就发给他们。
So you send them a video that you thought was interesting.
你发一篇文章,发一条推文,顺便说一句:嘿,这不就是我们前几天聊的事吗?
You send them an article, you send them a tweet and be like, oh, dude, this is exactly what we were talking about the other day.
你就这样维持着一种轻量的联系,同时不断给他们带来价值。
You just kind of maintain faint connection while providing value to them.
也许你可以自己创作一些内容。
Maybe you create something.
我见过很多人把我的所有YouTube视频都爬下来,不过现在没必要了,你直接去创作者平台,点开我的YouTube频道,看视频、留言就行。
Like, I've had many people scrape all my YouTube videos, which you don't have to do anymore because you can just go and eat in creators, go to my YouTube, chat with all the videos.
现在不用再花几千美元请人手去爬取别人的YouTube视频字幕了。
You don't have to spend thousands of dollars scraping with manus anymore to actually get the transcripts of people's YouTube videos.
你可以试试看。
So try that out.
他们这么做了之后,再用AI把我的所有内容、模式和观点都汇总在一起,然后我会说,哇,这真有意思,谢谢你这么做。
But they'll do that, and then they'll have the AI, like, get all of my stuff, like all of my patterns and all of my concepts in one place, and I'll be like, oh, that's really cool, and thank you for doing that.
其实呢,这正是我平时在做的事——反向拆解自己的内容。
Even though I've like, that's what I do as a like, you reverse engineer your own stuff.
我早就把所有这些内容整理在一个笔记里了,虽然不算什么数据库,但都集中在一起了。
Like, I have a database, not really a database, but I have a note of all of those things in one place already.
是的。
Yeah.
不管怎样都没问题。
It's good either way.
不过第七步,也是最后一步,你其实不用走完全部七个步骤也能做到。
But now step seven and finally, and you don't need to go through all seven steps to do this.
这些事情在聊天中自然就能发生。
It can just come naturally in the conversation.
这时候你可以主动问一问,也可以提几个问题。
But this is where you ask and you can ask them a few things.
你可以邀请他们加入一个和其他人聊天的群组。
You can just ask them to join a group chat with other people you've been talking to.
这样一来,你就有了一个特别有用的群聊,可以分享策略,发一些你花了很多心思做的内容,或者直接问他们问题。
And now you have this really powerful group chat where you can share strategies or you send them one of your posts that you put a lot of time into, or you can just ask them questions.
对吧?
Right?
如果他们在你不懂的领域是专家,那你现在就有了一个渠道,能免费向他们请教,不用花钱请顾问或教练。
If they're an expert in a place that you're not, you have a connection where you can kind of get free answers out of them without paying for consulting or coaching.
但如果你打算借助他们的受众来扩大影响力——虽然这不是建立友谊的初衷,但确实是个额外的好处——那你就要发一篇你花了很多心思做的内容给他们,而且得是真正不错的那种,然后再请他们帮忙转发,因为如果内容不够好,他们是不会愿意转的。
But if you plan to leverage their audience for growth, which isn't the goal of the friendship, but that's a benefit of it, you want to send them a post that you actually put a lot of time into and that's good, and then you ask them to share because if it's not good, they're not gonna wanna share it.
不过,这也是你获取内容灵感的好方法。
But this is also how you can come up with content ideas.
对吧?
Right?
在聊天过程中,可能会冒出某个问题或者点子,你就可以围绕这个写篇文章,然后发给他们,说:嘿,我刚写了这个。
In your conversation, something comes up like a problem or just some idea, and then you can write about that thing and then you can send the post to them and be like, hey, I just wrote this up.
这篇文章是受我们之前聊天的启发写的。
It was inspired by a previous conversation.
你要是转一下,我回头也一定回你一个。
If you hit it with a share, I'll hit you back at some point.
或者干脆直说,我最常用的沟通方式就是坦诚相见:嘿,兄弟,我最近真的在努力扩大影响力。
Or just be honest, like my favorite outreach strategy in general is just brutal honesty and be like, hey, dude, I'm really trying to grow.
如果你能帮忙转一下,那就太感谢了。
If you could share this, that would be awesome.
如果不行,完全没关系。
If not, absolutely no worries at all.
我也没指望什么。
I'm not expecting anything.
所以,就这么简单。
And so that's literally it.
你有两个办法。
You have two levers.
你可以写一些经过验证的内容,如果算法没自动推起来——大概率也不会,尤其是刚开始的时候——那你还可以主动交朋友,请他们分享给自己的受众,至少让内容先热起来。
You can write validated content, and then if the algorithm doesn't magically pick it up, which it probably won't, especially if you're a beginner, then you have a manual way of making friends and having them share it to their audience so that it can at least get kick started.
这些都会一夜之间发生吗?
Is this all going to happen overnight?
明天就会有结果吗?
Is it gonna happen tomorrow?
后天呢?
The next day?
大概不会。
Probably not.
这事儿得花上两到四周,或者三个月,但效果会慢慢累积,你肯定能看到成长,因为这些不是靠猜的手段。
It's gonna happen over the course of two weeks, four weeks, three months, but it will compound and you'll definitely see some growth out of this because these aren't levers that you guess at.
就是你该去拉的杠杆。
They're just levers that you pull.
就是你去做的一个动作,做着做着就熟练了。
It's just an action that you do and you get better at.
这是一种技能。
It's a skill.
你不用一下子给五百个人发私信,但如果你每天给五个人发,坚持三十天或六十天,那也是不少人的。
Not that you're gonna DM 500 people, but if you DM to five people a day for thirty days or sixty days, it's a lot of freaking people.
如果连一两个朋友都不愿意帮你转推,那说明你方法有问题。
And if one isn't kind enough or close enough of a friend to share one of your posts, then you're doing something wrong.
就这么简单。
So that's it.
这就是两种增长方式。
Those are the two ways to grow.
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我觉得特别棒,因为我喜欢把链接保存到面板上,然后开着它们一起写东西。
I think it's really cool because I like just saving links to boards and being able to write with them open next to it.
赶紧去试试吧。
So check that out.
我对这个新功能特别期待。
I'm super excited about it.
对,就这些了。
Yeah, that's it.
下个视频见。
I'll see you in the next video.
再见。
Bye.
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