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This is an iHeart podcast.
保证真人录制。
Guaranteed human.
嘿,波特兰迪亚的粉丝们。
Hey, Portlandia fans.
我是凯莉·布朗斯坦和弗雷德·阿米森。
Carrie Brownstein and Fred Armisen here.
九十年代的梦想在播客里延续了。
The dream of the nineties is alive in podcast form.
我们推出了《波特兰迪亚重看》这档全新播客,会一起回顾每一集,拆解小品,深入探讨那些标志性角色,并揭秘幕后制作过程。
We're launching Podlandia AO Rewatch, our brand new podcast where we revisit every episode of Portlandia together, breaking down sketches, going deep on our iconic characters, and pulling back the curtain on how it all got made.
而且我们还会邀请那些帮助这部剧活起来的人,包括客串明星、合作者和朋友,比如导演乔纳森·克里塞尔、市长本人凯尔·麦克拉克伦、传奇音乐人艾米·曼恩,还有更多。
And we'll also be joined by the people who helped bring it all to life, Guest stars, collaborators, and friends, including director Jonathan Kreisel, the mayor himself, Kyle McLaughlin, legendary musician Amy Mann, and many more.
凯尔这次真是豁出去了。
Kyle is going for it here.
你完全即兴发挥,不只是台词,还编了一首关于我的歌。
You fully improvised not just words, but a song about I
我还以为你要写首歌呢。
thought you were gonna write a song.
我记得你,对。
I remember you Yeah.
当时是那么想的。
Thinking that.
请在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你获取播客的任何平台上收听《Podlandia AEO重看》节目。
Listen to Podlandia, AEO rewatch on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
大家好,家人们?
What's up, fam?
我是体育记者阿里·钱伯斯。
I'm sports journalist Ari Chambers.
嘿。
Hey.
大家好,你们好吗?
What's up, y'all?
我是你们的姐妹,萨姆
It's your girl, Sam
杰。
Jay.
我们是
And we're the
《人人关注女子体育》的主持人,这是一档来自Together和iHeart女子体育的全新播客。
host of Everyone Watches Women's Sports, a new podcast from Together and iHeart Women's Sports.
我们来分析一下最大的新闻头条
We're breaking down the biggest headlines
大坂直美展现了
Naomi Osaka showing
向你致敬,大坂。
out Shout outs to you, Naomi.
那些爆火的瞬间。
The viral moments.
我最近迷上了克肖恩·洛克的拳击之路。
I've been obsessed with Kershon Rock's boxing journey.
她看起来状态不错。
She looks good.
她的组合拳很利落。
Her combos are swift.
还有那些在女子体育界大家都在热议的故事。
And the stories everyone's talking about across women's sport.
因为人人都看女子体育。
Because everyone watches women's sports.
快来收听《人人都看女子体育》吧。
Listen to everyone watches women's sports.
在iHeartRadio应用上。
On the iHeartRadio app.
苹果播客,或者你收听播客的任何平台。
Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.
嘿。
Hey.
我是海耶斯·达文波特。
This is Hayes Davenport.
还有肖恩·克莱门茨。
And Sean Clements.
我们主持播客《好莱坞手册》。
We host the podcast Hollywood Handbook.
每期节目,我们都想帮嘉宾提升事业,但主要关注的是他们如何能帮我们提升事业。
Every episode, we're trying to help our guests improve their careers by mainly focusing on how they can help us improve our careers.
这节目出了名的容易上手,所以你可以随便挑我们650期中的任何一期,都能轻松跟上。
The show is famously super accessible, so you can easily jump into any of our 650 episodes and understand what's going on.
我们推荐最近几期,嘉宾有本·斯蒂勒、丹尼·麦克布莱德、里兹·阿迈德和玛丽·斯汀伯根。
We recommend some of our recent episodes with Ben Stiller, Danny McBride, Riz Ahmed, and Mary Steenburgen.
在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你收听播客的任何平台上收听《好莱坞手册》。
Listen to Hollywood Handbook on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
我是切尔西·汉德勒,来自《亲爱的切尔西》。
This is Chelsea Handler from Dear Chelsea.
每周新闻越来越糟,世界越来越疯狂,而雅曼尼卡在这里告诉那些该负责的人:你们就是问题所在。
Every week, the news gets worse, the world gets crazier, and Yamaneka is here to tell whoever's responsible, you're the problem.
你知道吗,我刚知道西德尼·斯威尼是谁。
Do you know I just found out who Sydney Sweeney was?
如果他得到了
If he got
一群女人,那我也应该有一群男人。
a bunch of women, then I should have bunch of men.
要么做得更好,要么少做点,这样我就不用干那么多活了。
Do better or do less so I don't have to do so much.
我是雅曼尼卡,我说完了。
I'm Yamanika, and I'm out.
欢迎收听《你就是问题所在》节目,在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你获取播客的任何平台都能找到。
Listen to You're the Problem with Yamanika on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
我是尼克·塔图罗。
I'm Nick Taturo.
你可能通过《纽约重案组》、《最长的一码》或斯派克·李的《黑色党徒》认识我。
You probably know me from NYPD Blue, The Longest Yard, or Spike Lee's Black Plansman.
在我的新播客《与尼克·塔图罗一起传递快乐》中,我会给新嘉宾送披萨。
And on my new podcast, Delivering Happiness with Nick Taturo, I deliver pizza to a new guest.
我和很多人一起分享过披萨,从塞斯·罗林斯
I've shared a slice with everyone from Seth Rollins
你在
What are you
拿我的腰带干什么?
doing with my belt?
到比尔·伯尔。
To Bill Burr.
我还没见过谁跟我一样疯得这么彻底。
I don't think I've ever met somebody so exactly out of their mind as I am.
现在,我们还有更多精彩的嘉宾即将登场,包括了不起的约翰·多图罗。
And now, we even have more great guests coming up, including the great John Dotturro.
这叫做幸福。
It's called happiness.
传递幸福。
Delivering happiness.
还有很多很多。
And many, many more.
打开免费的iHeartRadio应用,搜索《与尼克·多图罗一起传递幸福》,现在就来收听吧。
Open your free iHeartRadio app, search delivering happiness with Nick Dotturro, and listen now.
大家好。
Hello, everybody.
我是杰玛·斯派克,欢迎回到《二十多岁的心理学》,这个播客会聊聊我们二十多岁时的重大变化、关键时刻和人生转折,以及它们对我们的心理意味着什么。
I'm Jemma Spike, and welcome back to the psychology of your twenties, the podcast where we talk through the biggest changes, moments, and transitions of our twenties and what they mean for our psychology.
大家好。
Hello, everybody.
欢迎回到节目。
Welcome back to the show.
欢迎回到播客。
Welcome back to the podcast.
很高兴你们又回来听新的一期,我们当然要继续聊聊二十几岁的心理。
It is so great to have you here back for another episode as we, of course, break down the psychology of our twenties.
如果你在Netflix上看,我保证我没穿睡衣。
If you're watching on Netflix, I promise you I'm not wearing my pajamas.
这点我必须说清楚。
I just need to say that.
我刚看了看自己的打扮,发现确实很像睡衣,但真的不是。
I've just like looked at my outfit and realized that it looks very pajama like, but it's not.
考虑到今天我们要聊的是生产力,这还挺讽刺的。
And considering we're talking about productivity today, it's kind of ironic.
没错,这就是我们今天要聊的话题。
But yes, that's what we're talking about.
我们要聊的是生产力。
We're talking about productivity.
具体来说,我想分享七个最棒、最被低估、也最少被提及的技巧,让你通过做更少的事情来完成更多任务。
Specifically, I wanted to share seven of the best, most underrated, least spoken about tips to just get more stuff done by doing less.
我特别喜欢这类节目。
I love these episodes.
有时候做这些内容让我很开心,我觉得我们二十多岁的人,很多人都有远大的抱负,有想做的项目和任务。
I love doing them sometimes and I feel like so many of us in our twenties, we have these huge ambitions and these projects and these tasks that we want to undertake.
同时我们又觉得时间不够用,工作很努力,所以任何能帮我们一点忙的东西,任何能在心理上推我们一把的东西,尤其是那些有科学依据的技巧,都特别好。
And we also feel like we don't have any time and we're working really hard and like Anything that can help us a little bit, anything that can like psychologically nudge us in the right direction, especially when those tips are backed by science, are great.
我就想,你知道吗?
And I thought, you know what?
今天咱们就做一期轻松点的节目吧。
Let's do an easy episode today.
就做一期简单的清单节目吧。
One that's just Let's just do a little list episode.
咱们就看看科学依据,找出最有效的方法。
Let's just go through the science, find what works best.
我会用简单明了的方式讲给你们听。
I'm gonna deliver it to you guys in simple package form.
真心希望这能帮你们提高效率、更高效,同时也能享受生活。
And I just sincerely hope it helps you be more productive, be more efficient, but also enjoy your life as well.
那我们就开始吧。
Let's get into it.
所以我觉得,关于效率,
So I think one of
我们被灌输的最大谎言之一,就是自律是驱动效率的唯一关键因素。
the biggest lies about productivity that we've been sold is that discipline is like the singular most important ingredient or factor that is driving productivity.
那些你敬佩的、能完成很多事情的人,他们就是天生有这种特质,而你没有。
The people who you admire, who get stuff done, they just have this inherent trait that you don't.
虽然他们可能天生就有这种特质,虽然他们不需要付出什么努力就能拥有它,但你无法获得这种特质,这却被说成是你个人的性格缺陷或错误。
And although they may have it inherently, although they didn't really have to do anything to get it, your inability to access it yourself, that though is a personal character flaw or a fault.
除非你能解锁或调动你的自律,否则你永远做不到。
And until you can unlock or access your discipline, it's not happening for you.
祝你好运。
Good luck.
反正就是做不到。
Like, it's just not happening.
你必须自律,否则一切免谈。
You need to be disciplined or nothing else.
我觉得这是一种相当狭隘、不公平、而且心理上不准确的生产力观念,它实际上是在试图让我们为自己没能做到的事情感到羞愧,却不思考我们为什么做不到。
I think this is a rather kind of narrow, unfair, like psychologically inaccurate way to think about productivity that really just tries to shame us for what we haven't been able to do without thinking about why we haven't been able to do it.
事情是这样的。
Here is the thing.
我们的生产力并不仅仅依赖于自律。
Our productivity is not reliant on discipline alone.
实际上,自律只占整个方程式的25%到30%,它更像是一个火花。
In fact, discipline is only about 25 to 30% of the equation, and it's actually what we would call a spark.
它是认知上的火花,而不是认知上的燃料来源。
It is a cognitive spark, not a cognitive fuel source.
自律是非常有限的。
Discipline is incredibly finite.
它受到很多我们常常忽略的因素的极大影响,比如睡眠、激素、压力、任务的难度、所处的环境、已有的习惯、过去的经历,以及你对自己的信心——这些我们似乎并不总是有意识地当作影响因素来考虑。
It's incredibly influenced by so many other factors we often ignore, like our sleep, our hormones, our stress, the difficulty of the task, the environment you're in, your established habits, your past experiences, your confidence in yourself that this is stuff that we don't always seem to like consciously think of as a factor.
我们很容易就把所有问题归结到这一件事上,用这个简单的自律解释,而忽略了其他因素。
It's so easy for us to like put it all down to this one thing alone, this neat discipline explanation and just kind of ignore the rest.
但你不能忽略其他因素。
And it's You can't ignore the rest.
它们同样重要。
That is an equal part.
事实上,心理学家皮尔·斯蒂尔进行了一项非常著名的元分析,他在其中描述拖延不是自律问题,而是一种自我调节失败。
In fact, there's a really notable meta analysis that was conducted by the psychologist, Pear Steele, in which he describes procrastination not as a discipline problem, but a form of self regulatory failure.
重要的是,这篇论文并没有说拖延症是因为懒惰。
Importantly, what the paper does not say is that procrastination is about laziness.
他实际上发现,拖延主要是由情绪调节、任务的不愉快程度、你当时的心理状态、你的冲动程度、我们是否相信自己能做到、我们感觉自己的能力如何、我们的心理健康等因素决定的——我们做不了某些事,并不是因为意志力不够。
He actually found that procrastination was primarily shaped by, like, emotional regulation and how unpleasant the task was, the mental state that you were in, how impulsive you were, whether we believe we could do it, how capable we were feeling, our mental health, like our inability to do certain things is not about mental fortitude.
这其实关乎你的情绪状态、你的情绪敏感度,以及你当下的感受。
It's about, yeah, your emotional state and your emotional gooeyness and how you're feeling.
我们也知道,意志力和自律首先并不总是能涵盖这些因素。
We also know that willpower and discipline are Firstly, don't always factor in those things.
它们本身在精神上也非常消耗人。
They're also mentally very exhausting.
而这实际上会降低我们之后在其他任务上的表现。
And that actually lessens our performance on other tasks afterwards.
有一个发现来自1988年鲍迈斯特及其同事的一项研究,他们把参与者带到一个房间,在他们面前放了一盘饼干和一碗萝卜,两者都摆在桌上。
There is this finding that came from a 1988 study by Bomister and colleagues where they put people in a room, they put them in front of a plate of cookies and a bowl of radishes, both on the table.
他们要求一半的参与者不要吃饼干。
And they asked half the participants to not have a cookie.
你可以吃萝卜,但不能吃饼干。
You can have a radish, you can't have a cookie.
他们告诉另一半人,你可以吃一块饼干。
And they told the other half, you can have you can have one cookie.
你可以吃一块饼干。
You can have a cookie.
然后他们离开房间,只是说,别吃就行。
And then they left the room and they just kind of were like, just don't do it.
你们自己负责纠正或执行这个任务。
You guys be in charge of correcting or following through this action.
接着他们让大家做一道几何拼图题。
They then made people do a geometric puzzle.
吃了饼干的人,拼图做了十九分钟。
People who had the cookie, they did the puzzle for nineteen minutes.
吃了萝卜的人,只做了八分钟。
Those who had the radish, eight minutes.
而且这不仅仅是糖分带来的兴奋。
And it wasn't just the sugar rush.
关键在于他们得动用所有意志力来抵抗那块饼干。
It was the fact that they had to draw on all this willpower to resist the cookie.
人们认为,这种消耗会让他们在后续所有情境中的自控力都大打折扣。
And it's assumed that that kind of drained their self control for all subsequent situations.
所以,当你总是只靠意志力和自律来完成任务——比如逼自己更努力学习、抵制诱惑、或者减肥——你会发现,你在生活其他方面的精力、自律和动力都会下降。
So when you are constantly only relying on willpower and discipline to get stuff done, you know, to help you study harder, to help you avoid temptation, to help you, I don't know, lose weight, the effort that you have for other areas of your life and the and the discipline or the motivation you have for other things declines.
这就是为什么只靠自律来看待效率是不完整的。
This is why relying on discipline is an incomplete way to look at our productivity.
我们真正需要解决的是情绪层面的问题:降低任务或目标带来的情绪阻力,同时调整我们的结构、习惯和环境,让容易做的事恰好就是该做的事。
What we actually need to be addressing is that emotional thing of reducing the emotional resistance of the task or the goal in question and also setting up our structures and our behaviours and our surroundings so that the easier thing is the easier thing.
也就是说,我们想做的事阻力最小。
Like, the thing we wanna do has the least resistance.
这一点很重要,因为它直接关系到我们接下来要讲的内容——基于对自律的这种理解,你可以做的最好的七件事。
So that really informs think this it's important to say this because this informs what we're gonna talk about next, which is the seven best things that you can do based on that knowledge of discipline.
当然,这不会让你变成一天工作十二小时的机器。
And now, of course, this isn't gonna turn you into like a twelve hour a day working machine.
说实话,我觉得你们到现在应该了解我了。
To be honest, I don't think you guys know me by now.
我其实根本不在乎那个。
That's I really don't care about that.
我真的觉得那种拼命文化,还有那种“女强人”每天工作五千小时、睡在办公桌上的形象,已经过时了,应该被抛弃。
Like, I really think that hustle culture and like the girl boss 5,000 work all day, sleep on your dead archetype is dead and should be left there.
但我也相信投入,相信向自己证明你能做到什么。
But I also believe in devotion and being able to prove to yourself what you're capable of.
而且我认为这些东西能让我们以更健康、更可持续的方式进入那种状态和心态,而不是另一种看似唯一的选择——那就是,如果你没有为你的目标主动受苦,如果你没有一直处于精疲力尽的状态,那你一定不够想要它。
And I think this stuff takes us to that space and gets us into that mindset in a much more healthy and sustainable way, rather than this alternative that seems to be the only alternative, which is if you are not actively suffering for what you want, and if you are not actively in a constant state of exhaustion, you must not want it that much.
这不是……这是中间地带。
This isn't This is the middle ground.
这是一个中间地带,你既能完成任务,也能享受生活。
This is the middle ground where you get stuff done, but you also can enjoy your life.
所以,第一个提高效率的小技巧就是“三二一法则”。
So productivity hack number one is the three two one equation.
这是一种安排待办事项清单的方法,让你的每一天既有重点又有变化,从而更高效。
This is a method of structuring your to do list so that your day is both focused and varied and therefore productive.
每天,如果你想有成就感,你的待办清单应该包含三件杂事、两件小任务和一件大任务。
Every day, if you want to feel accomplished, your to do list should contain three chores, two small tasks, and one big task.
比如,三件杂事可能是:洗床单、吸尘、倒垃圾、交停车罚单之类的。
That might look like your three chores are wash your bedding, like vacuum your room, take the bins out, pay your parking fine, like those kind of things.
就是那些行政琐事,有点烦人,但你知道必须得做。
Things that are like admin y, they're a little bit annoying, but like you know you need to get done.
两件小任务呢,比如清理前一天积压的邮件。
The two smaller tasks are things like, okay, clear out my email inbox from, like, the night from the day before.
那些我一直拖着没回的邮件,今天全部搞定。
Every little email that I've been avoiding, I'm gonna get that done today.
我要写项目更新报告。
I'm gonna write my project update.
我要把那份重要文件发出去。
I'm gonna send out that important document.
有个会议我一直拖着没开。
There's a meeting I've been putting up.
我要去开那个重要的会议。
I'm gonna do that important meeting.
我要先花两个小时为那次旅行、那个活动、那件重要的工作做准备。
I'm going to do the first two hours of planning for that trip, that event, that important work thing.
然后就是那个大任务。
And then you have the one big task.
这就像三明治里的肉馅。
This is like the meat of the sandwich.
所以,这个任务你预计要花三到四个小时甚至更长时间。
So this is the thing that you can expect to spend three to four hours on or longer.
我的大任务永远是写脚本。
Mine is always the same writing scripts.
但对你来说,可能是写报告或论文的大段内容、为考试集中复习、解复杂方程、在项目上取得重大进展。
But for you, it may be writing large sections of a report or an essay, concentrated study for an exam, doing complex equations, making major headway on a project.
再说一次,这就是三明治里的肉。
Again, it is the meat in the sandwich.
如果你是素食主义者,那可能就是……我也不太清楚。
Or if you're a vegetarian, it's I don't know.
三明治里的豆腐。
The tofu in the sandwich.
这个方法之所以有效,是因为它能让你的大脑感受到一种平衡的进步感。
The reason this works is that it gives your brain a balanced sense of progress.
注意,这个大任务虽然仍然很庞大,但它不会占据你的一整天。
Notice how the big task is still really sizable, but it doesn't take over your entire day.
很多人要么用一堆琐碎的小事填满一天,让自己感觉忙碌却没有真正的成就感。
A lot of us either overload our day with a lot of those tiny tasks that make us feel busy but not meaningfully fulfilled.
我们做的只是把一项极其庞大、令人望而生畏的任务列在清单上,然后如果没完成,就觉得自己是个失败者。
All we do is we do this we put one absolutely huge intimidating task on the list and then we feel like a failure if we don't complete the entire thing.
再说一次,我们追求的是平衡。
Again, we're we are looking for balance.
三二一方法既能让你保持动力,又能带来认知多样性。
The three two one method gives you both momentum and cognitive diversity.
这种认知多样性对大脑非常重要,能让大脑接受不同事物的挑战,体验到新鲜感带来的活力和力量。
And that cognitive diversity is so important for your brain so that it can be challenged by different things, so that it experiences the refreshing and the power of novelty.
你看,三件杂事、两件小任务,能带来看得见的进展。
You know, the three chores, the two small tasks, visible progress.
同时它们也减少了很多琐碎的事情,让你感受到进步。
But they also reduce a lot of the menial stuff as well, they give you progress.
还能清理掉那些你可能一直拖延的事情。
They also clear out the clutter of maybe things that you've been putting off.
然后那件大任务就放在中间。
And then the one big task sits in the middle.
这样一来,一天结束时,你既能真正感受到有意义的成就感,同时确实也完成了一些事情。
And it means that you actually feel a meaningful sense of accomplishment at the day, at the end of the day, whilst actually still having done stuff.
这个方法之所以能提升长期效率,除了让你不会对大的目标感到厌倦之外,还在于它能建立自我效能感。
The other reason this benefits long term productivity, besides helping you not get bored with your kind of larger goals, is that it builds self efficacy.
这大概是我们播客里最喜欢的一个词了。
Probably our favourite term on the podcast.
自我效能感,就是相信自己能通过行动——自己的行动和行为——切实改变结果的那种感觉。
The sense self efficacy is the sense that we can meaningfully change outcomes through our actions, our own actions and behaviours.
小的成就和大的成就对自我效能感同样重要,因为它每天都在提醒我们:即使大目标看起来遥不可及,我们的心理、情感和认知投入,也正在转化为实际的成果和进展。
Small accomplishments are just as important as big accomplishments for self efficacy because it gives us a daily reminder that mental, emotional, cognitive input our our input is creating physical output and progress even on days when the big goal feels very, very far away.
哪怕是在我们没时间做满十二个小时事情的日子里。
Even on days when we don't have twelve hours to do stuff.
就是让你感觉很好。
Just makes you feel good.
它会让你觉得,好吧,一天结束的时候,我完成了……天哪,我一下子想不起来具体做了几件事了。
It makes you feel like, okay, at the end of the day, I have done my oh my god, now I can't remember how many it is.
六件事。
Six things.
我已经完成了我的六件事。
I've done my six things.
我觉得很有成就感。
I feel accomplished.
每样都做了一点。
I've done a little bit of everything.
我挺好的。
I'm good.
我现在可以休息了。
I I can rest now.
好的。
Okay.
第二个建议。
Tip number two.
我想大家都听过‘先吃青蛙’这个说法。
I think we've all heard the term like eat the frog.
对吧?
Right?
这是我小时候我爸常跟我说的话。
This was always something my dad said to me when I was growing up.
就是,先吃掉那只青蛙。
Like, eat the frog.
说白了,就是先把最难的事情做了。
Basically, always do the hard thing first.
当你看着那个三二一清单时,最大的那件事,最不愉快、最困难、最烦人的那件事,你最不想做的那件,最容易拖延的那件,那就是你一开始就要去做的。
When you look at that list, the three two one list, the biggest thing, the most unpleasant, difficult, annoying thing, the thing you are most reluctant to do, the one that you are most likely to procrastinate on, that's the one you go for at the beginning.
我觉得我们总有一种倾向,觉得应该慢慢进入状态,或者先热身一下,再去做那些难事。
I think we have this tendency to think that we should ease ourselves into things or warm up for the day or warm up for the hard stuff.
当然,如果你的大任务像锻炼一样,热身是必要的,但别把真正的训练留到一天结束的时候。
Obviously, like, if your big task like, if you're exercising like a warm up, but don't leave the workout to the end of the day.
别把最重要的邮件拖到下午五点才发。
Don't leave the most important email till 5PM.
别把累人的对话或写作任务拖到你精疲力竭的时候再做。
Don't leave the tiring conversation or the writing push till the point where you are exhausted.
就算你的动力在一天中会提升,你的专注力可能并不会。
Even if your motivation improves throughout the day, your focus probably doesn't.
很可能有一个特定的时间点,通常是你刚开始工作的时候,你的认知资源最充沛。
There is probably a specific time, likely when you first start where you are going to have the most cognitive resources available.
不利用这些资源,其实就是逃避。
Not using those resources is avoidance.
你就是在逃避。
You're avoiding it.
当你逃避困难的任务时,你会获得短暂的解脱感,一种短暂的希望感。
When you avoid the hard task, you get the momentary feeling of relief, the momentary feeling of like hope.
但意想不到的是,任务还在那里。
But surprise surprise, the task is still there.
它会一直萦绕在你心头。
It stays on your mind.
它会一整天都跟着你。
It follows you throughout the day.
它还会破坏你从其他任务中获得的休息或成就感。
It makes any break or sense of achievement like from other tasks.
你总觉得那些成就有点被玷污了,因为你会想,对,我是做了那个。
It always feels like it's slightly contaminated because you're like, yeah, I did that.
但那个事情还在那儿。
But that thing is still there.
就像我一直逃避的那件事,我还没做。
Like that thing I've been avoiding, I still haven't done it.
只要那件事没做完,一整天都感觉像在分心,不完整。
Until it's done, the rest of the day feels half It feels like a distraction.
所以,在你让大脑花一整天去讨价还价、找理由、拖延、灾难化、过度思考之前,直接决定开始做。
So before you give your brain the day to negotiate, to rationalise, to delay, catastrophise, overthink, just decide to begin.
关键就在于“开始”这两个字。
And begin is the keyword here.
先做难事,并不意味着要做得完美无缺。
Doing the hard thing first doesn't mean that it needs to be done perfectly.
也不意味着你必须在早上8点就把整件难事做完。
It doesn't mean you need to finish the whole hard thing at 8AM.
它只是说,把你最清醒、最专注的精力,投入到那个否则会消耗你一整天情绪能量的任务上。
It just means give your freshest, fullest attention to the task that would otherwise drain your emotional energy all day.
就像我们说的,很多高效工作其实就是情绪管理,就是看清那件会一直悬在心头的难事,然后从第一小时就开始攻克它。
And as we said, a lot of productivity is just emotional regulation, is just seeing the hard thing that's gonna linger and pushing through it from like hour one.
补充一点,纽约大学的研究人员在2006年的一篇论文中强调了“执行意图”这个概念,这对这条建议非常关键。
To add to this, researchers from New York University in a 2006 paper highlighted the concept of implementation intentions, and this plays a really important role for this tip.
简单来说,就是关于何时、何地以及如何行动的具体计划。
Basically, it's specific plans about when, where, and how you will act.
他们建议,对于你想避免的目标,使用这些执行意图,因为这会显著提高你达成目标的可能性。
They suggested using these implementation intentions, for goals that you want to avoid because they significantly improve your chances of achieving them.
换句话说,如果你把做某件事的具体步骤都规划好了,你就更有可能去执行它。
In other words, if you build out how exactly you're gonna go about doing something, you're more likely to do it.
所以,不要只是说‘我早上会做这件事’。
So instead of just, I'm gonna work on this in the morning.
如果你说‘好,吃完早餐后,我坐在桌前,在检查手机之前先写300个字’,那会更有效。
If you say, okay, after breakfast I'm gonna sit at my desk and I'm gonna write 300 words before checking my phone, that's gonna be more effective.
这样效果会好得多。
Like, that's gonna be much better.
所以,是的,先做难事,但为了把这个想法落到实处,你得把难事定义得足够清晰,给它加上一个时间点。
So, yes, do the hard thing first, but also to cement this into action, define the hard thing clearly enough, Define it with a timestamp.
给它设定一个终点、一个进度节点,甚至一个具体地点。
Define it with an end point, a progress point, a location even.
因为,跟一个计划较劲,总比跟一个愿望较劲容易。
Because it's harder to argue with a plan than a wish.
我再给你举几个例子,帮你更好地理解。
I'll give you some other examples just to help you out with this.
与其说‘我要整理一下我的财务状况’,不如说‘在开始其他事情之前,我会打开银行应用,列出我所有正在付费的订阅服务’。
Instead of saying, I'm gonna sort my finances, try you know, before I start anything else, I will open my banking app and make a list of every subscription service I'm paying for.
与其说‘我要写论文’,不如说‘好的,上午11点前我要完成这些事,然后去图书馆,先写出文献综述的前300个草稿词’。
Instead of, I'm gonna work on my dissertation, try, okay, at 11AM I'm going to have done these things and I will go to the library and I will write the first 300 rough words of my literature review.
与其说‘我要把生活理顺’,不如说‘午饭后,我花25分钟回复收件箱里积压的邮件,再处理一下父母和家人的所有短信,一一回复’。
Instead of saying, I'm gonna get my life together, try right after lunch.
与其说‘我要把生活理顺’,不如说‘午饭后,我花25分钟回复收件箱里积压的邮件,再处理一下父母和家人的所有短信,一一回复’。
I'm gonna spend twenty five minutes replying to emails that have been sitting in my inbox and going through all of my text messages from my parents and my family and just answer them.
困难的事情就没那么可怕了。
The hard thing becomes less threatening.
我们最拖延的事情,一旦变得具体,就没那么吓人了。
The thing we procrastinate about the most becomes less threatening when it becomes concrete.
很多提高效率的建议都聚焦在时间管理上。
A lot of productivity advice focuses on time management.
我们关注的是情绪管理。
We are focused on emotion management.
你能忍受开始做这件事时的不适感吗?
Can you tolerate the discomfort of starting?
你能接受任务不完美吗?
Can you tolerate the task being imperfect?
你能在还没完全准备好之前就行动吗?
Can you act before you feel fully ready?
现在做什么能让你在情绪上更有能力开始?
What is gonna make you feel more emotionally capable of starting right now?
先做难的事情。
Think of doing the hard thing first.
这不是要惩罚自己。
Not as like It's not about punishing yourself.
而是让你从逃避带来的情绪负担和代价中解脱出来——如果你不硬着头皮上,这种负担会缠着你一整天。
It's about freeing yourself from the emotional burden and tax of avoidance that is going to follow you for the rest of the day if you don't just bite the bullet.
好的。
Okay.
我们先休息一下,稍后回来继续分享更多建议。
Let's take a short break here, then we will return with a bunch more advice.
别走开。
Stay with us.
嘿,《波特兰迪亚》的粉丝们。
Hey, Portlandia fans.
这里是凯莉·布朗斯坦和弗雷德·阿米森。
Carrie Brownstein and Fred Armisen here.
你们认识我们,或者说,你们认识他们俩。
You know us or rather you know them.
托尼和坎迪丝,妮娜和兰斯,斯派克,还有,没错,那只鸡。
Tony and Candice, Nina and Lance, Spike, and, yes, the chicken.
这些年我们演过不少经典角色,但今天我们要以真身亮相,向大家介绍我们的全新播客《波特兰迪亚重看》。
We've played a lot of iconic characters over the years, but today, we're showing up as ourselves to tell you about Podlandia AO Rewatch, our brand new podcast.
每周我们都会从头重温一集《波特兰迪亚》,拆解其中的小品段子,深挖那些经典角色的背景故事,重访大家熟悉又喜爱的波特兰地标,还会坦诚分享我们的创作过程。
Each week, we'll revisit an episode of Portlandia from the very beginning, breaking down the sketches, exploring the backstories of our most iconic characters, revisiting the Portland locations you know and love, and opening up about our creative process.
这些内容到底是怎么做出来的呢?
How did any of this get made?
我们当时怎么会觉得那是个好主意?
Why do we think that was a good idea?
我们准备好聊聊这件事了。
We're ready to talk about it.
而且,我们还会邀请那些帮助这一切成真的人一起加入。
And we'll also be joined by the people who helped bring it all to life.
包括客串明星、合作者和朋友们,比如导演乔纳森·克雷塞尔、市长本人凯尔·麦克拉克伦、传奇音乐人艾米·曼恩,还有很多人。
Guest stars, collaborators, and friends, including director Jonathan Kreisel, the mayor himself, Kyle McLaughlin, legendary musician Amy Mann, and many more.
凯尔这次真是豁出去了。
Kyle is going for it here.
你完全即兴发挥,不只是台词,还有一首关于……
You fully improvised not of just words, but a song about
嗯,我以为他会写……
Well, I thought he was gonna write
我以为你们都会写一首歌。
I thought you were all gonna write a song.
我记得你当时是这么想的。
I remember you thinking that.
来听听Podlandia吧。
Listen to Podlandia.
哎哟。
Ayo.
可以在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcasts或者任何你听播客的地方重温。
Rewatch on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
嘿。
Hey.
我是海斯·达文波特。
This is Hays Davenport.
还有肖恩·克莱门茨。
And Sean Clements.
我们是《好莱坞手册》这档播客的主持人。
We host the podcast Hollywood Handbook.
每期节目,我们都想帮嘉宾提升事业,但主要关注的是他们怎么帮我们提升事业。
Every episode, we're trying to help our guests improve their careers by mainly focusing on how they can help us improve our careers.
这节目出了名的门槛低,你随便挑我们650期里的任何一期,都能立刻跟上节奏。
The show is famously super accessible, so you can easily jump into any of our 650 episodes and understand what's going
推荐几期我们最近和本·斯蒂勒录的节目。
recommend some of our recent episodes with Ben Stiller.
电影的定义,其实
The definition of what is
已经有点变了,对吧?
a movie has kinda changed anyway too.
是吧?
Right?
那你觉得现在电影是什么?
What do you think it is now?
就是图像和话语,用某种技术捕捉下来。
It's images and words being spoken, captured by some sort of technology.
丹尼·麦克布莱德。
Danny McBride.
他喜欢
He loves
博卡。
Boca.
哦,那太棒了。
Oh, that's fantastic.
而且你自己做,自己做。
And you make it on you make your own.
真不错。
That's great.
对。
Mhmm.
我管他叫塔罗·里德。
I call him Taro Reed.
这名字不错。
It's a good name.
它们都是用《美国派》的演员名字命名的。
They're all named after cast members of American Pie.
对。
Yeah.
哦,明白了。
Oh, gotcha.
我管他叫——我没查过她是不是参演了,但我叫他利奇·索比斯基。
I call I don't I never looked up if she was in this, but I call him Leachie Sobieski.
对。
Yeah.
我觉得她没演《美国派》,但我
I don't think she was in American Pie, but I
一直没去查过。
still haven't looked it up.
还没查过呢。
Haven't looked it up.
对。
Yeah.
她确实演过
She was
挺有名的,对。
prominent Yeah.
差不多同一时期。
Around same
然后是玛丽·斯汀伯根。
Then Mary Steenburgen.
你们为什么在跟我
Why are you guys talking
说话
to me
好像你担心我听不懂你那点小把戏似的,跟我说话这么居高临下。
like worried you're talking so down to me that you think I don't understand your little play play game.
我真的明白了。
I just really I get it.
我这是在帮你铺路,让你能成功。
Trying to set you up for success here.
请在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你获取播客的任何地方收听《好莱坞手册》。
Listen to Hollywood Handbook on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
这里是切尔西·汉德勒,来自《亲爱的切尔西》。
This is Chelsea Handler from Dear Chelsea.
每周新闻越来越糟,世界越来越疯狂,而雅曼内卡在这里告诉那些该负责的人:你们就是问题所在。
Every week, the news gets worse, the world gets crazier, and Yamaneka is here to tell whoever's responsible, you're the problem.
如果你过来
If you come over here
玩游戏,我可要教训你。
to play games, I'm a check you.
明白了吗?
Okay?
如果你在新闻里看到什么不对劲的事,我就会出手。
If you do some in the news that don't sound good, I'm a play
你。
you.
加入雅米妮卡·桑德斯,听她在新播客《雅米妮卡:你就是问题所在》里剖析本周最有争议的新闻。
Join Yaminika Saunders as she breaks down the week's most problematic stories on her new podcast, You're the Problem with Yaminika.
你知道吗,我刚知道西德妮·斯威尼是谁。
Do you know I just found out who Sydney Sweeney was?
每周三更新新集,作为我的新网络——亲爱的切尔西网络的一部分。
New episodes weekly every Wednesday as part of my new network, the Dear Chelsea Network.
如果他有一堆女人,那我也该有一堆男人。
If he got a bunch of women, then I should have a bunch of men.
做得更好,或者少做点,这样我就不用
Do better or do less so I don't have
做这么多事。
to do so much.
所以每期节目,雅曼妮卡都会
So join Yamaneka each episode as
回答一个问题。
she answers one question.
谁才是问题所在?
Who's the problem?
我是雅曼妮卡,我先撤了。
I'm Yamaneka, and I'm out.
在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你收听播客的任何平台,收听《雅曼妮卡:你才是问题》。
Listen to you're the problem with Yamaneka on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
我是尼克·塔图罗。
I'm Nick Taturo.
你可能从《纽约重案组》、《最长的一码》或斯派克·李的《黑色党徒》认识我,但我也来自皇后区,这意味着我懂披萨。
You probably know me from NYPD Blue, The Longest Yard, or Spike Lee's Black Plansman, but I'm also from Queens, which means I know pizza.
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在我的新播客《与尼克·托托罗一起传递快乐》里,我会从王子街披萨店带一份披萨给新嘉宾。
And on my new podcast, Delivering Happiness with Nick Totoro, I deliver pizza from Prince Street Pizza to a new guest.
你现在还送披萨了?
You deliver pizza now?
然后我们会坐下来好好聊一聊。
Then we sit down for a real conversation.
我和很多人一起分享过披萨,从塞斯·罗林斯开始。
I've shared a slice with everyone, from Seth Rollins.
你拿着腰带干嘛?
What are you doing with belt?
到亚历克斯·罗德里格斯。
To Alex Rodriguez.
跟大家说一声,我们正在和一位传奇人物聊天。
Just to let you people know, we're talking to one of the goats here.
到比尔·伯克。
To Bill Burke.
我觉得我从来没见过有人像我一样这么疯狂。
I don't think I've ever met somebody so exactly out of
和我一样疯。
their mind as I am.
现在我们还有更多精彩的嘉宾要来,包括伟大的约翰·迪托罗。
And now we even have more great guests coming up, including the great John DiToro.
这叫做幸福。
It's called happiness.
传递幸福。
Delivering happiness.
马里亚诺·里维拉。
Mariano Rivera.
好好享受吧,兄弟。
Dig it up, brother.
还有很多很多。
And many, many more.
打开你的免费iHeartRadio应用。
Open your free iHeartRadio app.
搜索“与Nick DiToro一起传递幸福”并立即收听。
Search delivering happiness with Nick DiToro and listen now.
大家好,我是Bob Pittman,iHeartMedia的董事长兼CEO。
Hi, I'm Bob Pittman, Chairman and CEO of iHeartMedia.
我还带领团队创建了MTV。
I also led the team that created MTV.
这个月,我和我的联合创始人正在庆祝MTV成立四十五周年。
And my co founders and I are celebrating MTV's forty fifth anniversary this month.
在我的播客《营销前沿的数学与故事》中,你会听到那些从零开始打造MTV的人讲述不为人知的起源故事。
On my podcast, Math and Stories from the Frontiers of Marketing, you'll hear the untold origin story from the people who built MTV from the ground up.
我想要我的MTV。
I want my MTV.
这话真有分量。
Those are powerful words.
对我来说,这就像属于我的东西,而且我想要它。
My, something for me that felt like mine, and want.
这个词真有力量。
What a powerful word.
欢迎收听《营销前沿的数学与故事》,你可以在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或任何你收听播客的平台找到它。
Listen to Math and Stories from the Frontiers of Marketing on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcast.
第三个建议可能是我最喜欢的,我甚至把它写进了书里。
So the third tip may be my favorite, so much so that I wrote about it in my book.
不是一次,而是两次。
Not once, but twice.
我真的写了两次,自己都没意识到,直到书出版后有人私信我说,好了,我们懂了。
I literally wrote about it twice and I didn't even realise until after the book came out and somebody DM'd me and was like, okay, we get it.
别再说了。
Give it a rest.
就像,你真的很喜欢这个建议。
Like, like this- you like this tip.
好的。
Okay.
我当时心想,哎呀,自己都没意识到写了两次。
And I was like, oops, didn't even realise I'd done it.
但我第三个提高效率的方法就是,别再照搬别人的时间表,开始研究你自己的节奏。
But my third productivity hack is to stop copying somebody else's schedule and start studying your own rhythm.
我们总被告知,要想高效,就得早上5点起床,写日记,喝柠檬水,锻炼,做完所有这些事,然后再干八小时的工作。
We are told the only way to be productive is to get up at 5AM and journal and drink lemon water and work out and do all these things before you do eight hours of work.
而且这八小时的工作你还得全程保持高度专注。
And you should be totally switched on from those eight hours of work as well.
是的,对有些人来说,早上到朝九晚五的节奏确实是他们效率最高的时候。
And yeah, for some people the like morning into the nine to five routine is where they feel most productive.
但仅仅因为这是普遍灌输给我们的方式,不代表它对每个人都适用。
But just because it's what's fed to us generally doesn't mean it works for everybody.
这是一种迷思,认为只要是正常的,就一定是最好的。
It's this myth that just because something is normal must mean it's the best.
对你来说,可能就不是这样。
For you, might not be.
这里我想引入一个概念,叫你的生物钟类型。
This is where I want to introduce the idea of your chronotype.
你的生物钟类型基本上就是你天生的、由基因决定的睡眠-清醒时间偏好。
Your chronotype is basically your natural genetically determined preference for your sleep wake timing.
它反映了我们的昼夜节律。
And that is it reflects our circadian rhythm.
就像是在那之下的一个层次。
It's just like the layer below.
2023年《时间生物学》上的一篇综述讨论了认知表现如何受到你工作的时间段和你个人生物钟类型之间相互作用的影响。
There was a 2023 review in chronobiology that discussed how cognitive performance can be really affected by the interaction between the time of day that you are working and your individual chronotype.
所以,无论你是早起型、夜猫子型,还是中午型的人。
So whether you are a morning person, a night person, a midday person.
这些发现最近也得到了进一步的印证。
And these findings have even been reflected more recently.
到了2025年,他们又做了一次回顾研究。
In 2025, they did another review.
这意味着,人们——包括你——的表现,可能会因为工作是否与自己的自然节律同步而有所不同。
What this means is that people, you, may perform differently depending on whether you are working in sync with your natural rhythm or not.
这不只是靠自律就能决定的。
It's not just dependent on discipline.
你知道吗,有人在下午6点工作,可能比早上9点工作的人效率更高。
You know, someone working at 6PM can be more productive than someone working at 9AM.
但如果你的工作只允许你早上9点开始,必须让你9点开工,那你当然会觉得没劲。
But if your work only allows you to do work at 9AM, must make you start at 9AM, of course, you're gonna feel lazy.
因为你没有按照自己的生物钟类型来工作。
You're not working in accordance with your chronotype.
同样,也许你最高效的时间段是凌晨1点到5点。
Same with like, you know, maybe your most productive hours is hours of like 1AM to 5AM.
但如果那是你的自然节律,而你的系统和环境却不允许你在这个时间段工作,那你的效率就不会那么高。
But if that is your natural rhythm, but if your system and your environment doesn't allow you to operate them, you're not going to be as productive.
知道了这一点,你需要努力找出自己的节奏是什么。
Knowing this, you need to work to figure out what this may be for you.
因为你可能一直在自我破坏,把困难的工作安排在大脑已经下班的时间段。
Because you might be constantly sabotaging yourself by scheduling hard work for a time of day when your brain has already checked out.
我知道我说过要啃硬骨头,但如果啃硬骨头的最佳时间是晚上7点而不是早上9点,那你就应该在晚上7点工作。
I know I said swallow the frog, but if the best time to swallow the frog is at 7PM and instead of 9AM, you should be working at 7PM.
如何识别你的生物钟类型呢?在假期或不用工作的时候,你通常遵循什么样的睡眠模式?
Some ways of identifying your chronotype, what sleep pattern sleep weight pattern, I should say, do you typically follow on holidays or when you don't have to work?
你的身体自然感到困倦是什么时候?
When does your body naturally feel sleepy?
它自然感到清醒是什么时候?
When does it naturally feel alert?
你觉得自己最敏锐的时候是什么时候?
When do you feel your sharpest?
你最容易分心的时候是什么时候?
When do you get most easily distracted?
你什么时候最有创意,或者最容易进入心流状态?
When do you feel most creative or in a state of flow?
你什么时候最愿意处理行政类的工作?
When do you feel most excited by admin tasks?
随着你慢慢摸索,就能把自己的节奏和自然的精力水平匹配起来。
As you go along, can kind of match your rhythm to your natural energy levels.
我知道这对每个人来说不一定都可行。
And I know this isn't possible for everybody.
我知道如果你做朝九晚五的工作或者轮班工作,这确实很难,但尽量安排,尽量去调整,哪怕只是让你的日常生活节奏也尽量和这个匹配。
I know it's so difficult when you do work a nine to five or you do work shift work, but try and schedule, try as much as you can to even match your kind of daily life to this as well.
我知道我的睡眠类型,其实我不知道它叫什么名字,但大概是下午三点到七点,然后晚上九点到午夜。
I know my chronotype is like I actually don't know what the name for it is, but it's like three to seven and then nine till midnight.
我最清醒的时候,大概是晚上六点以后,那时候我会做所有的规划、所有的编辑、所有高能量的事情。
When I am like, no, I'm gonna be most alert, is at like 6PM or later, That's when I do all my planning, all my editing, all my high energy things.
我的低能量时段,通常是在早上,那时候我会专注于一些比较浅层的任务,比如排版、整理、基础行政工作,这些事还是得做,但不需要特别深入的思考。
My low energy window, which is normally like in the morning kind of, is like when I focus on more shallow tasks like formatting, tidying, basic admin, still things that need to be done, but not things that require like deep deep thinking.
这就是关于效率的关键。
This is the thing about productivity.
实际上,最高效的人往往自我认知非常清晰,因为他们知道,盲目听从别人告诉他们的做法、按照别人设定的日程来生活,对自己是行不通的。
The most productive people are actually probably some of the most self aware mentally because they know that abiding by what everybody else is telling them to do and how their day should operate isn't going to work for them.
他们会分散安排工作,在自己状态最好的时候干活。
They stagger their workload and work when works best for them.
当然,这也跟生活方式有关。
Obviously, it's also a lifestyle thing.
所以我们并不是说,那些不用朝九晚五上班的人就一定情绪最稳定,因为他们可以随时工作。
So we're not gonna say like, oh, these people who don't work a nine to five must be the most emotionally aware because they can work whenever they want.
不是这样的。
No.
我只是觉得,那些明白这一点、并且理解自己生物钟类型作用的人——虽然生物钟不是百分之百的决定因素,但确实占了很大比重——无论在工作框架内还是框架外,都能更高效。
It's just that I think people who understand that and understand the role that their chronotype plays, which is not a 100%, but it is a large a large factor, are able to be more productive both within and outside of a typical work structure.
因为即使你朝九晚五上班,你的生物钟类型依然在起作用。
Because even if you have a nine to five, your chronotype is still gonna be active.
你的生物钟窗口在那段时间里还是会活跃的。
Your chronotype window is still gonna be active for some part of that.
我只是说,可能不是早上9点,大家都指望你干所有重活的时候。
I'm just saying it might not be 9AM when everybody expects you to do all the hard work.
可能是下午5点或6点。
It might be like five or 6PM.
那么,你怎么安排你的一天,才能最大化那个最适合你的高效产出时间段呢?
And so how can you think about your day that maximizes that like peak productivity window best for you?
好的。
Okay.
第四条建议是习惯叠加。
Tip number four is habit stacking.
这是我特意为那些无聊的事情加进这个清单的。
And it is one I added to this list specifically for the boring things.
习惯叠加几年前在网上火过一阵子,因为《原子习惯》的作者詹姆斯·克利尔让它变得非常流行。
Habit stacking had its moment online a few years ago after James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits, made it very, very popular.
让它火了一把,算是流行起来了。
Made it go, I guess viral.
不知道算不算爆火,但好像人人都知道这个。
I don't know if it was viral, but everybody seems to know it.
就是把一个新行为和已有的习惯绑定在一起。
It is when you attach a new behavior to an existing cue you already have.
比如我刷完牙就吃维生素。
So after I brush my teeth, I take my vitamins.
它们放在同一个地方,同一个时间。
They're in the same place, same time.
刷完牙之后,我就自动去洗脸。
After I finish, I don't know, brushing my teeth, I automatically wash my face.
在煮咖啡的时候,我就写我的待办清单。
Whilst I make my coffee, I am gonna write my to do list.
同样的习惯每天都会配对在一起。
The same habits are paired up every day.
开车上班的时候,我会给生活中需要联系的人打个电话。
Whilst I drive to work, I call somebody in my life who I need to catch up with.
每天都是这样,把一件我肯定会做的事,和一件我真正想做、知道很重要、但又觉得很难坚持的事绑在一起。
Like, every single day, those two things, something that I know I'm always gonna do, is paired with something that I really wanna do, that I know is important, that I know I'm finding hard I'm finding it hard to do.
2010年《欧洲社会心理学杂志》上发表了一项研究,探讨了习惯叠加背后的科学原理。
There was a 2010 study published in the European Journal of Social Psychology that looked into the science behind habit stacking.
他们让96名参与者每天选择一个活动行为来完成。
They had 96 participants choose an activity behaviour to carry out daily.
说白了,就是在相同的环境下,每天做一件日常任务,持续十二周。
So it's basically a chore to carry out daily in the same context for twelve weeks.
他们发现,当参与者把这个行为和已经存在的行为绑在一起时,这个行为达到自动化所需的时间会缩短。
They found that when participants paired that behaviour with something that was already happening, the time it took for that behaviour to reach a level of automaticity.
简单来说,这就是习惯养成的最高境界——你甚至不需要有意识地思考要不要做这件事。
So basically, this is the highest level of habit formation where you don't actually even have to think consciously about doing something.
直接就去做了。
You just do it.
那些把新行为和旧行为搭配起来的人,会更快达到那种自动化的处理状态,也就是习惯自动叠加、自动执行的程度。
The more people who paired like, if you were somebody who paired the new behavior with an old behavior, you got to that level of automatic processing and automatic habit stacking automatic habit processing much faster.
2019年巴斯大学的研究人员进一步发表了一篇论文,指出习惯——而非意图或目标——才是自我控制的载体,因为它减少了不断思考和决策的需求。
A further 2019 paper from researchers at the University of Bath actually suggested that habits rather than intentions or goals are the vehicles for self control because they reduce the need to constantly deliberate and decide.
目标是你每天都需要决定的事情。
A goal is kind of something you have to decide on every day.
但习惯不是。
A habit is not.
这就是为什么提前准备餐食、制定健身计划、自动存钱这类目标如此有效。
This is exactly why meal prepping, gym plans, automatically saving sums of money, those kind of goals are so effective.
因为习惯能减少选择。
Because a habit is something that reduces choice.
当我们不得不做更少的选择时,效率最高,因为每天都要纠结“我今天要为了目标做这个还是那个”的认知负担被消除了。
And when we have to make less choices, that is when we are our most productive because the cognitive friction of having to decide every single day, am I gonna do this or this or this or this in pursuit of my goal is removed.
目标不应该每天来指导你的习惯。
The goals should not inform your habits every single day.
你的习惯应该成为你目标的基础。
Your habits should be the thing that is the basis for your goal.
接下来,我觉得是第五点。
Next, I think it's number five.
我们到第五点了吗?
Are we up to number five?
我每次做这种列表节目时总会跑题,但我们要摒弃“全有或全无”的思维。
I always get off track when I do these list episodes, but get rid of all or nothing thinking.
我经常犯这样的错误:想着今天没时间去健身房一小时,那就算了。
I've been very guilty of thinking, well, you know, I don't have an hour to go to the gym today, I'm just not going to bother.
或者,比如我知道朋友生日会上要喝酒,那为什么不在周四和周五也喝呢?
Or, you know, I know I'm going to be drinking at my friend's birthday, so why not drink on Thursday and Friday as well?
但这种想法会抹杀掉那些能积累成重大进步的小进步。
But this kind of thinking eliminates the minor progress that builds into major progress.
我觉得我们在效率上最大的陷阱之一就是等待完美时机,等待完美的环境。
I think one of the biggest traps we fall into with productivity is waiting for the perfect time, Waiting for the perfect environment.
总想等到时机完美、条件齐全、一切顺利才肯行动。
Waiting for the perfect moment and equation and for everything to go right in order to act.
因为我们总想给自己创造最大的成功机会。
Because we wanna give ourselves the greatest chance of success.
我们常跟自己说,既然要锻炼,干脆就凑够整整一小时,做到位。
You know, we tell ourselves, well, if I'm gonna work out, I may as well I need to have the full hour so I do it perfectly.
既然要打扫屋子,就得腾出整个下午,不然就不想马马虎虎应付。
If I'm gonna clean the house, have to have the whole afternoon because I don't wanna do it half assed.
等下次我能坐下来,全心全意处理邮件的时候,我再整理邮箱。
I'm gonna sort out my emails the next time I can sit down and really give them my full attention.
等我真有一个安静完美的早晨时,我再开始写那本书。
I'll start writing that book when I really have the perfect quiet morning.
我得状态对了才行。
I'm in the right mood.
桌子也得收拾干净。
The desk is clear.
阳光很好。
The sunshine was great.
但你知道,生活总是忙得让你没空去等那个完美时机。
You know, but then life is always gonna be too busy for that.
生活永远不会给你完美的条件。
Life is never gonna give you perfect conditions.
所以我们什么都不做,反而责怪条件不够完美,而不是怪自己不去行动。
And so we do nothing and we blame the conditions not being perfect and not ourselves for operating regardless.
另外,如果我们知道自己有那多出来的时间——二十分钟、十分钟、十五分钟——那些其他该做的事,或者拖延的念头,总会填满这段时间。
The other thing is, if we know we have that extra time unfilled, that twenty minutes, ten minutes, fifteen minutes, The other work we need to do, or procrastination, is always gonna end up filling that time.
总之,这和帕金森定律很契合。
Anyways, this links really nicely to something called Parkinson's Law.
帕金森定律,不是指那种病。
Parkinson's Law, it's not about the disease.
它来自英国历史学家西里尔·诺斯古德·帕金森。
It comes from the British historian Cyril Northgate Parkinson.
他在上世纪五十年代为《经济学人》写的一篇文章里提出了这个观点,大意是说,工作会自动膨胀,占满所有可用的时间。
And he introduced this idea in an essay he wrote in like the nineteen fifties in The Economist where he basically said, work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion.
其实他写那篇文章的时候,是带着讽刺意味的。
He was kind of writing satirically, actually, when he wrote this essay.
他当时是在谈论政治体系和公共服务系统,讲这些行政体系如何自我膨胀,即使实际工作量没有增加,它们也会给自己制造出更多的工作。
He was talking about how like, was actually talking about the political system and like the public service system and how these administrative systems can grow and create more work for themselves even when the actual workload does not increase.
但这一点也适用于我的生活。
But it applies to my life.
同样也适用于你的生活。
It applies to your life as well.
如果你给自己一整天的时间来打扫房子,那这件事就会花掉你一整天。
If you give yourself all day to clean your house, the task is going to take all day.
但如果你只给自己三十分钟,你反而可能完成更多。
But if you give yourself thirty minutes, you're probably going to get a lot more done.
如果你给自己三个小时去健身房,你很可能只会做相当于四十五分钟的运动量。
If you give yourself three hours at the gym, chances are you're probably going to do about as much exercising as you would only do if you had forty five minutes.
你明白我的意思吗?
Do you see what I mean?
任务会随着我们给的时间而膨胀。
Like, the task expands to kind of fill the time we give it.
就像有一种蔓延的趋势。
Like, there is a sprawl.
帕金森定律正好描述了这种蔓延。
Parkinson's law gives language to that sprawl.
你需要停止给自己那么大的行动空间,或者那么多余地。
You need to stop giving yourself such big containers to act in or such so much space to act with.
不过我得说,这是一个心理学播客。
Now I have to say, this is a psychology podcast.
帕金森定律最初并不是关于个人效率的心理学理论。
Parkinson's law did not begin as a psychological theory about personal productivity.
但我认为这个观点很有启发,因为它捕捉到了我们日常生活中很多人都能体会到的一点:我们常常高估事情需要的时间,又低估自己应对挑战的能力。
But I think we can take a lot from this idea because it captures something many of us recognize in our everyday life, which is that we often overestimate how much time things are gonna take, and we underestimate how well we will rise to the occasion.
而且我们还忘了,在此基础上,我们还忘了,当时间更少时,我们会更努力,效率也会更高。
But also we forget that I think on-site on top of that, we forget that when we have less time, we will push and we will be more productive in that case as well.
问题不在于我们没有时间,而在于我们因为时间不够理想,就轻视了已有的时间。
The problem isn't that we have no time, it's that we dismiss the time we do have because it doesn't feel ideal.
我们还会自我设限,觉得自己能力不足。
And we kind of also self sabotage and think we're less capable.
如果你只有二十分钟,二十分钟总比零分钟好,哪怕不是一小时。
If you only have twenty minutes, twenty minutes compared to zero is already better, even if it's not an hour.
假设你每两周做两次二十分钟的锻炼,会怎么样?
What happens if you do two twenty minute workouts, let's say, every two weeks?
那算下来,一周七天,每天只做二十分钟,也比零分钟强多了。
That's a 140, you know, seven days a week if you just did twenty minutes compared to still zero.
你的非黑即白思维,让你无法体会到累积或复利增长的力量。
Your all or nothing thinking is keeping you from the power of cumulative or compound growth.
对吧?
Right?
珍惜你拥有的时间,哪怕你觉得它不够用。
Respect the time you have, even if you believe it's not enough.
尊重自己全力以赴的能力,以及被紧迫感激发动力和灵感的潜力。
Respect your capacity to actually work your butt off and to be motivated and to be inspired by urgency.
好的。
Okay.
我发现我刚才撒了个谎,因为我说第四条建议是我最喜欢的。
I realized I told a fit because I said tip number four was my favorite.
那是假的。
That's a lie.
这个才是我的最爱,毫无疑问。
This one here is my favorite tip, most certainly.
而且这很可能是我在这个清单里给你们的最贴近我个人经历的建议。
And it's probably my most personally relevant tip I'm gonna give you guys on this list.
如果你看过我们上一期节目,就是和Grace Beverly在Netflix上的那期,你会知道我说过,我一直在做一件听起来不太高效但实际上很高效的事。
If you watched our last episode, I think, on Netflix with Grace Beverly, you'll know I spoke about how I've been doing something that doesn't sound particularly productive but is.
我一直在给那些最遥不可及的人发最离谱的邮件,邀请他们来上《二十几岁的心理学》这个节目。
And that has been that I've been sending off the most outlandish emails to the most insanely out of reach people asking them to be guests on the psychology of your twenties.
我举的例子是西蒙·拜尔斯,我说过她是少数几个会直接拒绝而不是什么都不说的人之一。
The example I gave was Simone Biles, and I talked about how she had She was like one of the only people to say no instead of just say nothing.
这听起来可能不相关,但我这么做的原因是我一直在做一件叫做‘周三放手一搏’的事情。
This may not sound relevant, but the reason I've been doing this is part of something that I've been calling shoot your shot Wednesdays.
所谓‘周三放手一搏’,就是每周三我会花两个小时来测试自己的运气。
Shoot your shot Wednesdays is where every Wednesday I dedicate two hours of my day to just testing my luck.
每周我都会发出一些最疯狂的、孤注一掷的邮件。
Every week I will like send out some of the most insane Hail Mary emails.
我会联系那些最了不起的人,他们可能根本不会看到。
I reach out to like the most amazing people who are probably never gonna see it.
我会盲目地提出请求。
I like blindly ask for things.
我会联系品牌方。
I reach out to brands.
我还会投稿文章,反正试试又没损失,对吧?
I pitch articles because why not?
为什么不呢?
Why not?
你不主动问,机会怎么会来?
Like, you don't ask?
最多就是被拒绝呗。
And the answer is no.
我其实就是在增加自己碰上好运的机会。
I'm really just trying to increase my surface area for luck.
虽然听起来有点随性,但这其实还是挺高效的。
And although that may sound spontaneous, it is still productive.
所以我觉得,就算这个方法有点不寻常,也完全值得上榜。
This is why I believe this tip deserves its place on this list, even if it is a bit atypical.
除了清空任务、完成工作,高效能其实还应该换个角度理解——它是在创造可能性。
As well as clearing tasks, getting work done, productivity also deserves a reframe in that it creates possibility.
我觉得我们不应该只把效率用在那些无聊或者很费劲的事情上。
I don't think we should just be using it for things that are boring or or things that are a slog.
我觉得它也应该用来拓展自己。
I think it should be utilized for expanding as well.
你的收件箱可能整理得井井有条。
You might have a perfectly organized inbox.
你可能每天都能完成所有要求的小任务,但离你真正渴望的生活仍然很远,因为你的效率里缺少了胆量。
You might complete every small task that is required of you every day, but still be no closer to the life that you really crave because your productivity doesn't also include audacity.
这背后的心理其实跟掌控感有关。
The psychology here is really around agency.
如果我们再回顾一下自我效能理论,自我效能就是我们相信自己能改变结果的能力。
And if we revisit that self efficacy theory, again, self efficacy is our belief that we can change an outcome.
而这种信念部分来自于我们的自信和对经验的掌握。
And our belief is built partly through our confidence and our mastery of experiences.
所以像这样的时刻,当我们说,嘿,我真的想要某样东西。
So moments like this where we say, hey, I really want something.
这得由我来负责。
I'm responsible for that.
我不会等着别人给我。
I'm not going to wait for somebody else to give it to me.
我要自己去争取。
I'm going to go out and get it.
我要主动迎接机会,因为谁知道答案一定是‘不’呢?
Like, I'm going to open myself up to the opportunity because who's to say the answer's gonna be no?
我对下一个好机会保持开放态度。
I'm just I'm open to the next great opportunity that comes along.
我在为自己创造这些机会。
I'm producing those opportunities for myself.
对吧?
Right?
我这种做事方式可能看起来不够有条理,但绝对能产出成果。
I'm being productive in a way that may not seem structured and organised, but is definitely worthy of output.
我非常非常建议你在每周留出时间来做这件事。
I would highly highly recommend carving out space in your week for this.
不一定非得是一整天。
Doesn't have to be a full day.
对我来说,有时候只是一两个小时,但这件事一直排在我的日程上。
For me, sometimes it's just an hour or two where it is something that I have on my agenda constantly.
我要碰碰运气。
I'm gonna push my luck.
我想看看机会能带我走多远。
I'm gonna see how far opportunities can take me.
我想看看仅仅开口请求能带我走多远。
I'm gonna see how far just asking for something can take me.
对我来说,这就是一种有成效的努力。
And to me, that is a productive endeavor.
好的。
Okay.
我知道,我们还要再休息一小会儿。
We're gonna take one more short break, I know.
但我们很快就会回来。
But we will be right back very, very soon.
嘿,波特兰迪亚的粉丝们。
Hey, Portlandia fans.
我是凯莉·布朗斯坦,我是弗雷德·阿米森。
Carrie Brownstein and Fred Armisen here.
你认识我们,或者说,你认识他们。
You know us, or rather, you know them.
托尼和坎迪斯,妮娜和兰斯,斯派克,还有,没错,那只鸡。
Tony and Candice, Nina and Lance, Spike, and, yes, the chicken.
这些年来我们演过很多标志性角色,但今天,我们以真实身份出现,来告诉你我们的全新播客《波特兰迪亚重看》。
We've played a lot of iconic characters over the years, but today, we're showing up as ourselves to tell you about Podlandia AO Rewatch, our brand new podcast.
每周,我们会从第一集开始重温《波特兰迪亚》,分析小品,探索我们最标志性角色的背景故事,重游你熟悉和喜爱的波特兰地点,并分享我们的创作过程。
Each week, we'll revisit an episode of Portlandia from the very beginning, breaking down the sketches, exploring the backstories of our most iconic characters, revisiting the Portland locations you know and love, and opening up about our creative process.
这些东西到底是怎么做出来的?
How did any of this get made?
我们当时怎么会觉得这是个好主意?
Why do we think that was a good idea?
我们准备好聊聊这件事了。
We're ready to talk about it.
而且我们还会请来那些帮助这一切成真的人。
And we'll also be joined by the people who helped bring it all to life.
包括客串明星、合作者和朋友们,比如导演乔纳森·克里塞尔、市长本人凯尔·麦克拉克伦、传奇音乐人艾米·曼恩,还有很多人。
Guest stars, collaborators, and friends, including director Jonathan Kreisel, the mayor himself, Kyle McLaughlin, legendary musician Amy Mann, and many more.
凯尔正在
Kyle is going for
全力以赴。
it here.
你完全即兴发挥的,不只是台词,还有一首关于
You fully improvised not of just words, but a song about
我还以为他要写呢。
Well, I thought he was gonna write
我以为你们都会写一首歌。
I thought you were all gonna write a song.
我记得你是这么想的。
I remember you thinking that.
来听听《Podlandia》吧。
Listen to Podlandia.
哎哟。
Ayo.
在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcasts或你收听播客的任何平台上重温。
Rewatch on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
嘿。
Hey.
我是海斯·达文波特。
This is Hays Davenport.
还有肖恩·克莱门茨。
And Sean Clements.
我们主持播客《好莱坞手册》。
We host the podcast Hollywood Handbook.
每期节目,我们都想帮嘉宾提升事业,但主要关注的是他们怎么帮我们提升事业。
Every episode, we're trying to help our guests improve their careers by mainly focusing on how they can help us improve our careers.
这个节目
The show
出了名的门槛低,所以你随便挑我们650期中的任何一期,都能轻松跟上。
is famously super accessible, so you can easily jump into any of our 650 episodes and understand what's going on.
我们推荐几期最近的节目,比如本·斯蒂勒那期。
We recommend some of our recent episodes with Ben Stiller.
电影的定义
The definition of what is
其实也已经变了。
a movie has kinda changed anyway too.
对吧?
Right?
那你觉得现在电影是什么?
What do you think it is now?
就是图像和话语,通过某种技术捕捉下来的。
It's images and words being spoken, captured by some sort of technology.
丹尼·麦克布莱德。
Danny McBride.
他特别喜欢,哦,
He loves Oh,
那太棒了。
that's fantastic.
而且你自己做,自己做。
And you make it on you make your own.
真不错。
That's great.
对。
Mhmm.
我叫他塔罗·里德。
I call him Taro Reed.
这名字不错。
It's a good name.
他们全都是
They're all
以《美国派》的演员名字命名的。
named after cast members of American Pie.
是的。
Yeah.
哦,明白了。
Oh, gotcha.
我不知道她有没有参演,但我叫他莉奇·索比斯基。
I call I don't I never looked up if she was in this, but I call him Leachie Sobieski.
对。
Yeah.
我觉得她没演过《美国派》,但我
I don't think she was in American Pie, but I
也还没去查过。
still I haven't looked it up.
没查过。
Haven't looked it up.
对。
Yeah.
她当时也挺火的。
She was prominent around same time.
是的。
Yeah.
然后是玛丽·斯汀伯根。
Then Mary Steenburgen.
你们干嘛跟我说话,一副担心的样子?
Why are you guys talking to me like worried.
你们是不是觉得我太笨,连你们那点小把戏都看不出来?
Are you so down to me that you think I don't understand your little play play game.
我只是真的想
I just really
我明白。
I get it.
我是在帮你铺路,让你能成功。
I'm trying to set you up for success here.
请在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你收听播客的任何平台收听《好莱坞手册》。
Listen to Hollywood Handbook on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
我是尼克·图托罗。
I'm Nick Tutoro.
你可能从《纽约重案组》、《最长的一码》或斯派克·李的《黑色党徒》里认识我。
You probably know me from NYPD Blue, The Longest Yard, or Spike Lee's Black Plansman.
不过我也是皇后区出来的,所以我对披萨很懂。
But I'm also from Queens, which means I know pizza.
在我的新播客《与尼克·图托罗一起传递快乐》里,我会从王子街披萨店带披萨给新嘉宾。
And on my new podcast, Delivering Happiness with Nick Tutoro, I deliver pizza from Prince Street Pizza to a new guest.
我们现在还送披萨了?
We deliver pizza now?
然后我们坐下来好好聊一聊。
Then we sit down for a real conversation.
我和很多人一起分享过披萨,从塞斯·罗林斯
I've shared a slice with everyone from Seth Rollins
你拿着我的腰带干什么?
What are you doing with my belt?
到亚历克斯·罗德里格斯。
To Alex Rodriguez.
跟你们说,我们正在和一位传奇人物聊天呢。
Just to let you people know, we're talking to one of the GOATs here.
还有比尔·伯尔。
To Bill Burr.
我从来没见过有人能跟我一样,
I don't think I've ever met somebody so exactly out of
完全疯到这种程度。
their mind as I am.
现在还有更多大牌嘉宾要来,包括伟大的约翰·塔图罗。
And now we even have more great guests coming up, including the great John Taturo.
这就叫幸福。
It's called happiness.
传递幸福。
Delivering happiness.
马里亚诺·里维拉。
Mariano Rivera.
谢谢。
Thank you.
兄弟,最近怎么样?
What's up, brother?
还有更多精彩内容。
And many, many more.
打开你的免费iHeartRadio应用。
Open your free iHeartRadio app.
搜索“与尼克·迪托罗一起传递幸福”,立即收听。
Search delivering happiness with Nick DiToro and listen now.
我是切尔西·汉德勒,来自《亲爱的切尔西》。
This is Chelsea Hamler from Dear Chelsea.
每周新闻越来越糟,世界越来越疯狂,雅曼尼卡会告诉那些该负责的人:你们才是问题所在。
Every week, the news gets worse, the world gets crazier, and Yamaneka is here to tell whoever's responsible, you're the problem.
如果你过来玩游戏,我会盯着你。
If you come over here to play games, I'm a check you.
明白吗?
Okay?
如果你在新闻里看到什么不好的事,我就会
If you do some in the news that don't sound good, I'm a
找你算账。
play you.
快来听亚米妮卡·桑德斯在她的新播客《亚米妮卡:你就是问题所在》里,盘点本周最有争议的新闻故事。
Join Yaminika Saunders as she breaks down the week's most problematic stories on her new podcast, You're the Problem with Yaminika.
你知道吗,我最近才知道西德妮·斯威尼是谁。
Do you know I just found out who Sydney Sweeney was?
每周三更新新一集,作为我新平台‘亲爱的切尔西网络’的一部分。
New episodes weekly every Wednesday as part of my new network, the Dear Chelsea Network.
如果他有一堆女人,那我也该有一堆男人。
If he got a bunch of women, then I should have a bunch of men.
要么做得更好,要么少做点,省得我费那么多劲。
Do better or do less so I don't have to do so much.
所以,每集都来听亚米妮卡回答一个问题吧。
So join Yaminika each episode as she answers one question.
问题出在谁身上?
Who's the problem?
我是雅米妮卡,我先走了。
I'm Yamaneka, and I'm out.
在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你收听播客的任何平台上,收听《问题出在你身上》节目,由雅米妮卡主持。
Listen to you're the problem with Yamaneka on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
大家好,我是鲍勃·皮特曼,iHeartMedia的董事长兼首席执行官。
Hi, I'm Bob Pittman, Chairman and CEO of iHeartMedia.
我也是创建MTV的团队负责人,我和联合创始人这个月正在庆祝MTV成立四十五周年。
I also led the team that created MTV, and my co founders and I are celebrating MTV's forty fifth anniversary this month.
在我的播客《营销前沿的数学与故事》中,你会听到那些从零开始打造MTV的人讲述从未公开的起源故事。
On my podcast, Math and Stories from the Frontiers of Marketing, you'll hear the untold origin story from the people who built MTV from the ground up.
我要我的MTV!
I want my MTV!
这话真有分量。
Those are powerful words.
对我来说,那种感觉像是属于自己的东西,并且想要拥有。
My, something for me that felt like mine, and want.
多么有力的一个词啊。
What a powerful word.
欢迎收听《数学与魔法:营销前沿故事》,你可以在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或任何你收听播客的平台找到它。
Listen to Math and Magic, Stories from the Frontiers of Marketing on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.
在本期节目接近尾声时,我有一条令人惊讶的心理建议要分享给你。
As we near the end of this episode, I have one final surprising piece of psychological advice for you.
如果你想锻炼那种生产力肌肉,那种情绪上的生产力肌肉。
If you are looking to build that productivity muscle, that emotional productivity muscle.
我先用一个类比来引入这个话题。
I'm going to introduce this with an analogy.
你有没有看过那些吉姆·布罗的视频,里面是世界上最坚强、最强壮的男男女女分享他们的日常训练?
Have you ever seen those Jim bro videos from like the toughest, strongest men and women in the world giving their exact routine?
这些人简直能徒手压碎汽车。
These people can like crush cars.
我不太清楚,我甚至不知道他们能做到什么程度。
I don't like, I don't even know what they're capable of.
他们真的太强了。
They are like so strong.
我也不确定。
I don't know.
可能只是我的推荐算法吧。
Maybe it's just my algorithm.
我偶尔会刷到这些视频,然后就会看,因为我也想能徒手压碎一辆车。
I will occasionally get these videos and I'll watch them because I want to be able to crush a car.
但我开始注意到,他们的训练计划里总有一个共同点,那就是休息。
But something they always incorporate in their routines that I've begun to notice is rest.
他们成长的关键很大一部分就在于如何休息。
It's like a huge part of how they grow is how they rest.
在你觉得猜到我要说什么而关掉之前,我得先说明为什么你应该比现在更多地暂停工作、抽身出来。
Now before you stop listening here, because I feel like you know where I'm gonna take this, I need to make my argument for why you should be pausing and stepping away from work more than you probably are.
每天至少留出一两个小时。
For at least an hour or two every single day.
我希望你能像对待高效工作时间一样,认真对待那些不产出成果的休息时间。
And I need you to be as serious about your unproductive downtime as your productive uptime.
就像我们容易陷入“要么全做要么不做”的误区一样,我们也容易把休息看作可有可无,甚至是一种分心。
Similar to that all or nothing fallacy we end up in, we also end up in a rest is either optional or a distraction mindset.
结果我们休息得马马虎虎。
And we kind of half ass our rest.
我们并没有真正全身心投入去享受假期或彻底放松。
We don't fully dedicate ourselves to having time off or to switching off.
正因为没有做到这一点,我们才没能体会到它对日常工作效率带来的巨大正面影响。
And by not doing that, we don't realize the insanely positive consequences of this for regular productivity.
我最近读到一篇2017年伯克利大学发表的文章,里面提到,即使在我们大脑处于休息状态、没有直接专注于某项任务时,它其实仍然在活跃地工作。
An article published by Berkeley in 2017 I was reading about just recently was speaking about how even in our brain's resting state when we are not directly focused on a task, our brain is still active.
大脑会启动它的默认网络,去琢磨问题、筛选和排除可能的答案、舍弃一些想法、寻找新的信息。
It is engaging its default network to plug away at problems, examine and and toss out possible answers, discard others, look for new information.
我们可能无法完全控制这些过程,但通过学会更好地休息,我们就能支持它们。
We may not be able to con control these processes completely, but by learning to rest better, we support them.
我们支持大脑只有在平静时才能进行的第二种工作。
We support the secondary kind of work our brain can only do when we are calm.
我们让大脑自动处理那些事情。
We let our brain do the automatic stuff.
如果你一直在工作,这种情况就不会发生。
If you're constantly working, that doesn't happen.
此外,当我们有意识地休息时,它会补充之前因努力工作而消耗的东西,比如注意力、专注力储备,甚至眼睛的自我调节能力、身体的自我平静能力,以及发散性思维的能力。
Additionally, when we rest and we are intentional about rest, it replenishes what was previously depleted by hard work, things like our attention, our focus reserves, even our eyes ability to direct themselves, our body's ability to calm itself, our capacity for divergent thinking.
这对你意味着什么?
This is what this means for you.
当你不工作、在休息时,你需要像投入工作一样投入休息。
When you're not working, when you're taking a break, you need to be as present in the break as you are present in the work.
很多时候,我们既没有完全投入工作,也没有完全放松休息。
Often, you know, we're not fully working, but we're not fully resting either.
我们坐下来想放松一下,却总在扫视还有什么该做的事。
We kind of sit down to relax, but we like keep scanning for like what else we should be doing.
你知道吗,本来打算回朋友的消息,结果又忍不住去刷新邮箱。
You know, we're meant to be replying to messages from friends and then suddenly we're also refreshing our email.
比如,告诉自己坐下来读本书,结果又半心半意地回消息。
Like, we've told ourselves that you're sit and read a book and then suddenly now you're half answering the messages.
我们休息的时候,全程都带着愧疚感。
Like, we take a break but we feel guilty the whole time.
所以每时每刻都只做了任务的25%。
So we're like doing 25% of a task at any given moment.
这种状态根本谈不上高效。
That is not a productive way of being.
你需要学会切换模式。
You need to be able to mode switch.
工作模式时,就全心投入。
When you're in work mode, you're in it.
当你处于放松模式时,也要完全投入进去。
When you're in relaxation mode, you're in that as well.
卡在中间状态,觉得自己既该休息又不该休息。
Staying in the middle ground where you're like, I really deserve a break, but I don't deserve a break.
我得工作。
I have to work.
我真的应该工作,但又没给自己休息过,应该休息一下。
I really should be working, but I haven't given myself a break, I should have a break.
这样反而更浪费时间。
It just wastes more of your time.
那么,有没有正确的休息方式呢?
Now, is there a right way to rest?
有的。
Yes.
很高兴你问这个问题。
I'm very glad you asked.
作者桑德拉·道尔顿·史密斯做过一个非常著名的TED演讲,她在演讲中指出了我们每周需要达到的七种休息类型,才能保持高效。
The author, Saundra Dalton Smith, she did a really famous TED talk in which she identified seven types of rest that we need to be hitting across the week to be productive.
这些包括身体休息、情感休息、精神休息、心理休息、社交休息和感官休息。
These are physical rest, emotional rest, spiritual rest, mental, social and sensory.
听起来种类挺多的。
Sounds like a lot of things.
不过你经常能同时完成好几种。
You often tick them off at the same time.
但她认为最重要、也最容易被忽视的是心理休息。
The most important one though, that she says is also the most neglected, is psychological rest.
2007年一篇论文的作者——我记得是发表在《职业健康心理学杂志》上——指出,要真正从工作压力中恢复过来,并且日复一日地保持高效,我们确实需要放松。
Authors of a 2007 paper, I think it was published in the Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, identified that to truly recover from work stress and to be able to be productive day in and day out, yes, we need to engage in relaxation.
对,我们当然也需要见见朋友。
Yes, we need to see our friends, of course.
但对认知和心理恢复来说,最重要的还是心理上的抽离。
But most important for recovery, cognitively and mentally, is psychological detachment.
所以,能够让自己和任务之间保持情感距离,对工作或忙碌的一天有一种结束感,是很重要的。
So being able to put emotional distance between you and a task, having a sense of closure to the work or to the productive day.
光是身体放松是不够的,这听起来有点沮丧,因为我们已经做了那么多。
Just physically relaxing is not enough, which sounds like a bummer because it's like, wow, we're already doing so much.
但即使你身体上停止了工作,有时候你的思绪还在转。
But you even if you stop working physically, sometimes your mind lingers mentally.
所以你需要某种仪式、某种打断、某种模式切换或状态切换,来告诉自己:我们不再做那件事了。
So you need to have some kind of ritual, some kind of interrupter, some kind of pattern shift or mode shift that can say, we're not doing that anymore.
我已经离开那个状态了。
I'm out of that zone.
我现在进入这个状态了。
I'm in this zone now.
而且我知道,为了在之前的状态下最高效,我必须全身心投入。
And I know that in order to be the most productive when I'm in the zone from before, I need to be all here.
也就是说,我需要从工作中完全抽离出来。
Like, I need to be mentally disengaged from work.
而且这样来回切换对我没什么帮助。
And it's not helping me switching between one and the other.
我觉得我们还得学会判断什么时候任务算完成了,或者暂时完成得差不多了。
I think we also need to learn how to say when a task is finished or finished enough for now.
这是我在那些非常有动力、非常有抱负的人身上发现的另一个问题。
Like, this is another thing I find with people who are very motivated, very ambitious.
我敢肯定你也是这种人,总觉得待办事项清单上永远可以再加点东西。
I'm sure you're one of these people like, there's always more that can go on the to do list.
待办事项清单上永远有可以加进去的事情。
There's always more that can go on the to do list.
总会有别的事情还没做完。
Like, there's always gonna be something else that hasn't been done.
所以我觉得所有这些任务和技巧结合起来,才能打造一个高效的工作日,让你知道自己做得已经足够了。
That's why all of these, I think, tasks and all of these tips kind of combine to create a productive day where you know, you are doing enough.
有了那个三二一清单,一天结束的时候你就知道该完成的事情都完成了。
That three two one list, you know by the end of the day that you have completed what is required.
我相信你听说过‘享乐适应’这个概念,就是人们会越来越习惯某种快乐,直到需要更多才能满足。
I'm sure you've heard of this idea of hedonic adaptation where people get more and more used to pleasure until they need more and more of it.
其实这和贪婪是一样的道理。
So like, it's the same with greed.
比如,一百美元算是一大笔钱,但等你有了几千美元,一百美元就不算什么了。
Like, a $100 is a lot until you have a thousand dollars and then a $100 isn't that much.
等你有了百万美元,几千美元也变得微不足道了。
And then you get a million dollars and a thousand dollars isn't that much anymore either.
这种情况不仅发生在贪婪和享乐上。
Like that happens for greed, that happens for enjoyment.
在生产力方面也是如此。
It also happens for productivity.
我觉得这一点你需要特别留意。
I think this is something you need to be very aware of.
你越高效,就越会对自己有更高的期待。
The more productive you become, the more productive you expect yourself to be.
所以,专心休息,告诉自己“好了,我要关机了”,这样你就不会觉得“天哪,今天一整天都浪费了”。
And so dedicating yourself to your rest and being like, alright, I'm gonna switch off stops you from feeling like, oh my god, this whole day was a waste.
因为今天不如昨天或前天那么好。
Because it wasn't as good as the day before or the day before that.
有该全力以赴的时候。
There are times to be on.
也有该放松休息的时候。
There are times to be off.
连大自然都明白这个道理。
Even nature understands that.
就连构成你生命最基本状态的细胞,也懂得创造与繁衍、以及缓慢与更新的节奏。
Even the the cells that make up your like most basic state of being understand the flow of, I guess, creation and reproduction and then also slowness and renewal.
你也应该遵循这个规律。
You need to be following that as well.
真的,这就像一条波浪曲线,如果你想达到生产力的高峰,就必须经历休息的低谷。
I really it's really just like a wave chart or like a wave structure of like, if you want to hit the peaks of your productivity, have to hit the the lows of your rest.
所以我要说的就是这些。
So that is all I have.
这就是本期节目我最后的个人观点。
That is my final soapbox moment for this episode.
把休息看得和工作一样重要。
Treat your rest as important as your work.
希望这些建议结合起来对你有用。
I hope that the combination of these tips was useful.
希望这些研究总结出的七条建议能帮到你,让你记住核心要点。
I hope that you found the research helpful to summarise the seven tips so you can just go away with the basics.
试试三二一法则。
Implement the three two one method.
也就是三件家务、两件小事、一件大事。
So three chores, two small tasks, one big task.
先做最难的事。
Eat the frog.
所以,要么先做最难的任务,要么在你效率最高的时候做。
So do the hardest task first or when you are most productive.
说到效率最高的时候,了解你的生物钟类型,知道什么时候状态最好。
Speaking of when you are most productive, learn your chronotype, when you are going to be the most on.
习惯叠加,拒绝非黑即白的思维。
Habit stack, reject all or nothing thinking.
留出一些时间,用愉快又自发的方式高效做事,比如——
Carve out some time to be productive in an enjoyable spontaneous way, I.
比如——
E.
比如“周三放手一搏”活动,同时认真对待休息。
With the shoot your shot Wednesday, and take your rest seriously.
就这些了。
That is all.
如果你还有其他小技巧,随时可以在下方评论区留言。
If you have any further tips though, you can always leave them in the comments down below.
如果你在Spotify上收听,非常感谢我们的研究员Libby Komet对今天这期节目的帮助。
If you are listening on Spotify, a big thank you to our researcher, Libby Komet, for her help with today's episode.
提醒一下,我们在Netflix上也有内容。
Reminder, we are on Netflix.
我们在Substack上也有账号。
We are on Substack.
我们在Instagram上也有。
We are on Instagram.
我们很期待在那里见到你。
We'd love to see you over there.
无论你正在努力完成什么,不管是你的毕业论文,还是一个大项目。
And whatever it is you're working towards, whether it is your dissertation, I don't know, a big work project.
天哪。
Oh my god.
我脑子里好像永远只有工作和学习这些事。
I can only ever think in like work and school.
中间还有好多好多事情呢。
There's like a thousand things in the middle.
可能是艺术展,也可能是马拉松。
Maybe it's an art fair, maybe it's a marathon.
我也不确定。
I don't know.
不管你现在在专注什么,我都在为你加油。
Whatever it is that you are dedicating yourself to right now, I'm I'm just rooting for you.
我希望这种更可持续的投入、奉献和成功的方式,能帮你到达想去的地方。
And I hope that this more sustainable approach to productivity and devotion and success is something that will help you get to where you wanna go.
祝你好运。
So good luck.
下次见,注意安全,善待他人,也对自己温柔一点。
Until next time, be safe, be kind, be gentle to yourself.
我们很快再聊。
We will talk very, very soon.
嘿,喜欢《波特兰迪亚》的朋友们。
Hey, Portlandia fans.
我是凯莉·布朗斯坦,这是弗雷德·阿米森。
Carrie Brownstein and Fred Armisen here.
九十年代的梦想以播客的形式复活了。
The dream of the nineties is alive in podcast form.
我们要推出全新播客《波德兰迪亚重看版》,一起重温每一集《波特兰迪亚》,拆解那些小品段子,深入聊聊我们那些经典角色,还会揭开幕后制作的那些事儿。
We're launching Podlandia AO Rewatch, our brand new podcast where we revisit every episode of Portlandia together, breaking down sketches, going deep on our iconic characters, and pulling back the curtain on how it all got made.
我们还会邀请到那些让这一切成为现实的人。
And we'll also be joined by the people who helped bring it all to life.
包括客串明星、合作伙伴们以及朋友们,比如导演乔纳森·克莱塞尔、市长本人凯尔·麦克劳克林、传奇音乐家艾米·曼等等,还有更多嘉宾。
Guest stars, collaborators, and friends, including director Jonathan Kreisel, the mayor himself, Kyle McLaughlin, legendary musician Amy Mann, and many more.
凯尔准备
Kyle is going for
登场了。
it here.
你不仅即兴编了词,还即兴唱了一首歌。
You fully improvised not just words, but a song about it.
我以为你们
I thought you were
都要写一首歌。
all gonna write a song.
我记得你,对。
I remember you Yeah.
当时是那么想的。
Thinking that.
欢迎收听《Podlandia》重播节目,在iHeartRadio应用、Apple Podcast或你收听播客的任何平台都能找到。
Listen to Podlandia, AEO rewatch on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
大家好,家人们?
What's up, fam?
我是体育记者阿里·钱伯斯。
I'm sports journalist Ari Chambers.
嘿。
Hey.
大家好,怎么样?
What's up, y'all?
我是你们的姐妹,萨姆·杰伊。
It's your girl, Sam Jay.
我们是《人人看女子体育》的主持人,这是一档来自Together和iHeart女子体育的全新播客。
And we're the host of everyone watches women's sports, a new podcast from Together and iHeart women's sports.
我们正在解读最大的头条新闻。
We're breaking down the biggest headlines
大坂直美展现出了
Naomi Osaka showing
实力。
out.
向你致敬,大坂。
Outs to you, Naomi.
那些爆火的瞬间。
The viral moments.
我最近迷上了克肖恩·洛克的拳击之路。
I've been obsessed with K'Shaun Rock's boxing journey.
她状态真不错。
She looks good.
她的组合拳又快又利落。
Her combos are swift.
还有那些在女子体育圈里大家都在热议的故事。
And the stories everyone's talking about across women's sport.
因为人人都看女子体育。
Because everyone watches women's sports.
快来收听《人人都看女子体育》吧。
Listen to everyone watches women's sports.
在iHeartRadio应用上。
On the iHeartRadio app.
苹果播客,或者任何你听播客的地方。
Apple Pod cast, or wherever you get your podcast.
嘿。
Hey.
我是海斯·达文波特。
This is Hayes Davenport.
还有肖恩·克莱门茨。
And Sean Clements.
我们主持的播客叫《好莱坞手册》。
We host the podcast Hollywood Handbook.
每期节目,我们都想帮嘉宾提升事业,但主要关注的是他们怎么帮我们提升事业。
Every episode, we're trying to help our guests improve their careers by mainly focusing on how they can help us improve our careers.
这个节目出了名的容易上手,所以你随便挑一期我们650集里的任何一集,都能轻松跟上。
The show is famously super accessible, so you can easily jump into any of our 650 episodes and understand what's going on.
我们推荐最近几期,嘉宾有本·斯蒂勒、丹尼·麦克布莱德、里兹·阿迈德和玛丽·斯汀伯根。
We recommend some of our recent episodes with Ben Stiller, Danny McBride, Riz Ahmed, and Mary Steenburgen.
在iHeartRadio应用、Apple播客或任何你收听播客的地方收听《好莱坞手册》。
Listen to Hollywood Handbook on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
我是切尔西·汉德勒,来自《亲爱的切尔西》。
This is Chelsea Handler from Dear Chelsea.
每周新闻越来越糟,世界越来越疯狂,而雅马尼卡在这里告诉那些该负责的人:你们就是问题所在。
Every week, the news gets worse, the world gets crazier, and Yamaneka is here to tell whoever's responsible, you're the problem.
你知道吗,我刚知道西德尼·斯威尼是谁?
Do you know I just found out who Sydney Sweeney was?
如果他有一群女人,
If he got a
那我也应该有一群男人。
bunch of women, then I should have a bunch of men.
做得更好,或者做得少点,这样我就不用那么辛苦了。
Do better or do less so I don't have to do so much.
我是雅马尼卡,我说完了。
I'm Yamanika, and I'm out.
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